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Topic: Libra aint loyal
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12085 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 10, 2016 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Hemilla: Ofcourse its biased,it is rooted on personal experience,if you dont agree with it fine,i dont know yall
even if we were close friends I would not agree with you on this. You made an assumption based on one example, that is not even a pattern. There are 7 billion plus people in the world. I understand you are upset at your mother's friend, I would be too but I would not blame it on her sun sign. At the very least I would look at her 11H ruler and 7H ruler which is the house of friendship and the house of relationships and check out its placements and aspects. Further I don't know why your mom's friend said that either, we have only heard your side of the story, we would need your mom's side of the story and your mother's friend side of the story to get the whole picture. You have to wonder why she said that in the first place and what is their history. Maybe you should clear the air with her and tell her that it really upset you to hear that the other day and give her the chance to explain herself if she wants. IP: Logged |
Hemilla Knowflake Posts: 676 From: State of mind Registered: May 2015
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posted December 10, 2016 05:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: even if we were close friends I would not agree with you on this. You made an assumption based on one example, that is not even a pattern. There are 7 billion plus people in the world.I understand you are upset at your mother's friend, I would be too but I would not blame it on her sun sign. At the very least I would look at her 11H ruler and 7H ruler which is the house of friendship and the house of relationships and check out its placements and aspects. Further I don't know why your mom's friend said that either, we have only heard your side of the story, we would need your mom's side of the story and your mother's friend side of the story to get the whole picture. You have to wonder why she said that in the first place and what is their history. Maybe you should clear the air with her and tell her that it really upset you to hear that the other day and give her the chance to explain herself if she wants.
The title says ''LIBRA '' without ''s'' o the end of it,so i was speaking of ONE LIBRA lol ,but as you can see i hav enoticed that other libras are flaky with friends too,libras i personaly know - i didnt say ALL LIBRAS ARE THIS OR THAT,I SAID LIBRA AINT LOYAL because this woman is libra and she aint loyal - but as i can see libras were actually called out for the same thing before (of wich i had no idea) so maybe,majority of those libras trully aint loyal in general...idk IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2016 06:04 PM
That's okay, you can call Libra whatever you want, including AintLoyal. That still won't make them come and support you in your little wars and squirmishes if they think you are wrong. But if venting makes you feel better, then by all means, vent away. 
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 12609 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2016 06:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: Teasel, I was not talking to or about you in particular. The topic of Libra and loyalty has been brought up quite a few times on this forum, and I have usually kept my mouth shut for a variety of reason. I think sometimes Libra feel that defending itself is below her... Today, I just felt like saying something and setting the record straight because I know what loyalty means to Libra. And I understand that for water sign, loyalty means something different. Besides, Jupiter is now in Libra, so THE FORCE is with Libra. 
I keep forgetting that Jupiter is in Libra. my12th house. I wonder if that could also explain certain things that have been on my mind. That would be for a different thread. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 2159 From: Mars Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 10, 2016 06:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Exactly!Many logical arguments presented why Libra shouldn't be branded, disloyal. However, experience trumps logic every time.
Not every time. Not every time. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2016 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Belage: [b] Teasel, I was not talking to or about you in particular. The topic of Libra and loyalty has been brought up quite a few times on this forum, and I have usually kept my mouth shut for a variety of reason. I think sometimes Libra feel that defending itself is below her... Today, I just felt like saying something and setting the record straight because I know what loyalty means to Libra. And I understand that for water sign, loyalty means something different. Besides, Jupiter is now in Libra, so THE FORCE is with Libra. 
I keep forgetting that Jupiter is in Libra. my12th house. I wonder if that could also explain certain things that have been on my mind. That would be for a different thread. [/B][/QUOTE]Ouch. If Libra is the ruler of your 12th house, you might have issue with this sign. We typically have difficulty understanding and dealing with our 12th house. The 12th house is that dark dank room in the attic whose door we have not opened since we moved into the house. IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces Knowflake Posts: 1971 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 10, 2016 06:20 PM
I love my 12H cusp sign.It is taurus  IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3194 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 10, 2016 06:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Not every time. Not every time.
Also, it's the experience of a few. A few don't represent all. I've not had these experiences with Libra and many haven't. Again, people trapped in the idea that the way that they experience things is the only truth. We don't even know the whole story. We got a one, short paragraph summarizing that a Libra said that someone is not their friend. I guarantee that it has whole lot of prior thought and feelings behind it. You can't summarize a 23 year long relationship in a paragraph.
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Belage Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 10, 2016 07:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by Empty Spaces: I love my 12H cusp sign.It is taurus 
Do you have planets there?
