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Topic: Men who ACT like Women
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Faith
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posted October 12, 2013 05:51 PM
  
No aquaguy, I was just making a comment, and I am not the spokesperson for ALL women whenever I open my mouth.See how that works? I am a person, an individual. Women can be individuals.  Many guys are hands-on and practical, true. And those who are certainly have their female admirers. Your blind spot is just being blind again. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted October 12, 2013 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
See how that works? I am a person, an individual. Women can be individuals
See how that works? 
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9771
From: tennessee
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posted October 12, 2013 06:57 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
No aquaguy, [b]I was just making a comment, and I am not the spokesperson for ALL women whenever I open my mouth.See how that works? I am a person, an individual. Women can be individuals.
Many guys are hands-on and practical, true. And those who are certainly have their female admirers. Your blind spot is just being blind again. [/B]
When a guy like me points out the obvious, suddenly "men and women are individuals". The fact of the
matter is a lot of women would rather
have a pretty boy than a man of
substance. That's what's so funny to me about this whole topic. Most women are attracted to pretty boys with feminine features yet ya'll are suprised when they act like women.
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libraschoice77
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From: A Danielle Steele Novel
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posted October 12, 2013 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Women are always saying junk like that though. But when a guy like me points out the obvious, suddenly "men and
women are individuals". The fact of the
matter is a lot of women would rather
have a pretty boy than a man of
substance.
That use to be true for me when I was younger, but now I do have a man with plenty of substance and heart. I do think age does plays a factor in prizing looks, both men and women do alot in their youth. As you get older though you just want someone who understands you and wont play bulls**t games.
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aquaguy91
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posted October 12, 2013 07:07 PM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
That use to be true for me when I was younger, but now I do have a man with plenty of substance and heart. I do think age does plays a factor in prizing looks, both men and women do alot in their youth. As you get older though you just want someone who understands you and wont play bulls**t games.
IDK anymore. I see way too many 20 and 30 something single mothers who are only concerned with a guys looks. Things like "is he good with kids?" or " is he a good provider?" are way down the list. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 12, 2013 07:15 PM
Most women are attracted to pretty boys with feminine features yet ya'll are suprised when they act like women.
I would not want to date a guy who is prettier than I am  ------------------
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Odette
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posted October 12, 2013 07:16 PM
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Most women are attracted to pretty boys with feminine features
What do you smoke? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 12, 2013 07:17 PM
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I see way too many 20 and 30 something single mothers who are only concerned with a guys looks.
Well they're uninformed. Go to University and meet intelligent, well-informed ones. All the way through to a PhD! First yr Uni students might still be uninformed/brainwashed types.... but a lot of them will drop out... as time goes on, so you have to wait it out. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
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posted October 12, 2013 07:19 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b] Most women are attracted to pretty boys with feminine features yet ya'll are suprised when they act like women.
I would not want to date a guy who is prettier than I am [/B]
Well that's not a suprise, your generation of women appreciated masculinity. Most women of my generation do not. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 12, 2013 07:21 PM
Don't become a trucker - because you will not meet any women who are at your standard intellectually - judging by your general posts and complaints on LL. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 07:22 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
What do you smoke?
I smoke a thing called realityIP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 12, 2013 07:23 PM
Yes, I am not attracted to male model types. That pretty kind of look turns me off, big time.
When I see men in magazines, most of the time they are too girl looking in my opinion.------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted October 12, 2013 07:24 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Don't become a trucker - because you will not meet any women who are at your standard intellectually - judging by your general posts and complaints on LL.
I'm not going to do it to meet women.I'm gonna do it to make money and travel.IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1739
From: A Danielle Steele Novel
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted October 12, 2013 07:26 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Yes, I am not attracted to male model types. That pretty kind of look turns me off, big time.
When I see men in magazines, most of the time they are too girl looking in my opinion.
Same here, I like a manly man  IP: Logged |
libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1739
From: A Danielle Steele Novel
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posted October 12, 2013 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
IDK anymore. I see way too many 20 and 30 something single mothers who are only concerned with a guys looks. Things like "is he good with kids?" or " is he a good provider?" are way down the list.
