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scrappydog
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posted July 24, 2010 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my life I have had the extreme displeasure of knowing and been the victim of two seperate sociopaths. One I met at 12 years old (he was 8 years older) and ended up marrying at 16, that is a sad and old story so I will not tell it here other than that this man was a complete sociopath and remains so to this day at the age of 38. The other is an immediate family member. From what I have read they are "Passive sociopaths". They do not go out and murder or rape, though the male I mentioned could be violent, but they have no love or caring in them for anyone in the whole world other than themselves and they have absolutely no consience. These forms of psychopaths are actually far more common than the ultra violent type you see on tv. The most basic thing the two I have known for most of my life have in common is pathological lying and stealing and a deeply ingrained, almost uncontrollable urge to try to "con" everyone around them. There are many other simularities, but like I said these are the most evident ones.
I'm not completely sure this can be seen in a natal chart, but from what I have read and seen between their charts is a strong gemini/ mercury/ mutable influence.
Does anyone have a story to tell about a sociopath that they have met or known? And does anyone have any input to possible chart factors??

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posted July 24, 2010 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd say put their charts up or give us their birth information. You really can't just name a Sun sign and a planet and equate it with Sociopathy.

First look at the word: Socio-pathy

The word socio becomes social. The planet Venus comes to mind. There is probably some kind of block in the plumbing of chart having to do with Venus or Libra (the social sign) or the house whose cusp(s) is/are in Libra. Then I'd look at Aquarius/Uranus or the house ruling Uranus. Then for pathological lying I'd look at Neptune's making a stressed relationship to Mercury or the 3rd House some how.

That's where I'd start.

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posted July 24, 2010 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a friend who has very little empathy.
He has very little water--practically none.
Could this make for lack of empathy?

Ami

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posted July 24, 2010 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree, a sun sign and planet is way too simplistic and that is why I am looking for more information.
Him: 6/20/74 5:15 a.m. Houston, Texas
Her: 8/21/77 7:14 a.m. Freeport, Texas
She does have mercury square neptune, but he does not and he is the most ploliferic lyer I have ever known and many astrologers Do associate this sometimes with Gemini, wasn't hermes a trixter who liked to fool people? He even admits that he "enjoys fooling others so he can see how dumb they really are." And my mother says the relative has done this since childhood, she thinks in her own words that "everyone is stupid."

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posted July 24, 2010 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My biological father (not the man who raised me) is a known con-man, but although I have his date of birth, I don't have the time. I wonder would posting the chart still be helpful.

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posted July 24, 2010 09:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes Crabbypatty it would

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posted July 24, 2010 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also Sag's are sometimes good conmen!

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posted July 24, 2010 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for racole12     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey hey hey... Gemini Rising, Sun ruling the 3rd, 4 planets in Sag (including the sun and mercury)... and I'm no where close to being a sociopath. LOL. I can be a good BSer but the guilt that comes along with it is too much to handle (Sun conj Neptune maybe is where the guilt comes in?) I'm HIGHLY Empathic...

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posted July 24, 2010 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geocosmic* Valentine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, right? I was trying to respond about "his" chart when the electricity went off in my whole neighborhood. It was off for exactly and hour and a half. Now, I'm too tired to properly respond. Perhaps tomorrow.

Wow, I'm so happy, especially because the Air Conditioner is back on!!

Sssssssssweeeet!!!!!!

Double Rainbow all the way across the sky!

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posted July 25, 2010 01:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geo, you are a star! You were right about Venus

In a guy's chart, Venus is unaspected in the 12th house - probably this makes him unable to feel or present the depths of feeling or emotion, maybe deep down he feels rejected and that makes him ignore others' feelings, he also has Moon conj Saturn and that adds to his lack of empathy.

Sun conj Moon/Saturn (in the 1st) square Pluto (in the 5th) - his emotional needs are closely tied to his ego, they are kind of inseparable because this is what his ego begins from and defined by, square to Pluto makes him manipulative and prone to emotional blackmail.

Jupiter in the 10th is a focal point of a T-square with nodes (NN being in Sagittarius!) - Jupiter rules the enegrgy of intergration and expansion, being afflicted it may result in his unbound belief in luck and a reckless disregard of consequences of his actions. Jupiter is also associated with morals, law, loyalty and also higher mind so being afflicted it may represent difficulties in terms of social conscience here.

Mars (in the 2nd) opposite mean BML (in the 8th) has probably something to do with stealing.

I think, any of these aspects does not make a native a natural born sociopath it's about the way the person chooses to use the aspects' energy.

Will be back with her chart analysis soon.

ETA: the guy also has Nessus conj Sun so he probably has a low self-esteem and might have been emotionally or phsysically abused as a kid, it looks like he never feels save and is paranoid of being taken advantage of, and being oppressed.

ETA2: Ami, I have only 1 planet in water signs: Uranus in Scorpio and I am an empath. However, I also have Moon conj Neptune and MC/DSC in water signs so maybe that counts... but I do think lack of water does not signify the inability to feel and relate, it rather makes it difficult to express the feelings.

