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Topic: HOW DO YOU HEAL FROM A LOST LOVE?
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Doux Rêve
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posted April 09, 2012 10:40 AM
  
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Lol you're so cute doux haha maybe slowpoke is some kind of psychic hmmm 
My mind is always intrigued 
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slowpoke
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posted April 10, 2012 09:23 AM
Give me a little time Sand, I'll see what I can do for you.Doux Rêve, I match birthdate to birthdates. If I find something of interest, I point you to that or those dates. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted April 10, 2012 09:53 AM
ooh thanks slowpoke! take your time..see now dooh dooh if ur bday comes up dat mean we soulmates! 
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ariesdragon
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posted April 10, 2012 03:21 PM
My love song of the day  http://youtu.be/AKIb5D6mYCk
and if anyone else wants to add their birthdates for slowpoke to do her magic feel free... IP: Logged |
sand
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posted April 10, 2012 05:08 PM
kekeke mine..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9YWBsqk3Qzs&feature=related IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted April 10, 2012 05:35 PM
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slowpoke
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posted April 11, 2012 03:14 AM
This is my responce to Sand:Based on Synastry Astrology (Relationships) and your DOB, these birthdates may suit you well. Please note: 0103.79 = birthdate January 3, 1979 SD 0507.84 These Dates are from a larger list:
1224.78
0103.79
1129.79 0224.80
1109.82
1021.84
0429.86
0711.86
0712.86
1227.86
0825.87
0828.87
0909.89
1016.89
1019.89 0220.90
0422.90
0906.90
0327.92
0401.92 Disclaimer:
Astrology is nothing more than statistics. It is a tool that suggest the potential in human dynamics. It is a method of putting into words, the possible potentials that a person may have as an individual or, on how two or more individuals may interact with each other - with the operative word being "may". The results for any given person or persons will never be one hundred percent good and whatever results are given, do not represent an absolute given. The dates given above are derived from Synastry Astrology (relationship) calculations using 5 degree orbs and pertain to the person the dates were researched for. No guarantees are given or implied, as to the accuracy of results given and or to the potential failures and or successes the chart and aspect readings suggest. No other astrological resource can produce a Synastry birthdate list in this manner. Data Foundation:
The American Ephemeris at "Noon" were used. The Moon moves approximately 12 degrees per day. Using a "Noon" Moon ephemeris cuts the movement in half, this allows for the best possible results with the Moon aspects when not knowing or using the exact time and place, of birthdate prospects. The primary Synastry aspect interpretations were acquired from "Do It Yourself Relationship Astrology" by Lyn Birkbeck 1999. How to Apply Your List:
In the real World, your family values, mindset and, social influences tend to dictate your actions and interactions with others. It is quite possible to meet two or more people with the same birthdates that are provided above. But how these people influence you will depend on your mindset. People with these birthdates come in all colors, gender, intellect, shapes, sizes, handicaps, religious beliefs and, sexual preferences. So when trying to locate people with these dates - temper your expectations and treat each new person as a fresh new beginning. Keep in mind, that you are working from your list of possibilities, but the people you are researching do not have a list of any sort and will not be looking at you in the same light. So keep your excitement in check and carefully work towards the results you hope to have. Also, keep in mind that having this list will not insure that each person researched will be law abiding, healthy, wealthy, and or honest. This information will not protect you against Aids or STDs. If you are looking for a love relationship, then it may be quite possible to find a suitable selection from your list. But, there is much much more here than just a love potential list, the list also represents some of the finest potentials for solid friendships, study partners and working companions best suited to you. There are plenty of good people around for you to know who are not part of this list. But, astrologically speaking, you would be very wise indeed, to use this list as a reference to help identify quality people for you to know, after you have found the love of your life.
Best of Luck!
slowpoke
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 11, 2012 05:38 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
ooh thanks slowpoke! take your time..see now dooh dooh if ur bday comes up dat mean we soulmates!
take ur time? hmm...her name is slowpoke after all. haha 
sorry just couldnt help laughing
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sand
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posted April 11, 2012 07:49 AM
thank you very much slowpoke! i love it! i will see what signs those r! but oh noez my south node is in sag and i am totally the type to stick to something like this haha! hi wens ur bday? (oh not in list) okgoodbai!  IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted April 11, 2012 11:10 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
thank you very much slowpoke! i love it! i will see what signs those r! but oh noez my south node is in sag and i am totally the type to stick to something like this haha! hi wens ur bday? (oh not in list) okgoodbai!
Omg lmao now you got the "golden scroll list" sand IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted April 11, 2012 11:42 PM
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ariesdragon
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posted April 11, 2012 11:46 PM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkODGzPlfzA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY3ASysJfCQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ywQ29HZHOPg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWbnJ5zSAYQ Moon & Mars in Cancer, Venus is Taurus.
YAY! Thank you Violet! I Love music  IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted April 11, 2012 11:53 PM
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YAY! Thank you Violet! I Love music
lol how cute, yes, i noticed IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted April 12, 2012 01:41 PM
So sometimes when I hurt I write and I wrote this the other day I feel like sharing...
