posted August 18, 2019 12:18 AM            

*Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in Sagittarius: This placement is such a HUGE burden for me because it prevents others from bonding with me. Saturn is like a blockage, Uranus brings on the ghosting factor and Neptune brings on tons of games and deception. Those placements are not kind of my Pisces placements.

*Mercury in Capricorn: Clear communication and integrity is often an issue. They resort to manipulation which is an automatic deal breaker.

*Mercury in Libra: They have a tendency to tell you what they think you want to hear. You truly don't get a sense of where they truly stand on things nor who they really are.

*Moon and Mars in Taurus: The moon can be very dry and shallow, whereas the Mars is a headache to deal with due to stubborn nature.

posted December 10, 2019 08:56 AM              

Otherwise, most people I feel that there may be something to learn from and/or teach/example to.

In a very real sense, because of our spiritual will, we are writing ourselves a new chart as we speak. Whether we directly reincarnate, or our Spirit rolls together a new Soul with aspects/memories/dynamics of us in same, this new life will have a different chart.

That different chart will likely have some definite differences and maybe some similarities with our current chart.

Spiritual will is the most important factor. The past use of it is why we have the chart that we have now. Both in the sense of building up character traits/tendencies, as well as picking a certain body with it's own temperament, etc.

posted June 04, 2021 04:47 PM            

Neptune in other's Third house. It can make communication confusing. The two I know with this, were less straight shooters in their communication with me.

Jupiter in the fifth house. My present relationship and a few past, addiction. In almost any way. Super difficult to be around this for me.

posted June 06, 2021 09:14 AM            

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Originally posted by BunnyAria3:
I run when I see any of the following:
-Mercury in Pisces (they just really bug me !)
-Moon in Gemini, sag
-Mars in Gemini
-Venus in Gemini

Gemini anything actually. No offense to Gemini, I just don’t trust them !

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Due to prior experiences, I have to agree with you here. I just would not trust Gemini romantically.

posted June 09, 2021 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
That Gemini cackle. Not all Gems have it, but it's like nails on a chalkboard.

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posted June 10, 2021 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I have fallen into a mindset of, for me it is a struggle with anyone "outside" myself. I think my Libra 11th Uranus makes is sooooo arguous with aligning well with "another". My issue - obviously.
Why am I blabbering about that?
I think any sign or aspect in my case can be a real deal breaker. I have a mad scientist in the basement personality. lol
I am social-able. Yet it is random and I can't put my finger on each one to single out. A couple I believe might be more difficult in my case -

Neptune in other's Third house. It can make communication confusing. The two I know with this, were less straight shooters in their communication with me.

Jupiter in the fifth house. My present relationship and a few past, addiction. In almost any way. Super difficult to be around this for me.

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in placidus i have neptune 3rd and jupiter 5th lol the addiction thing is true though, that's no secret here 🤷‍♀️

@GemJams

i have an aries moon and it's really really hard to get me angry to the point where i lose my temper, generally people tell me i go cold and get calm if i'm really mad

and i'm generally laid back and get over things quick

i have a moon-mars (cap) square but my moon is also trine uranus (sag) trine mercury (leo) , opposite venus/ascendant/south node(libra) and conjunct my descendant/north node

i can be an ******* though just generally in a not explosive way 🤷‍♀️

i don't necessarily care about looks in spite of libra venus, they're nice and all don't get me wrong and they make the bad **** easier to forgive but they're not everything

posted June 10, 2021 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Due to prior experiences, I have to agree with you here. I just would not trust Gemini romantically.

And try as I might to befriend Aries, they usually end up turning into abusive @$$holes after awhile. I've yet to meet someone with Aries anywhere that doesn't become like this or show this intolerable abusive side to them.
If anyone has a nasty side, that's normal, but save it for your enemies, not your friends...

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posted June 10, 2021 11:51 PM            

I’ve been reading some older threads and you seem cool.I was surprised when you mentioned you had an Aries moon in one of them.I’m an Aries rising so I’m ok with Aries energy.I guess I’ve met some who haven’t learned how to deal with their emotions.I get it cause I have Moon sq Mars,I was temperamental when I was younger.Now I just want peace.

posted June 11, 2021 03:25 AM            

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@Dumuzi

I’ve been reading some older threads and you seem cool.I was surprised when you mentioned you had an Aries moon in one of them.I’m an Aries rising so I’m ok with Aries energy.I guess I’ve met some who haven’t learned how to deal with their emotions.I get it cause I have Moon sq Mars,I was temperamental when I was younger.Now I just want peace.

