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posted November 09, 2008 03:42 AM            

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It would denote either a) they're really shy and don't know what to say or b) they're not interested or 3) they just haven't seen it yet.

How long ago was the message sent?

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posted November 09, 2008 03:44 AM            

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We also know that the best way to get the person to come running to you is to detach from them - cut those cords and they'll be falling at your feet in no time.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:45 AM            

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Jude doesn't do a thing for me, but he photographs well. This is a great pic of him.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:45 AM            

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popped in to edit!

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posted November 09, 2008 03:49 AM            

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Two months is a very long time. And even out of courtesy, most people would have replied. I'd say this person is not into the other person, or they're not available. Shyness doesn't extend itself that far. But rudeness is another matter.

Your friend could email this person one more time. Just a friendly hello kind of message, asking what's new - one or two sentences and see where it goes. If no reply again, then, seriously let it go. If the person is not interested, they could just come out and say it - nicely. The other thing is if they're really that rude - no-one deserves that - and your friend can do much better.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:50 AM            

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jumping the posts

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posted November 09, 2008 03:50 AM            

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Just on feeling - this person is attached and when they're not they'll come running.

But it should be too late by then.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:51 AM              

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ah, I`m only an objective observer. And these tight blue jeans and the white T-shirt, this dishevelled blonde hair and the absolute crazy expression in his eyes. I don`t know what happened to me, but I literally forgot to breathe.
I noticed it only when I felt the oxygene was missing from my lungs and I had to take a deep breath.

But as I said I am merely observing. Anyone could have seen that.
But it was distracting at time and I had to admonish myself to pay attention to what had been said and not to these jeans.

I am not lying.
Denial? Maybe.
It`s complicated.

Jeez, I prefer Sean. He`s uncomplicated. My reaction to him is simple and pure.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:52 AM            

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There's lots of ways of making a statement though. Lots of ways of dealing with one thing. If they're not naturally rude - then yes, they're making a loud statement.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:54 AM            

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Jeez, I prefer Sean. He`s uncomplicated. My reaction to him is simple and pure.

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Ah yes! Much more complicated when the heart strings are being pulled.

Sean is uncomplicated because it's purely sexual.

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posted November 09, 2008 03:56 AM            

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DD - both you and PA love their men with a fag hanging off them . What is the attraction??????

PA - Geez, the statement is deafening???? LOL Okay, so I'll have to tell my friend, she's a loser

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posted November 09, 2008 03:56 AM            

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btw - that last post - man, you are seriously in denial. Go back and read it.

If you're so distracted by a man in his jeans that you can't breathe - I think we call it "lust".

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posted November 09, 2008 03:57 AM            

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I, on the other hand am not susceptible to such charms. No man in jeans could ever distract me to the point of......

.....ummm, what was I saying? What am I doing here? Who? What? What...............

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posted November 09, 2008 04:01 AM            

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There's not much packed into those jeans, is there

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posted November 09, 2008 04:03 AM            

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I suppose you're gonna give me the "quality" not "quantity" spiel now!!!

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posted November 09, 2008 04:04 AM            

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DD - both you and PA love their men with a fag hanging off them . What is the attraction??????

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I find smoking repulsive. But, it's like any kind of love/lust, you make allowances. There's some things on tha list of ideals that are easier to wipe off and let go. Of course, in real life, those things are the ones that come back to haunt you later. I'm not attracted to smoking or smokers - but I seem to always attract men who smoke. It's part of taking people as they are. And we all have our vices. My husband gave up smoking a few years ago, thankfully.

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posted November 09, 2008 04:05 AM            

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Okay, that's all the knocking I'll do on Colin...

I know how much you lust him!!!

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posted November 09, 2008 04:06 AM            

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I suppose you're gonna give me the "quality" not "quantity" spiel now!!!

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Am I really THAT predictable.

What I am going to say is that I don't care how big it is or gets as long as he knows what to do with it.

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posted November 09, 2008 04:07 AM            

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It's not lust.

It's based on mutual attraction.

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posted November 09, 2008 04:10 AM            

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There's not much packed into those jeans, is there

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We'll make allowances for loose jeans.

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posted November 09, 2008 04:10 AM            

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Besides, what happened to Farrell the barrrell?

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posted November 09, 2008 04:11 AM            

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Farrell doesn't rhyme with pistol, or pea-shooter

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posted November 09, 2008 04:13 AM            

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Tight clothes are bad for sperm count you know.

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posted November 09, 2008 04:14 AM            

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Would you prefer Ewan in his kilt?

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posted November 09, 2008 04:14 AM            

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Or in his leathers/jeans?

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