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3194 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted December 10, 2016 07:20 PM
"I'm X sun in aspect to Pluto so I'm more deep and intense than other X Suns but all Libra Suns are the same." Which way are you gonna have it? Are we practicing astrology or finding a reason as to why someone did something we don't like? IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 3067 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 10, 2016 11:06 PM
Not in my experience. I have a bunch of libra suns and libra influenced people in my life. My experience has been similar to some of what the other members have posted, they're not the type to take their loved ones' side no matter what. They stay close to their core values and sense of what's right and wrong. I highly appreciate that. About the one in your experience... I scratch my head. Dunno what to say. My first thought was "With 23 years of hanging around a person and their family willingly, it means friendship (to me)". But then again, I don't know the full background story. IP: Logged |
scorpiogirl Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 10, 2016 11:45 PM
My Moon is in Libra and I'm a very loyal person. Because of it, not despite of it, by the way.I'm loyal to my friends and my family but loyalty doesn't mean behaving like a bot. If I think my friend did something wrong I'm going to tell them just that. I'm an individual with my own principles and I'm not going to stomp on them because the other person got it in their head to behave however. I expect the same honesty from my friends otherwise I can't feel secure in the friendship. It also complicates things in other ways and I always need to know that the other person is not hiding something from me, no matter the reason. For example, if my friend A is fighting with someone and A is in the wrong, depending on what the mistake was, I will either tell them right there and then that they're wrong or I'm going to try and remove them from the fight and explain to them in private that I disagree with them. It looks like some people want you to be on their side no matter what you've done. I have no respect or time to spare for that type of person, the person that demands you follow them blindly and put aside your feelings and/or reservations. And I don't want people to treat me that way either. Like I said, that's not a basis for an honest and stable relationship. You (should) want your friend's honest opinion and guidance when it's needed, to make you a better person, not a blind follower or a yes (wo)man. Lastly, Libra is the sign of Justice. Last time I checked, Justice was a good thing. Did something change in the meantime? IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2743 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 12:21 AM
^^^ Couldn't agree more!!!IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12085 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 11, 2016 12:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by scorpiogirl: My Moon is in Libra and I'm a very loyal person. Because of it, not despite of it, by the way.I'm loyal to my friends and my family but loyalty doesn't mean behaving like a bot. If I think my friend did something wrong I'm going to tell them just that. I'm an individual with my own principles and I'm not going to stomp on them because the other person got it in their head to behave however. I expect the same honesty from my friends otherwise I can't feel secure in the friendship. It also complicates things in other ways and I always need to know that the other person is not hiding something from me, no matter the reason. For example, if my friend A is fighting with someone and A is in the wrong, depending on what the mistake was, I will either tell them right there and then that they're wrong or I'm going to try and remove them from the fight and explain to them in private that I disagree with them. It looks like some people want you to be on their side no matter what you've done. I have no respect or time to spare for that type of person, the person that demands you follow them blindly and put aside your feelings and/or reservations. And I don't want people to treat me that way either. Like I said, that's not a basis for an honest and stable relationship. You (should) want your friend's honest opinion and guidance when it's needed, to make you a better person, not a blind follower or a yes (wo)man. Lastly, Libra is the sign of Justice. Last time I checked, Justice was a good thing. Did something change in the meantime?
You go girl!!You sound so similar to my moon in Libra best friend with mars in Scorpio but my other best friend with Moon in Libra and Mars in Aries is a bit different, she respects a lot individualism and that everyone can think however they like as long as people let her exercise that same freedom she will be cool with you, she is more open minded than the other and less judgy but she has Venus in Gemini and the other Venus in Virgo. Omg I just realized both of my best friends have moon ruled by Venus, Venus ruled by Mercury and Mars at home. What a coincidence! I butt heads more with the mars in Scorpio one bc it squares my Venus and Mars while the other one I get a long with ridiculously well but her mars trines my Venus and Mars and her Venus sextiles by sign my Venus and Mars and conjuncts my Chiron. I love her energy. They are both very loyal. IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 11, 2016 12:41 AM
I think we can agree that astrology is more complex than that. Otherwise, why are we a part of this community? :SI hate the generalizations about Scorpios, as many of them are so inaccurate for me, so I'm going to attempt not to make any regarding the other signs. People are complex. We are made up by so many different factors. I will say, however, that the Libra friends I have have been incredible. ------------------ AC: Sagittarius Sun: Scorpio in the 11th Moon: Scorpio in the 11th IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 12085 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted December 11, 2016 12:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by UrsusBlack: I think we can agree that astrology is more complex than that. Otherwise, why are we all here? :SI hate the generalizations about Scorpios, as many of them are so inaccurate for me, so I'm going to attempt not to make any regarding the other signs. People are complex. We are made up by so many different factors. The Libra friends I have have been incredible.
