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hippichick
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posted April 13, 2008 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
indy are you male or female???

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female aqua

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posted April 14, 2008 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
indyBee,

what are your other planetary placements? ascendant, moon, venus, mars?

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posted April 14, 2008 09:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi hi

here are my planetary placements

sun/aquarius moon/libra asc/leo venus/cap mars/aquarius neptune/sag jupiter/leo lilith/leo asc node/virgo

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posted April 14, 2008 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for annaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks indy,

and your saturn? considering that it is the ruler of your venus, proably also very important?

Hmmm, my gut feeling is that the ignoring might be linked to your venus in capricorn. I have that placement and so do many of my friends...we instinctively tend to ignore those that we are attracted...an inbuildt mechanism :-)

I guess with your placements your sun and mars fall in your 7th house, your moon in your 3rd? With those house placement it really is quite interesting and somewhat surprising though that you're not more direct in your interest.

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posted April 14, 2008 11:21 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awww thank you so much annaf

i guess its all Self work and i am on that path in my life right now...i strongly feel it's my saturn return as i am in that point turning the BIG 30! eeeeeeeeeeek LOL

also, my saturn is in virgo

thanks again annaf for your input this really helps me out ALOT!!

love
indy

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posted May 02, 2008 09:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
UPDATE!!!

My thick fish head, that lives in a dream world has finally learned...

THEY CAN NOT LOVE!!!

Not like women do, anyway...

Some lessons are learned, the hard way, this one was way, way too hard!

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Ohhhh Water signs with the Aqua NOT a good match for love at all. Over before it has even begun. I bet it is never the Aqua that gets hurt in a break up with a Cancer, Pisces, or Scorpio.
Maybe the only match for the Aqua is a Sag. or a Gemini

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I JUST had an epiphany from reading about Aquas on this site.
The background story....
My father suddenly commited suicide many years ago when I was 21 years old.
I was very close to my father (He Pisces and me Cancer). It was a very sudden and major, major shock and abandonment.
This old Aqua. relationship that I can not let go of - the Aqua dissapears and then pops up suddenly he dissapears and then calls or sends an e-mail.
NO wonder I can't let him go. He recreates that abandonment scenario over and over with me. I JUST realized that, after all these years.
He has GOT to go - that is really unhealthy and exhausting for me mentally and emotionally.
Thank you Lindaland!!

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posted May 03, 2008 12:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavlee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hippi Chick, Im sorry.......
Hope you have a better day

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posted May 03, 2008 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
APC for me it was emotional abuse, entertained the non-loving(dishonest) Aqua to provide me what I grew up with, and male abandonment too..

Lavlee, thank you....always something to be gained, never lost.

Terri

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posted May 04, 2008 03:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavlee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hippie Chick,
I love, love, love, the Pisces people! You deserve nothing but love!! We water signs especially need to stay away from the Aqua.
Emotional abuse is the worst - almost worse than physical abuse because it does not show on the outside so no one can see how you feel.
The clueless and unemotional Aqua will never change because they just do not get it.
I hope that you run and never look back.
Do not get realed back in if you can help it. Do not let anyone toy with you like a cat with a mouse.

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posted May 05, 2008 07:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
ladies, thank you for your kind responses!

I am in the middle of a 4 day 12 hr shift streach and will get back to you all soon!

blessings

Terri

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posted May 08, 2008 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lavlee, I do not think it is necessarially intellect over heart, I have learned the hard way, they just are who they are. Aqua men will never be able to emote and "love" the way passionate, loving women do. And we should not expect this of them, it is not in their intrinsic nature.

As I said to a dear friend earlier (regarding Aqua men):

Business before pleasure, friends not lovers....

APC I once told my mom, my original emotional abuser that I thought emotional abuse was worse, I would rather be hit, atleast it is done..and the ******* who did it would have bruises to re-mind (him) of the pain he caused. Her reply was as I should have expected from an over-grounded, pickey, analytical Virgo..."NO!"

But emotional abuse IS bad, it is hideable, and acceptable in society.

As for the Aqua, I am taking one day at a time, I have sent him out of my life, told him what he would have to do to get me back, set myself up cause I know he will not be able to rise to the very few, easy things I have requested of him.

And......I am tired of trying to heal...

Living is good, dwelling in what to do about past wounds is not...

Blessings to you all!

Terri

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posted May 08, 2008 09:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One more comment then I am putting this one to bed.

If someone came to me and said:

"Why do you have to be so sweet, so loving, so forgiving, so darn nice???"

I would just shrug my shoulders and reply:

"That is just how I am...."

Aquas are who they are, we either accept them or get them away from us...

All of the sun signs the same.

We are all who we are and if somebody does not like who we are..then L8R...

Too bad, tho, and I so sympathasize with us women who have been wooed and hurt by the charasmatic, then cool and aloof Aqua...

They are who they are...and people do not change, and fixed is fixed...

Not that I really want anybody to change for ME anyway...

