posted October 15, 2008 03:13 PM              

I am seeing an Aquarian moon/mars guy. His sun/venus is in leo. My DC is in Aquarius and my uranus is in his 7th. His sun/venus is in my 1st.

He is only my lover... we have no commitment. He finds me when he wants me BUT l have tried to break it off with him several times and he won't have any of it!!! He doesn't want to end it. WTF????

posted October 15, 2008 04:09 PM            

He is emotionally, horribly detached, cold to unfathomable realms (Aqua Moon) and his sex drive is in his head.

Aqua moons send chills up my spine like no Aqua sun could ever do.

AND I have a Mars in Aqua.......yea, head sex, it is all mental for him.

Yet his Leo side craves attention.....but at his leisure.

This guy will have a real hard time with emotions and human touch.

posted October 16, 2008 06:05 AM              

Hippichick -

ok...

When you say cold... l mean he does cuddle me after sex and he's ALL over me when we meet up... literally! He is a very passionate kisser and he does tell me he misses me!

I just don't know where l stand... l mean, he is inviting me to all kinds of things with him and yet he doesn't treat me like a girlfriend... is this normal?

Is floating like a balloon in the sky and occasionally getting pulled down and kissed by your man being in a relationship with him?

I have to say though that l like it... l have all my planets in 9th house of "higher mind" plus Aquarius as 7th ruler.. I always hate it when a man hugs me to death, find myself pulling away with a 'yuck' look on my face LOL!!!!!

So they can just have sex with NO ATTACHMENT then... but surely if they keep coming back it means they care
?!?!?!?!?!?!

geez.... a minefield

posted October 16, 2008 03:16 PM            

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Lara

He is emotionally, horribly detached, cold to unfathomable realms (Aqua Moon) and his sex drive is in his head.

Aqua moons send chills up my spine like no Aqua sun could ever do.

AND I have a Mars in Aqua.......yea, head sex, it is all mental for him.

Yet his Leo side craves attention.....but at his leisure.

This guy will have a real hard time with emotions and human touch.

cold.......

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You do realise, that you don't have the definitive answers on all things Aquarian? Going by this thread you seem to think you do.

posted October 16, 2008 03:25 PM              

Trust me, l don't take any **** from him. He asked me to a party next week and l said to him "yeah sure, if we still know each other by then i'll be happy to come"

hahaha l put out as good as l get and he keeps coming back for more and more and more... nearly 4 months in now.

I don't want flowers, sweet talk, wishy washy rubbish... l want a man who is a man, himself, in the world, observing and mentally stimulating me whilst more than satisfying my scorpio/juno in bed!!!!

he sent me an email the other day and all it said was "you the girl". It was in response to a letter that l had copied him in on... a business letter.

I loved that! I didn't have a clue what it meant but l didn't care... it was out of the box and made me think!

Anyone who knows what it means, feel free to enlighten me hahaha

Taurus sun
Aries moon
Aries venus
Taurus mars
Leo AC

posted October 16, 2008 05:05 PM              

hahaha Mamma Mia!!

posted November 02, 2008 07:02 PM              

well again l tried to end it with him... and he is SO confusing.

He doesn't want to end it and yet he doesn't want me to get too emotionally attached. I pointed out to him that it was HIM who freaked out on me when l went on a date with another guy... and he said "i was just winding you up" lol so l said "yeah yeah yeah..." and his response was
"its very rare to find someone as hot and smart as you are!"

I mean, c'mon on... that sounds like his way of saying "yup, im jealous and l dont want anyone else to have you BUT l don't want a relationship with you either"

posted November 03, 2008 01:02 PM              

Why do you need to know if he wants more, if you aren't even interested in being his girlfriend? Just keep things the way they are and stop overanalyzing! You have written about him in so many threads that it's starting to sound like you'd want him to want more, and are looking for some astrological proof. I'm not saying that you'd want to "officially" date him, but that you'd want him to see you as an attractive partner, not just someone nice who he can have sex with(I may be way off the mark here, so apologies if my suggestions don't match with your reality at all)

If you want to end it, just end it.

posted November 03, 2008 02:55 PM              

yup. I think we are both surprised by how much we like each other. I mean he's totally a guy l would date and he already said that its very rare to find a woman as hot and smart as me, for him... so, l think we are both in the same boat actually.

He doesn't always get what he wants... l ignore his texts, wont meet him every time and l am not a yes girl so i'm a challenge for him. I notice when he asks me what ive been up to and no sex buddy behaves like that!

posted November 03, 2008 06:00 PM              

the interesting think is though, it's all projection. It has absolutely nothing to do with him, his normal behaviour is bringing up my own crap, you know?

posted November 03, 2008 07:48 PM              

My mother is a triple Aquarian... so l do get them a bit. My mother and l are very close and similar. I love my freedom and am very strong. I guess i'm just not used to meeting my match in the free spirit department maybe. Most of my ex lovers have been more clingy up to the point where l swap them for a tank of oxygen

Problem is l am cerebral and l think and analyse way too much... which is what im doing now! HA!

posted November 03, 2008 07:54 PM            

Its all mental with these dudes trust me, he may or may not be testing and stuff could naturally be him..Everything is through the head..He is gonna tire you I can already tell. But enjoy the ride..