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Topic: Virgins 25+
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starmoon
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posted February 11, 2013 11:12 AM
  
i waited until 30, i'm 38 now. i'd dated tons all my life and had long-term bfs and always told them it was for religion i was waiting but i'm not even religious. i wasn't a 'late bloomer' because i was datig all the time, but i was always holding back. i wanted true love and some white knight to come along and i felt like i'd just 'know' when it was him. i was determined for it to be true love, or at least some karmic pull or some such thing. then i met 'him' and i knew it was going to be him. i later found out we have venus conjunct pluto/uranus exact. it was too much sexual pull to ignore.and venus conjunct neptune made it seem very romantic.i always felt it was my cap moon that held me back along with my scorpio rising - two tough placements for a female i think. and i have neptune in the first so i always want romance and some romantic hero and was always disappointed in men before i even got to the point of sleeping with them. i don't regret waiting, my bf benefits from all the pent up years i didn't do anything :-) and i knew when we started dating that virginity in his culture was highly valued so it ended up being a very nice thing for him to learn and not a negative. the right guy will care less about your age and experience. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6015
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:15 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
She is one person.. and yes, some people would be like her. That doesn't mean it's a majority. There are other factors to take into account like age, background, overall life experience, psychological predispositions based on her parents & their own relationship, her natal chart.. etcDoing this with one girl or a couple of girls does not exactly give you accurate statistics about the rest of the world. Also we don't have her side of the story. Based on what you are saying, as I've told you before - it could've been a misunderstanding on your part eg. if you were friends so she cared about you as a friend and panicked about your sudden behaviour change... Or... if she had always had a crush on you but it was purely her personality to be distant towards people in general (some people are more guarded than others) but due to your crazy behaviour she freaked our thinking she would lose you and decided to be more forward -- this kinda thing happens.... So not having her side of the story, I'm not sure what to think of this anyway. I think I've already mentioned this as well... but basically, I've been in this kind of situation with a guy where he pretended to be something he wasn't and he completely misinterpreted my own behaviour.
no, it wasnt a misunderstanding.it was very clear
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
i suppose theoretically it can seem to be like that ...but i think it goes back to energy and it's not that people are sheep but they pick up the same vibe from that person. sounds abit like different things btw. mc/ac. it's like this one person i had no idea y people kept getting infuriated with him. then he stayed with me for a few months and i ended up getting infuriated with him too! if u ask me y right now i cannot tell you but it was definitely from their actions and vibe.peregrine i think it's definitely in the charts. the placements. the aspects. all there.
that may be true for some cases, but you cant deny the fact that people follow the herd... like what happened to me... also you see people becoming magically attracted to somebody after their friends start dating them or when one kid picks on another and everyone else pitches in to harass them as wellIP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:22 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i know i have already told this story a few times, but i.think it is extremely relevant to this discussion , so i'll tell it again... a few years ago i was interested in this girl and we had lots in common and got along great and i was interested in having a relationship with her, but she wasnt interested in me that way.... so i decided to play a little trick on her, i started being aloof and telling her all kinds of lies, i told her that i was going to clubs to meet random girls to hook up, and all of a sudden she changed her tune.. she was calling me and texting nonstop, she even told me she loved me... so the moral of the story is "I" wasnt good enough for her by my own merits, she had to think i was some stud who was desirable to a large number of women... our amazing mental/emotional connection wasnt enough, what others thought mattered more.... and the majority of people in the world are alot like her, they dont think for themselves and care too much what others think.
lol and u wonder y other posters have expressed a preference for experience?  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:30 AM
^i hardly see a connection, but ok. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
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posted February 11, 2013 11:33 AM
well it's a very immature thing to do. coulda probably handled that situation better. hopefully u do in the future if it happens again. but i suppose since you're young now, years ago meant u were even much younger. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 11, 2013 11:33 AM
Because she was just one person (hence, lack of experience.. I think thats what peregrine meant). If you had tried this with 10 different girls.. they would've all reacted differently and I'd say mostly negative (like trying to get you back and make you jealous as well) or neutral - avoiding you. I am not by any means suggesting that you behave this way again. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
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posted February 11, 2013 11:38 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
^i hardly see a connection, but ok.
btw do u know how to dance? IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 11, 2013 11:41 AM
If something does possess you to behave this way again please do so with an Aries girl. You'll never forget what happens. Whatever happens - it will be memorable lolIP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6015
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by peregrine:
well it's a very immature thing to do. coulda probably handled that situation better. hopefully u do in the future if it happens again. but i suppose since you're young now, years ago meant u were even much younger.
