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rajin
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posted January 22, 2011 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ami,
He said he is gonna talk to me today, let's see what comes out of it. I hope he is willing to talk about us.

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posted January 23, 2011 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump
Check in ,Sweetie

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posted January 23, 2011 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He never called up and he is rude. Never even txted to say sorry for not calling. I think I am done with the idiot.

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posted January 23, 2011 05:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted January 23, 2011 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am super cross, he is an idiot and i dont know why he cme into my life. I was happy before he came, now all I want is to be where I was before he came.
Lord, I wish I never knew him.

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posted January 23, 2011 07:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am super cross, he is an idiot and i dont know why he came into my life. I was happy before he came, now all I want is to be where I was before he came.
Lord, I wish I never knew him.

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posted January 23, 2011 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hang on Rajin
You know you are crazy about him
Release yourself to the inevitable

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posted January 23, 2011 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It"s over Ami. He wrote back to say that he is worried that I will stifle him and he will be unhappy. He is setting the grounds for breaking up and trying to blame it on me.
I guess this is the end.

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posted January 23, 2011 10:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It"s over Ami. He wrote back to say that he is worried that I will stifle him and he will be unhappy. He is setting the grounds for breaking up and trying to blame it on me.
I guess this is the end.

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posted January 23, 2011 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
NOOOOOO
It is NOT over.
Be COOOOOOL
COOOL Rajin
OK
Be cool,Baby

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posted January 23, 2011 10:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am tired Ami. I am so tired, I wish to just lie down and never wake up. I can;t fight anymore. He is not even mature enough to see what a relationship should be like. Me asking if he is doing ok is the biggest concern for him to break up. And he says it is not a relationship at all.
Lord, Ami, I cant do this anymore.I am tired of this life.

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posted January 23, 2011 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It will be OK
TRUST ME, Sweetie !
Talk tomorrow!

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posted January 23, 2011 10:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks ami. If you can see death in my chart and that too soon I will welcome it.

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posted January 24, 2011 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rajin
It is a "test" for him to SEE if he can go. Be gracious.
He will be back.
Trust me

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posted January 24, 2011 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what do you say to a man who thinks that after all this time it is not a relationship yet. He cares for me he says but not enough to find time to actually talk to me. He never keeps his word and if I ask him he blames it on me.
I don't think I want him in my life. Reltaionships should bring joy not this kind of game playing and tension.

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posted January 24, 2011 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rajin
He is a Libra. They wax and wane.Just wait and let him deal with HIS own fears.
I would not throw him away cuz he has issues---NOT as much as you care for him.
Everyone has issues including you and moi


PS I know other people will disagree lol

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posted January 24, 2011 10:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami,
He breaks my heart time and again. He is so afraid of seeing the love that he denies it outright, he is in a retreat mode and will back out of the relationship, this is his MO thus far.
Ami, girl I can take only so much heartbreak I can't keep on getting up and trying again and again.I just want to go home

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posted January 25, 2011 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Ami
it is silencio at his end.I guess this is the end.
I dont know what to do to make it work anymore.

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posted January 25, 2011 09:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No ,Rajin
It is a break. Don't go after him in ANY way.
He needs to deal with his own fears of commitment.
Wait and trust.
Have faith.
That is my sense, Sweet One

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posted January 25, 2011 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Ami. I sometimes break down just thinking of a future without him in it. But I have to face that possibility. His text was so negative, says he does not know how to resolve the issue,does not even say we can try to fix it. and it is such a flimsy excuse,he is worried that if it becomes a real relationship he will have to give me hourly updates of his doings.
He finds it a big bother to communicate with me.
What do i do to someone who stonewalls me and does not have an open mind?

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posted January 25, 2011 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you been bugging him ,Rajin. Teacher told you not to

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posted January 25, 2011 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He has been saying he will talk to me for the past 3 months and there is never any talk about the future. So finlaly I asked him out on it and he got all huffy.
So you think that is all it will take to make him quit? this is the end?

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posted January 27, 2011 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whats up .Girlfriend

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posted January 27, 2011 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rajin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No news at all. I have not tried to contact him and neither has he. I think he meant that text to be the last one. It is easier for him this way, no need to talk and have to explain. Clean break, sort of bye bye on a post-it.

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posted January 27, 2011 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hang on
Don't contact him
Let him deal with his inner "demons"
Let me know what happens,please

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