posted March 04, 2013 09:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
freebrainstorms.... love your nickname btw *wink* *wink* *nudge* *nudge*.... so ummmm what's your sign?

jk jk

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LOL, oh baaaby!

What I was thinking about is the flirting that goes:

Person A: blah blah blah *heart*
Person B: :P
Person A: stop teasing me
Person B: make me
Person A: oh you're so funny :P

posted March 04, 2013 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by T:
(and besides LEXX, I don't remember who moderates that forum......i think I remember another, but I'm not sure)

I think he made a valid point and it wasnt meant to be a jab at anyone.

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Sweet Peas In The Rain
(moderated by Lexxigramer, Ami Anne, charmainec, Venus)

I have of late been taking most of my issues with people breaking the rules;
to Randall because Ami has made me feel I do not dare censure/chastise because sometimes when I have;
Ami has become quite defensive of the trouble maker(s);
and tried to paint me out as attacking people instead of enforcing the rules.
Randall had to intervene in 2011 when she coddled a rule breaker I had chastised.
I tried to negotiate a truce with Ami, but she refused and has yet to accept a truce since the worse (of several since she joined)attacks on me in 2011.
She was closing my threads back then and Randall intervened.
It is very difficult when a mod defends the rule breakers whom she likes.
Not trying to stir up trouble;
but mods must all be willing to get along and not condone bad behaviour just because someone is their buddy.
(in fact some people have left LL because I was a big meany enforcing the rules; and some claimed to be my friends until I chastised them as a moderator, then they labeled me as enemy, for choosing LL over them. )
Cannot please everyone when you are here to enforce the rules.
Thankfully Randall
and others like these moderators at that time agreed with me that the rule breaker was way OTT:
juniperb, NickiG, sunshine9,
And also a Knowflake agreed with my assessment of the situation.
mochai.

On that note mods need to get along with each other under the mutual positions of being moderators.
We do not all have to like each other.
I again ask for Ami to treat me like a fellow moderator and not her arch enemy.
Truce for the sake of LL Ami?

posted March 04, 2013 09:24 PM            

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posted March 04, 2013 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Of course, LEXX.

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You do mean the long awaited for truce betwixt us I assume?

Edited to add:
Ami it has been almost 3 hours since the above post.
You either agree to a truce or you do not.
I have repeatedly for years asked for a truce with you for the sake of LL.
You have repeatedly refused.
Please state your intentions clearly.

posted March 04, 2013 11:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
I saw your comments, Xiiro. You speak from experience, and it was very much taken to heart.

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Thanks Randall, I can see how my "over it" comment could be seen as a rage quit. It dawned on me after I wrote my last response, this is not something horribly important to me. LL is your baby to nourish and I understand you are completely capable of maintaining it any way you feel is most appropriate.

As a person who had no difficulty abiding by the rules, I am personally disappointed to see Sweet Peas go. I see the benefit of having a space where members can let their hair down and put their feet up on the furniture (within reason). I understand that when people start thinking it's okay to crap on the couch and make out on the floor, one starts to wonder why they created the space to begin with.

If anything, I take issue with the comments from people who have never been interested in participating in the Sweet Peas part of our community. People who post jaw-dropping and offensive content elsewhere and then come here to champion the castration of SP. It is a struggle seeing people who rarely participated in SP with their torches and pitchforks high in the air.

posted March 05, 2013 12:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
The Mod Forum hurt morale, because Knowflakes thought we were talking about them. And when we actually were talking about someone (we had to discuss what was going on in order to resolve things), the Forum was hacked. We do have a Mod group on Facebook and use it very little.

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That's really messed up. I guess that comes from being such a popular board, you get a lot more kooks. We didn't have that problem on the boards I was on (1 or 2, but they were paranoid about everyone else as well).