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Topic: Cancers: How do you feel about Earth signs?
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 05:56 AM
Aw, I'm sorry earth signs. I don't mean to be rude. Please don't be hurt..I love you guys..but I just wanted to comment on an aspect of ur personality that's lacking.....outer joviality. Yes, you guys are mighty reserved. It's an observation, not a critique. Maybe other signs like your reservedness. Maybe it calms some of the more hyper signs...but for an equally reserved sign, probably (well not as much...no, no. But in some ways similar) ....and one that thrives on emotion and energy (not so much intellect) I'm talking about water signs here, it just doesn't seem to me like a good match. Sure, we'd have security...we'd have dependability and honesty and straightforward communication? But where's the fun and the thriving off each other's energy? I just don't see it. And without fun, there can be no trust, no intimacy, and that stability could shatter at any moment bc of arguments. I just wanted to say, that I know they're supposed to be the most compatible with us, but...don't you guys (talking to my fellow cancers) find them too serious? I need someone who is jovial. It doesn't matter if they're funny or witty or entertaining or not..what I mean is..they never smile, they never laugh. They seem so...preoccupied with themselves. They can be funny, and sure they smile and are happy like everyone else...but they dont express emotions and arent as fond of spontaneity as us Cancers, I think. We Cancers are all about being crazy and showing emotion. Though we don't like when people do it too much in ur face like some fire signs. And we don't like the detachment of the air signs, where you can't even read their emotions and they seem so casual towards you it's....offensive. But, i think i get along with far more air and fire signs than earth signs. Water signs are the best. But I gotta say Earth signs are the worst. It's like they suck the life out of me. Though, I gotta say, we have a tremendous sexual attraction....Virgos and Cancers. Well, Caps too but that's more of a spiritual/emotional attraction.
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Benedict Moon* Knowflake Posts: 1971 From: Avendesora Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 06:15 AM
Hmmm, Virgo is more a nice 'like'...otherwise nothing sexual. I'll admit I do get uncomfortable when their sun is right on top of my Moon (I guess as Cancerian I'm very sensitive to Moon contacts). My ex had a Virgo Mars and was extremely calculating...but hid it well. There was a Virgo guy who was after me while I was still in Rhode Island too. It was not mutual. Probably coz I could sense that he only liked me because he wanted some arm candy. He was not very serious or 'lacking fun' at all: he was Brasilian who just loved to party every weekend. Taurus = HOT. Love both sexes, especially the men. Sun, Moon, Mars, ANYTHING. Its my Jupiter sign but not much else. They do bring out the inner hedon in me, not much seriousness at all. Well there is stability that comes with it, which is nice.
Capricorn = Love the women, despise the men. Of course there are exceptions,but I get annoyed when people say we look to our opposites for a match. Its rare I've ever known a Capricorn man I could trust, for one thing. Secondly, I've found them to be a bit condescending....one of my instructors is definitely Cap and he really know how make you feel like you're 9 years old again. It could be my perception, I guess, with my watery Cancer Sun. And this is my Ascendant sign...hahaha.
I don't notice any seriousness in particular with either sign, but its probably because I have an earth moon and Ascendant....so I come off more serious than they do sometimes. haha
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posted November 05, 2010 06:24 AM
quote: I just wanted to say, that I know they're supposed to be the most compatible with us, but...don't you guys (talking to my fellow cancers) find them too serious? I need someone who is jovial. It doesn't matter if they're funny or witty or entertaining or not..what I mean is..they never smile, they never laugh. They seem so...preoccupied with themselves.
OMG OMG OMG I could not agree more!! I thought that it was my Gemini moon not compatible with them but I guess it is a Cancerian thing then because I have 3 planets in Cancer and I sure don't crave their monotone lifestyle or lack of enthusiasm towards life. Though I did stick to a Taurean for 10 years I came out of it very drained and tired. IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 06:26 AM
Taurus is great in bed I'm not denying them in the bedroom but other than that they are not great for every day living.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8353 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 06:46 AM
You are cute,Purple ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 06:50 AM
What? We never smile or laugh? No spontaneity? huh? :OMaybe you know mostly earth dominated people, cos l smile and laugh a lot! I''m so not serious lol and my bf is similar. Always smiling and so not serious. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8353 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:01 AM
Well, I love earth signs in friendships--male and female. I have no earth. I love the teddy bear sense of Taurus and the strong , practical earth bound quality of Capricorn. I do not get along with Virgo well cuz I have a Gemini stellium. I can feel the square "nature" of the Gemini/Virgo. I love Taurus moon. It feels warm and sweet. I like Cap moon in a friend,only. I would not want it in a Significant Other. It is too cold for my Cancer moon in a deep relationship. ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend.
