posted January 09, 2016 05:45 PM              

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Originally posted by Spongebob:

Its tight around the bust, in lingerie colors and has black lace which is generally on lingerie. Am i saying she cant wear what she wants ? Hell no. Am i saying its prolly not the best idea to wear it on the street? Yes.

Its weird to me that people are actually on here encouraging her to wear that on the street, what are you people wearing when you leave the house?

OP do what you want, but initially you had bad feelings about wearing it in public. Honestly, you weren't wrong.

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It's not extremely tight (imo) and there is minimal black lace on the top.

I wear various types of clothes when I leave my house - I don't particularly like wearing the colour red because it looks horrible against my skin tone; but the freedom to express myself is a DREAM.

posted January 09, 2016 05:56 PM              

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Its a shirt not lingerie.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:06 PM              

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
"Whether it's noticing my boots, or just looks for reasons I can't necessarily dissect...I don't like attention when I can't poinpoint the reason for it, lol. "

Hehehe YES that is so annoying and awkward huff.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:18 PM              

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Originally posted by Orange:
Just wear it, hun. This outfit makes you sooo happy, I can see how much you enjoy it. I like the red color, the free flowing sleeves, the front ties are sexy and cute, the waist tight fit. It's meant to be worn by someone who really enjoys it. Put it on and let the breeze play with it and your hair. Amen to that.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:23 PM            

I have venus square pluto myself as well, this post made me laugh because I never knew this. No wonder I am strongly drawn to dark and sexy looks. I own so much lingerie and dark lip sticks I rarely wear. The only times I've worn dark lip stick out is at night going to a night club/Halloween. I love it! On a normal day, I am usually dressed in all black or burgundy.

posted January 09, 2016 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
Its a shirt not lingerie.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I'm not into makeup but I like the idea of a dark purple lipstick/lipgloss. I'll probably buy something someday.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Just wear it, hun. This outfit makes you sooo happy, I can see how much you enjoy it. I like the red color, the free flowing sleeves, the front ties are sexy and cute, the waist tight fit. It's meant to be worn by someone who really enjoys it. Put it on and let the breeze play with it and your hair. Amen to that.

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posted January 09, 2016 06:28 PM            

I like corset tops. I have a cap venus too, and in the past I had reservations of wearing my corset tops in public - I lived in some places where troubles would definitely come my way if I went outside wearing corsets. Fortunately I moved haha.

Still, even now I go for the simpler styles for casual "everyday" wear, not the full on sexy, renaissance or steampunk ones. Lol pluto only makes a sextile to my venus, I suppose if I had a conjunction, I'd wear the sexy looking ones outside. I like them as much as I like my pjs.

posted January 09, 2016 06:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hmm:
MAC has amazing options

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Yes! My fave dark lipsticks from MAC are:
Diva & Sin

posted January 09, 2016 06:57 PM              

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Originally posted by Violets:
Okay, seriously. I have to assume now that you live in a remote village, because you are so far off, as far as how this type of look is perceived, that I must wonder if you were raised in some obscure place where people haven't had access to newer styles/trends for the past 30 years.

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Oh, psst. Its weird to me that you equate being fashion forward with sexuality.

posted January 09, 2016 07:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:
Oh, psst. Its weird to me that you equate being fashion forward with sexuality.

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It's weird to me that I can't think of one nice thing I've ever seen you say to anyone.

You're like 100% negative.

And here, you were insulting.

posted January 09, 2016 07:10 PM              

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Originally posted by Faith:
It's weird to me that I can't think of one nice thing I've ever seen you say to anyone.

You're like 100% negative.

And here, you were insulting.

P*sses me off because Ceri is approaching this with an attitude of fun and personal growth, and we all love Ceri, but your attitude sucks. As usual.

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posted January 09, 2016 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Spongebob:
Not gonna work, find someone else to be your daily punching bag.

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Take your own advice.

posted January 09, 2016 07:14 PM            

I love that outfit.

posted January 09, 2016 07:18 PM            

LOl even that moon cannot get me to wear something like this.

It's a beautiful dream. Ahhh...

posted January 09, 2016 07:19 PM              

Also, thank you for your opinion, Spongebob. I do not agree with it, but your vehement reaction showed me what I really think. It`S just a tunika. lol

But I also realizede that no insecurity, no fear, no prejudice (neither my own nor anyone else`s) should serve as justification to hide and cover myself up again, to prevent someone taking note of me.

(BTW many years ago I actually have been asked how much I charge - I was wearing jeans and a pullover at that time. ******** will be ******** , no matter how *I* dress).

I also realized through this thread, that I don`t really think this is an outfit that cannot be worn in public (I could definitely see others wear it and would just think it`s nice, maybe a little gothic), but that it is more that I thought that it is a little different from what I normally wear and hence would probably surprise some people to see me in it (which does not need to be a bad thing necessarily) and since this is the case I wasn`t sure it would even suit me.

The tunika itself I like of course. If not, I would not have bought it. lol

Still, there are probably better occasions to wear it and less good ones.

posted January 09, 2016 07:21 PM              

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You look nice Ceri! Have you lost more weight? You look a lot skinnier.

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posted January 09, 2016 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
muddy is that you???

I love that outfit.

I never would have worn it because I was born like 12 hours too early for a kicka$$ Aries moon.

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hahahaaa

posted January 09, 2016 07:25 PM              

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Thank you for your opinions, guys.
I am glad you think I can wear it, at least I donīt look completely impossible in it. lol

Also, thank you for your opinion, Spongebob. I do not agree with it, but your vehement reaction showed me what I really think. It`S just a tunika. lol

But I also realizede that no insecurity, no fear, no prejudice (neither my own nor anyone else`s) should serve as justification to hide and cover myself up again, to prevent someone taking note of me.

(BTW many years ago I actually have been asked how much I charge - I was wearing jeans and a pullover at that time. ******** will be ******** , no matter how *I* dress).

I also realized through this thread, that I don`t really think this is an outfit that cannot be worn in public (I could definitely see others wear it and would just think it`s nice, maybe a little gothic), but that it is more that I thought that it is a little different from what I normally wear and hence would probably surprise some people to see me in it (which does not need to be a bad thing necessarily) and since this is the case I wasn`t sure it would even suit me.

The tunika itself I like of course. If not, I would not have bought it. lol

Still, there are probably better occasions to wear it and less good ones.

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posted January 09, 2016 07:27 PM              

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Originally posted by Faith:
What I love about it is, it ties in with your appreciation for drama &theater, and it makes you more like the actor within the overriding, real drama that overlaps the show...and you are one of important characters, in that overriding reality. Does that make sense?

Plus it DOES look good on your figure, I like it.

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