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posted October 24, 2012 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yep, that voice is always there.

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posted October 24, 2012 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, and dealing with that voice can be rough!
I had an experience last Thurs. that showed me how totally wrong that voice has been lately.
Thank God for that!

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
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posted October 25, 2012 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stilling that voice is what meditation is for.

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posted October 26, 2012 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not easy to quiet that inner dialogue.

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posted October 26, 2012 09:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's for sure!
I'm back to doing breathwork on myself, which seems to be helping some. And daily prayer.
It's the new layers that come up that get me.
I think something is cleared, and THAT LAYER of it probably is. lol
I've tried EVERYTHING, lol, ugh!

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted October 27, 2012 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When there is negative dialogue, you become more aware of it when saying CANCEL CANCEL.

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posted October 28, 2012 03:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you suggesting to say "Cancel," or that saying it only makes the negative mind more obvious?

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted October 28, 2012 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When focusing on saying it, you get to notice how often you are negative.

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posted October 28, 2012 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, thereby establishing more "distance" between you and the ego-mind by becoming more aware of it. (Like the Eckhart Tolle stuff.)
Thanks for the tip!

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted October 29, 2012 12:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Once you become conscious of what you say, you realize how often you are negative, especially with deathist talk.

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posted October 30, 2012 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I banned all words like "Killer!" from my vocab years ago.
I say "Amazing!" or something like that, instead.
(Slang can be very deathist!)

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted October 31, 2012 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Indeed!

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posted November 01, 2012 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And the common, "My head is killing me."

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posted November 04, 2012 10:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And the ever popular, "I'll just die."

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posted November 05, 2012 04:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, people do NOT realize how words shape Universal Substance, including the body!
I started saying, "I'm LIVIN' to..." a long time ago.

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted November 15, 2012 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MAKLHOUF     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I stopped posting here because I could not see why it had turned into a thread about marriage. However, you should be aware that
1: there is no guarantee that you will remain married to this person you have in mind.
2: there is no guarantee that they will always hold the same beliefs.

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And I will give you the treasures of darkness, and hidden riches of secret places
Isaiah 45:3

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posted November 16, 2012 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DiamondGoddess!     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've already disagreed above.
LOLs!!!

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Big girls need big diamonds--Elizabeth Taylor
I have no sympathy for those afraid of mystery--2pac Shakur, "How Do U Want It"
I never worry about diets. The only carrots that interest me are the number you get in a diamond--Mae West
Diamonds are a girl's best friend--Marilyn Monroe

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posted November 17, 2012 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MAKLHOUF     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, let's open it out again, so that other people can talk about other kinds of relationship, if they wish.

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posted December 05, 2012 01:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"Fall down 100 times, get up 101...this is success." --ME

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posted January 23, 2013 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Isn't marriage a mortal invention?

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posted January 24, 2013 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And also divorce!

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posted January 26, 2013 08:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MAKLHOUF     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Absolutely. Marriage is one of the many ways mortals have of handling death.

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posted January 27, 2013 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How so?

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posted January 28, 2013 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MAKLHOUF     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Actually I can't answer your question as Marriage is one those meaningless words that means something different to everybody.

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posted January 29, 2013 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha!

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