posted December 28, 2014 04:47 PM            

WHY does it not concern her?

This one line shows why this Forum does not work.

It is about PERSONALITIES and nor IDEAS.

Every other Forum is about ideas and hence has an ideological structure. This is just Bad Mouth 101 lol

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posted December 28, 2014 04:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]Stay out of it, please. It does not concern you.

WHY does it not concern her? This one line shows why this Forum does not work.

It is about PERSONALITIES and nor IDEAS.

Every other Forum is about ideas and hence has an ideological structure. This is just Bad Mouth 101 lol

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posted December 28, 2014 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Because I can say what I want. Being respectful does not work with a breed of people like yourself, as I have been perpetually reminded throughout this thread. She doesn't know the root of my problem with you and she doesn't know a thing about me. And I don't need her to get in the way because I don't want to turn on her for some petty and ignorant reason.

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I don't have a problem with you unless I SEE you being rude to someone and it is not me, usually. Then, I do speak up.

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posted December 28, 2014 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
You are very deserving, juni!

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Sometimes I don`t know when to shut my mouth and this may be the time. Reading Lindaland reps taking swipes at members is very trying and I`m going to go find some duct tape.

posted December 28, 2014 04:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
I don't have a problem with you unless I SEE you being rude to someone and it is not me, usually. Then, I do speak up.

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posted December 28, 2014 04:56 PM              

I'm a real person. Let's take it to the grave, if we have to. But I'm done setting things aside to be cordial with you. You haven't labelled and addressed anyone here with the same hostility and rudeness as you have with me, and I was the one reasoning most with Randall to fix the problems here.

posted December 28, 2014 04:57 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Here's my take....
Everyone needs to commit to ending this cycle of negativity and drama. I have seen almost everyone in this thread instigating and starting problems in the past. Like just last night I was in T's thread and I thought we were having a good time and she just snapped at me and got hateful out of nowhere and the thread ended up getting closed yet she wants to act as if she is innocent. I'm not just calling her out, I have seen all involved playing the victim when you all have contributed to the drama. EVERYONE involved needs to accept responsibility or this sh*t will never end. All of you are partly responsible for this mess. All of You

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AG, you have made that same remark to me before and I took it as you taking a jab at me. How is that not clear? I spoke up for myself because I'm tired of people doing that here. I'm not acting as if I'm innocent!! I was simply telling you to please not take jabs at me if that was what you were doing. I found it unusual for you to say that twice to me or right after something I said. How about you don't try and act innocent. Geez!!!!!

posted December 28, 2014 05:00 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
T,
I was just being goofy and silly. I thought that was pretty obvious. You just get trigger happy like a Vietnam vet with PTSD

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posted December 28, 2014 05:01 PM              

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Originally posted by juniperb:
Sometimes I don`t know when to shut my mouth and this may be the time. Reading Lindaland reps taking swipes at members is very trying and I`m going to go find some duct tape.

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posted December 28, 2014 05:01 PM            

I have NO relationship, so please do not assume otherwise. If I see you being rude to people, I speak up. That is the extent of my relationship with you and conversing on Astrology threads. Please, do not intimate otherwise. Thanks!

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posted December 28, 2014 05:03 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I laughed it off because I was not going to get sucked into drama. I've gotten to a point where I'm done with that crap and I want happy vibes.

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So do i and that's why it was annoying, because to me it seemed like you were being a jerk again. If you truly weren't then Sorry, my mistake.

posted December 28, 2014 05:36 PM            

If someone hates someone, there is NO end to the discussion of it. Some others agree. Some others disagree but there can really be no resolution on an emotion.

If someone thinks one Mod sucks, another person likes that Mod, so that starts a discussion that cannot be resolved because it is based on an emotion.

Hence, this has become the default nature of this Forum imo and why it feels so unpleasant in here lol

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posted December 28, 2014 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by juniperb:
Sure, lets blame the forum. Damn thing has a devil in it and turns people crazy.

Cheap and easy way out.

Thanks PD for the compliment.

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posted December 28, 2014 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
This is my final point( blame my verbose Gemini)

If someone hates someone, there is NO end to the discussion of it. Some others agree. Some others disagree but there can really be no resolution on an emotion.

If someone thinks one Mod sucks, another person likes that Mod, so that starts a discussion that cannot be resolved because it is based on an emotion.

Hence, this has become the default nature of this Forum imo and why it feels so unpleasant in here lol

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No. Not even close. When you jump in threads and instigate, that is where people get upset. It has nothing to do with haters or disliking people, but the behavior people engage in intentionally to rile up and hurt others.

Why do you think I trolled you in the first place? You made many instigative comments towards people in the thread. It doesn't feel good to have a taste of your own medicine, does it?

I would like to have a civil discussion with you. Either on a new thread or email, your choice. I specifically asked you not to talk to me, but since you broke that, I have no choice but to address you.

posted December 28, 2014 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Here's my take....
Everyone needs to commit to ending this cycle of negativity and drama. I have seen almost everyone in this thread instigating and starting problems in the past. Like just last night I was in T's thread and I thought we were having a good time and she just snapped at me and got hateful out of nowhere and the thread ended up getting closed yet she wants to act as if she is innocent. I'm not just calling her out, I have seen all involved playing the victim when you all have contributed to the drama. EVERYONE involved needs to accept responsibility or this sh*t will never end. All of you are partly responsible for this mess. All of You

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That. Sometimes I think this forum has become a battlefield over whose hypocrisy gets to reign supreme will be forever going on, saying they want to talk about it but then just lash out, and then say drop it but refusing to drop it (passive aggressive but if that doesn't provoke drama then getting more direct) and acting all innocent when called on it. I know I'm not the only one who think this forum has gone insane and who thinks any sort of rational discussion is impossible with those heavily involved.

After this post I'll be back in February to see if sanity has returned or if it's still the "**** you" forum. If this forum remains poison I'll probably choose LL2 for threads I normally post here since this isn't the H&H thread in actuality anymore.

posted December 28, 2014 06:23 PM              

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Hearth and home (new description)...

"Sit around the battle ground, wrestle on the floor near the hot and searing fires with a battleaxe like Linda used to do, or just swing your sword on the front line...and have a casual fight of complete bloodshed with your Lindaland non-family and close enemies; this is a Forum about destroying."

Sorry couldn't resist.

Think I'll stay at the pub.

On a more constructive note, maybe create a separate section just for fighting, I'm sure people will soon get bored with it.

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OMG IM ACTUALLY CRYING.

posted December 28, 2014 06:27 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
That. Sometimes I think this forum has become a battlefield over whose hypocrisy gets to reign supreme will be forever going on, saying they want to talk about it but then just lash out, and then say drop it but refusing to drop it (passive aggressive but if that doesn't provoke drama then getting more direct) and acting all innocent when called on it. I know I'm not the only one who think this forum has gone insane and who thinks any sort of rational discussion is impossible with those heavily involved.

After this post I'll be back in February to see if sanity has returned or if it's still the "**** you" forum. If this forum remains poison I'll probably choose LL2 for threads I normally post here since this isn't the H&H thread in actuality anymore.

And AG, I saw that you were just being silly. Didn't think it was funny but I know you meant well.

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Well, now you see why moving to a new forum isn't a good idea. It doesn't matter if it's started with no ill intentions.