posted October 06, 2013 03:27 AM            

It's as if no one has taught them how to be men or even male

Backbiting, lack of toughness or even honest Chivalry, hold grudges.

It was once said "never trust anyone over 30"

posted October 06, 2013 04:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
This reminds of a 16 yr old who posted on FB:

"That moment when you realise the guy who has a crush on you is more of a girl than you are"

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posted October 06, 2013 04:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

In a way, I pity y'all women, "modern" guys are pretty much choc a block full of bitchassness.

It's as if no one has taught them how to be men or even male

Backbiting, lack of toughness or even honest Chivalry, hold grudges.

It was once said "never trust anyone over 30"

Now it's if they are under 30, they more than likely soft

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posted October 06, 2013 05:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Lexxigramer:
Much of what is male is social stereotyping and varies in time and place.
I see nothing wrong with "soft" men.
As to bitchiness and men acting like women;
grudges etc.;
well again;
what does being a woman entail?
I think all these issues are basically any gender and it's society and or the times or just plain how "people" of any gender can be or not.
I freaking hate stereotyping of gender and gender roles and gender inflexibility,
ie; only allowed/accepted to be gentle women, or tough guys,
and no gentle guys and tough women.
Ugh.

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Its a little common knowledge that women do hold grudges more than men because they are more sensitive beings.

I dont mind men who are emotional, loving, sensitive, YET strong, masculine, and brave

posted October 06, 2013 06:43 AM            

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Lexxigramer: Much of what is male is social stereotyping and varies in time and place.
I see nothing wrong with "soft" men.
As to bitchiness and men acting like women;
grudges etc.;
well again;
what does being a woman entail?
I think all these issues are basically any gender and it's society and or the times or just plain how "people" of any gender can be or not.
I freaking hate stereotyping of gender and gender roles and gender inflexibility,
ie; only allowed/accepted to be gentle women, or tough guys,
and no gentle guys and tough women.
Ugh.

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Everything.

posted October 06, 2013 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
In my experience, women tend to hold grudges, they fight, and they won't get over it in months or even years.
Men, they fight, they forgive each other the next day or week or so.

However, I know a few men that act like "women" in that they hold grudges, make snide remarks and talk about someone in their back because of some minor fall out they had months ago.
Anyone experience this?

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I just had this with someone.You know who I mean. I did not expect it but you live and you learn

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posted October 06, 2013 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Sure. And plenty of women who don't hold grudges, too.

There's always an exception to the rule if you look hard enough (including exceptions to "always an exception" ).

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posted October 06, 2013 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:

In a way, I pity y'all women, "modern" guys are pretty much choc a block full of bitchassness.

It's as if no one has taught them how to be men or even male

Backbiting, lack of toughness or even honest Chivalry, hold grudges.

It was once said "never trust anyone over 30"

Now it's if they are under 30, they more than likely soft

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Many of them are indeed very SOFT. Totally full of Bitchassness! And by soft, I don't mean you need to be a jackass! Many of the softest men are the ones who put on the *OVERLY AGGRESSIVE* front who are usually the ones who have a lot of mouth on them but cannot FIGHT for shyt!

A man (or woman) who whines or complains 24/7 needs to be buried alive. Under cement LOL. A man who can't ever handle TAKING THE LEAD and who constantly relies on women to make moves first is repulsive to me -- THAT is soft.

I'm not completely traditional OR progressive. There are positives and negatives to both "eras".

For instance: I'll go out on dates with a guy to do FREE things sometimes, like strolling in the park together...just talking & enjoying each other's presence! However, under no circumstances will *I* be paying a MAN'S way to *anything* on the dates that are NOT free. You don't court a woman and ask HER to pay - totally absurd. I don't subscribe to that way of thinking and never will! Now once in a relationship, I'll treat him on occasion.

Another example: Is it weak for men to cry?

IMO - nope. And someone doesn't have to be dead for him to do it!! It's not good to hold everything in, so I'm a big fan of men TALKING out their emotions. Let your Lady in on your thoughts, fears, joys! You don't necessarily have to cry -- just be sure not to BOTTLE your feelings up all the time. However...don't begin crying over every little thing & start PMS-ing because that is TOTAL bitchassness right there!

I do not support a "gender-less" society. Where EVERY single thing has to go in the opposite freaking direction. There are some things of *OLD* that needed to change and evolve - I support those changes. But there are also some things of *NEW* that are tacky, tasteless & silly and of no help to relations between men & women AT ALL. Laziness on the part of MEN...and brashness on the part of WOMEN.

