posted June 23, 2012 12:43 AM            

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posted June 23, 2012 12:43 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i think saturn is good if the two people are mature enough to handle commitment. alot of people talk about how they hate feeling responsible for their partner and their feelings and happiness. but dont you have to have that to an extent to have a relationship that can stand the test of time? i had heavy saturn synastry with a girl and i have never felt a more intense love for somebody before, i wanted to be a better man for her, screw all this talk about pluto's passion, saturn is where its at.

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posted June 23, 2012 12:44 AM            

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Imagination is intelligence having fun.
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posted June 23, 2012 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
so did she or didnt she feel restricted by you lol

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posted June 23, 2012 12:47 AM            

I also hope that never happens to you, dear. Please keep a lookout.
But you're a grown woman, I'm sure you're fine lol. Just keep a lookout for that dying slowly inside feeling, yeah? Just in case <3

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posted June 23, 2012 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
no, i didnt restrict her lol, i never judged her or told her what to do

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not like that...that's not how saturn squares work..

Saturn represses out of fear. and covers up that fear with the excuse that it is really loyal. But in reality, the quality of that person's planet scares saturn. For example mars square saturn....the saturn person is secretly envious of the mars' person's energy and spontaneity and because they feel insecure about their ability to keep up with it they tell em "hey slow down, you're way too impulsive. why are you always so energetic and immature?" Most of the time that kinda thing isnt really said, but just communicated through body language. For example, like when that person wants to be active and energetic and spunky and fun, the saturn person would stay stiff as a pole and not play along with that.

So saturn sticks by, is always dedicated, always keeps his word, always tries to help in whatever way he/she can, but at the expense that the other person must give up his/her personality in certain ways.
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posted June 23, 2012 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Aqua doesn't even have a clue what her natal placements were & what she was going through which is pretty detriment if he really wanted to know why his relationship didn't work out.

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That's sweet AD <3

ily and thanks for ur understanding

I do think that Aqua seems to understand her psychology pretty well, though. I just think he may have been unfortunately oblivious to the real reasons why she broke up with him :/

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posted June 23, 2012 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
Aqua doesn't even have a clue what her natal placements were & what she was going through which is pretty detriment if he really wanted to know why his relationship didn't work out.

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posted June 23, 2012 12:59 AM            

I think AD was just referring to her natal placements since that usually clearly points out the way she tends to think about things. But it's not necessary to look at her natal chart, if you understand her psychology pretty well in real life anyway, no?
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posted June 23, 2012 01:01 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Sigh. I give up. Oh well. lol

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RAS, I just read some of your posts.

I get what you mean. Too many Saturn harsh aspects in synastry are hard live with, and I wouldn’t recommend it. I know if I saw DW hard aspects with Saturn in synastry I’d definitely proceed with caution…

posted June 23, 2012 01:04 AM            

You would be surprised how many people think negative saturn aspects including saturn conjunctions aren't a bad thing, though. For example...odette :/
or aquaguy who thinks it can work out with enough commitment and maturity from both people. =O

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posted June 23, 2012 01:06 AM            

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posted June 23, 2012 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yes, thank you for adding that, Lotis.

You would be surprised how many people think negative saturn aspects including saturn conjunctions aren't a bad thing, though. For example...odette :/
or aquaguy who thinks it can work out with enough commitment and maturity from both people. =O

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posted June 23, 2012 01:07 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i'm not being mean, ariesdragon is the one who suggested i know nothing about her, i mean yea i dont know anything about the girl who beared her soul to me.

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But, come on, you know AD meant no harm. Yeah, sorry. We can see this is a sensitive subject. AD hadn't read your posts lol. That's what happened.

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posted June 23, 2012 01:09 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
[b]Yes, thank you for adding that, Lotis.

You would be surprised how many people think negative saturn aspects including saturn conjunctions aren't a bad thing, though. For example...odette :/
or aquaguy who thinks it can work out with enough commitment and maturity from both people. =O

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isn't that the same thing i just said, though? lol.

Either way, even if both people were committed and mature or whatever the case may be to "fix" the psychological/emotional problems caused by negative saturn.....all the sickness, financial problems and other things getting in the way wouldn't let you be happy, anyway! or live in peace. Don't you think?

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posted June 23, 2012 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I don't think he's being mean Ras no worries lol
Aqua with you being Saturn squaring "ALL" her personal planets doesn't make her feel you're abandoning her it makes her feel like you were a "cold, strict father figure."

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posted June 23, 2012 01:17 AM            

What does one saturn have to do with the other? One is saturn in synastry and the other is saturn in her natal chart. Two different things, two different meanings, right?

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posted June 23, 2012 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
[b]Yes, thank you for adding that, Lotis.

You would be surprised how many people think negative saturn aspects including saturn conjunctions aren't a bad thing, though. For example...odette :/
or aquaguy who thinks it can work out with enough commitment and maturity from both people. =O

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posted June 23, 2012 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
sorry aquaguy...that just doesn't really make sense...

What does one saturn have to do with the other? One is saturn in synastry and the other is saturn in her natal chart. Two different things, two different meanings, right?

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