posted December 29, 2014 05:05 AM            

I'll go first!

Gemini Mars or Venus. Too airy fairy for me; I like something to sink my teeth into! I want action and less jibber jabber.

posted December 29, 2014 05:25 AM            

I could imagine being long-term relationship with someone with those kind of charts, but it just is very unlikely to happen.

posted December 29, 2014 05:53 AM              

Deal breakers for me would be basically any chart with too much air and/or fire. I don't get along with the less emotionally evolved types.

Although I have uranus in my 8th house and a uranus sextile sun and square moon aspect, these are 'red flag' aspects I look for the most in synastry and composite. if a prominent uranus is in the composite, aside from uranus aspects to the comp. ascendant, that's an automatic deal breaker because once i see that aspect, there's a more than good chance it won't last based off experience. Prominent uranus in synastry, in my opinion, just signifies a slight annoyance in the other person's view of time and time spent together but it doesn't make or break the relationship.

Other deal breakers (Composite):

Sun square mars
Moon square mars
Mercury in hard aspect (synastry too)

posted December 29, 2014 07:43 AM            

Anyway, dealbreakers are Sun and/ or Moon in Aquarius and Moon in Scorpio. Also the people with the Mars/Pluto conjunction can take a good hike.

posted December 29, 2014 09:55 AM            

Well, there is a lot of these kinds of topic going on recently? Think I have already answered something like this... anyways, I'm only water/earth so of course, too much fire/air is not for me. Especially if they sit on the moon, and aries/aqua venus is a no-go. Also almost anything leo/aqua in general because it seems to activate a lot of bad aspect to my chart.

I wouldn't wan't a guy either who was too attractive to the opposite sex, and I mean, a person who got too much of those infidelity aspect. I could handle it if he was earth/water only like me, but if he is fire/air dominant I wouldn't like him to have moon-venus, venus-mars or venus-jupiter aspect.

posted December 29, 2014 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm only water/earth so of course, too much fire/air is not for me. Especially if they sit on the moon, and aries/aqua venus is a no-go. Also almost anything leo/aqua in general because it seems to activate a lot of bad aspect to my chart.

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posted December 29, 2014 11:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
Exactly. I will add to this but with my chart being earth/water dominant, I keep air/fire chart persons at a safe distance; get annoyed very fast. Gemini's I budge on, they activate my 5H so I take them in moderation depending upon the rest of the chart **which usually had personal planets in Cancer** etc.

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Yeah, but funny enough most of my friends are air/fire suns, but then they got some earth/water moon or venus, to add up. Actually I don't mind if they have personal planets in air/fire, just as long as the moon or venus sign fits with mine...

posted December 29, 2014 11:32 AM            

Scorpio moon and venus give me cap moon composite and sag venus composite so that's not a big deal to me

posted December 29, 2014 11:34 AM            

Venus in Scorpio, Virgo or Aries

There are more. I just can't think of them

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posted December 29, 2014 09:47 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
And a girl once convinced me to read Twilight and that was one of the scariest vampire stories I ever read as I saw an invulnerable monster who was the kind of obsessive and dangerous stalker and control freak that I fear--NOT my cup of tea--

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This makes me laugh😂 this is exactly how I see twilight! It is literally about a stalker. It is not a love story, it may as well be fatal attraction as far as I'm concerned!

posted December 29, 2014 09:58 PM            

The same for the Comp or Unaspected Sun or any personal planet.

Chiron conj the NN or any "bad" asteroid conj the NN like Nessus lol

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posted December 29, 2014 10:43 PM            

Mars, Venus in Pisces I try to avoid. Venus, Mars in Capricorn I avoid. Taurus or Cancer Sun in harsh aspect to mars or moon, I am avoid. Scorpio Moon in harsh aspect to pluto, I run away from. Venus in Sag or Libra, I need to learn to run away from. Sun or moon harsh aspect neptune, I dip a toe in, then run.

posted December 29, 2014 11:17 PM            

~ Aries moon
My Cancer moon can't stand it when they turn on that "everything is about me" attitude and they do it especially when they're getting upset or angry. It's like they wanna drag you down with them. I usually run away from them when they're having emotional fits.

