posted February 11, 2013 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ haha all the Scorpio mars I've encountered are total ***** haha.. It is more mars in Cap or Pisces.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
@peregrine: what's cheesy/mushy about Venus Neptune ? My loveliest romance took place during a Neptune - Venus transit and like hell am I ever gonna believe it wasn't real

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posted February 11, 2013 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
^ haha all the Scorpio mars I've encountered are total ***** haha.. It is more mars in Cap or Pisces.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:09 AM            

And no Im not hideous, a geek, or a nun.

Im extremely picky though.
I would prefer a virgin actually.

Not that virginity is about religion etc. To me its means the person has no baggage. I like the idea that he would not have been banging other chicks, no stds etc.

Also with me telling men that Im not gonna sleep around helps me filter guys quickly and save time.

The ones that cant live without jumping into bed, probably cant control themselves and that to me is extremely unattractive.
I would suspect that those men would be the ones that fall to urges since they never really had enough self discipline to begin with. To me that isnt stable marriage material.

I like the idea of being someones first and sharing something intimate with my husband. The first time might be awkward and not as beautiful as people make it but to me it is special. I mean a guy, who shares my mentality and decides he would rather wait for the right girl rather than poke every girl on the street, would be really strong mentally, someone, who can delay immediate gratification for his values or priorities, someone, who to me has his life in order.

Also I dont like that ick factor of one night stands. Having to be so close to someone I barely know. His breath. His nail dirt. Did he clean down there? How does he eat? Is he hygenic or just one who sprays on tons of cologne? Is he a nut, psycho, serial killer? Did he just kill someone before getting here to have a one nighter with me? Does he hurt animals? Does he have a weirdo habit? Are his family memebers lunatics? Does he have an ex gf who might stalk me? What about a wife? Has he raped someone? Is he a pedophile? Does he have HIV? Does he have an STD? Just too many negative things would be running through my mind. There are so many girls killed, raped, drugged etc like this. I think there was a recent one? Elizabeth 'Lizzi' Marriott.

I would be more happy when I felt safe and secure and in the right mans arms.

sun: gemini-cancer
moon: scorpio
asc: scorpio
venus: leo
mars: gemini
jupiter: sag
saturn: libra
uranus: sag
neptune: sag
pluto: libra
true node: gemini
chiron: gemini

Also, I know of one girl that told me I should test out the car before buying. I seriously would not rate sex as the most important thing for me to have an emotional mental, and even physical connection.
And say he was a perfect man who didnt know what he was doing? Why in the world would I dump an otherwise perfect man for a sex addict?

Also, it isnt damn rocket science. Even someone with a low IQ person figures it out. And think about it. Biological needs such as urinating, defecating, crying, eating, breathing are not taught. I have heard people actually brag about how much experience they have or needed.

*Hmmm well you need lots of experience to be any good at it.*

If you need lots of experience to have/ learn sex then there has to be something wrong with you upstairs. Seriously. How does one need so much experience to figure out a basic biological experience? You have to be a modern day dodo bird not to get it right. So when I hear:

*Oh girl, I have tons of experience.*
*Damn I know how to run this motor.*
*I have spent year perfecting this...* *Years of experience all packed down there. It runs on automatic.*

I have to laugh in that persons face for what they just un wittingly admitted to me.

Anyway....It is what it is. I am not preaching my point just stating my opinion. I know it isnt popular in this country but in other countries it is. : /

posted February 11, 2013 02:31 AM            

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Originally posted by peregrine:
^no way! some are sex on fire. not the librarian type IMO. besides it's only a mask. i'd post my ex.. virgo rising, cancer sun, leo moon but you'd come closer and closer to deciphering my real identity.

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posted February 11, 2013 02:36 AM            

I wouldn't condemn people with values different from yours

I would NEVER sleep with a virgin/late bloomer

posted February 11, 2013 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by peregrine:
i'm... batman!

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posted February 11, 2013 03:02 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
@Dreaming

I wouldn't condemn people with values different from yours

I would NEVER sleep with a virgin/late bloomer

If there's no buyer there's a 99.9% probability that something's wrong with the product, id rather not give it a chance.

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Did you ever consider the possibility that a virgin may be turning down offers? It is not hard to get sex. I've seen men sleep with the most crazed, psychotic, hideous women and vice versa. A lot of people (not saying everyone) will sleep with anyone who has a pulse. It doesn't matter who they are, what they look like or even whether they have terrible hygiene as long as they are physically able to have sex.

If ugly (both inside and out) and truly psychotic people can get sex, what makes you think an average looking and pleasant virgin can't?

One of my coworkers brags quite a bit about his prowess in bed since he is so experienced. It is true that he has slept with many women. However, experience does not necessarily indicate that a person is good in bed. Quality matters far more than quantity. The worst ones are those who do not care about their partner's pleasure. Virgin or not--as long as the person is considerate of others, eager to please and refuses to lie there like a dead fish, they will be good.

posted February 11, 2013 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by peregrine:
[b]i'm... batman!

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posted February 11, 2013 03:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Biological needs such as urinating, defecating, crying, eating, breathing are not taught. I have heard people actually brag about how much experience they have or needed.

