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Topic: Astrological deal breakers!
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kani
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posted June 26, 2019 08:15 AM
  
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Scorpio Moon.I have some real trouble connecting with Scorpio Moon-This despite having Moon/Pluto/Saturn and Venus in water signs. I find the ones I meet SUPER cagey. Even as I play by their rules they take forever to let me get closer. The irony however is that when I eventually give up on them, they claim I have abandoned them 
I think you are on to something here. An aquaintance of mine, a Cap sun and Scorpio moon, is incredibly charming, bubbly and also a bit ditzy but noone really knows what she is REALLY like. It's hard to describe. There is a sense that she has a whole nother layer below that bubbly surface but noone can see it - we just can sense that it is there. Very weird...
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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 26, 2019 01:48 PM
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vansio
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posted June 26, 2019 02:03 PM
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Brenda_S
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posted June 26, 2019 04:22 PM
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Originally posted by kani:
Lol I have a lot of Pisces and what you wrote absolutely does not apply to me or any heavy Pisces I know at all. Like, no. And Pisces is usually not smothering at all. That is what Taurus is actually known for - when they sense the other person is slipping away. We are more hermits than anything (depends on houses a lot though) and need loads of alone time. And that cloud nine thing is just cliche. We daydream but most of us have a good grip to reality. (I know it' s you experience,but I had to add mine . My aqua mercury just had to)What I wouldn't go for? Someone with a lot of mutable energy - because that's what I have. We'd drive each other crazy with both being very changeable and our tendency to not finish stuff because something else caught our interest. Although I work on changing that because it annoys me.
I agree, there's no way Piscean's are smothering. Like no. IP: Logged |
Brenda_S
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posted June 26, 2019 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by mercmercy99:
*Lucille Bluth voice* I don't care for Cap.I don't really like anyone who's too bossy or puts on airs that they're so sure of themselves when they're actually not, and I feel like that's very Capricorn.
Isn't that rather Leo/Aqua? IP: Logged |
kani
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posted June 26, 2019 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
Isn't that rather Leo/Aqua?
yeah that's def more Aqua or Leo in their underevolved state. IP: Logged |
mercmercy99
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posted June 27, 2019 02:36 AM
Yeah, maybe. All the typically Leo Leos I've ever met seemed sure of themselves but backed it up in some kind of way. I never get try-hard from Leo per se. Showoff? Sure, but not try-hard.I just don't "get" Capricorn. I don't really know what their thing is exactly, so I decided to just talk crap. Aren't Caps the ones who are money-hungry? Yeah, I don't like that. Money is stupid. I want it, but it's stupid. Greed is not good. IP: Logged |
Aries Eagle
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posted June 27, 2019 03:57 AM
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Originally posted by Randall:
That Gemini cackle. Not all Gems have it, but it's like nails on a chalkboard.
I know a hot gem girl who has this, its scary sometimes lol. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 27, 2019 04:48 AM
Mercury square Mercury (conversation killer)and Mercury square Mars (too much arguments) Both are dealbreakers for me.
EDIT: Synastry aspects above.
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Hikaru29
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posted June 27, 2019 04:54 AM
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Originally posted by mercmercy99:
Yeah, maybe. All the typically Leo Leos I've ever met seemed sure of themselves but backed it up in some kind of way. I never get try-hard from Leo per se. Showoff? Sure, but not try-hard.I just don't "get" Capricorn. I don't really know what their thing is exactly, so I decided to just talk crap. Aren't Caps the ones who are money-hungry? Yeah, I don't like that. Money is stupid. I want it, but it's stupid. Greed is not good.
Leos are typically bossy. They don't care whether they're right or wrong they just want their way. Aquas like to be unique. They don't care even if their ideas are plain weird but it's ok... their weird ideas must be right. Capricorns are the serious, self-disciplined type. They've probably reviewed their protocols so many times they think they've got everything right, and they'll ask you to adopt their personal protocols. But Caps are also the type who, when they're drunk, become a totally different person. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted June 27, 2019 05:33 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Mercury square Mars (too much arguments)
I actually have Mercury/Mars square .Granted it does make me argumentative. But my feeling is; what's the harm in a little fire in a conversation right?  I agree with you on Mercury/Mercury square though....yikes!
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Hikaru29
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posted June 27, 2019 05:38 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I actually have Mercury/Mars square .Granted it does make me argumentative.But my feeling is; what's the harm in a little fire in a conversation right? I agree with you on Mercury/Mercury square though....yikes!
Oh, I mean synastry aspects. My ex and I had Mercury square Mars DW. It's like being electrocuted all the time, until I was charred. I recently dated a guy I've Mercury square Mercury. Totally nothing to talk about! I died of boredom. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted June 27, 2019 06:10 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Oh, I mean synastry aspects. My ex and I had Mercury square Mars DW. It's like being electrocuted all the time, until I was charred. I recently dated a guy I've Mercury square Mercury. Totally nothing to talk about! I died of boredom.