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:08 AM
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:11 AM
Lara. I was friends with a Cap for a long timr who had mostly fire in her chart. She would smile and laugh, I'm not saying they don't but then they go right back to being depressed or something ...
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Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 07:11 AM
Seems the earth signs always get the bad rep and are loved the least. quote: they never smile, they never laugh. They seem so...preoccupied with themselves.
I've been accused of that by people that hardly know me. But why would I be preoccupied with someone I don't know/care about? It makes no sense. I am not a clown to entertain everyone I also don't like small talk, I see it as a waste of my time. = ASC in Capricorn When I am around someone I care about, I am a very different person: I am caring, talkative and expressive about my feelings also I joke around a lot = Moon conj Neptune in Sag IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 07:11 AM
The funny thing is that Taureans think that Cancerians whinge a lot and wallow in a cycle of self pity lol
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posted November 05, 2010 07:13 AM
quote: The funny thing is that Taureans think that Cancerians whinge a lot and wallow in a cycle of self pity lol
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posted November 05, 2010 07:15 AM
Maybe that is why we whinge "as stated above" IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 07:15 AM
Depressed? just cos i don't runaroundscreaming all the time, doesn't mean i'm depressed! I don't think l could be more positive and jovial without strangling myself with the happy stick lol Peri don't take it to heart - water is envious of your ability to focus and be real, because they are uncontainable alone and need an object to give them shape and focus plus as soon as they find their aqueous 'feet', the Universe turns them into steam or ice!
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RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:15 AM
sorry...lol. Ehhh.....I know I said that they never smile and laugh, and then right after I said that they smile and laugh like everybody else does. lol. But what I meant was that they smile and laugh but not as much as others, number one, and number two, when they do...either they don't really smile with their eyes...it's like their smile/laugh isn't as jovial as other people's. Bc u can see it in their eyes. I noticed that, yes, some of them do smile and laugh a lot..but they still have this depressed workaholic aura about them...and like they're controlling or feel they have to be in control of everything. Especially of themselves.IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 07:20 AM
What? Depressed work aura? hahahahahahaha now i heard it all. In control? Control is a FIXED trait not an earth trait. Actually, l have found pisces and cancer to be more controlling than me. I'm not being pedantic but l think this discussion is a little ridiculous coming from a cancerian which l have found on my journeys to be a depressed, moody, needy sign, all credit to their caring side but taurus is also very caring, if not more so. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:26 AM
Lara...whining about probably being the least loved element isn't complaining in self-pity? If you're completely honest with urself, I think u'd see that earth signs are equally as whiny, actually. Or, maybe even more in my opinion. But, it's true that water signs wallow in self-pity bc water signs are usually very fearful. Usually, we need someone to show us the world in a caring way, so we become less fearful of the unknown . But ...earth signs are just, like...depressed. It's like they want everyone and everythingto be perfect, so that's why they complain. I dunno maybe i'm being unfair. :/ but that's how i perceive it. And what's wrong with being entertaining? What's wrong with trying to make others smile? You're givingto others by making them smile. You might have made an impact on someone who was feeling a bit sad. What about Making new friends? Peri...... Don't judge people right off the bat. The person sitting next to u could easily turn into someone u care about with just starting some friendly conversation. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:30 AM
Lara, I'm going to ignore you because you're getting offended and being defensive. When you can come back with a different tone, then we can discuss this like two calm individuals, alright?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8353 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:31 AM
You have to find your Weirdo That is my love advice ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:35 AM
Purple. That was funny what you said about whining. Haha . Very witty, I gotta say .Ami Anne. What Weirdo are we talking about again? Lmao. IP: Logged |
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posted November 05, 2010 07:45 AM
LOL runaround, I'm not offended or defensive. I'm guessing you're an American and I'm a Brit! I don't get offended unless you accuse me of being something I'm not! Cancerians appear to wallow in the past alot.. agree? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 8353 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:47 AM
Well, I mean that we ALL are weird in our own ways . We have to find a partner who fits us in his own weird ways ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Knowflake Posts: 676 From: USA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 07:50 AM
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posted November 05, 2010 07:58 AM
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Peri Knowflake Posts: 1848 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 07:59 AM
RunAround, I was not whining about being the least loved element, it is just something I noticed quote: Peri...... Don't judge people right off the bat
Honestly, I don't judge anyone, I am just very introverted and meeting/dealing with new people drains me so I usually try to stay invisible, however, if someone wants to make friends with me and is being polite AND not annoying or intrusive, I will sure be friendly and smile at them too. I noticed some people take me being preoccupied with myself very personally as if I was trying to offend them when in fact it is just the way I am, it's my comfort level, and it has nothing to do with them. IP: Logged |