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Topic: If people would marry after the age of 29
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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 26, 2013 04:36 PM
  
I always thought the same thing - that i should get married after my saturn return. we'll see IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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posted November 26, 2013 04:43 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I always thought the same thing - that i should get married after my saturn return. we'll see
This sounds interesting.
I would prefer to get married at 32, not that I worry about divorce, it's just I don't want to give up to all this fun  IP: Logged |
FlashFouette
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posted November 26, 2013 05:27 PM
interesting My mom was 25 and my dad was 29 when they got married... For males it makes sense.
for me?
I'm going to be 21 forever soo  IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
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posted November 26, 2013 05:48 PM
I agree with you Rosalind,principally about be or not to be mature at some age. I always thought I was very mature for my age but when I was about 26/27 years old I realized how wrong I was, really. I think I only started to be really mature when I got my first job and could understand what is the real world ie could see for myself the real bad sides of it and understand that what I lived, my early experiences couldn't compare with I was passing. Today I can understand what you are talking about and I think it's definitely due of my currently age. Before,when I was told by people older than me that certain understandings about what life is only come with age,I mocked them, but today I can see properly what they're talking about. I'm not saying that many young people can't be wise beyond their years BUT I really believe that some skills don't develop in an early age. What I have read and seen about early marriage and divorce is that often there is hard aspects with saturn/venus/venus in cap, like these people marry to feel secure, as the partner is some kind of lifesaver and later they get frustrated with the relationship because they chose quickly before. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 26, 2013 06:00 PM
I won't get married earlier than 35. I'm 27 now.
But I'd prefer to be in a de facto relationship anyway - with lots of travelling thrown in the mix, both together and separately. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted November 26, 2013 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
You must grow up. This is my thread so stop being so rude. Nobody asked you to post here. OK?
Show me disrespect then you'll get the same in return, just in a softer way. Oooooooooooookay
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peachbeigeblue
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posted November 26, 2013 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
LOL. OK. So do you think love is about rules? How wrong you are. Just because you and your husband have been together since children that doesn't mean you are the happiest and perfect couple. No. You cannot affirm that. You didnt live your life. Marriage is about love not about marrying your best friend or because that person is the one who can stand you. Thats settling for less. Love isnt about compromise. Marriage isnt an agreement where two people must be together because they've been through a lot of things. No. Love is about choice, is about feeling complete and feeling that nothing is missing, that you got everything you WANTA AND NEED. I could have married my best friend since age 19. I would have been now DIVORCED. Why? Because my best friend isnt the right person for me to marry. My best friend isnt the person with whom I must share my life to kill loneliness. No. When I marry I want to be in love, I want to look at me and be proud of the person I've become, I want to look back and say: every tear I shed, every dissapointment or rejection I lived brought me here, living the happiest day of my life with a man I love and loves me and making a new step in my life. Past is past, lessons were learned, now I have what I want and need. Saturn has rewarded me greatly.
i'm going through a break up and this made me feel 10x better. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted November 26, 2013 10:20 PM
This is one of the most mental threads I've read on here, which is really saying something.
Rosalind: If you have an opinion you would like to cram down everyone's throats with the assumption that you actually possess a superior level of maturity (and, judging exclusively by your responses here, I am forced to conclude that you do not), kindly take it to a different forum. Hearth and Home, or somewhere people enjoy arguing and debating. Now go away and stop treating everyone here as though they are inferior simply based on age. They clearly are not, as you've successfully demonstrated of your own accord.
By the way. I'm almost 39 years old, darling, and you are not painting yourself in a flattering light.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted November 27, 2013 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by Violets:
This is one of the most mental threads I've read on here, which is really saying something.
[b]Rosalind: If you have an opinion you would like to cram down everyone's throats with the assumption that you actually possess a superior level of maturity (and, judging exclusively by your responses here, I am forced to conclude that you do not), kindly take it to a different forum. Hearth and Home, or somewhere people enjoy arguing and debating. Now go away and stop treating everyone here as though they are inferior simply based on age. They clearly are not, as you've successfully demonstrated of your own accord.
By the way. I'm almost 39 years old, darling, and you are not painting yourself in a flattering light.[/B]
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TempuraNostril
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 27, 2013 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I don't think so.
Why not? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted November 27, 2013 02:13 AM
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Originally posted by Violets:
This is one of the most mental threads I've read on here, which is really saying something.
