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A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 25, 2008 10:25 PM
 
That is such a great post Mystic Melody.
There IS a lot of talk about relationships here but for me it is so uplifting to have a group to talk to who uses Linda Goodman the way that I do.
That Aquarian relationship that I had really did a number on my mind, body and soul. I started to "get it" and get over it when I started reading Linda Goodman, then I really felt so much support and understanding when I read about Aquarius here. It is all very healing really.
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posted March 26, 2008 05:50 AM
so how to know the difference?!....when an aquarius vanishes temporarily vs. cuttinbg off contact permanently? Or rather in what situations do aqua men REALLY break off contact for good? IP: Logged |
A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 26, 2008 10:04 AM
Great question! When indeed. I hope that someone knows. IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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posted March 26, 2008 01:31 PM
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hippichick
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posted March 27, 2008 09:32 AM
***When DOES one know when they are finally gone, from your life***My thoughts: In a perfect world, there is mutual respcet, dignity, empathy for others. If an individual decides to leave your life, then the individual should, by all rights of morals, ethics and resepct end the relation, appropriately. This is far from a perfect world and many, many people are self-centered and are not able to think of the other indiviudal's feelings. Consider men...they are linear thinkers. They can not multi task as woman can quite naturally. They are very focused, on one thing at a time. Now, when you add in the Aquarian energy, you have a very mentally, intellectually focused individual. A man who lives in his head, entertaining one thought at a time. All of the Aqua men I have known keep themselves very busy. All of the Aqua men I have know, do not like confrontation, it implies emotions. So, perhaps, when an Aqua decides he no longer desires to be in a lady's energy space, all things considered, it may be easier for him to just vanish, rather than address the situation. I speak from experience, this happened to me once, and I spent a good long time trying to figure out why! You have to go with your intuition as well. If he has been absent a brief amount of time (and bear in mind Aquarians have only a small conception of time) then you have to rely on your internal radar. Now common sense would dictate if it has been a very long time, he is most probably gone, and if he contacts a lady that he has been absent from for some time, then he should recieve a swift butt-kicking out the door! I would also like to address the more subtal forms of communication. True enough, individuals who are connected at the soul level share a common bond that keeps them in a kind of constant communication despite time and space. And it is a beautiful thing. However, we are not some form of other-worldly space creatures who communicate via telepathy and procreate merely with eye contact! We are human and while engaging in the human condition, we need, desire and are quite entitled to "human things." Touch, connection, communication are just a few to mention. I have often mentioned to a particular Aquarian man "I can not live off of air alone!!!" Being highly Aqua myself, I need very little in the from of reassurance, emotion, few musings of love, but I do need occasional contact. I am a warm-blodded woman and in be-ing so, it just feels good, on the human level to converse with the one I am connected to. Sometimes, rarely, I even crave touch. You may never know if he is truely gone from your energy space, but I am real big on respect and if it has been too long, that is too long for me! Terri IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 27, 2008 09:48 AM
"so how to know the difference?!....when an aquarius vanishes temporarily vs. cuttinbg off contact permanently? Or rather in what situations do aqua men REALLY break off contact for good?"This is how I know and it took me a minute to figure this out..I have never not felt connected to him. It dawned on me that I have always felt as though he was near, things in my life continued to point to him, synchonicity was always around. I think the longest he and I have gone with out talking is 2 months,and that was bc I told him to beat it, he never let go emotionally.. There has always been some kind of telepathic thing going on most of the time I did not know what it was and then when I did figure it out I ignored it alot of times..So I would say to answer your question, you just know in your soul if the connection is cut off or not you can feel it. Its very weird for some to understand...Its real though.. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 27, 2008 09:51 AM
"I would also like to address the more subtal forms of communication. True enough, individuals who are connected at the soul level share a common bond that keeps them in a kind of constant communication despite time and space. And it is a beautiful thing"I just read this and YES THIS IS IT EXACTLY!!! Thanks again hippi atleast I know one other person in this world understands..Well my other Pisces girlfriend gets it to.. IP: Logged |
A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 27, 2008 11:43 AM
Very well put Mama Mia and Hippie Chick! I agree with both of you - having had a mostly telepathic connection with my Aqua for the last 13 years it is so true. I will absolutely be resolved to have NO contact with him, it is what I really want.
Then I will have about three or four nights in a row of vivid dreams with him in them. They are ALWAYS frustration dreams where I need to talk to him or I am about to see him and he is just out of reach.
He is like a ghost who has haunted 25 of my 41 years on this planet.
