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Topic: Who cheats? (Personal responses only)
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 10, 2013 01:15 PM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Welcome to dating in the 2000's. This is a very large reason why I don't date or like guys my age. Because when they say they "like" you, it doesn't seem to mean anything.
I know right? -_- lots also say they're single then SURPRISE! They end up having a gf all along. I've gone out with a couple of guys a few times casually (like approx 3 times) who turned out to be taken. Wtf? But good thing lots of guys aren't like that. IP: Logged |
Hecate
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posted January 10, 2013 03:08 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I know right? -_- lots also say they're single then SURPRISE! They end up having a gf all along.I've gone out with a couple of guys a few times casually (like approx 3 times) who turned out to be taken. Wtf? But good thing lots of guys aren't like that.
Well my experience is
My BFF cheated on her husband a couple of times
Sun- Virgo…..
Moon Aries
Venus Virgo
Neptune Sagittarius
She’s got a Venus sextile Uranus
Venus Square NeptuneEx- Repeat offender
Sun Aquarius
Moon Libra
Venus Cap
Neptune Sagittarius
He’s go a Venus Square Uranus
Ex- This has problem with relationships…..It was really hard
Virgo Sun
Moon- Aries
Venus Scorpio
Neptune Scorpio
He’s got a Venus conj Jupiter.
Ex….so charming It was like seen a train coming and I still did not move…
Sun Gemini
Moon- Leo
Venus Cancer
Venus Conj Uranus
Yeah… I sure know how to pick them……Maybe it’s the Venus & Uranus comb….
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It must be my Pisces in 7th house that attracted these people.....
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MyFavouriteName
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posted January 10, 2013 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Besides physical cheating, do you flirt around and talk to other girls inappropriately behind your gf's back? I find that just as bad as having them make out with another person, or them sleeping around. It's all just really disrespectful.
No. when i am committed, im talking about one 'hunnad per-cent faithfulness, the kind that ladies dream of and can't always reciprocate. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 10, 2013 03:33 PM
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Haplesschild*: Hey post charts? It's interesting that the Pisces Venus man was completely faithful, so I guess Saturn aspecting his planets does help?
Could be, Saturn rules restriction/self-control.
But on the other end, Saturn could also rule low self worth, and some people speculate that some people who screw around have that indeed. So, look at the motivation first, if you actually know the person, since I think motivation is rather easy to read.
Saturn could be either/or, since looking at the chart is only part of the picture. Being around the person, even for a few minutes, helps to zero in on how they're using it since you can read their energy/level that they're operating on.
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Yin
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posted January 10, 2013 03:34 PM
MyFavoriteMartel!You have been missed. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted January 10, 2013 03:49 PM
Re: Saturn: Most of my husband's chart doesn't scream, "Monogomous and Faithful", but he is.
I think his Saturn may have something to do with it:  And, also, as a few others have said, there's always room for free will. ------------------
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MyFavouriteName
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posted January 10, 2013 04:02 PM
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MyFavoriteMartel!You have been missed.
how are you? 
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 10, 2013 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE][b]page one: Especially #3!
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Haplesschild*: Hey post charts? It's interesting that the Pisces Venus man was completely faithful, so I guess Saturn aspecting his planets does help?
Could be, Saturn rules restriction/self-control.
But on the other end, Saturn could also rule low self worth, and some people speculate that some people who screw around have that indeed. So, look at the motivation first, if you actually know the person, since I think motivation is rather easy to read.
Saturn could be either/or, since looking at the chart is only part of the picture. Being around the person, even for a few minutes, helps to zero in on how they're using it since you can read their energy/level that they're operating on.
[/B][/QUOTE]Ooh the guy has saturn conjuncting his asc and aspecting most of his main planets, no wonder he's not the impulsive type. IP: Logged |
MyFavouriteName
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posted January 10, 2013 04:47 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I know right? -_- lots also say they're single then SURPRISE! They end up having a gf all along.I've gone out with a couple of guys a few times casually (like approx 3 times) who turned out to be taken. Wtf? But good thing lots of guys aren't like that.
i agree, we really are terrible, there is very few good men out there, most women don't actually follow through and get with them though. my advice is wait until you're at least past your mid 30's, maybe even into your forties. do your hearts a favour and stay single! consider not sleeping with any guy until its been a long while, just to test him for sure. if you can't help but date that is. IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted January 10, 2013 06:18 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I think Gemini can be somewhat mitigated with Saturn aspects to Sun, Venus or Moon and a stellium of 'solid' placements (Taurus, Leo).My ex was a Gemini Mars but he was faithful and honest. However he was heavy in Taurus, had a Fire rising which made him straight up, and Saturn aspected both his sun and moon. It also aspected his mercury but at a much looser degree. He had the wit, charisma and playfulness of a Gemini, without the flakiness and the dodgy behaviour <3. Some placements give more the potential to do things I think. Though at the end of the day, it's just a choice you make whether to be moral or not.
idk about Taurus either all of the bulls I know both men and woman have cheated and doesnt seem to feel guilt for it. SO if i meet a gem with taurus placements or vice versa I wont be any more inclined to trust them but more worried actually. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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posted January 10, 2013 06:20 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Welcome to dating in the 2000's. This is a very large reason why I don't date or like guys my age. Because when they say they "like" you, it doesn't seem to mean anything.