Sun~Aries
Venus~Aries
Moon~Scorpio"Its been some time passed since you held me, my love was not strong enough for you to feel with my endless hiding, afraid to explain how I truly feel for my ego won't allow me to be torn apart again. I replay the comments like an endless echo of torture inside this mind.
Your words cutting through my flesh as I shake and pretend as if I am not touched, but it hurts, it really hurts.
Haven't been the same since birth, always left out in the cold like a curse. Hard to believe in love when like a warrior you've constantly had to get back up after being shot. So my paper and pen are my only source of release. I can't fathom that any human would be able to relate. It seems endless these feelings for you. It hurts even more that you may not want to feel the same..."
~AD~
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violet7887
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posted April 13, 2012 01:08 AM
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sand
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posted April 13, 2012 02:29 AM
Love that movie. Matt Damon is pretty plutonic but I'm sure we kick his azz in pullen. He also had another one about death and near death experiences. Been doing pluto related stuff i guess lately. Seems like they have the akashic records on iBooks too huh? Plus that is soo true sometimes if u have love you get content with life and might not push forward and be president. Le sigh sand's dream job or dream girl.. It speaks to my Venus in Taurus h7 square Leo moon in h10 haha. I would totally take that bus for years tho! Pretty sure i have the chart for it lol! IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted April 13, 2012 04:02 PM
With two exceptions, I've been the one who breaks it off. Unluckily the two times I was dumped, it was very painful as one was my first love and the other was the strongest connection I've ever had. When I would initiate the break ups, I would pretty much just distance myself trying to avoid an ugly confrontation with hurt feelings/drama. Now that I'm wiser, I see that detachment was probably a cowardly way to go about it, and wish I'd been more direct. I suffered a taste of my own medicine, when my first love broke uo with me in High School via letter. We had just taken the big step, and having met his goal he decided to pursue greener pastures with a new girl. He wrote me a break up letter, and sent it with a mutual friend. The pain was unimaginable at the time, it was soo hard getting up to school and facing him with her everyday. In spite of it, I never let on with my hurt in public. That is how I am, the pain stays with me and perhaps is shared only with my most trusted friend. Veyr stupidly, I accepted his apology a few months later, and we ended up getting married and having two kids. I never truly got over the past, or forgive him which had a big role in our divorce. I have now made peace with it, but it does hurt when I think back on it. My other deep connection was with whom I felt was my soulmate. Right when things started to become very intense and serious, he broke it off and got back with an old girlfriend. I've heard they are unhappily married, but do my best to avoid running into him. That experience hurt a lot, as I've always felt he was scared of how deep our connection was, and choose to be with someone who felt safer in order to remain more controlled over his emotions. He is an Aquarius, the only air sign I've ever dated. I'm a Moon in Pisces 3rd Venus in Scorpio 11th. Oh, I do liek writing poems and in journals when hurt, I think that goes with the 3rd house thing =) IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted April 13, 2012 04:28 PM
I didn't tell anybody I liked 'persons' and I'm not telling them I'm heartbroken from them either! Nobody needs to know. Wheeping in private .. its what the cool kids do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8UVNT4wvIGY ===================================
"Love? We think about it, sing about it, dream about it, lose sleep worrying about it. When we don't have it, we search for it; when we discover it, we don't know what to do with it; when we have it, we fear losing it. It is the constant source of pleasure and pain. Be we can't predict which it will be from one moment to the next. It's a short word, that is easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without." -Anonymous IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted April 13, 2012 05:16 PM
Thanks guys I feel better knowing that you all can relate and share with me. The worst thing is back-sliding. That's what drives me nuts is when I do that lol
I've only ever done it with one person though, but still that's the stuff I never want to do again. Xx
Will check out the song ^^ music helps a lot. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 13, 2012 07:46 PM
I love these two little things. <3 I always felt they were very true for me.
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu
A master asked his disciples
‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’
the disciples thought for a while, and one of them said
‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you? ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
The disciples gave him some other answers but none satisfied the master.
Finally he explained:
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’
Then the master asked:
‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’
And he concluded:
‘When they love each other even more, what happens?
‘They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
‘Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted April 13, 2012 08:18 PM
and AD, that's probably one of the things that hurts the most about heartbreak, right? that you can't stay friends....IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted April 13, 2012 09:04 PM
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sand
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posted April 13, 2012 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
Oh i didnt relaize matt damon is plutonic, I just knew he was a Libra sun. lol thats exactly what i said when the guy said "who would take the same bus for 3 years!?" i was like I WOULD ( and you woudnlt want to mess with me either!) lol. whats the other movie you speak of.. would like to watch that too.lol aww well sand I can see how your moon and venus are pulling you diff ways but I like to think of it like this, if you find your peace, a place where your content, what ever it may be, what more do you need.
Yeah he is abit according to Donna Cunningham. The sky writer manual tests. The other movie was hereafter..
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1212419/ Ha I dunno maybe it doesn't play out that way in that it is all up to me! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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posted April 14, 2012 12:05 AM
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and AD, that's probably one of the things that hurts the most about heartbreak, right? that you can't stay friends....
Well what happens Ras is when u try to stay friends,
It always leads to more...like the bed.
DS that's a cool song very chill...thank you IP: Logged |
violet7887
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posted April 14, 2012 12:38 AM
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