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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 09, 2010 07:17 AM
Rajin First, I will look at the natals. What an interesting person he is. My Venus is exactly on his ASC.Send him my way  In all seriousness, he has a Gem ASC so is a friendly,outgoing person. It is INTERESTING that he has a Cancer moon at 0 degrees Cancer which is the strongest degree. He is very sensitive to balance the Gemini flightiness. ------------------ If you want to understand other people's humanity,look at your own,Bruh IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 09, 2010 07:20 AM
He has Pluto in the 4th which shows a troubled childhood.Now, time for questions lol He has a packed 5th house. I am gonna have to do some research and come back but I want to ask you some things. Is he a very positive, fun person.He has Jupiter conjunct the Sun? I will leave this question,for now, for you to answer. Then, I will go on. Love to you, Sweetheart  ------------------ If you want to understand other people's humanity,look at your own,Bruh IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 09, 2010 07:37 AM
Dear Ami, Thanks Sweetie for all your help. I will answer any Qs to the best of my ability. He is a lot less talkative than me. I can walk upto strangers and be their best friend in a matter of minutes.He takes a lot longer to open up to anyone. I am secretive in the sense that most people know about me but don't know me- you get that, dont u?He seems so serious but I guess he has a streak of humor in him. We are so different in personalities- he has patience, lots of it,I dont. I am usually sunny, he seems very serious. I love cleaning, he loves cooking. And I love him so much. He wrote quite a long msg yesterday. Said that just becoz he does not have time to write back immediately does not mean that he does not care abt me or think of me often. I am very close to his heart he said and asked me not be worry so much. I wanted to share it with you, hon, it feels good to hear the words from him.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2010 03:07 PM
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rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 11, 2010 06:38 PM
Thanks Hon for bumping it and remembering me. How is your weekend going? It is getting colder here now. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 11, 2010 07:12 PM
I KNOW what you mean when you say you love him so much and treasure his words  ------------------ If I am not for myself ,who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 03:44 AM
I will be back to look ,tomorrow,(((Rajin)))------------------ If I am not for myself ,who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I? IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 06:56 AM
Thanks Ami.It is going good as yet. He is just not upto talking to me, writes everyday. Remembers to let me know where he is, even when he went to a friend's engagement party wrote to me from there. Just can't understand why he is so reluctant to talk on the phone.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 12, 2010 07:08 AM
 I laugh in understanding!------------------ If I am not for myself ,who am I? If I am only for myself, what am I? IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 12, 2010 02:03 PM
MEN!!!!! I now understand why girlfriends are important. You can tell them details and they are interested. Him, I tell him I am sad, he does not even take the clue and run with it. Feel like making him attend a class where he learns to act like a girl. That should be fun. LOL.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 10:00 AM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:22 PM
Dear Rajin I am gonna try to answer the question"Why is he running away? I have some clues and I am gonna look up some things. The more you understand him, the more you can work with him and hopefully establish a relationship. He seems like a really cool guy from the chart  ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:26 PM
These are the things I am putting in my brain lol He has a Cancer moon in the 1st house. Mars in the 8th Moon oppose Mars (6 degrees) Moon square Pluto(5 degrees) Saturn trine Mars and Venus Saturn in the 12th Sun conjunct Jupiter Moon Quintile Venus Sun sq. Mars Sun oppose Uranus(5 deg) Sun conj. Mercury No fire ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:30 PM
I am gonna look up some aspects, come back and put them down. Then, I am gonna see if I can get a feel of the man. I have some clues as to why he might be running away such as lack of fire i.e. a fire void. If anyone wants to correct me on anything,please do  ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:43 PM
