posted December 14, 2010 12:00 PM            

Moon`square /oppositionSaturn

Moon square or opposition Saturn
When Moon is in hard aspect to Saturn in the natal chart, natives need to learn to trust others more. Fear keeps them from fully enjoying personal relationships, and fear is behind the occasional rigidity that they express. When they let themselves receive nurture or care from others, an inner voice cautions them that it might not be sincere, long-lasting, or enough! There can be some reluctance about becoming a parent, but once taken on, these people don't take their responsibility lightly.

Emotional reticence is the main theme of these aspects. Many people with this aspect had a lot of conditions placed on the love they received in early childhood. They tend to expect the same later in life. With hard Saturn aspects, individuals are often plagued with doubts, not only about the self but about what to expect from life itself. The problem is that expecting difficulties or negative situations creates an aura around them that perpetuates the problem. They must work hard at positive thinking and expecting more from life. Ironically, many people with hard Saturn aspects can be quite sarcastic, skeptical, and rigid in manner. This is essentially a defense mechanism designed to protect themselves from harshness in the world.

It is extremely likely that they feel neglected because they perceive it in the first place, and later expect it, to be the case. There's a vicious circle going on here that can only be broken when the patterns created by negative conditioning are broken. Adjusting one's perceptions and expectations is the key to breaking out of these negative patterns. Otherwise, natives of hard Moon-Saturn aspects will live life feeling left out--attracting circumstances that perpetuate a feeling of deep unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

posted December 14, 2010 12:07 PM            

Then, he has Sun /Uranus in hard aspect which is an extreme individuality aspect i.e."I want to do my own thing and no one can tell me otherwise " lol

He has Mars in the 8th which makes going after something in a direct way, hard for him.
He has moon/mars in hard aspect.Again, this makes his emotions and his drive fight each other.

He has Moon/Pluto in hard aspect which makes a real fear of vulnerability maybe from being hurt in childhood by his mother.

He has a Cancer moon(like I do). This is a warm ,sensitive moon which hates rejection with a passion.

So far, those are some of the reasons WHY I think he may be running away.
What do you think, Rajin?

posted December 14, 2010 12:10 PM            

Sun conjunct Jupiter
Unless Saturn is also involved with this aspect, individuals with Sun conjunct Jupiter in their natal charts are enthusiastic and optimistic. They truly expect the best—from themselves, from others, and from life. They prefer to see the good in the world.

Their confidence in everything turning out all right can also get them into some trouble. Over-indulgence in food or drink, gambling, shopping�whatever their pleasure�is a high possibility, simply because these people can be procrastinators and put too much faith in life "fixing" things on its own. They might eat just for the sake of eating, indulge in expensive items temporarily forgetting the reality of the bill arriving the following month, and so forth. It can be hard for them to save money.

The truth is, many times it seems like these people have a guardian angel who sweeps in and saves their behinds, sometimes at the very last minute. They tend to "get away with" more than most people. But inevitably they'll face some consequences for their excesses, such as an expanding waistline or growing debt.

Although not especially competitive, Sun conjunct Jupiter individuals have a cheerful outlook and tend to accomplish quite a bit. They are quite resourceful. They generally are able to win over others, as theirs is a nature that is willing to help out others rather than argue with them. They come across as fair, big-hearted, and sincere. Generous with their time and money, these people are easy to like. Because they tend to over-estimate their capabilities, they can promise more than they can deliver.

Some people with this aspect can be self-righteous and moralistic. Others express the teaching side of Jupiter. Still others are prone to exaggeration, although their stories are so interesting that people tend to overlook it.

Although largely positive and optimistic, Sun-Jupiter people are not immune to depression. Although short-lived, their downs can be dramatic, simply because they are unprepared for these times.

posted December 14, 2010 12:26 PM            

I do think that if you lack an element you should try to surround yourself with it, if possible. People lacking fire ought to have a fire place, or at least use lighted candles.

My paternal grandparents lacked two elements in each of their charts. Grandpa lacked air and water, yet he was the smartest man I ever knew. Grandma lacked fire and water, yet she was extroverted, outgoing and bold.

Elemental voids are not always what they seem.

posted December 14, 2010 12:29 PM            

Re: No Fire - Interpretation
Sat, November 27, 2010 - 8:51 AM
I think the absence of an element means you have no way to integrate it into your chart, and frequently "don't know when to quit" in matters related to the element. People lacking water (including myself) tend to cling to emotions whether they are appropriate or not. I'm the one who won't give up on a lost cause, even with the facts staring me in the face, because I'm emotionally attached either to the person or to the idea or to the situation. I've had many situations in my life, where, once over, I'd have people say, "I'm surprised you put up with it for as long as you did." I don't know whether that relates to other elemental voids: Earth sign voids may not know when to stop acquiring, or amassing; fire sign voids may spend their lives "willing to march into hell for a heavenly cause." Air sign voids may never feel they're smart enough, may put undue emphasis on intelligence, may overwhelm themselves with information. (Though, having a heavy concentration of air signs in my own chart, I do that too.)

Elemental voids can't always be treated as absolutes because eventually your planets progress into the elements not represented in the birth chart. I spent 30 years with a progressed Cancer Sun, and as soon as that moved into Leo, I got a progressed Cancer Ascendant, which I will have 'til I die. So the elemental voids can become easier to assimilate

posted December 15, 2010 07:44 AM            

This fact will help you ,I think,in knowing how to approach him.

He has Sun trine ASC. He is a pleasing person and has strength of ego,too,in a nice ,not an aggressive "in your face" way.
He has Jupiter conjunct ,too, as I said, which makes him a pleasing person to be around.
Does he struggle with weight? I am just curious about the Jupiter conj Sun with this lol

posted December 15, 2010 07:46 AM            

Libra is one of the worst signs for commitment. They will go back and forth a million times before they commit.
They are scared to death of it,I think.

posted December 15, 2010 07:57 AM            

He has Pluto conj,Mercury( 7 deg). He has a powerful mind.
So his mind is quirky and powerful.
I bet he is a super interesting guy.

He has Venus in Virgo.My best friend(guy) has this.
*I* do not like it in a guy, personally.
They want too much "perfection" in a woman for moi.
They are very sensitive to nuances in taste ,smell etc.
To me, Venus in Virgo is too "prissy" for me but that is just me LOL

So, he wants a woman to be "womanly" in her expression----a lady,refined,dignified,you could say, not coarse etc.

posted December 15, 2010 04:02 PM            

PS LOL--of course