T~~~

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Hi everyone!
You all seem to have experience with the aqua men so i want to ask for some advice. is it true that the closer you get, or when they start to feel an attachment or feelings for you the more the pull away? And when you say pull away about how long do you mean? my guy has been gone fore a little over a month now and I am starting to think that maybe it is just over. The thing is we never even got very far to begin with. We started off as friends and kind of made an unspoken transition into a more then friends thing. After seeing each other only a couple of times after the transition, when we were starting to get a little closer he has suddenly disappeared. I'm just worried that he got scared off for some reason and now we aren't even going to be friends. I played all of my cards perfectly, nothing about commitments or rules or even having a relationships. It was just like two friends hanging out one on one getting to know each other better with flirting. I know there is something between (always has been) and I KNOW he feels it too. There is an undeniable energy between the two of us, an energy i have never felt with another person before. It is weird cause he has the same birthday with my dad and my dad and i have certainly butted heads over the years. We are both very strong willed and tend to have a love/hate relationship. Well, i do most of the hating cause i tend to lose my temper with him. After learning more about aqua though I am starting to understand him a bit more and perhaps i was to quick to judge. He really is a unique person and i love him strongly, the emotions can be so strong that when i become upset with him they are twice as strong then with a normal person, the same as when i am in love with him (my dad this is).
Ooooh i dont know what i am doing trying to persue this relationship with this guy if he has the same birthday as my dad. If it is anywhere close to that relationship then it is going to be a roller coaster of emotions. I cant help it though, in such a short time I am already hooked. There is just something between us that cant be deniad. I have do, grave to delve into this mysterious energy. God help me.
ANy advice or thoughts would be extremely appreciated.
Also I read that it is because of our signs in comparison that is behind the dynamic energy we have. I am a cap sun he is obviously a aqua. I am aqua venus and he is cap venus. My mercury is cap, he is aqua. both of our moons are leo and both of our mars are scorpio. I am a gemini asc and i dont know his. His jupiter is cap and mine is aries. What do you all think??
LOL sorry for all the unneeded info

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posted May 10, 2008 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you expect any sort of emotion from this man, give it up. If you expect friends, then he can be that.

He has already begun to demonstrate his nature by distancing himself when he began to feel "something."

I actually felt mine fall in love with me, then he ran away for 3 months.

There are so many Aqua (men) threads on this fourm and none have had happy endings.

We women need and want emotional closeness, not friends. They want friends, and emotional closeness scares the hell out of them!

He will eventually begin to annoy they hell out of your Cap need for structure and control of your life. He now appeals to your Aqua Venusian qualities, and you appeal to his Cap Venus.

You are very astrologically compatible (save the sun sign) as I was with mine, but in the end, when you have shead more tears than you can imagine, when he has taken you to the depths of despair....he will have always thought of you as a friend (or this is how he will cop out) and you will be standing there, dumbfounded cause you knew there was more.

If you have not read this long thread in it's entirety, then I strongly urge you to do so. And all other Aqua man threads you can find.

Sitll I have hope that one day one will prove me wrong, still my silly Pisces heart believes in love...

I have learned the hard way, be so very careful of the Aqua.

Just who they are.

They have their place here too, but that place does not include sweet nothings whispered in your ear, does not include birthdays and anniversaries, may include one "I love you" if you are luckey...and it does definately not include EMOTION!!!

Terri

ps I absolutely LOVE Austin, I am in San Antonio

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hippichick,
I just moved to austin a few months ago and I love it too! I just went to San Antonio for the first time this week and I thought it was beautiful. I will def be going back.

I know i should run away now but i just cant seem to convince myself to give it. My head says no but my heart has a mind of its own.
I am actually not very cap at all from what i can tell anyways. I am not very emotional and get uncomfortable around emotional situations and ppl. I think though my Leo moon would def want some attention/adoration. But then he has a leo moon too so he might be more receptive then if he was just pure aqua? I hope lol.
It is funny cause i here all of these stories about how aqua men run and head for the hills but in my parents case my dad totally fought for my mom. He asked her out, pursued it and then after a month of dating my mom went to the yukon for a vacation. After of month of being there she decided to stay and called and told my dad. WIthin two weeks my dad had moved out there for her and within two months they were married. They have been married for 55 years. The thing that def bugs my mom the most is that he doesn't say I love you to her and he treats her more of a friend then i wife i guess. Personally i dont really know what that means. Wouldnt you want to be friends with your partner?
Thanks for the advice. I guess I will just try to get over my feelings and go back to strictly friends. Unless he decides to pursue more I will try to wash my hands of this. Sigh. The first time I have ever felt excited and really interested in someone and they are making it impossible. Lol, maybe thats why I'm interested.

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oh i said 55 years instead of 45. still along time though

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posted May 11, 2008 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anybody would want to be friends with their partner and should be expected.

But the Aqua, generally is only friends. They lack passion, tho a Leo moon may give him a bit of a burning desire!

My former Aqua "friend" has a load of Pisces in him, including the Asc, but it only softened his icy interior.

The sun sign, I have found, is what it always falls back to, that is our intrinsic nature, our "ego."

It is difficult to compare sun sign unions of different generations cause the value system of our parents was different than now. People of generations past stayed together and got together for different reasons than they do today.

Anyway, just be prepared and watch your heart.

Terri

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posted May 11, 2008 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
PS

I am happy you liked SA. Austonians refer to San Antonio as "that little town down the road"

I will have to get up to the Capital someday soon...miss it!

Terri

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I'm glad I can torment anyone.

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posted May 12, 2008 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, hey,

Thanks for validating!!!

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posted May 12, 2008 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
by the way, I am pretty sure a "real man" does not torment....women....

or small animals, or children or...

humanity.

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