It would be awesome if you start a thread posting your chart and talk about in what ways you differ to certain Scorpio stereotypes and what aspects in your chart contribute to this. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 749 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 11, 2016 12:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hemilla: The title says ''LIBRA '' without ''s'' o the end of it,so i was speaking of ONE LIBRA lol ,but as you can see i hav enoticed that other libras are flaky with friends too,libras i personaly know - i didnt say ALL LIBRAS ARE THIS OR THAT,I SAID LIBRA AINT LOYAL because this woman is libra and she aint loyal - but as i can see libras were actually called out for the same thing before (of wich i had no idea) so maybe,majority of those libras trully aint loyal in general...idk
If you weren't trying to put Libras under a bad light, why didn't you title it "Mom's friend ain't loyal"? C'mon, at least admit your prejudice. It's like when someone has to point out somebody who wronged them is jewish or black. Why point it out? Ok, so people have had lousy experiences with a few people in their lives who happen to be Libras. I guess all Libras are lousy people now, right?
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Sulkyarcher unregistered
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posted December 11, 2016 12:58 AM
It's kind of honest when a person makes a rant thread.Everyone's been wronged by someone, and when that happens, humans sometimes project their anger and rage on a certain sign, or whatever. It's not the most moral, or ethical, thing to do, but it certainly is raw and normal reaction to being wronged. I don't suggest the OP doing it all the time, or again, but I've had my problems with a certain sign. And it's tempting for me to make a whole thread about a certain sign, or aspect, in astrology. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3822 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 12:59 AM
quote: Lastly, Libra is the sign of Justice. Last time I checked, Justice was a good thing. Did something change in the meantime?
Libra is also the sign of death, and Satan - with the understanding that Satan means adversary. IP: Logged |
UrsusBlack Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Dec 2015
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posted December 11, 2016 01:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: It would be awesome if you start a thread posting your chart and talk about in what ways you differ to certain Scorpio stereotypes and what aspects in your chart contribute to this.
If that would interest people I'd love to. My journey with astrology is still in its infancy, so others' insights with regards to aspects are probably better explained by others. I will try my best however. (: ------------------ AC: Sagittarius Sun: Scorpio in the 11th Moon: Scorpio in the 11th IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Moderator Posts: 2159 From: Mars Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 11, 2016 01:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Libra is also the sign of death, and Satan - with the understanding that Satan means adversary.
No it's not; the sign of death is Scorpio. This is basic astrology; never once have I heard that Libra symbolized death or Satan absolutely anywhere. ------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3822 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 11, 2016 01:45 AM
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No it's not; the sign of death is Scorpio. This is basic astrology; never once have I heard that Libra symbolized death or Satan absolutely anywhere.
No, no. Scorpio is the undertaker, the one who buries the dead. Libra is judge (justice), jury, and executioner. Libra does the killing. Aries is when the Sun STRINGS to life. Libra is where the Sun goes to die, or FALLS to his death. It is in Libra when the trees and other vegetation - die. Scorpio takes their listless/dead bodies into the underworld. Libra is the opposition in astrology. A Satan is an adversary, or opponent in theology. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2360 From: Into the wormhole on Saturn's ring Registered: Jul 2016
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posted December 11, 2016 01:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: No, no. Scorpio is the undertaker, the one who buries the dead. Libra is judge (justice), jury, and executioner. Libra does the killing. Aries is when the Sun STRINGS to life. Libra is where the Sun goes to die, or FALLS to his death. It is in Libra when the trees and other vegetation - die. Scorpio takes their listless/dead bodies into the underworld. Libra is the opposition in astrology. A Satan is an adversary, or opponent in theology.
interesting! no wonder I always associated aleister crowley with satan. IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher unregistered
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posted December 11, 2016 03:54 AM
Really? I always read that Satan was Saturn. So I always associated Satan with Capricorn.And death with Scorpio and Pluto. IP: Logged |
scorpiogirl Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 11, 2016 04:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: You go girl!!You sound so similar to my moon in Libra best friend with mars in Scorpio but my other best friend with Moon in Libra and Mars in Aries is a bit different, she respects a lot individualism and that everyone can think however they like as long as people let her exercise that same freedom she will be cool with you, she is more open minded than the other and less judgy but she has Venus in Gemini and the other Venus in Virgo. Omg I just realized both of my best friends have moon ruled by Venus, Venus ruled by Mercury and Mars at home. What a coincidence! I butt heads more with the mars in Scorpio one bc it squares my Venus and Mars while the other one I get a long with ridiculously well but her mars trines my Venus and Mars and her Venus sextiles by sign my Venus and Mars and conjuncts my Chiron. I love her energy. They are both very loyal.
That's interesting, I also have Venus in Virgo and Mars in Scorpio. I struggle with being judgy sometimes. So you've got Venus/Mars in Leo? IP: Logged |