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posted July 25, 2010 01:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YES! Emotional blackmail is the way he operates with women. "If you leave me I will kill myself!" He did this to me for five years until I toughened myself so much against the beatings and lies that I no longer cared if he lived or died. When all was lost he went to a girl who was adopted and abused, he now uses her pitiful weaknesses to exploit her in every emotioanal and financial way possible. When she tries to leave, usually after a particularlly brutal beating, he says he is going to kill himself. She goes running back every time.

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posted July 25, 2010 01:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whenever people start talking about unaspected Venus--I get scared .
I am not kidding.
I have a Gemini stellium---Sun, Mercury, Venus.
My Venus is in the 7th in Taurus but I wonder if something is wrong with my abilility to love.
I feel like I am too aloof--inside.
I have Neptune aspecting every planet but the moon and Venus.
I CAN love ,though,but deep love is rare.
I feel like I stay aloof--the great majority of the time--and skate on the surface when perhaps I should feel deeper emotions.
I have Cancer moon and Mars.
Could you be sociopathic with a Cancer moon?lol
I feel silly writing this like I should erase it but I do think the unaspected Venus makes you different.


Ami

Thanks Peri --for that clarification. It makes sense

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posted July 25, 2010 02:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She has Sun in the 12th, I noticed, people with Sun in the 12 are not what they seem, not necessarily in a bad way but their true self is kind of hidden and it really takes a lot of time to know them.

She does not have Merc square Neptune, the orb is 8 degrees, too large in my opinion but she does have mean BML opposition Neptune >> a classic indicator of proneness for dishonesty, especially these planets being on the Sagittarius/Gemini axis.

She also has Mercury square Mars which probably makes her verbally abusive and explosive. Sun square Moon (Moon being in the 3rd) adds to her temper because the prideful side of her nature clashes with intense emotions and she expresses it through her 3rd house = verbally

Interesting that both of these persons have Sun square Saturn and Uranus opposition Chiron. Sun square Saturn: difficulty dealing with authority, a frustrated ambition for power; Uranus opp Chiron: a constant running from their wounds/issues, inability to resolve them which makes them rebel (against matters indicated by the house) instead of turning for help and doing inner healing.

ETA: crabbypatty, please post your father's chart, I am curious to see it.

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posted July 25, 2010 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami, is your Venus unaspected? and where is it excatly? I got confused by this:
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I have a Gemini stellium---Sun, Mercury, Venus.
My Venus is in the 7th in Taurus

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posted July 25, 2010 04:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Peri
I keep coming here to erase my post and then I think "Leave it" lol. I feel embarrassed.
Well, when someone talked about the mutables, Gemini and unaspected Venus in one sentence, that is me lol.
An unaspected planet makes so aspects so has no pulls by other planets.
It is free to be an independent "person", an independent functioning entity.
So, it can make it's own rules, I think you could say.
x o Ami
It is in the 7th house with Taurus on the cusp so it is dignified by house

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~ scrappy d ~

*** .. a sociopath that they have met or known? **

here's one that meets your description

11th october 1976
17.30 GMT ..
01.45 west / 53.48 North
( time of birth is a 'maybe' ..
( probably best to ingnore it

he had a fairly nasty upbringing btw ..

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posted July 25, 2010 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diablo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi! My ex is a psychotic borderline personality anti-social loser

Just looking at his natal chart to see if there's anything that stands out..

Venus in the 12th..GCV mentioned before that it may have something to do with Venus as its the social planet..sooo the social planet being in the house of self undoing..let me tell you he's burnt every single bridge in his life.

He's got Pluto in the 8th house and his 12th house venus trines his 8th house Pluto

A moon/mars/saturn/uranus stellium in the 9th house, which is ruled by Scorpio

Neptune in the 10th..very deceptive about the image he puts forth to the world.

Venus conj. AC & Venus sqaure MC (going on the Venus-social perspective)

Mercury trine Uranus, I think I have this aspect too but to me that signifies abrupt, quick changes in thinking and cognitive pattern, inc speech.

Diane had a good look at his natal and noticed he had a lot of critical degrees (I dont know what they are! Anyone kind enough to educate me? )

He also has Sun in the 1st house, just a degree or 2 into Aries (his sun sign) and he was incredibly selfish and self centered, everything was done from the basis of satisfying his ego regardless of the expense of others.
He was an only child and it was so obvious in his personality.

Also, had an Pisces ASC and was born on the Pisces/Aries cusp..the combination of illusion, deceptiveness and the me me me & violence of Aries..

He's a sack of sh1t..but i hope that helps. I just had a look at his natal and reported anything that stuck out to me

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posted July 25, 2010 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is he the 12th house guy, Diabla??


x o x Ami

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posted July 25, 2010 07:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diablo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol no hun, an ex waaaay before the current Mr.12thH.

