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Topic: #2 version My husband is VERY ill in Intensive Care
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Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 02:42 PM
  
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Originally posted by quinnlycanastro:
I'm really sorry to hear you're still having such a tough time Lexx. Medication is something we take for granted in this country [uk]. It seems outrageous that in a wealthy place like the usa that you have people who can't get the medical help they need. It just seems so wrong.  I'd send you money but I have none ~ I hope you get a lucky break of some kind.
Thank you quinnlycanastro 
I do not expect or want any handouts from members here at LL.
There should be a way to handle all of this.
I am just so frazzled by his depression and ongoing suicidal thoughts/attempts;
and trying to care of him whilst I am a wreck,
(past year I have been mostly bed bound)
and I just cannot do it all and he cannot either.
He gets so depressed and then scary angry and says things like maybe we should just do each other in suicide because it is only going to get worse.
He also gets even more depressed because as bad as he is health wise;
On the average I am far far worse off than him.
His is more a matter of how to pay for his meds and doctors and all.
My issues are a nightmare for me and him.
Again money fraking money would definitely help to pay for meds, doctors, and amenities like a handicap tub for hot baths, and other helps.
Oh well..........
I guess I got to keep pushing onward, but I am running out of coping mechanisms and even though I do daily matras of positive thought and all;
the crap keeps slapping us down.
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Lexxigramer
Moderator Posts: 2216
From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by mirage29:
Lexxigramer! I don't want you to die! Please live!  I am sooo so sad about this! (And it makes me MAD as HELL at those politicians... ) Thanks, Dee, for giving that url! Please Lexxi.... just, please, miraculously HEAL, okay?? I would miss you horribly.... For me, you make Lindaland like a warm home... With you missing, it wouldn't be right...
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I am doing my best mirage29.
Thank you for caring.
We are sooooo lost here.
It would take beyond a miracle for me to heal dear lady.
It does not bode well. quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
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Want you to know that the astrological transits we had late last December are back... But transiting expansive Jupiter just entered your 6th House of Health & Habits. That "may" have the effect of helping to strengthen your body's health and vitality, and assists people in recovering from illnesses! Yes!! (But watch also for tendency to gain a lot of extra weight without realizing it; be conscious about possible overindulging...)
That is kind of good news.
The weight gain part is not....already lost some 145 pounds to date;
need to lose around 75 to 100 more.
Over indulge?
LOL....not on my income.....
unless its ramen noodle/rice gorging.....yippie.
Good veggies and greens are way too costly. quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
Saturn transiting in your Eleventh could help you locate and make connections with the resources you need...
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I sure hope so.
In my offline life........
So far today nada;
no one has called back, no one seems to know jack or want to help. quote:
Originally posted by mirage29:
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Much love, and {{{hugs}}},
mirage
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Lexxigramer
Moderator Posts: 2216
From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 03:13 PM
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Originally posted by Randall:
Just saw this. There has to be an answer. 
I agree.
But what?????????????????????????????  IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 06:41 PM
Hey Lexx  I know you don't want any handouts ~ but I still wish I was in a position to help. You've never come across as the kind of person who would ask for anything. I just wish that life would give you a break for a change ~ you seem to get an unfair amount of the crappy stuff to deal with IP: Logged |
Randall
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From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 27, 2013 09:08 PM
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Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 27, 2013 09:23 PM
quinnlycanastro{{{hugs}}}
Thank you.
I feel the same and wish
I could help folks here at LL.
If I ever become wealthy I most certainly will help folks here.
Of course I could not even if a millionaire;
help everyone;
but
I could help many folks for sure somehow. 
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Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
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posted March 27, 2013 09:24 PM
Randall thank you for your caring and kindness.
It does help me cope.{{{ }}}IP: Logged |
listenstotrees
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From: Rivendell
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 28, 2013 02:05 AM
I know what you are saying about Medicaid being unavailable for a year, and about people not calling you back. I saw my husband go through all these things when he was on the Western side of the globe. He didn't have anyone to help him apart from his friend who let him live at his and his sister who would sometimes help a little bit. It is very, very depressing and it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel at times.While all of us here would love to see miracles happen, there are also natural laws that surround us in this world. It would be wonderful if nobody had to ever get really sick and if no child had to ever be born disabled, etc etc. (I work with the disabled). Maybe one day we;ll be able to cure most illnesses with stem cell research, or find a way thousands of people focussing healing energy on someone could make a difference....etc. It would be so nice. In the meanwhile though, the only thing we can do for those who are suffering is just help in any little way we can and hope that one day we will see more sanity in the realm of politics. Lol! And to think of the trillions of dollars spent on war..... In the UK, politicians want to privatise the NHS and make it more like America here. There is talk of the closure of the A&E in this town whilst the population is booming. It is insanity. People are trying to protest against the privatisation of the NHS and groups are speading petitions over net. I don't know how it will end up in the long run. Lexx, I wish you would be willing to let others help you, but I respect your choice. IP: Logged |
Lexxigramer
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From: The Etheric Realms...Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat...& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion!
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 28, 2013 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by listenstotrees:
I know what you are saying about Medicaid being unavailable for a year, and about people not calling you back. I saw my husband go through all these things when he was on the Western side of the globe. He didn't have anyone to help him apart from his friend who let him live at his and his sister who would sometimes help a little bit. It is very, very depressing and it seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel at times.While all of us here would love to see miracles happen, there are also natural laws that surround us in this world. It would be wonderful if nobody had to ever get really sick and if no child had to ever be born disabled, etc etc. (I work with the disabled). Maybe one day we;ll be able to cure most illnesses with stem cell research, or find a way thousands of people focussing healing energy on someone could make a difference....etc. It would be so nice. In the meanwhile though, the only thing we can do for those who are suffering is just help in any little way we can and hope that one day we will see more sanity in the realm of politics. Lol! And to think of the trillions of dollars spent on war..... In the UK, politicians want to privatise the NHS and make it more like America here. There is talk of the closure of the A&E in this town whilst the population is booming. It is insanity. People are trying to protest against the privatisation of the NHS and groups are speading petitions over net. I don't know how it will end up in the long run. Lexx, I wish you would be willing to let others help you, but I respect your choice.
Thank you for your interesting and heartfelt reply.{{{{ }}}
Dear lady;
I know you want to help;
but it is not your place to sacrifice for me.
The system is insane and anger is more productive than despair.
We are finding ways.
The medical community has been near to worthless for us in our area.
Please see the latest update on this here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum25/HTML/004082.html IP: Logged |
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