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rajin
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posted December 15, 2010 04:35 PM
  
I was reading the Soulmates post and i got this horrible doubt in my mind.
Do you think this is a one-sided relationship with him not wanting me at all and I am just forcing him into something?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 15, 2010 04:36 PM
I feel he IS interested, based on my intuition.
I think he does not know his own mind.
Has he ever been in a committed long term relationship?------------------
The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
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Ami Anne
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posted December 15, 2010 04:43 PM
Dear Rajin
Since no one knows who you are, do you want to write a little about the history.
I will try to feel it out. I am psychic but things must come to me ,on their own.
I never know what,if anything ,will come------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted December 15, 2010 09:03 PM
Let me ask you this,Rajin. When I look at the synastry, I cannot tell what is trine what?
Is that how it is for anyone or am I doing something wrong?
I wish I had the little chart with the degrees so I could see what trines ,etc .what?
Can one tell what the aspects ARE from the synastry chart you have there ?------------------
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rajin
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posted December 15, 2010 09:42 PM
Hey Ami,
He has never been in a long term relationship before. I will post the columns with the degrees for you.
I saw his profile on one of the websites 8 years back and communicated with him, he was in another country so said he could not make a stab at a serious relationship. We ended politely. He came back 3months later asking if we could try again. I moved to his country to be near him and he developed cold feet, said he did not want to go ahead because he felt he would be unhappy with me.
I was heartbroken, but kept in touch with him just once a year on his birthday.
He came back in 2008, explained that he had not been ready for a relationship earlier and realized that he wanted a stable relationship. After 9 months i broke up with him when i felt that he had not grown up and still had to decide on his priorities.
We started talking slowly about 2 months back but this time he is more committed to making the relationship work. Did actually put in words what he felt for me and he remembers to inform me about himself and txts things daily.
My heart says it will be ok this time but I have been hurt twice before so am a little wary about him and slow to trust him.
A long story, Ami. Hope you were not too bored. It is just an idea of our history.IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted December 15, 2010 09:57 PM
This is the chart for the basic synastry without any asteroids. I am not able to upload a new chart to photobucket, will try again tomorrow.
Thanks Ami for everything you do for me. You are my angel.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 02:40 AM
Dear Rajin,
I will look, tomorrow. I am up in the middle of the night.
Thanks for those sweet words. They encourage me to go on at times when I think I can't 
I feel about someone the way YOU do. Keep having faith.
My best friend told me that.
If that person is worth it and your guy sounds like he is, the fight and the wait are worth it all,very much so.
A diamond takes time and pressure to cultivate but you have something which is priceless ------------------
The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
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Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 07:40 AM
Just read the history--NOT bored at all. I am so glad to have the background.
It helps me fill in the picture.
Which country is he from?If you don't want
It will help me get a cultural sense of him. IF he has never been in a committed relationship and is running like this, it will take a LOT to get you two ,together. However,I believe in wonderful things happening outside the box, as I have a similar circumstance as yours
I will study the aspects ,later.
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 08:14 AM
Dear Ami,
I replied to your last post on your email address. Hope it helps.
Thanks a ton, you should get some sleep and not keep awake all night.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 08:16 AM
 Good point.------------------
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 09:58 AM
Take care.
Have a good day.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 10:09 AM
I didn't get the e mail,Rajin
hmmm
Maybe, you sent it to my other e mail address.
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 10:45 AM
i resend the mail, hope u get it now.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 11:15 AM
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Ami Anne
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posted December 16, 2010 12:37 PM
Go to the Sweet Peas Forum and click on my name under the Moderators.
That should get you to my e mail.You are like me on the computer  ------------------
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 01:23 PM
Hey Ami,
I am trying ur earthlink address. Hope third time is the charm.
Thanks.
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 01:23 PM
Hey Ami,
I am trying ur earthlink address. Hope third time is the charm.
Thanks.
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rajin
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posted December 16, 2010 05:14 PM
Hey Ami,
did the email go through to your earthlink address?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 17, 2010 08:58 AM
Hi Rajin
I got the e mail.
I need to work on AG's SR but I will be back. You and I have a work in progress, Girlfriend 
In the meantime, don't pursue him at all.His Libra must do his own soul searching.
His Uranus must deal with his own needs for freedom.
That is his solitary journey until the time HE lets you in
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The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.
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rajin
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posted December 17, 2010 09:46 AM
Thanks Ami,
I have to sit on my hands and not try to reach him. guess that is my lesson to learn-patience.
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Ami Anne
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posted December 17, 2010 10:00 AM
You are SO welcome, Rajin.
I think you should sit on your hands. My observation of the world is that if a woman chases a guy,she may get him.
However, HE will always feel unsettled as to whether he was manipulated in to it.
There will be a distance between them,always.
I would let someone go if he did not chase me ------------------
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rajin
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posted December 20, 2010 07:41 AM
Hey Ami,Hope you had a good weekend. Have u finished your shopping?
take care.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 20, 2010 09:14 AM
Had a really good weekend. Am feeling better better inside,more peaceful and most especially,more sane .
There is nothing better than a little sanity lol What's up with you? Talked to your guy at all???
Don't TELL me you made the first move  ------------------
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rajin
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posted December 20, 2010 10:48 AM
Hey Ami,
good to hear you had a great weekend. I have been going to xmas parties for the past 3 weekends. Been having fun.
No, I have not talked to him. He had written saying that he wants to come visit. He has surgery this week and has a big release at work first week of Jan. since he is out due to his surgery he has been working weekends to finish his part.We communicate by text daily, he writes back when I write. I get frustrated because he does not write first, but I realize that he is super busy at work, so him writing to let me know what is going on is progress.
Baby steps, I guess!.
I will not raise the topic of the relationship heading someplace but I do want to call him and enquire about his health after his surgery. Is that Ok or will it seem like I am pursuing him?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 20, 2010 10:59 AM
Don't text first,either,Girl.
He needs to gather his OWN drive and pursue you.If not, he will never be satisfied with you.
That will be 20 dollars to the Venus in Gemini Love Instition ------------------
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