This one I was with from 18-21, abusive and all the like but oddly enough he has the same strong 12th house/pisces influence & ASC as the current.

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I don't know house placements because I don't have a birth time, but I am almost certain my Dad is one or at the least a malignant narcissist.

He has a T-square involving Uranus opposition venus and they both square his moon. Cap/Aqua cusp for his Sun, Moon in Gemini, Merc in Cap, Venus in Aqua, Mars in Taurus.(his Draconic chart has mars in Scorp, nasty combo me thinks) I strongly believe he is a Leo or Libra rising. He seems like the nicest guy in the world they would do anything for you -- very full of himself. Not shy at all. But once he gets his claws in you, he slowly begins manipulating you and you aren't even aware most of the time the game that is being played.

He made it his life's mission to make my mom's life a living hell at my brother and my expense. Has gone off and on to college for over 25 years never getting a job anywhere to show for it. Would change his major right before he was about to graduate every time. He is an eternal student so he can escape his responsibilities and that was including paying my mother decent child support. He is severely in dept,(over 100,000 now in student loans) looks for ways to escape paying his bills. Will use anyone he can, never shows more emotion that a calculator except when he needs your pity so he can use you and manipulate you again. He always got his way from a young age according to his mother. One of his old sayings was "Never take no for an answer".

Incredibly materialistic and a penny pincher... Would send my brother and me into Wendy's with two dollars each to order from the $1 value meal when I was young. If would needs some pennies for taxes for a forth item he would tell us to save the left over money and bring it next time cause that would teach us responsibility. So my bro and I ordered a small hamburger each and split the fries instead of getting one order of fries each when we'd spend the weekend with him even though he had the extra pennies to feed us well. That story right there should help you understand what kind of person my father is in all aspects of his life. Seems like he's giving but he's actually completely selfish...

Incredibly filthy. Apartment so nasty I wanted to cry sometimes. Would fix something to eat on a plate with dried peanut butter or food and hand it to me to eat. Scum, shaving hair stuck to gargled dried up mouthwash in the bathroom. **** that looked like it had hardened and jelled in the toilet. Made fun of me when I didn't want to shower about how nasty I was and would tell my mother "I'm not gonna spit shine it for him". I actually cringe when I think just how nasty it all was. As a Virgo Sun cusp and mars, this was absolute hell for me.

Has gotten into corrupt circles of the law where he spent thousands of dollars in order to do illegal things to our family. Just in general, a real ******* .(never really physically abused but I always felt like that could change at any second) In marriage counseling before my mom and him divorced, the counselor said in her twenty years of counseling he was one of the most manipulating men she had ever met. Everyone he knew always told me how lucky I was to have a Dad like him. Everyone believes he is the nicest guy in the world.

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posted July 25, 2010 09:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Diablo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
zanarkand, your poor thing. I just wanna scoop up your inner child and nourish him properly...after I rip your dad's balls off.

He sounds like the man my psycho ex is becoming and exactly the sort of father he would be. Just absolute scum.

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posted July 25, 2010 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Ann     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
(((Zanarkand)))
You know what helped me. I did a synastry of my parents charts with mine.
I could not believe the history that was right there in black and white.BOTH of their Pluto's were exactly conjunct my Cancer Mars.
Then,my Mother's Neptune was exactly conjunct my Pluto. Her Sun was exactly conjunct my Chiron.
It helped me to think that maybe there was a plan for all this.
My mother molested me so I know of what I speak concerning pain.

x o x o Ami

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posted July 25, 2010 02:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since it is Saturday and I am with my little guy, I won't be able to post until tomorrow, but I promise I will.

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posted July 25, 2010 03:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Did I say Saturday? Jeez, sun has gotten to my head from being at this outdoor bday party!

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posted July 25, 2010 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crabbypatty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

His date of birth is December 16, 1945 and he told me he was born in Transylvania. The whole family is from Romania. I chose a city (Brasov) that I read is in Transylvania in order to create his chart. Keep in mind I have no idea what my bio father's time of birth was, nor can I begin to guess his rising sign, so this chart is not reliable except for the aspects that don't change according to birth time.

Well, I got a little break to post this early, anyway. We escaped the bday party, the skies opened up and now we have a severe storm watch here in New York. And here I am at the computer, my old friend.

Most of the dirt I've heard on him comes from my mother, who herself has a few screws loose, but I believe much of what she reports about him. Including that before they got married, she didn't want to sleep with him, but he told her that if he didn't have sex soon, he'd become infertile or some such story. And she believed him, being extremely naive, so she went ahead and did the deed! Wow!!!

That kind of thing seems to have marked his life: he would say anything to anyone just to get his way. He has lied outrageously to me, in my own limited contact with him. He has taken money from his other daughter for a business venture, promising a return, and lost it or used it for his own needs, and reportedly never returned it.

I wonder if it's the pluto conjunct mars maybe? I dunno... I leave the analysis to others more talented...

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