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Actually, a lot of those ARE learned from experience. Take eating for example, just to get more food in than out takes some babies a long time to learn. And then there's table manners, how to use silverware (or chopsticks, etc) proficiently, how not to burn yourself in preparing & handling food, how not to disgust everyone around you, how to eat healthy, and...most of all...how to make food that's delicious and enjoyable rather than berries (careful they're not poisoned!) from the bush. That all takes years of learning & practice. Sure, anyone can pick an apple off the tree (and even then some have to learn not to pick up an apple off the ground!) but a person who has learned what to do can make apple pie, apple sauce, apple cinnamon biscuits, apple skillet, etc, which is far more pleasant than eating another apple. Many people take a lot of pride in their cooking skills (while others are derided for their unhealthy eating habits and uncouth table manners), and rightly so. Sure, anyone can eat, but to make eating enjoyable and fulfilling takes skill & practice.

posted February 11, 2013 04:09 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
@Dreaming

I wouldn't condemn people with values different from yours

I would NEVER sleep with a virgin/late bloomer

If there's no buyer there's a 99.9% probability that something's wrong with the product, id rather not give it a chance.

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That's a false assumption to believe the only reason someone is a virgin/late bloomer is because no one would get that close to them, and a ridiculous one given how plenty of men will go for any crack they can find and how easy it often is for a man to pay for sex if he were really that determined to lose his virginity.

And besides, maybe there's something to be said about being chosen by someone so discriminating.

posted February 11, 2013 06:56 AM            

Anyway example:

Venus, as ruler of 5th house, in Capricorn squaring Pluto, as ruler of 11th and 12th house

Mars conjunct Neptune on ASC

Saturn, as ruler of 2nd house, being retrograde and in Cancer in 8th house (with the 8th house ruler also being in 2nd house)

posted February 11, 2013 06:58 AM            

Lets look at it differently: if the person doesn't want/need romantic love and relationships and doesn't have them then fine, I sure can respect that.

Just like with money, I wouldn't condemn a person with modest demands for making too little money.

BUT I think that if one needs something one should work towards it and use ones head to come by it. Otherwise what's in the way?

posted February 11, 2013 07:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I fall into this bunch.

And no Im not hideous, a geek, or a nun.

Im extremely picky though.
I would prefer a virgin actually.

Not that virginity is about religion etc. To me its means the person has no baggage. I like the idea that he would not have been banging other chicks, no stds etc.

Also with me telling men that Im not gonna sleep around helps me filter guys quickly and save time.

The ones that cant live without jumping into bed, probably cant control themselves and that to me is extremely unattractive.
I would suspect that those men would be the ones that fall to urges since they never really had enough self discipline to begin with. To me that isnt stable marriage material.

I like the idea of being someones first and sharing something intimate with my husband. The first time might be awkward and not as beautiful as people make it but to me it is special. I mean a guy, who shares my mentality and decides he would rather wait for the right girl rather than poke every girl on the street, would be really strong mentally, someone, who can delay immediate gratification for his values or priorities, someone, who to me has his life in order.

Also I dont like that ick factor of one night stands. Having to be so close to someone I barely know. His breath. His nail dirt. Did he clean down there? How does he eat? Is he hygenic or just one who sprays on tons of cologne? Is he a nut, psycho, serial killer? Did he just kill someone before getting here to have a one nighter with me? Does he hurt animals? Does he have a weirdo habit? Are his family memebers lunatics? Does he have an ex gf who might stalk me? What about a wife? Has he raped someone? Is he a pedophile? Does he have HIV? Does he have an STD? Just too many negative things would be running through my mind. There are so many girls killed, raped, drugged etc like this. I think there was a recent one? Elizabeth 'Lizzi' Marriott.

I would be more happy when I felt safe and secure and in the right mans arms.

sun: gemini-cancer
moon: scorpio
asc: scorpio
venus: leo
mars: gemini
jupiter: sag
saturn: libra
uranus: sag
neptune: sag
pluto: libra
true node: gemini
chiron: gemini

Also, I know of one girl that told me I should test out the car before buying. I seriously would not rate sex as the most important thing for me to have an emotional mental, and even physical connection.
And say he was a perfect man who didnt know what he was doing? Why in the world would I dump an otherwise perfect man for a sex addict?

Also, it isnt damn rocket science. Even someone with a low IQ person figures it out. And think about it. Biological needs such as urinating, defecating, crying, eating, breathing are not taught. I have heard people actually brag about how much experience they have or needed.

*Hmmm well you need lots of experience to be any good at it.*

If you need lots of experience to have/ learn sex then there has to be something wrong with you upstairs. Seriously. How does one need so much experience to figure out a basic biological experience? You have to be a modern day dodo bird not to get it right. So when I hear:

*Oh girl, I have tons of experience.*
*Damn I know how to run this motor.*
*I have spent year perfecting this...* *Years of experience all packed down there. It runs on automatic.*

I have to laugh in that persons face for what they just un wittingly admitted to me.

Anyway....It is what it is. I am not preaching my point just stating my opinion. I know it isnt popular in this country but in other countries it is. : /

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posted February 11, 2013 08:00 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
A virgin guy in his late 20s ??? Naah thank you

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depends... if he is trying and doesn't get any i'd think something is wrong with him too.

posted February 11, 2013 08:02 AM            

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