[b]Rosalind: If you have an opinion you would like to cram down everyone's throats with the assumption that you actually possess a superior level of maturity (and, judging exclusively by your responses here, I am forced to conclude that you do not), kindly take it to a different forum. Hearth and Home, or somewhere people enjoy arguing and debating. Now go away and stop treating everyone here as though they are inferior simply based on age. They clearly are not, as you've successfully demonstrated of your own accord.
By the way. I'm almost 39 years old, darling, and you are not painting yourself in a flattering light.[/B]
39???? Good Lord! You sound like a 5 year old kid whose toys have been taken away and want them back. Who are you to tell me what to do? If you don't like my thread nobody force you to post here. In your place and at your age I would be ashamed. A mature person would never talk like before. Before telling me I'm immature, take a look first at yourself.
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Rosalind
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posted November 27, 2013 02:14 AM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
i'm going through a break up and this made me feel 10x better.
Glad to hear that. Stay strong:-) IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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posted November 27, 2013 02:33 AM
Well now I'm only 24 years old and therefor I haven't experienced my saturn return yet and all that stuff, but I've already been through some really heavy relationships so I do think I have a lot of experience…and I know lots of people who got married very early and now have children in the beginning of their 20's.
But if there is one thing I know about partnership it is that you HAVE to compromise. You can't be that selfish and think your partner is perfect, that sounds too virgo and I'm a virgo and know exactly how picky I am.
But I also have a pisces moon and I think that this moon gives me a very good insight about true love combined with my virgo sun.
You will always have to compromise, be open to new experiences, and the longer you have been together the more you will experience and that will change both of you. But people who are able to grow and change TOGETHER with their partner that is the most beautiful thing. When people grow in the same direction and form a deep bond that no one probably understands. It might be rare, but I do think some people are lucky enough to experience that.IP: Logged |
summerlite
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posted November 27, 2013 02:40 AM
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Originally posted by Violets:
This is one of the most mental threads I've read on here, which is really saying something.
[b]Rosalind: If you have an opinion you would like to cram down everyone's throats with the assumption that you actually possess a superior level of maturity (and, judging exclusively by your responses here, I am forced to conclude that you do not), kindly take it to a different forum. Hearth and Home, or somewhere people enjoy arguing and debating. Now go away and stop treating everyone here as though they are inferior simply based on age. They clearly are not, as you've successfully demonstrated of your own accord.
By the way. I'm almost 39 years old, darling, and you are not painting yourself in a flattering light.[/B]
the discussion was fine until kids started shoving down their opinion. i would love if this discussion gets moved to some mature forums because apparently immature minds can't handle it. IP: Logged |
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posted November 27, 2013 03:01 AM
Oh my, there are a few elephants telling birds how to fly here.Just a reminder that in the olden days, marriage was a considered to be social institution and represented by the 10th house. Marriage is hard, hard work and requires constant adjustment to the common collaboration and its goals. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted November 27, 2013 03:14 AM
I wish I had some popcorn for this thread. But please folks, keep this thread alive! I love these heated types of threads. Especially on this topic, marriage LOL. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted November 27, 2013 03:18 AM
Want some?
 I too find this thread entertaining. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted November 27, 2013 03:20 AM
 Pretty much this whole thread.. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted November 27, 2013 03:21 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
That isnt love. Its something else. There is a reason why life is divided by STAGES. Everything must be lived and learned on its time. No sooner no later. You can disagree but time will show you I am right.
The point you just made. Life is in stages, whether you're going through that stage married or not, does not matter. If you're married at 29 and a stage ends, you may get divorced. Who cares about divorce rates? Let people do what they damn well please. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted November 27, 2013 03:27 AM
^To justify not wanting to get married by making strange rules... -__- stupid. People can do as they please.. however I don't give into peer pressure unlike some people.
OMG EVERYONE AROUND ME IS GETTING MARRIED...?? OH NO Plus I guess we forget the times when humans got married as teenagers... IP: Logged |
JudyVanTassel
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posted November 27, 2013 03:29 AM
Kerosene, have you ever been with a pisces?IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted November 27, 2013 03:30 AM
been with LOL you don't know the half of it..... -__-IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted November 27, 2013 03:44 AM
Randall please close this topic. My contribution as an astrologer on this forum has ended. Thanks.IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: Neptune. where the witches wear givenchy
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posted November 27, 2013 03:48 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Want some?
I too find this thread entertaining.
LOL I could always count on Cappy 
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JudyVanTassel
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posted November 27, 2013 03:48 AM
Kerosene
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