posted November 25, 2008 06:39 AM              

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My Aquarius man was with me for twelve years and told me by publishing a poem in our college school news paper that we would be together for ever. Over twelve years he told me thousands of times how much he loved me and how we would always be together forever.
Then he went out of state to Graduate School an abruptly married a woman he had known for about a year.
That is how they are.

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posted November 25, 2008 11:50 AM              

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Hippi Chick, I just read your last post and it really touched me. Even though the romance between my auqu and i is over hes not completely gone. Part of what we shared will always huant him and he will always huant me. Im a libra sun and a virgo moon and still his lack of emotional expression hurt me very deeply though i can admit that i am not very emotional. He needed space and i needed time. I think he was afraid that i would take up all the space in his world when i only wanted to be apart of his world.

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posted December 05, 2008 03:24 PM              

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I've managed to meet an Aquarian sun/moon/mercury whom CAN express and WANTS love...

is this normal or is he just evolved!

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posted December 29, 2008 01:03 PM              

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omg

I've just been hit by the Aquarian disappearing act stick!
Had contact every day since beginning of November... until Xmas Eve.
Then boom! Nothing on xmas day... and nothing since then
LOL

I guess Aquarians have mighty big caves in some far flung galaxy

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posted December 30, 2008 01:13 AM            

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yea what's up with that? being in contact every single day, everything seems to be going nice and smoothly in a good direction, and then suddenly the Aqua needs space? Don't worry though, he'll be back. It's some sort of orbit around you he needs to do once in a while, I guess they have their own little solar system going on

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posted December 30, 2008 11:14 PM              

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LOL false alarm!

He is ill in bed lmao... he hasn't run off to another galaxy

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posted December 31, 2008 04:10 AM            

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It's some sort of orbit around you he needs to do once in a while, I guess they have their own little solar system going on

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LOL, that's funny

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posted December 31, 2008 01:19 PM              

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posted January 25, 2009 08:16 PM              

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as an aqua women i even stay away from the aqua man...i had one who disapperead quite often of course i am blessed not to notice all the time. we are strange beings, but we do love deeply, we are scared b/c someone wounded us. we avoid pain like the plauge. of course i seem to have problems ith geminis....they kill me talk about having no idea...then i love my passionate scorpios but tire of their intensity, but they do hold my attention a bit longer than most. you have to remember we build up our dream lover, and you have to supply some quality of that dream lover....look hard. i have been on and off again with the libra dream lover for 10 years, he's just now come around. but i don't look far in our love i just let it happen....soon i am sure he will disappoint me and be gone again...see we do feel, just rarely share the hurt....good luck with your aqua loves

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posted January 28, 2009 04:59 PM              

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For most of my dating years, I have ended up dating Aquarius moons or venuses (not by choice, I found out after). All those relationships went the same way: we'd be enthralled with one another, everything would go perfectly and then one day, everything would switch off and when I could finally get a hold of them, they would speak to me as if I were insane for expecting to spend time with them...then I'd get the speech about getting a life, blah blah.

Over time, I got rather scarred by this, and once wrote to a well-known astrologer seeking help. She told me that I go after these types, that I attract them and that there is a simple fact about people with strong Aquarius energy: they will leave; it's just a matter of time.

1. I don't actually believe I go after these men on purpose. For one, I choose among men who come after me, not the other way, and second, I'm not attracted to 'space'.

2. I had to admit something to myself recently: that I attract them likely because I have uranus in 1st, and act very Aquarian in many aspects of my life, but not relationships. Poor fools probably feel tricked by the vast difference between how I treat my friends and lovers.

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posted January 28, 2009 05:46 PM            

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I grew up with an Aqua Sun/Merc dad and an Aqua Moon/Venus brother and the only Aqua in me is my Mars. My first boyfriend had Aqua Venus and my closest male friend currently has that too.

For almost 10 years I tried to control (yes, that came to be the theme in our relationship) an Aqua Venus/Merc (Libra Moon, Gem Mars, Pisces Sun). Yes I was waaaaay too young, dependent and insecure so when he needed his space I tried to hold on even harder. Of course that never worked. My control issues escalated into a destructive jealousy that I never want to experience again.

With that being said, I try to see every new "elusive" encounter in my life as a part of my own evolvement into independency. I need to learn to let go. I need to take a chill-pill and have faith/trust in others - as well as in myself. I think they keep coming into my life as tests... for me to find my own inner strength and to get rid of that very un-attractive obsessive control-freakish streak in me. And they keep coming, lol! "WHEN WILL I LEARN?!" she shouts desperately

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posted January 28, 2009 05:52 PM            

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WaterDog, I find that they can come after you quite strongly - at first! And when they got you exactly where they want you - when you've taken the bait - that's when they may turn cold... it's like "oh I got the cool toy I wanted - now what do I do with it?" it's very generalizing of course, and we all act that way sometimes I think.. When we got what we want, the fun hunt is over...

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posted January 28, 2009 06:02 PM            

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yes it is.

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posted January 28, 2009 06:16 PM            

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uh that just sounds depressing

to light it all up: my parents have been married for more than 30 years now and it's so funny how mum (Taurus) loves being at home making it all cozy and nice there, while dad (Aqua) is doing his thing here and there - only to come home in the end of the day and join mum for a nice dinner and some TV+couch-time. They've actually started to take friday bath's together with wine and lots of bubbles... how cute is that?!! I think they both have Pisces Venuses... hmmmm

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posted January 28, 2009 06:44 PM              

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Nyah, thank you for explaining it for me. I got that impression. I only wish people walked around with their natal charts tattooed on their foreheads. Would save me some grief.

About control...it's not bad. If no one had any control in this world, nothing organized would ever happen. As 'uncool' as it is, we need control in our lives. It's sort of popular right now to try to be more uranian in thought, but I think it's disrespectful to so many different types of people. If you like to control, CONTROL, gosh darnit! Just be with someone who embraces it better than those who coined the term 'free bird'. Embrace yourself, don't condemn the unpopular aspects.

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posted January 29, 2009 12:59 PM            

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WaterDog, I agree with you to some extent, but I don't want to - and I can't either - control other people. I can only control myself, that is what I need to realize. And of course get my strength up so I can feel comfortable about when people don't act like I'd want them to (they often do ) - I will survive. I want to really feel that nice calmness that comes with thinking "if he leaves me and I get hurt, so what. I will get over it eventually."

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posted January 29, 2009 03:37 PM            

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"if he leaves me and I get hurt, so what. I will get over it eventually."

Excellent, Nyah. Live and let live. Your destiny is not tied to anyone who left.

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