Moon conjunct Pluto You may be drawn to relationships for the pure physical pleasure and stimulation they provide, but may not want to feel emotionally close due to your lack of trust. Yet deep within your soul you may long for that bonding which results from the alchemy of two souls merging. Since you were not issued an instruction manual about how to deal with people when you entered this life, you need to give yourself plenty of time and room to research human nature and human emotion. Safe circumstances like a friendship with someone who shares your interests can give you a chance to learn about trust - but you must be honest about your feelings! Even though you might think that you would prefer to live apart from society, fitting into social situations can help you trust yourself more fully, because interacting with others helps you develop objectivity. To have the love and tenderness you need from others, you must learn forgiveness, too. That forgiveness begins within yourself, and releasing tension and stress while also letting go of the burdens from your past will help you feel much more light, alive and free. Then, and only then, can you feel good about the power of being a whole woman
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:44 PM
Moon square PlutoMoonsquare oppositionPluto Moon square or opposition Pluto You are not always open with your feelings. Although you have a strong urge to share your innermost emotions with others, you have a simultaneous desire to control what others know about you, which likely stems from fear. You crave a deep feeling of belonging and intimate connection with others, and yet your approach to realizing these desires is often self-defeating. Attempts to control situations as you strive towards this goal generally backfire. Fear of loss and betrayal can consume you, and manipulating others so that you can keep them attached to you leads to empty satisfaction at best, and hopelessness at worst. At times you come across as emotionally distant and self-protective (and even cold in expression), and other times you are expressing an intensity of feeling that can go so far as intimidate, overwhelm, and scare off others. As much as you want to share yourself emotionally with others, you rarely reveal your vulnerabilities. When angered and hurt by a loved one, you can express yourself with such intensity that it comes across as hostile and even hateful. You might sulk, but more likely you brood or even lash out. You may not even be aware of how strongly you express yourself in these instances, and you might come across as far more dangerous or hateful than you actually are. Alienating others can actually baffle you, as your goal is to become closer. Game playing is something that you should try to avoid. Even if you do "succeed" at keeping a person in your life through emotional manipulation for the time being, you will never know that they are with you of their own accord, and this only serves to refuel your fear of rejection. Learning to accept your emotions for what they are, and more importantly, to express them in a manner that allows others "in" rather than scares them away, is an important challenge in your life. Some people with these aspects are more in touch with their feelings than others, and as a result, enjoy tackling problems and learning about emotional complexities, both in themselves and in others. Others with these aspects are hell-bent on burying rather than digging up their deepest feelings. Either way, they are intense individuals! IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 13, 2010 12:49 PM
Dear Rajin I know these articles are a lot of words but it allows me to think about the aspects and check out the articles ,on here.When you said that he is elusive and seems to be afraid of his emotions, moon square Pluto stuck out at me. I am gonna think about it a bit and be back. He ,also, has a classic "run away" aspect ---something with Uranus lol I will check and be back. Moon sq Pluto is mega ,mega deep emotions which may and prolly do scare him. Uranus is the "I want to run from closeness" aspect. ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 13, 2010 12:53 PM
Thanks Ami, I have a lot of fire in my natal chart, four biggies in my Saggie.Do you think that will balance his lack of fire in the synastry?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 11:03 AM
Hi Rajin I am trying to form a whole pix of him.I am ,particularly,asking the question "Why is he running?" I think he cares for you but is running.IF you can figure out "why", you can address it. I know Randall has a fire void.Maybe, he could weigh in here about Fire voids and relationships. I am gonna research fire voids.Also, he has Saturn in the 12th. BM had that and said it made her afraid to put herself forward for fear of rejection. Also,I am contemplating his Uranus.If there is a "run"planet, it IS Uranus lol I will be back  ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 11:10 AM
Ok I am gonna look up Moon oppose Mars Sun oppose Uranus ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 11:50 AM
You know what is interesting. He has Mars in the 8th. 8th house planets are repressed/submerged. Sasportas talked about Princess Diana having an 8th house Mars. She only felt like she had a forward drive later in life. She was just coming in to that when she died. So,his Mars may make it hard for him to act ,directly, further filling in the picture ,for you.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 11:55 AM