Alright. Rant done.

posted October 06, 2013 01:18 PM            

That's the point of a genderless society though. To get rid of what belong where with whom entirely, and just allow people to be..

posted October 06, 2013 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Many of them are indeed very SOFT. Totally full of Bitchassness! And by soft, I don't mean you need to be a jackass! Many of the softest men are the ones who put on the *OVERLY AGGRESSIVE* front who are usually the ones who have a lot of mouth on them but cannot FIGHT for shyt!

A man (or woman) who whines or complains 24/7 needs to be buried alive. Under cement LOL. A man who can't ever handle TAKING THE LEAD and who constantly relies on women to make moves first is repulsive to me -- THAT is soft.

I'm not completely traditional OR progressive. There are positives and negatives to both "eras".

For instance: I'll go out on dates with a guy to do FREE things sometimes, like strolling in the park together...just talking & enjoying each other's presence! However, under no circumstances will *I* be paying a MAN'S way to *anything* on the dates that are NOT free. You don't court a woman and ask HER to pay - totally absurd. I don't subscribe to that way of thinking and never will! Now once in a relationship, I'll treat him on occasion.

Another example: Is it weak for men to cry?

IMO - nope. And someone doesn't have to be dead for him to do it!! It's not good to hold everything in, so I'm a big fan of men TALKING out their emotions. Let your Lady in on your thoughts, fears, joys! You don't necessarily have to cry -- just be sure not to BOTTLE your feelings up all the time. However...don't begin crying over every little thing & start PMS-ing because that is TOTAL bitchassness right there!

I do not support a "gender-less" society. Where EVERY single thing has to go in the opposite freaking direction. There are some things of *OLD* that needed to change and evolve - I support those changes. But there are also some things of *NEW* that are tacky, tasteless & silly and of no help to relations between men & women AT ALL. Laziness on the part of MEN...and brashness on the part of WOMEN.

Alright. Rant done.

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posted October 06, 2013 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
"I do not support a "gender-less" society. Where EVERY single thing has to go in the opposite freaking direction. There are some things of *OLD* that needed to change and evolve - I support those changes. But there are also some things of *NEW* that are tacky, tasteless & silly and of no help to relations between men & women AT ALL. Laziness on the part of MEN...and brashness on the part of WOMEN."

That's the point of a genderless society though. To get rid of what belong where with whom entirely, and just allow people to [b]be..

"...Laziness in the part of MEN," etc. Does that mean you don't mind laziness on women's parts?[/B]

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A gender-less society insinuates that there are *no roles* to be played. EVER. Under no circumstances.

I do not agree with that.

posted October 06, 2013 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Understand what you mean, I experienced opposite.gender roles with my Scorpio ex. He basically wanted me to make all the decisions in our relationship, he acted like was the woman lol. After awhile I got acclaimated to taking on the ”masculine” role. But eventually got sick of his lack of intiative, it got old quick an decided I did want to be with someone that behaved as a man and took responsiblity.

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And THAT is the "ah hah" moment here.

Women CAN play the Lead or the "masculine" role. But they do not WANT to! And they should not HAVE to! But a society full of lazy men is what you end up with when women don't *REQUIRE* a man to play his role or pay his dues BEFORE she decides to give her *all* to him.

Thank you for your reply.

posted October 06, 2013 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Being two faced and catty is an undesirable trait, period.

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posted October 06, 2013 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
And THAT is the "ah hah" moment here.

Women CAN play the Lead or the "masculine" role. But they do not WANT to! And they should not HAVE to! But a society full of lazy men is what you end up with when women don't *REQUIRE* a man to play his role or pay his dues BEFORE she decides to give her *all* to him.

Thank you for your reply.

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I dont understand.

Isnt there diversity? Different types lf men? If you dont like a specific type of male why do you think they should change for you? Maybe you just need to find the person who fits you instead of playing "role playing games" ? No?

In my opinion its not in a mans place to run after a woman, or pay for her. I think the extreme "role giving" is useless, one always chases, always pays, so dont you end up the lazy person? Do it 50-50 to keep it balanced instead of becoming a passive person looking for someone to do everything for you, or an exhausted person taking care of a slob who does or initiates nothing.

posted October 06, 2013 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Everything.

Age of Aquarius, any day now, remove these old, hindering mindsets...my Aquarius Moon is waiting. What is "masculine" or "feminine"...as if gender is a binary. Ugh.

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