I have mercury inconjunct mercury with a good friend of mine and we have the best conversations. maybe it has a different effect in non romantic relationships ? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted June 27, 2019 06:16 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Oh, I mean synastry aspects. My ex and I had Mercury square Mars DW. It's like being electrocuted all the time, until I was charred. I recently dated a guy I've Mercury square Mercury. Totally nothing to talk about! I died of boredom.
Lol.I also cannot handle being unable to express myself in a relationship. It would drive me NUTS. Is your Moon/Venus,5th house or Dsc in Gemini? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
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posted June 28, 2019 03:07 AM
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Originally posted by kani:
I have mercury inconjunct mercury with a good friend of mine and we have the best conversations. maybe it has a different effect in non romantic relationships ?
Goes to show that the square is worse than the inconjunct. This guy and I are NOT in a romantic relationship. I'm still only in the 'getting-to-know-him' stage and my feelings for him aren't anything special. Anyway after that date, I've decided I don't wanna know him further. 🤣
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Hikaru29
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posted June 28, 2019 03:13 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Lol.I also cannot handle being unable to express myself in a relationship. It would drive me NUTS.Is your Moon/Venus,5th house or Dsc in Gemini?
Tell me about it... I literally had no voice! And I'm a Gemini rising... how can I survive that? LOL. His Mars also square my Sun btw. Worse. My Sag Moon in 7th opposite Gem Venus in 1st. Uranus/Pluto in 5th house. IP: Logged |
kani
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posted June 28, 2019 06:15 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
. His Mars also square my Sun btw. Worse.
That can be a very irritating aspect. I've had this before with someone (I was Mars) and despite having a very strong attraction there was a high degree of annoyance with each other. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted June 28, 2019 06:33 AM
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Tell me about it... I literally had no voice! And I'm a Gemini rising... how can I survive that? LOL. His Mars also square my Sun btw. Worse.My Sag Moon in 7th opposite Gem Venus in 1st. Uranus/Pluto in 5th house.
Lol. That makes sense.If guys could have babies, I would have a couple by those with Gemini Sun,Venus or 3rd house strong people. But as I earlier stated,Gem Venus also makes me nervous.My water placements can't deal with how flippant they can be. In Draconic,I have 5th house cusp in Gemini with Aqua Asc.The two energies i highlighted as troublesome. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted June 28, 2019 03:05 PM
None. This isn't how I use astrology. Everyone is unique and will handle astrological factors and their soul development in their own unique way. Just because someone with a particular astrological factor behaved in an undesirable way in my past (or theirs) doesn't mean I should hold that same or similar astrological factor against someone else in fear-based anticipation of the worst. That is not empowered. Because my father behaved badly in the past and I can lay it on his Moon square Uranus should I run from myself since my birth chart also has that aspect? If my wife took that attitude I'd still be single. ------------------
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Ayelet
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posted June 28, 2019 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
None. This isn't how I use astrology. Everyone is unique and will handle astrological factors and their soul development in their own unique way. Just because someone with a particular astrological factor behaved in an undesirable way in my past (or theirs) doesn't mean I should hold that same or similar astrological factor against someone else in fear-based anticipation of the worst. That is not empowered. Because my father behaved badly in the past and I can lay it on his Moon square Uranus should I run from myself since my birth chart also has that aspect? If my wife took that attitude I'd still be single.
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polkadotstars
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posted June 28, 2019 08:21 PM
Two words. Mars. Pluto. Ruuuuuunn!! 😬😁 IP: Logged |
solarbry
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posted June 28, 2019 08:45 PM
• Aries moon. Despite being an Aries sun I find the moons too quick to fly off the handle. I get annoyed easily, but they get ANGRY easily. I can’t be bothered. • Virgo sun or venus. The suns are too nitpicky, boring, and prissy. The venus aren’t bold or forward enough for my liking (I have an aries venus.) • Air moons. Emotionally bankrupt, stay away from me. • Water venus unless there’s a lot of fire to compensate IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted June 29, 2019 12:22 AM
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Originally posted by solarbry:
• Aries moon. Despite being an Aries sun I find the moons too quick to fly off the handle. I get annoyed easily, but they get ANGRY easily. I can’t be bothered.
Is your Venus/Sun conjunct? And how far are they from the Aries cardinal point? 0 degrees? I share your sentiment about Aries Moons. I am not a big fan(specifically those close to that Aries point). This despite Moon/Mars square and Moon square Asc. But there are others whom are just lovely .And they typically have their Moon far from the Aries point i.e @ 20-29 degrees. I prefer those Aries Moons. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted June 29, 2019 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by solarbry:
• Air moons. Emotionally bankrupt, stay away from me.
Not true at all, but noted.
Why did I click on this thread? I hate this kind of thing. IP: Logged |
BunnyAria3
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posted July 24, 2019 08:15 AM
-Moon in Aquarius
-Moon in Gemini
- Venus in Sagittarius
-Venus in Gemini
-Venus in Aquarius
- 11th house natal and synastry
-Mars in Gemini I guess I don’t really get along well with air signs. IP: Logged |
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