Sun square or opposition Uranus The ego is quite large when the Sun is square or opposite Uranus. This is largely due to the fact that these people's very identities ride on their sense of personal freedom. It can be quite a challenge to get them to do what they don't want to do, simply because they see any attempts to push them in a certain direction as threatening their freedom. These are very dynamic individuals who question tradition and authority, yet, paradoxically, are quite set in their own ways. These people have a love-hate relationship with their own uniqueness. Much of the time they are very proud of their original personalities. Other times, they feel a bit left out for being "different". Although they are humanitarian in many ways, they can be a little brusque when it comes to sentimentality or what they perceive to be excessive attachment to the past or to tradition. When the Sun and Uranus form a challenging aspect, there can be a lot of nervous energy and defensiveness. It can be difficult to hold a 9 to 5 job or to develop steady routines. They work best when they can manage their own schedules. They work in spurts. When they are hit with creative inspiration, they are capable of tremendous effort. However, they can be quite temperamental, and it is very hard for them to pour their hearts and souls into something that they don't "feel" for at the moment. They don't like superficiality or pretense, which is an admirable trait. However, their disdain for pretense can be problematic in a world where people are expected to perform whether they are inspired or not! I have a daughter who has the Sun in challenging aspect to Uranus, and there was quite an adjustment period when she entered first grade--a time when kids begin to truly experience structure. When the children in her gym class were told to dance, she simply stood there, immobile. When asked why she was not dancing, she replied, "But I don't feel the dance inside of me, so how can I dance?" Sun-Uranus people don't always feel like they "fit in" with the rules and structures of society. However, those that recognize the need to conform at least some of the time may be able to channel their high levels of intuition, inventiveness, and spiritedness into creative endeavors or important causes. They might find that they encounter much less resistance in day-to-day life this way ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 24006 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 14, 2010 11:57 AM
Moon square or opposition Mars These people can be precocious, animated, and passionate. They seek emotional excitement in their lives. Although they often project a brave and tough image, their skin isn't as thick as they'd have you believe. They tend to put up defenses due to their emotionally vulnerable and excitable disposition. Unrest is characteristic, as they are bored by routine and become easily frustrated when life is "too easy". There's a buzz of energy surrounding them, and they tend to meet with many conflicts in their lives. With the opposition, the conflict tends to be lived through relationships. The passions are quite raw, especially in youth.
If they can channel their excitable energy into sports or some other competitive field, all the better. Although they can be amiable and interesting people, others always seem to sense their boundaries. Something is bound to get them worked up, and it's not always clear what that something will be. Their bluntness can be both appreciated and considered offensive, depending on their audience. They are eager to make a personal impact on those around them. Some of them are too eager in this sense, and they come across as self-absorbed and difficult to stomach. Patience is definitely not their strong point! Their responses are quick, and they are passionate people who are usually quite courageous although their energy is sporadic and sometimes wasted. ------------------ The most beautiful things in the world can't be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. Helen Keller IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 14, 2010 11:57 AM
Dear Ami, We had a difference of opinion yesterday and all the time I keep thinking that this is the end. He will use it to break all relations with me. He did write back saying it is ok and we are good. Guess once bitten always shy holds true for me. It is my fault too that I can't still trust him completely due to past experience. I am trying to get over it. But building trust takes a little while and I am going to try my best. He tries to be fair to everybody and in the end makes everybody unhappy. That is his libran side.IP: Logged |
rajin Knowflake Posts: 485 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted December 14, 2010 11:57 AM
Dear Ami, We had a difference of opinion yesterday and all the time I keep thinking that this is the end. He will use it to break all relations with me. He did write back saying it is ok and we are good. Guess once bitten always shy holds true for me. It is my fault too that I can't still trust him completely due to past experience. I am trying to get over it. But building trust takes a little while and I am going to try my best. He tries to be fair to everybody and in the end makes everybody unhappy. That is his libran side.IP: Logged |