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MarsSaturnDelight
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posted December 29, 2014 05:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MarsSaturnDelight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Let me hear 'em. What aspects in the other person make you run a mile, or what synastry aspects make you think twice - anything astrological that breaks the deal. You can give reasons too!!

I'll go first!

Gemini Mars or Venus. Too airy fairy for me; I like something to sink my teeth into! I want action and less jibber jabber.

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Disclaimer: I know this is a generalisation and that there's more to it than one or too aspects, but hey, that's the fun part. Additionally, if your sensitive and don't like your aspect being mentioned, please leave your Neptune at the door.

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Jinni
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posted December 29, 2014 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jinni     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with you. I don`t like too much gemini mars and venus either. Also 4-5 personal planets in mutable signs or very aries/scorpio dominant persons are bit much for my super boring taurus moon. I do not like mars in cancer either. I find them passive-aggressive and hard to grasp.

I could imagine being long-term relationship with someone with those kind of charts, but it just is very unlikely to happen.

People with Very mutable charts will take an interest in me and lost it before I even have time to react. Aries/Scorpio dominants scare me off and with cancer moons all kind of hurt feelings will occur for sure

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posted December 29, 2014 05:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to consider Cancer moons and Scorpio Venus & Mars to be avoided as I feared being smothered and even obsessively stalked by someone who would become dangerous when they realized they couldn't have me, and one with the Scorpio placements did become terrible to me in his obsession and believing I was his soul mate even when I refused to have anything to do with him beyond friendship. And a girl once convinced me to read Twilight and that was one of the scariest vampire stories I ever read as I saw an invulnerable monster who was the kind of obsessive and dangerous stalker and control freak that I fear--NOT my cup of tea--and that's pretty much how I imagined those placements (especially when combined). I also feared crimes of passion from both Cancer and Scorpio placements there, including from rejection.

However, I did agree with a short fling with one (before I knew the placements) and it grew into something more and though there was problems at first we worked it out so that both of us get what we need and we've been happy for years. Therefore, assuming it's ever relevant again, I no longer have astrological deal breakers....I'd hate to think I'd have missed out on this had I known the placements before I got involved at all (and I would've run if I had) and glad that therefore I didn't know to break the deal before I had a chance to see how wonderful such a person could be for me.

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If it ain't Pluto st least let it be Saturn.


Deal breakers for me would be basically any chart with too much air and/or fire. I don't get along with the less emotionally evolved types.

Although I have uranus in my 8th house and a uranus sextile sun and square moon aspect, these are 'red flag' aspects I look for the most in synastry and composite. if a prominent uranus is in the composite, aside from uranus aspects to the comp. ascendant, that's an automatic deal breaker because once i see that aspect, there's a more than good chance it won't last based off experience. Prominent uranus in synastry, in my opinion, just signifies a slight annoyance in the other person's view of time and time spent together but it doesn't make or break the relationship.


Other deal breakers (Composite):

Sun square mars
Moon square mars
Mercury in hard aspect (synastry too)

It really just depends on the two individuals. For example, me and this guy I am interested in have hard mars squares aspecting all of our personal planets both ways! But in composite we have a tight Capricorn stellium conjunct each other and all trine chiron. So my point is, you can look at a synastry chart and see potential deal breakers but if the composite shows an easier or flowing aspect between the same two planets, the energy would balance itself out i assume.

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charlie
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posted December 29, 2014 07:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Personally I don't mind squares or oppositions because my entire chart is made up of squares and oppositions but based on previous experiences I lean towards NOT, ever, getting involved with anything Gemini, Aqua Moon again. Aqua Mars is YES for me since it seems to fit my stellium in 11H trine Uranus. I have also had problems with Taureans since they tend to mess with my SN and Jupiter.

I think I prefer an earth moon for stability and some fun Uranus tossed in the mix

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posted December 29, 2014 07:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOL, I have Mars in Gemini....

Anyway, dealbreakers are Sun and/ or Moon in Aquarius and Moon in Scorpio. Also the people with the Mars/Pluto conjunction can take a good hike.

I have had nothing than trouble with people with these placements, very selfish in general,.

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next to neptune
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posted December 29, 2014 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini mars ain't that bad?:O
My boyfriend has it

Well, there is a lot of these kinds of topic going on recently? Think I have already answered something like this... anyways, I'm only water/earth so of course, too much fire/air is not for me. Especially if they sit on the moon, and aries/aqua venus is a no-go. Also almost anything leo/aqua in general because it seems to activate a lot of bad aspect to my chart.

I wouldn't wan't a guy either who was too attractive to the opposite sex, and I mean, a person who got too much of those infidelity aspect. I could handle it if he was earth/water only like me, but if he is fire/air dominant I wouldn't like him to have moon-venus, venus-mars or venus-jupiter aspect.