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Yin
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posted January 10, 2013 06:36 PM
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Originally posted by MyFavouriteName:
how are you?
Good and you? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 10, 2013 06:41 PM
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
idk about Taurus either all of the bulls I know both men and woman have cheated and doesnt seem to feel guilt for it. SO if i meet a gem with taurus placements or vice versa I wont be any more inclined to trust them but more worried actually.
Yeah, I checked out the guys chart a couple months or so after we started going out and I got scared, because he had a Gemini Mars Singleton (yikes). But no, he was always very reliable, stable and I loved how he remembered everything I ever told him. He didn't lie or manipulate, my BS radar has been honed after being lied to alot in the past with other men.  He was actually really sweet, so I still think saturn must have helped. Also it's still about choices, anyone can be a cheater.
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sand
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posted January 10, 2013 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sand:
[b] i don't want to wait for things to happen. i'm fine with that if she felt a pull stronger than mine.. such is life. painful for sure but i will get over it.. eventually. you respect commitments/ agreements. i respect energy. timing, maybe even synastry.here.. 
I know why you cheat. I find people with moon square venus have issues with being content. It's like Venus square Mars are always fighting within themselves... It's even more intense in a Moon square Venus person.You have alot of t squares like me, but I think alot of mine are with generational planets at loose degrees.
I hear Moon hard aspect Pluto is a btch to deal with in a chart? My Mercury, Venus and Moon conjunct so I wouldn't know lol.
I think it's just because you have alot of tough squares/opp, so I guess it manifested negatively? Oh and the ex that cheated on me had Sun opposition Saturn too, I think it can cause feelings of inadequacy and some insecurity?
He craved attention from more than one girl because he needed the validation to feel better about himself. [/B][/QUOTE] i think it's ultimately the moon. my pluto venus midpoint is my moon. pluto and venus are my top 2 planets. Moon: To be strongly impressionable to intense beauty. The emotional need for intense relationships, connections, and romances. To fall easily under the sway of the charms and allurements of another person. Midheaven: One’s highest attainment in this life has to do with transmuting the lesser manifestations of love into higher ones. One may be intensely loved by the public or by people at large. Career decisions that are difficult to make. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted January 10, 2013 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by Padre35:
Mercury/Capricorn/Gemini in IIIOdd thing is though, never have cheated, no not once, just not in my nature. I've read that Leo Moon is a homewrecker, for me, nah, people in relationships are off of the menu so to speak.
My guy friend who is a Leo moon is a home wrecker. He's always involved with someone attached
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Padre35
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posted January 10, 2013 10:28 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
My guy friend who is a Leo moon is a home wrecker. He's always involved with someone attached
Goodness, uhm, yeah. Never wrecked a home per se, but am on speed dial.. Odd thing is, can relate to women b/c when the neighbors break up etc and I run into them later she invariably says something like "I noticed you when you did.." Just trying to live ones life w/o realizing that so many eyes are on you..checking you out. But still, imo couples should know each other in a more soulful way.
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sand
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posted January 10, 2013 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
My guy friend who is a Leo moon is a home wrecker. He's always involved with someone attached
some women don't tell you what the situation is. they don't say they have bf's. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted January 10, 2013 11:05 PM
I believe you. But I'm saying my friend KNOWS and doesn't care. Or maybe he does. But either way the majority of the girls he's been with that I know of the last couple years had bfs at the start or still do Guys have left girls to pursue me. Like after they meet me all the sudden they're single soon after. But I'd never knowingly start dating/seeing/being more than friends with someone attached IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 10, 2013 11:14 PM
^it's hard having ascendant in schmexy!  I feel u bro! IP: Logged |
appleberry
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posted January 11, 2013 02:17 AM
I'm extremely loyal. I've even made a point of trying to cheat because of certain circumstances and it just irritated me to cheat. Sun and moon in Aries h7
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Juno exact conjunct Venus H5.
I do get cheated on a lot though. I date a lot of guys with sun and Venus in the second house and charts with strong Sagittarius and/or Libra personal placements.
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LionFish
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posted January 11, 2013 05:14 AM
A book that I've got says sag moons have a hard time staying faithful, and I've witnessed this first hand from my Leo Sun/mercury/Venus sag moon friend. No matter what relationship he's in for how long, it seems like he can't help himself.IP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted January 11, 2013 09:02 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
A book that I've got says sag moons have a hard time staying faithful, and I've witnessed this first hand from my Leo Sun/mercury/Venus sag moon friend. No matter what relationship he's in for how long, it seems like he can't help himself.
how could I forgot about sag moons... IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted January 11, 2013 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by AriesKat:
how could I forgot about sag moons...
Hey now! I have a Sag moon & don't cheat. Am I a big flirty flirt when I am single?... Hell yes. Did I have alternative relationships & one night flings? Yup. Did I have a track record (in my youth) of getting bored quickly with relationships? Indeed. However, I left the relationship instead of lying/cheating and hurting someone. I just can't hurt anyone like that. ------------------
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