It kind of drives me crazy if I let it because part of him is my soul mate. IP: Logged |
A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 27, 2008 11:44 AM
You can tell how we are posting so much about these Aquas that we are haunted. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 27, 2008 11:47 AM
"Then I will have about three or four nights in a row of vivid dreams with him in them. They are ALWAYS frustration dreams where I need to talk to him or I am about to see him and he is just out of reach" Same here on the dreams, but not one time did I have a bad dream all the dreams have been very loving. more loving in the astral then in the awakeining..
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posted March 27, 2008 12:31 PM
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A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 27, 2008 02:10 PM
Oh Mama Mia Me too!
My dreams are always ones where I feel so happy to be back in that Aqua's presence and happy to have him back in mine. I wake up feeling sad, frustrated, and hurt every time.
I wish it would all just end. I am going to keep putting it out to the Universe to please remove my connection to that Aqua man. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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posted March 27, 2008 02:15 PM
Well yeah if he is married and all that, that would be the best thing to do.. IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted March 27, 2008 03:15 PM
APCYou may have to re-move your own connetion. They feel us pulling away, then they come back with threefold energy. What is up with his marriage? Why has he retained such a connection to you? IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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posted March 27, 2008 04:10 PM
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A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 28, 2008 10:12 PM
You all have such thoughtful snd helpful answers.
He loves his wife and I love my husband.
We are connected because we went through a lot of bad things together in our young teens.
My parent's alcoholism, my father's suicide to name two things. He is still connected to me I think because he usually "took care of me" through hard times. I am conected to him out of a deep seated association with safety.
You are all right ties that are no longer needed need to be cut.
Let go with love. I am sincerely working on letting go completely and wishing him the very best.
I have never talked to anyone about any of this life long connection. A huge thank you to everyone who takes time to respond so thoughtfully here, you have all really helped me by understanding!! IP: Logged |
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posted March 28, 2008 11:59 PM
I have been away for 3 months and have not been in contact with an Aqua during this time..., since I came back, these are the words he had for me:"Are you back?"
"Why didn't you let me know you were back???"
"Did I tell you I miss you???"
"You drive me nuts". Words from a person who drove me crazy once...I'm more detached now, but still feel this huge magnetic pull...even when I'm so far away... IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted March 29, 2008 12:07 PM
APCSome ties can never be broken. Maybe keep it in human perspective and appreciate it for the divine connection that it is. BLessings to you Terri IP: Logged |
Crabplanet
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posted March 29, 2008 03:07 PM
From a true Aqua: The reason he would put so much "space" between us is because he was afraid to feel the pain of love and be terribly hurt (from his own words). It took him almost 2 years to explain his weird pulling in - pulling out... IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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posted March 29, 2008 04:15 PM
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A Peaceful Cancerian
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posted March 29, 2008 09:52 PM
Thank you Hippie Chick! Your responses are so clear and wonderful.
Peace!IP: Logged |
Lavlee
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posted March 31, 2008 09:13 AM
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MysticMelody
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posted March 31, 2008 04:42 PM
"in and out" Gray says something about the "in and out" thing being natural to men (you don't saaaaay?)  He is referring to emotional closeness and then independent distance. Sounds positively erotic to me... physical, emotional, and mental closeness orchestrated by our spiritual centers as they become closer and more intertwined. A dance, a rhythm, music, a joining, a meeting and a parting, a blending... Slowly understanding and seeing... less fear... more enjoyment of the experience, the moment.
When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be. Let it be, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Yeah, There will be an answer, let it be. Let it be, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
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Let it be, yeah let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be. And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me.
Shine until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
There will be no sorrow Let it be, let it be.
Let it be, yeah let it be.
There will be and answer, let it be. Let it be, let it be.
Let it be, yeah let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.
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Mama Mia
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posted April 07, 2008 11:37 AM
Well just a lil update, we have seen each other, met him at the gym to watch the guys shoot ball use to be one of the fun things we did, I love to watch the guys shoot ball they get all girly like on the court and be arguing and stuff..It was nice he was sooooo nervous when he saw me..Its funny how I see right through him..I was nervous as well, but able to play if off very well..When I got ready to go he tried to kiss me on the lips as always but I turned my head and he kissed me on the cheek..He says well I did get some sugar and we laughed. I am sure that we will see each other again soon..Its gonna be different this time, bc I am different.. IP: Logged |
indyBee
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posted April 13, 2008 10:31 AM
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Awwwwhhhhhh I agree..I always felt that the more of a problem they become to you in a weird kind of way, they are attached in a iky emotional kind of way through their eyes..If they are unevolved and they fall for a lady, they will do the opposite of what they feel..Does it make sense nope, but most Aqua's behavior don't make sense..
yeah this is so down to the point about aquarians....when i am interested in someone, i would completely act detached and pretend and do the complete opposite of how i feel around that person...i always wanted to strangle myself and kick myself in the a** everytime i do this...and this is quiet ALOT!!  LOL IP: Logged |
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