My boyfriend is very mutable, air-dominant and has some bad stuff going on, but I love him anyways and things have never gone bad between us.

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posted December 29, 2014 10:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I'm only water/earth so of course, too much fire/air is not for me. Especially if they sit on the moon, and aries/aqua venus is a no-go. Also almost anything leo/aqua in general because it seems to activate a lot of bad aspect to my chart.

Exactly. I will add to this but with my chart being earth/water dominant, I keep air/fire chart persons at a safe distance; get annoyed very fast. Gemini's I budge on, they activate my 5H so I take them in moderation depending upon the rest of the chart **which usually had personal planets in Cancer** etc.

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posted December 29, 2014 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
Exactly. I will add to this but with my chart being earth/water dominant, I keep air/fire chart persons at a safe distance; get annoyed very fast. Gemini's I budge on, they activate my 5H so I take them in moderation depending upon the rest of the chart **which usually had personal planets in Cancer** etc.

Yeah, but funny enough most of my friends are air/fire suns, but then they got some earth/water moon or venus, to add up. Actually I don't mind if they have personal planets in air/fire, just as long as the moon or venus sign fits with mine...

I have a gemini friend with aries moon and gemini venus, but the thing is that I got moon in pisces 29 degree, so I actually tend to do well with aries energy somehow. But for an intimate relationship I would still say no-thanks... in any intimate relationship the moon has to fit with mine, and I don't even trust low degree fire/air that would still be trine/sextile my moon, but the basic energy would still be felt.

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posted December 29, 2014 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cancer Mars this generation is gonna give me a composite aries Mars square neptune and Uranus.... No thanks
Libra Mars always end up being jerks to me
Cancer moon my generation also lead to composite moon opposite pluto

Scorpio moon and venus give me cap moon composite and sag venus composite so that's not a big deal to me

I swear by compisite charts. All of my relationships turn out the way composite chart indicates.., especially the square aspects

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Ami Anne
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posted December 29, 2014 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For a man--Mars in Cancer or Virgo

Venus in Scorpio, Virgo or Aries

There are more. I just can't think of them

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posted December 29, 2014 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
And a girl once convinced me to read Twilight and that was one of the scariest vampire stories I ever read as I saw an invulnerable monster who was the kind of obsessive and dangerous stalker and control freak that I fear--NOT my cup of tea--

This makes me laugh😂 this is exactly how I see twilight! It is literally about a stalker. It is not a love story, it may as well be fatal attraction as far as I'm concerned!

But yeah I don't like mars in cancer men either. I have my mars in cancer so idk why they bother me, but the two who have been interested really **** me off. They were both intensely creepy.

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posted December 29, 2014 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Synastry--Unaspected Moon would be a total dealer breaker.

The same for the Comp or Unaspected Sun or any personal planet.

Chiron conj the NN or any "bad" asteroid conj the NN like Nessus lol

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posted December 29, 2014 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iced8Ace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My chart has a dominance of water/fire and is void of air. I avoid mutable air/earth mercury, sun or venus in 10-22 degrees where my moon-mercury-saturn fall in pisces indefinitely. Any other degree is fine. I also avoid Sun Leo on my Mars. Just too much ego to feed, 12th house mars has had enough. Mars in Aries on the other hand? The best.

Mars, Venus in Pisces I try to avoid. Venus, Mars in Capricorn I avoid. Taurus or Cancer Sun in harsh aspect to mars or moon, I am avoid. Scorpio Moon in harsh aspect to pluto, I run away from. Venus in Sag or Libra, I need to learn to run away from. Sun or moon harsh aspect neptune, I dip a toe in, then run.


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posted December 29, 2014 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm.. let's see:

~ Aries moon
My Cancer moon can't stand it when they turn on that "everything is about me" attitude and they do it especially when they're getting upset or angry. It's like they wanna drag you down with them. I usually run away from them when they're having emotional fits.

~ Too much Pisces influence
Can't say enough without ranting. They live in cloud nine and they can't seem to get back to reality no matter how hard you try to help them get back. Too smothering, too, in my opinion. Their self-defeating tendencies turn me off.

~ Pisces rising/Neptune on the Asc or MC
Very confusing. They appear to be one thing, but once you get to know them, they're actually something else.

~ Moon square Mercury
Usually an aspect for people who want you one day and then gone the next because they can't figure out what they want. Maybe even a little depressive for me.

~ Leo mercury
Ideas are too fixed. They think their way is the only way and they find it hard to compromise.

~ Taurus sun with Aries mercury and mars (has to be the combo, not just one.. I love Aries mars)
Makes plans and is very dominating about it. Can't cancel on them even for important things just because they feel they're more important than anything. If you cancel plans, they see it as a postponement and will keep bothering you until you do desired plan with them.

