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Topic: Upcoming birthday and a hope for a better year.
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rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 22, 2011 02:26 PM
Thanks Ami, He said he is gonna talk to me today, let's see what comes out of it. I hope he is willing to talk about us.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 02:31 PM
Bump Check in ,Sweetie ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 03:48 PM
He never called up and he is rude. Never even txted to say sorry for not calling. I think I am done with the idiot.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 05:57 PM
------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 07:27 PM
I am super cross, he is an idiot and i dont know why he cme into my life. I was happy before he came, now all I want is to be where I was before he came. Lord, I wish I never knew him.IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 07:27 PM
I am super cross, he is an idiot and i dont know why he came into my life. I was happy before he came, now all I want is to be where I was before he came. Lord, I wish I never knew him.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 08:13 PM
Hang on Rajin You know you are crazy about him Release yourself to the inevitable ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 10:06 PM
It"s over Ami. He wrote back to say that he is worried that I will stifle him and he will be unhappy. He is setting the grounds for breaking up and trying to blame it on me. I guess this is the end.IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 10:08 PM
It"s over Ami. He wrote back to say that he is worried that I will stifle him and he will be unhappy. He is setting the grounds for breaking up and trying to blame it on me. I guess this is the end.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 10:21 PM
NOOOOOO It is NOT over. Be COOOOOOL COOOL Rajin OK Be cool,Baby
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rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 10:35 PM
I am tired Ami. I am so tired, I wish to just lie down and never wake up. I can;t fight anymore. He is not even mature enough to see what a relationship should be like. Me asking if he is doing ok is the biggest concern for him to break up. And he says it is not a relationship at all. Lord, Ami, I cant do this anymore.I am tired of this life.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 23, 2011 10:46 PM
It will be OK TRUST ME, Sweetie ! Talk tomorrow!------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 23, 2011 10:51 PM
thanks ami. If you can see death in my chart and that too soon I will welcome it.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 08:54 AM
Rajin It is a "test" for him to SEE if he can go. Be gracious. He will be back. Trust me ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 24, 2011 09:40 AM
what do you say to a man who thinks that after all this time it is not a relationship yet. He cares for me he says but not enough to find time to actually talk to me. He never keeps his word and if I ask him he blames it on me. I don't think I want him in my life. Reltaionships should bring joy not this kind of game playing and tension.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 24, 2011 10:47 AM
Rajin He is a Libra. They wax and wane.Just wait and let him deal with HIS own fears. I would not throw him away cuz he has issues---NOT as much as you care for him. Everyone has issues including you and moi PS I know other people will disagree lol
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rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 24, 2011 10:56 AM
Ami, He breaks my heart time and again. He is so afraid of seeing the love that he denies it outright, he is in a retreat mode and will back out of the relationship, this is his MO thus far. Ami, girl I can take only so much heartbreak I can't keep on getting up and trying again and again.I just want to go home IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 25, 2011 09:37 AM
Hey Ami it is silencio at his end.I guess this is the end. I dont know what to do to make it work anymore.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 09:52 AM
No ,Rajin It is a break. Don't go after him in ANY way. He needs to deal with his own fears of commitment. Wait and trust. Have faith. That is my sense, Sweet One ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 25, 2011 11:53 AM
Thanks Ami. I sometimes break down just thinking of a future without him in it. But I have to face that possibility. His text was so negative, says he does not know how to resolve the issue,does not even say we can try to fix it. and it is such a flimsy excuse,he is worried that if it becomes a real relationship he will have to give me hourly updates of his doings. He finds it a big bother to communicate with me. What do i do to someone who stonewalls me and does not have an open mind?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 25, 2011 12:03 PM
Have you been bugging him ,Rajin. Teacher told you not to ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 25, 2011 12:11 PM
He has been saying he will talk to me for the past 3 months and there is never any talk about the future. So finlaly I asked him out on it and he got all huffy. So you think that is all it will take to make him quit? this is the end?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 27, 2011 09:53 AM
Whats up .Girlfriend ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted January 27, 2011 10:21 AM
No news at all. I have not tried to contact him and neither has he. I think he meant that text to be the last one. It is easier for him this way, no need to talk and have to explain. Clean break, sort of bye bye on a post-it.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 27, 2011 10:27 AM
Hang on Don't contact him Let him deal with his inner "demons" Let me know what happens,please ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. You must face,touch and feel the dregs of Nessus before you can grasp the pristine beauty of Neptune. Me IP: Logged |