~ Too much Pisces influence
Can't say enough without ranting. They live in cloud nine and they can't seem to get back to reality no matter how hard you try to help them get back. Too smothering, too, in my opinion. Their self-defeating tendencies turn me off.

~ Pisces rising/Neptune on the Asc or MC
Very confusing. They appear to be one thing, but once you get to know them, they're actually something else.

~ Moon square Mercury
Usually an aspect for people who want you one day and then gone the next because they can't figure out what they want. Maybe even a little depressive for me.

~ Leo mercury
Ideas are too fixed. They think their way is the only way and they find it hard to compromise.

~ Taurus sun with Aries mercury and mars (has to be the combo, not just one.. I love Aries mars)
Makes plans and is very dominating about it. Can't cancel on them even for important things just because they feel they're more important than anything. If you cancel plans, they see it as a postponement and will keep bothering you until you do desired plan with them.

~ Strong Pluto in the chart
Scary and creepy just by itself.

Then again, these things are based on personal experience. Not everybody who has the same placements or aspects would act the same.

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Gemini Rising
Sun in Leo (2nd house)
Moon in Cancer (1st house)
Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.)
Venus in Virgo (3rd house)
Mars in Libra (5th house)

posted June 25, 2019 09:42 PM            

Scorpio Moon conjunct pluto - my sister has this and she is my best friend but I also work with someone who has this and is extremely manipulative and paranoid without being a good judge of character.

Aqua moon - a bit too cold although with the right combination of other aspects might work opposite my Leo moon. I’ve dated an aqua moon and my dad has aqua moon - both not the best relationships.

I’m weary now of Venus square moon after dating someone with this aspect.

posted June 25, 2019 10:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
A strong Pluto unless the rest of the chart is fire or air dominant. Pluto on an angle, or conjunct the sun.

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posted June 25, 2019 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
What makes you think that about Pluto conjunct sun? I know someone with pluto conjunct sun, Scorpio mars, Pisces moon & lots of mutable signs in their chart. At first they seemed totally nice but lately I have been a little cautious of them.

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posted June 26, 2019 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
That Gemini cackle. Not all Gems have it, but it's like nails on a chalkboard.

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posted June 26, 2019 04:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:

~ Too much Pisces influence
Can't say enough without ranting. They live in cloud nine and they can't seem to get back to reality no matter how hard you try to help them get back. Too smothering, too, in my opinion. Their self-defeating tendencies turn me off.

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Lol I have a lot of Pisces and what you wrote absolutely does not apply to me or any heavy Pisces I know at all. Like, no. And Pisces is usually not smothering at all. That is what Taurus is actually known for - when they sense the other person is slipping away. We are more hermits than anything (depends on houses a lot though) and need loads of alone time. And that cloud nine thing is just cliche. We daydream but most of us have a good grip to reality. (I know it' s you experience,but I had to add mine . My aqua mercury just had to)

What I wouldn't go for?

posted June 26, 2019 05:17 AM            

I don't really like anyone who's too bossy or puts on airs that they're so sure of themselves when they're actually not, and I feel like that's very Capricorn. However, I met someone earlier this year who has Cap Mercury, Venus, and Mars and found them absolutely delightful, so I really don't know what the hell I'm talking about...

posted June 26, 2019 07:38 AM            

This position makes me nervous. Lol. I feel like they are going to pull a fast one on me & when caught, they will not think of it as a big deal at all.

I dated one who left my apartment to hook up with someone else(sex) .Then returned like nothing happened.

When I found out, I freaked and he played it off like I was the one who was in the wrong? What? i.e "Why can't we let the past be the past?". Mind games for days. I broke up with him effecive immediately.

Scorpio Moon.

I have some real trouble connecting with Scorpio Moon-This despite having Moon/Pluto/Saturn and Venus in water signs. I find the ones I meet SUPER cagey. Even as I play by their rules they take forever to let me get closer.

The irony however is that when I eventually give up on them, they claim I have abandoned them

Aqua Moon/Venus.

Aqua Moon/Venus is fantastic when we are in a group. Cancer Moon shares Aqua Moon's sense of community. But I don't think it would work out one on one. We'd have to be that couple that has people around all the time for us to bond with each other.Lol.