well yes, it was. but her falling for that was an immature thing too..my point was lots of people fall for that sort of thing. several posters here have already pretty much said they want someone who is experienced and people who arent experience must have something wrong with them. which means they go with the crowd and choose who others choose, which is not much different then the girl in my story. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
If something does possess you to behave this way again please do so with an Aries girl. You'll never forget what happens. Whatever happens - it will be memorable lol
haha what would you do? :P IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1373
From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
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posted February 11, 2013 11:46 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
If something does possess you to behave this way again please do so with an Aries girl. You'll never forget what happens. Whatever happens - it will be memorable lol
y what would an aries girl do? i think just bang a door and storm out tbh. IP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
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posted February 11, 2013 11:53 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well yes, it was. but her falling for that was an immature thing too..my point was lots of people fall for that sort of thing. several posters here have already pretty much said they want someone who is experienced and people who arent experience must have something wrong with them. which means they go with the crowd and choose who others choose, which is not much different then the girl in my story.
you test people enough they will let you down.  yes darn that bradley cooper and ryan gosling never much saw what the whole fuss was about!  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted February 11, 2013 11:53 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Some people stay virgins due to religious convictions like Tim Tebow(sp) I am not a sports fan 
I don't believe he's a virgin for a second. I think it's a marketing scheme. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 11, 2013 11:54 AM
I'd figure out something really important to you, like your job for example & I'd destroy it.
Fire burns baby lol
Like a huge unforgettable scandal at your work place or wrecking something meaningful to you, like your fave guitar if you played guitar... or for example if you were studying with me I might accidentally misplace your books/essays that are due etc.Or I might just get a hold of your credit card... That doesn't require much explanation IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 11, 2013 11:57 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
If something does possess you to behave this way again please do so with an Aries girl. You'll never forget what happens. Whatever happens - it will be memorable lol
LOL, true. I can smell guys who are playing games like that, and further more I tend to "know" Aqua guys. For one Aquarius' can't argue and two, I can make a guy feel so stupid and he'll end up regretting pulling that kind of trick on me. PEW PEW. IP: Logged |
peregrine
Knowflake Posts: 1373
From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:58 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
I'd figure out something really important to you, like your job for example & I'd destroy it.
Fire burns baby lol
Like a huge unforgettable scandal at your work place or wrecking something meaningful to you, like your fave guitar if you played guitar... or for example if you were studying with me I might accidentally misplace your books/essays that are due etc.Or I might just get a hold of your credit card... That doesn't require much explanation
i don't want to send you pictures anymore!  you are venus pluto at work not just fire. IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 3077
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 11:59 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LOL, true. I can smell guys who are playing games like that, and further more I tend to "know" Aqua guys. For one Aquarius' can't argue and two, I can make a guy feel so stupid and he'll end up regretting pulling that kind of trick on me. PEW PEW.
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hannaramaa
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posted February 11, 2013 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
well yes, it was. but her falling for that was an immature thing too...
WhatIdon'teven... Really?! You told a girl a lie, and she believed it - that makes her immature as well?! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6015
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 12:01 PM
you fail to see the point i'm trying to make.. i'm saying that most people go with the crowd and dont think for themselves. yes ryan gosling is a good looking dude imo, and he is regarded as such by pretty much all women, but how many of them actually find him attractive for who he is, and not just because everyone else finds him attractive? its the same with guys and women like megan fox , i personally dont find her all that attractive, but basically every other guy does... IP: Logged |
peregrine
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From: 20,000 leagues under the sea
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posted February 11, 2013 12:01 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
WhatIdon'teven...Really?! You told a girl a lie, and she believed it - that makes her immature as well?!
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Odette
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posted February 11, 2013 12:02 PM
 Hannah!! quote:
i think just bang a door and storm out tbh.
Lollll well you've obviously never really ticked off an Aries girl!!
It must be that Taurean charm  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 6015
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 12:04 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
WhatIdon'teven...Really?! You told a girl a lie, and she believed it - that makes her immature as well?!
omg ... ya'll fail to see the point here... the point is she became attracted to me because she thought i was a player , is that not immature? it blows my mind how ya'll conveniently forget that part... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted February 11, 2013 12:07 PM
Oh darn I missed all your posts again :/peregrine I don't bite though .. I'm pretty positive
I mean I'm putting myself in the shoes of this girl and his behaviour as he described it was an ongoing thing.. and frankly that's just messing with someone else's head.. so he would deserve nasty consequences.
In truth, I would prolly be too disappointed in the guy to even do these things.. so maybe I'd just completely black list him and pretend he's dead to me. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 418
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 11, 2013 12:10 PM
Wow. I wasn't expecting it to become such a popular thread  I doubt I'll lose my virginity before I turn 25 so I can already tell you how you can spot people like me - Capricorn 5H with Saturn and Saturn dominance  ------------------
Do you have some chocolate? IP: Logged |
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