~ Strong Pluto in the chart
Scary and creepy just by itself.

Then again, these things are based on personal experience. Not everybody who has the same placements or aspects would act the same.

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Moon in Cancer (1st house)
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posted December 31, 2014 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That Gemini cackle. Not all Gems have it, but it's like nails on a chalkboard.

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posted June 25, 2019 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for diamondbaby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarius Sun
Pisces Sun
Aquarius Mars
Pisces Mars
Libra Moon
Scorpio Moon

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posted June 25, 2019 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I donít want to write off any sign or aspect but these I have had the most issues with:

Scorpio Moon conjunct pluto - my sister has this and she is my best friend but I also work with someone who has this and is extremely manipulative and paranoid without being a good judge of character.

Aqua moon - a bit too cold although with the right combination of other aspects might work opposite my Leo moon. Iíve dated an aqua moon and my dad has aqua moon - both not the best relationships.

Iím weary now of Venus square moon after dating someone with this aspect.

Although I have ALOT of Leo in my chart, I also have an earth grand trine - Virgo mercury/ Taurus Mars/ Capricorn Saturn in earth houses so I can almost always tell when someone has a lack of earth in their chart and need that in a relationship with someone.

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posted June 25, 2019 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dons2angelss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A strong Pluto unless the rest of the chart is fire or air dominant. Pluto on an angle, or conjunct the sun.

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posted June 25, 2019 10:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MMarie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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A strong Pluto unless the rest of the chart is fire or air dominant. Pluto on an angle, or conjunct the sun.

What makes you think that about Pluto conjunct sun? I know someone with pluto conjunct sun, Scorpio mars, Pisces moon & lots of mutable signs in their chart. At first they seemed totally nice but lately I have been a little cautious of them.

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posted June 25, 2019 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dons2angelss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What makes you think that about Pluto conjunct sun? I know someone with pluto conjunct sun, Scorpio mars, Pisces moon & lots of mutable signs in their chart. At first they seemed totally nice but lately I have been a little cautious of them.

I really can't put my finger on it. I know a few with that aspect and I just can not trust them for some reason. I have moon conjunct Pluto and even that aspect I don't particularly care for in others but I can handle it way better than sun/Pluto. I'm Pluto dominant as well so maybe that's why I'm weary of them?

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posted June 26, 2019 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Randall:
That Gemini cackle. Not all Gems have it, but it's like nails on a chalkboard.

Hahahahha! This made me....cackle!

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posted June 26, 2019 04:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:

~ Too much Pisces influence
Can't say enough without ranting. They live in cloud nine and they can't seem to get back to reality no matter how hard you try to help them get back. Too smothering, too, in my opinion. Their self-defeating tendencies turn me off.



Lol I have a lot of Pisces and what you wrote absolutely does not apply to me or any heavy Pisces I know at all. Like, no. And Pisces is usually not smothering at all. That is what Taurus is actually known for - when they sense the other person is slipping away. We are more hermits than anything (depends on houses a lot though) and need loads of alone time. And that cloud nine thing is just cliche. We daydream but most of us have a good grip to reality. (I know it' s you experience,but I had to add mine . My aqua mercury just had to)

What I wouldn't go for?

Someone with a lot of mutable energy - because that's what I have. We'd drive each other crazy with both being very changeable and our tendency to not finish stuff because something else caught our interest. Although I work on changing that because it annoys me.

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*Lucille Bluth voice* I don't care for Cap.

I don't really like anyone who's too bossy or puts on airs that they're so sure of themselves when they're actually not, and I feel like that's very Capricorn. However, I met someone earlier this year who has Cap Mercury, Venus, and Mars and found them absolutely delightful, so I really don't know what the hell I'm talking about...

I am heavy in Libra energy, and I just think everyone has their positives and negatives, so why can't we all just get along, yeah??

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posted June 26, 2019 07:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gem Venus

This position makes me nervous. Lol. I feel like they are going to pull a fast one on me & when caught, they will not think of it as a big deal at all.

I dated one who left my apartment to hook up with someone else(sex) .Then returned like nothing happened.

When I found out, I freaked and he played it off like I was the one who was in the wrong? What? i.e "Why can't we let the past be the past?". Mind games for days. I broke up with him effecive immediately.

Scorpio Moon.

I have some real trouble connecting with Scorpio Moon-This despite having Moon/Pluto/Saturn and Venus in water signs. I find the ones I meet SUPER cagey. Even as I play by their rules they take forever to let me get closer.

The irony however is that when I eventually give up on them, they claim I have abandoned them

Aqua Moon/Venus.

Aqua Moon/Venus is fantastic when we are in a group. Cancer Moon shares Aqua Moon's sense of community. But I don't think it would work out one on one. We'd have to be that couple that has people around all the time for us to bond with each other.Lol.

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