posted March 21, 2008 09:27 PM            

(and this is not to say that we as human beings journey The Zodiac in precise succession, this is meant as a symbolic pondering)

My Aquarian-coloured Pisces soul has learned this, so far---

Aquas DO have the right "idea." They are born with not a fear of love, necessarially, but a fear of "romantic love." And when they begin to have the stirrings of romantic love, they freak, they become uncomfortable.

Society has dictated that men should marry, be the bread-winners, provide for the children, etc. and the Aqua man is not immune from this ego-illusion. None of us are.

But as we grow older we be-gin to question. The maturing Aqua male is quite the enigma to watch. They mellow. The last man in my example is the closest at blending romantic/mortal "love" with the Aqua ideal of non attachment, emotional detachment, thus creating a beautiful type of "unconditional love." Non co-dependent, free....

Back to The Zodiac. So in Aquarius we learn to be free, to love freely, to share and have a greater love for humanity in general. We learn futuristic thinking. And in Pisces we then hurt for them all...becasuse we have lived it all. We develope huge compassion and divine discontent. And in Pisces we can take home with us, all we have learned through The Zodiac, and especially for me, freedom of love and a connection to divinity.

One day I know, I will encounter such an Aqua...I will not stop looking until I find! And since I attract them like flies to popoo....I will not have to look, just be open.

Gotta go to work for a few days, ladies, be back soon!!!

blessings

posted March 21, 2008 11:55 PM            

I see all sides of what people have to say about Aquarians... maybe that's another thing other signs don't get... that we see all sides, and feel all sides, therefore cannot ever decide or come to grips with what everyone else is thinking we should think/feel...

..we don't ever have the time to figure that out, as we are always trying to figure out what is going on with everyone else, and how to fix/take care of it... we really have not given ourselves a chance for our own version of happiness..

I'm just trying to say what I think should be said. I think it's unfair, in a lot of ways, to constantly be bashing Aquas as "non-feeling" "detatched" people...

posted March 22, 2008 07:07 AM            

We are, collectively, trying to understand.

And I do see, O, how I do see how Aquas lie to themselves.

Personally, I love Aquas, but I can no longer let myself be driven crazy by constantly pondering....

---why can't they just see---

and I know they become attached, and I know that is not comfortable for them and I understand...more than I should.

posted March 22, 2008 09:38 PM            

I would say, trust your instincts, your heart, your intuition on that one.

IF it is for real, he will become vacant, he is not comfortable with emoting. But if he really does love you, he can muster up the courage to tell you so---once.....

IF he flees, let him be he.

Do not expect daily, weekly, even monthly or yearly "I love you's" from the Aqua male who is being genuine.

I really would have a hard time picturing any Aqua male uttering those words, falsely in a moment of passion, or to get his way, etc.

You must learn to read their actions when they are around you, not when they are absent. When they are absent, they are off slaying their airy dragons, and "love" is far from their minds.

Mine has often told me "I think about you often...." I would like to say, "They why do you not just call...???" But I know better, I know I pass through his mind here and there, and then here comes another thought, then another, then me again, then something else....

Just the way they are.

I WILL tell you this!!!

"I love you" a genuine I LOVE YOU from an Aqua male is one of the most blessed things a woman in love with an Aqua can ever hear. He may love you dearly, just do not expect him to tell you. Do not expect roses, cards, phone calls on birthdays, anniversaries....they love quite differently..and quite beautifully.

Become very, very good at mind reading, trust your heart, do not go psycho on him, and whatever you do, DO NOT exhibit insecurity...

Aqua men are hard for a woman to be with. A woman who is to be with the Aqua male MUST have quite the life of her own, cause he will not fulfill you, nor provide you with anything you need inside. He will not "complete" you. This is one reason I say Aqua love is a kind of pure love, they are FAR from co-dependent.

The majority, that is. Sure there are the psycho ones out there, or ones with an abundance of water.

My 16 yr old Aqua daughter has a Cancer asc and she can be VERY clingy..but turn around and be very guarded and aloof in the next breath.

Hold on, you may be in for the ride of your life!!!

Blessings

posted March 24, 2008 09:45 AM            

Yesterday I decided to text him and wish him a Happy Easter, something kept telling me to do so, I am very hard headed and strong will, but finally I did..He responded with a I like to c u..

posted March 24, 2008 12:36 PM            

If all of you wondering about what to do about these Aqua's who are messing you about, and I keep telling you (and every other aqua sun) not to contact them again, I'm sorry, but it's your fault when you come back upset that they dissapeared again... I know you care for them, I know they can be sweet, but obviously you can't handle the way they naturally are, they are not right for you!! You should not expect people to change into who you would be happy with, nor should they expect that of you... If the cons outweigh the pros, and you always end up hurt, WHY DO IT TO YOURSELVES??

posted March 24, 2008 01:02 PM            

I am in control of what I allow to happen to me no one else and I promise you growth is in order..I don't really listen to people tell me what they think I should do with my journey we all have one..No you cannot change ppl but I bet you can change how ppl treat you..There is a reason a season and a life time for some ppl to be in your life and for me what ever that persons purpose in my life is over then its over, and I never look back..I am not hurt upset or any of that, I guess that was meant for the other ladies..And well like hippi said follow your gut, intuiton, your heart, I can do all of that and use my logic as well. We all have different Journeys a person can only tell you what they think you should do..When enough is enough then you will know when to fold..

posted March 24, 2008 11:35 PM            

Follow your heart...we must live in the present, it is ALL we have.

The past is done, the future is not guaranteed...the present is all we have.

Be in the present, the now.

If you want to call him, call him, today, if tomorrow you do not want to, then do not.

No regrets, no expectations...

Transgress "ego"....

Follow your heart.

posted March 25, 2008 04:12 PM            

(O...I like the acronym...reminds me of A Perfect Circle...)

Am reading it now...have been trying to transcend ego all of my 46 years...

And I have always found my greatest peace in a state without "ego."

getting there, slowly...(sigh)

I like your Aqua story. Funny how those guys, become so attached, through not wanting to...however "fixed" is fixed!

Terri

posted March 25, 2008 06:17 PM            

Terri, I'm glad you are feeling better. Thank you for sharing. When you emerge from the depths you are very beautiful.

ghani, if you ever want to talk about anything going on, we are here. (your synchronicities? are you sad? )

Keep up the god (good, I "meant" to type) work, girls. I don't always have a lot to add but I often enjoy the honesty, sharing, and warmth.