posted June 23, 2012 03:16 AM            

I wasn't even in a relationship with that person, but we had *crazy* Saturn aspects: DW Mars/Saturn (sq & opp), DW Moon opposite Saturn, DW Venus/Saturn (sq & trine), qnx Mercury, square to Pluto, to my ASC, and to my Nodal axis.

Uh, I loved him with all my heart and the longing was unbearable. But it quickly became a cold, abusive connection, he grew distant and cut off the little we had. We were never even friends, but I know the amount of fear and insecurity was too much, it couldn't have worked.

It's been the most painful experience I've ever had so far.. and I for sure don't want to go through that hell again.

I don't mind a few hard aspects with Saturn in synastry but it's definitely not an easy ride.

In composite I think it's even worse.
I'd better not see hard aspects there, trines & sextiles are good, conjunctions may be easier but still.

Don't underestimate the power of Saturn.. It's a very harsh planet when the people involved need to work out some things (which is basically what it's all about).

posted June 23, 2012 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hahaha ure scared! ^_^

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posted June 23, 2012 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
haha i'll go easy on ya since your kinda cute. and yes! i'm scared? what gave it away?

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posted June 23, 2012 03:34 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
not true, i never said it in spanish. you make me multicultural.

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posted June 23, 2012 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Spanish is Mi amor ^_^. That's Italian.
I am Latin though so you do get a few points for the intention..

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posted June 23, 2012 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
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haha my mistake. but seriously you are my favorite LL lady.

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posted June 23, 2012 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
^What ever happened to Gem-Gurl, or DesiringShadows. And peachbeigeblue? aquaguy, you wanna be a playa, don't ya? I don't think you have it in you though.

And I return! My Hera sense was tingling. I'm instinctive about my children, I tell you!

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posted June 23, 2012 04:01 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
^What ever happened to Gem-Gurl, or DesiringShadows. And peachbeigeblue? aquaguy, you wanna be a playa, don't ya? I don't think you have it in you though.

And I return! My Hera sense was tingling. I'm instinctive about my children, I tell you!

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posted June 23, 2012 04:12 AM            

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but i like fighting with you too RS.

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Oh, you sweetheart, ahahaha!

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Lol, I wonder what your synastry looks like lmao!

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posted June 23, 2012 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
My Venus squares his Sun, my Sun sextiles his Uranus-Mercury-Neptune and opposes his Moon. I think the big ones, though, are his Pluto conjunct my Jupiter and my Mercury square his Saturn.

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posted June 23, 2012 04:22 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
My Venus squares his Sun, my Sun sextiles his Uranus-Mercury-Neptune and opposes his Moon. I think the big ones, though, are his Pluto conjunct my Jupiter and my Mercury square his Saturn.

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posted June 23, 2012 04:33 AM            

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Originally posted by RedScorp:
'Ey aquaguy, if you're up for it, I can post it! I just need your time/location.

If you don't want to make it public, though, I'll provide my own specifics! But then you'll have to post the synastry.

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posted June 23, 2012 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Saturn rewards hard work.

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