You must be looking in the wrong places then, you seriously need to branch out, or like Odette said go to college and find a girl there that values intellect. Someone more sophisticated.
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Odette
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posted October 12, 2013 07:32 PM
Well Aqua - so much of your depression and anger and negativity in life centres around - not meeting your kinds of women..By becoming a trucker... I mean what kinds of people do you think you will meet? Because they will not be intellectual types.. They will not be critical or analytical people who debate/criticise popular trends and sociological developments - or who investigate the ins and outs of human psychology (including female psychology)... or who step outside the typical gender roles.. They will be the run-of-the-mil.. average Joe..and average Jane.. who will reinforce all this crap that you don't like in female and male behaviour. Because this is what the average Joe and the average Jane do best ... Watch media and play out the stereotypes... since they were never taught to think critically. I mean you can do it to save up money - and to travel.. if you just want to see new places - or if you want to gather the money to *move* to a new place.. (which would be great, specially if it was a less traditional place!)...
But please don't get stuck in being a trucker... because you will just get depressed. Aquarians need to think, not just *do*... not just *drive*...
And you also have a Gemini Mars.. so you need to read, write, think about what you have read and written, analyse, research and write some more!
This is something that can bring joy to your heart and make you feel accomplished.
Doing something completely practical (like driving around)- that does not require much brain-power... is not for you in my opinion. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 12, 2013 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
When a guy like me points out the obvious, suddenly "men and women are individuals".
Hold it right there. No. When a guy like you says, "Women are of this opinion" after ONE woman (me, in this case) gave her opinion, then a lesson is in order (again) that woman does not equal women. K? You got that this time? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 12, 2013 07:34 PM
And YTA kept encouraging you to be a trucker rather than go to Uni... but I wonder how he would feel if one of his sons went on to become a trucker and chose not to attend University at all.... IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted October 12, 2013 07:38 PM
It would seem to me that the guy a woman likes and seeks shifts with her tastes according to her age. The guy she likes as a teen would be different from her 20s, 30s, etc. The things she likes to do with the guy she likes changes too. The woman I like doesn't change with my age, neither would what i want to do with the woman I like, whether 8, 38 or 78. Lol. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 12, 2013 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I smoke a thing called reality
I think it's hilarious...you're not a woman and you barely even listen to what are trying to convey to you, you just warp everything we say to conform to your preconceived notions...then you proclaim that you know everything about how we think! Why's that? Ohhhhh cuz you're a man? And men are just smarter? Women can't understand ourselves, we need geniuses like you to interpret our thinking for us?  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9771
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 07:44 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
I think it's a hilarious...you're not a woman and you barely even listen to what are trying to convey to you, you just warp everything we say to conform to your preconceived notions...then you proclaim that you know everything about how we think!Why's that? Ohhhhh cuz you're a man? And men are just smarter? Women can't understand ourselves, we need geniuses like you to interpret our thinking for us?
No, I just watch peoples actions. Talk is cheap and people lie and tell you what you want to hear.
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libraschoice77
Knowflake Posts: 1739
From: A Danielle Steele Novel
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posted October 12, 2013 07:49 PM
What exactly do you seek from a woman Aquaguy91? We all know you want to find someone to love, but what certain qualities do you want her to have?IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9771
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
What exactly do you seek from a woman Aquaguy91?
A woman who is not crazy lol. A woman who is honest and can handle honesty. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 7852
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posted October 12, 2013 07:53 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
No, I just watch peoples actions. Talk is cheap and people lie and tell you what you want to hear.
You often say, "Women say this" and "women say that," so this comment is out of left field. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 9771
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2013 07:55 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
You often say, "Women say this" and "women say that," so this comment is out of left field.
Exactly. Most of the times I'm giving an example of how they say one thing and do the exact opposite. Words don't mean a lot anymore, you can't expect people to be honest. IP: Logged |
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