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Topic: Upcoming birthday and a hope for a better year.
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rajin
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posted November 17, 2010 05:46 PM
  
Hey folks,
Have my birthday on the 22nd of Nov. Had a tough year( lost 2 uncles, an aunt has dementia and another got diagnosed with lung cancer) and am hoping to see some light at the end of the tunnel. Hopefully the light is not an incoming train:-).
I would appreciate any insight into my SR chart. I am using my place of birth as location for SR since iQ said that location should remain the same for SR regardless of the current location.  Thanks to all. IP: Logged |
evanski
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posted November 17, 2010 11:11 PM
Hi rajin  Sorry to hear about your uncles and aunts  Sorry I can't read Solar Return charts but I'm hoping someone who can will give you
good news. Happy Birthday for Monday! 
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rajin
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posted November 18, 2010 07:00 AM
Hi Evanski,
Thank you for the birthday wishes and the sympathy. It has been a tough year for me and my family. For 7 years I have been going through a rough patch in life, hoping it will change.
Thank you for your kind words, they mean a lot. IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted November 18, 2010 09:43 AM
Hey Ami anne,
I have not heard from you in a while. You have been very nice to me in the past letting me vent in private and listening patiently. Just want to say thanks to you.
If you have some time can you please take a look at the SR? Appreciate your POV.IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 02:09 AM
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Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 20, 2010 04:05 AM
Hi Sweetie
After Nicki's, I will devote myself to yours! ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 08:45 AM
Thanks a ton Ami Anne. You rock.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 08:59 AM
You are welcome ,Rajin.
You rock, too  ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 09:35 AM
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Sorry I can't read Solar Return charts but I'm hoping someone who CAN .....
That's debatable  ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 09:38 AM
evanski is pretty good with charts, so i wondered too.lol.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
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posted November 20, 2010 09:41 AM
You have a packed 4th house. This shows that 4th house issues( the sense of home,what home is, your early roots, your sense of being at home with yourself, I think) will come to the fore. Are you feeling pulled back to your roots to examine how and why your life was as it was, how you developed to be who you are,good and "bad" You have big players here
You have Pluto, Mars, NN and Mercury. NN tells you that your goal is to delve back in to your inner core, childhood root issues.
Since Mercury is here, I think you should express what you are feeling and discovering. It would be an outlet for a great deal of energy in this house(Pluto and Mars)
Wherever you have Pluto and Mars, too, you will FEEL it.
Pluto does not sit nicely in the dining room and sip his tea
He makes you unearth things. If you don't do it, he will do it for you. lol
In all seriousness, Pluto provides opportunities for those who will TAKE then before Pluto forces the issue.
Pluto has forced the issue with me so I know of what I speak.
You will have to go backward before you go forward would be my simple summary for this one part of your SR chart.
How does it sound to you, true/false?  ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 09:59 AM
Hey Ami,
Ur psychic girl! You remember the guy who broke my heart, he came back for a 3rd time now. I don't know what it means this time either, but he has been texting me pretty regularly and tells me that he is never ignoring me and I shld never think that.
I don't know if he has changed any at all but he got a scare when his dad had a cardiac arrest and maybe that did force him to grow.
I keep hoping that the packed 4th house means good things like a home of my own with him, a change in my love life. And not bad things like losing someone close.
Does the overall tone of the chart say good or bad?
Thanks Ami.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:03 AM
I have to do it really slowly, Rajin, cuz I am not very good and need to look up things  I would think that POWER in the 4th house i.e. Mars and Pluto would be good but I need to go over the aspects.
This is gonna be a project for me over the next few weeks lol I got a "feeling" about this guy, though. I don't feel good about him. Is he an abusive type of guy who is NOT really aware of it?
Do you feel that he is a brick wall, communication wise?
Do you feel like your relationship is ,often, a "walk through mud", trudging, arduous? ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 10:08 AM
No, he is not abusive, in fact terribly polite. Sometimes makes me want to anger him so that he will have a shouting match to clear the air.He is a libra, so very indecisive. takes his own sweet time in deciding things.
But like you said I also realize that sometimes what I think is the truth is not the sae for others and that I have to give him the space to be able to figure things out on his own.
I can post his SR too if it might help.
thanks girl.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:11 AM
NOOOOO One solar return is ENOUGH ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:13 AM
Hmmmm Rajin
I got a sense that he was "abusive". Is he abusive in a passive aggressive way?I could be all wrong,of course. Does the sense of "walking through mud" with lack of communication, fit??? Do you have the sense of a brick wall in your relationship with him? I am trying to get feedback for my "feelings"
Be totally honest, if I am wrong ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 10:18 AM
HEH, scared u!
Yeh sometimes the communication is so superficial and polite. I am a scorpio so tend to jump into the deep end of emotions fast, but he is a libra so wants it all sweet and light.Plue he is a guy any sign of emotions and he is scared.
But I keep thinking that if we can actually talk without him being so scared it will work out good. We have so many similarities and likes it is crazy.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:20 AM
Ok I see what you mean.
The communication is blocked but NOT from abuse.
He is shut down.
Hmmmmmm
That is a hard one ------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:22 AM
Do you have his natal chart?
If so ,put it up.
You are gonna make me geriatric by the time I get done with this ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 10:35 AM
Sorry abt it Ami. I dont want u to be wearing adult diapers before u finish. LOL.
Here is his natal.
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I am posting our synastry too.Now you will be old before u finish. LOL.
 Thanks a ton girl.
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Ami Anne
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posted November 20, 2010 10:43 AM
You are welcome. I got my project set out for me  ------------------
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rajin
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posted November 20, 2010 12:25 PM
Thanks ami,
I know it is a lot to ask. And i appreciate your help and respect your insights.
Take care and have a great Thanksgiving.IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted November 21, 2010 10:04 PM
Yay, it is my birthday tomorrow, any words of wisdom/advice for the birthday girl?IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted November 21, 2010 10:11 PM
Happy birthday for tomorrow, Rajin. IP: Logged |
rajin
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posted November 21, 2010 10:26 PM
Thanks Teasel. Hoping that this year is a better one than the past many years.IP: Logged |
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