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i think uranus and mercury are doing a lot in my case, my mother also has aries moon trine uranus and is calmer for an aries moon (she has it opposite her libra sun)

that being said i did date one and 😬 possibly dated 2 (other one couldve been a taurus moon, but idk birth time leaning towards not that) i've been yelled at for staying too calm 🤷‍♀️ watched plenty of things break etc

needless to say i get your side of things lol

i've seen people say moon square mars can give a tendency to get mad more at people close to you and that's true of me. when someone is close then they can affect me and hurt/upset me whereas when someone isn't i'm rather apathetic. i have to be invested to really feel anything

posted June 11, 2021 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by GemJams:
I’ve never heard that about moon sq mars,but I do agree.I’m the same way.Maybe it’s something else that puts me on edge around them…

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my ex used to set me on edge, well 🤔 they both could actually but the one i didn't live with was easier to hide from and the one with the scorpio stellium was scarier (the one who didn't have a scorpio stellium had a scorpio mars) so i mean i get it

i'm very mellow for an aries moon but like i said i think all the uranus in my chart + the libra balances it out and having a cap mars probably helps too

posted June 12, 2021 01:40 AM            

- Scorpio Sun FEMALES (I'm genuine, female egos seems stuck on, hinged on and centered around secrets - guys have variation)

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Romantically only, as friends(read: superficial relations) they're fine:

- Venus-Gem: 23's post on first page described the problem perfectly.

posted June 12, 2021 01:58 AM            

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Originally posted by AmberMoon:
Ugh, anyone with negative Neptune aspects or too many Neptune influences.....they come off as totally helpless, completely unrealistic, confusing, nonconcrete which is super frustrating for my Scorpio stellium and heavy earth placements. I had a good friend who had these aspects. She got married quickly and divorced the man a year later. She had absolutely no idea what she wanted in a man or who the man was that she married. I then set her up with a long time bachelor friend of mine who fell in love with her and she said she was totally in love with him too - but then she broke it off unexpectedly and without reason after 2 months. UNFRIENDED.

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posted June 12, 2021 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by ESSSSSC:
Does the person have significant Uranus? I see the Neptune in your post, but it stinks of Uranus too. The mix of Neptune/Uranus is the worst.

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posted June 12, 2021 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by ESSSSSC:
- Neptune square Personals

- Scorpio Sun FEMALES (I'm genuine, female egos seems stuck on, hinged on and centered around secrets - guys have variation)

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Romantically only, as friends(read: superficial relations) they're fine:

- Venus-Gem: 23's post on first page described the problem perfectly.

- Venus-Libra: Superficial IMO. Yet also very positive and social, meaning unless you have them trapped it's inevitable they will leave you simply because they meet a lot of people and they're attractive (often physically, but I meant otherwise). (disclaimer: Aspects from Saturn/Pluto can make this the opposite.)

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i have a libra venus, can't imagine what's shallow about caring about sharing a connection with someone and valuing compatibility above other things and keeping promises made etc but alright 🤷‍♀️

people find me attractive but that doesn't mean much, i've heard that **** from so many people that it becomes a sort of drone and doesn't make any single person stand out and if i make someone a promise i try like hell to keep it

posted June 13, 2021 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i have a libra venus, can't imagine what's shallow about caring about sharing a connection with someone and valuing compatibility above other things and keeping promises made etc but alright 🤷‍♀️

people find me attractive but that doesn't mean much, i've heard that **** from so many people that it becomes a sort of drone and doesn't make any single person stand out and if i make someone a promise i try like hell to keep it

i'm ultimately loyal and don't just leave

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I would say your Moon-7/DSC counteracts/overpowers your Libra Venus disloyalty and insistence on promise-keeping. Moon-7/DSC means one-on-one/committed relationships are an emotional need, so given you have a brain you can rationalize that being unreliable might bite you in the ass. Then you have Venus-1/ASC, which has a similar affect (wanting/valuing/holding critical relations). (My point is you aren't typical for Libra Venus, so for now I stand by my original characterization.)

posted June 13, 2021 09:57 AM            

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Gem Venus

This position makes me nervous. Lol. I feel like they are going to pull a fast one on me & when caught, they will not think of it as a big deal at all.

I dated one who left my apartment to hook up with someone else(sex) .Then returned like nothing happened.

When I found out, I freaked and he played it off like I was the one who was in the wrong? What? i.e "Why can't we let the past be the past?". Mind games for days. I broke up with him effecive immediately.

Scorpio Moon.

I have some real trouble connecting with Scorpio Moon-This despite having Moon/Pluto/Saturn and Venus in water signs. I find the ones I meet SUPER cagey. Even as I play by their rules they take forever to let me get closer.

The irony however is that when I eventually give up on them, they claim I have abandoned them

Aqua Moon/Venus.

Aqua Moon/Venus is fantastic when we are in a group. Cancer Moon shares Aqua Moon's sense of community. But I don't think it would work out one on one. We'd have to be that couple that has people around all the time for us to bond with each other.Lol.

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The gem Venus thing? That’s something I wouldn’t do. I really think that’s more of a character thing. I know that we are on an astrology board, but the gaslighting crap is kind of what I’ve experienced from a Pisces Venus. Yet my dad wasn’t like that with my mum, at all.

I don’t really care about signs. I care about the fact that a Taurus sun conjunct moon, mars conjunct Saturn, lied to me, because he knew that something would be a dealbreaker. In the past.

posted June 13, 2021 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Pale Blue Eyes:
I've had a lot of problems with Sun in Gemini people during my life, so they're a no-no for me. And I think that's funny, because my Venus is in Gemini.

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