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Aquacheeka
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posted June 15, 2015 09:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by MoonWitch:
[b]Just as a side note, the BMI system is an extremely flawed measurement. It not only doesn't indicate the health of a person but it also doesn't indicate how a person actually carries their weight either.




This.
I played football and was a defensive end and nose guard. At my heaviest (and when I had the most muscle) I was lighter than most guys at my positions by 20 to 30 pounds. Some guys weighed 300+ pounds and weren't fat at all and some were 280 and had huge guts. Me? I was somewhere in the middle. I was husky and had muscle too. [/B][/QUOTE]

Ohhh that's right. You're from the south. The denial of how obese you are is like a cultural issue, I think. This mentality might explain why the region is the most obese in the entire western world.

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aquaguy91
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posted June 15, 2015 09:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also said some guys were 280 and had huge guts but you didn't acknowledge that. It all depends on one's height and build and muscle mass. But someone like you is too ignorant to realize that. I mean you are the one who thought 215+25=245. So I shouldn't really be surprised at this point. At this point you are just being an argumenative (expletive). Go take a midol or something.

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Odette
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posted June 15, 2015 10:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok... Both of you...

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Odette
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posted June 15, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Banshee - I've expressed many of the same views to AG that many posters here have expressed regarding women, relationships, sex, feminism, sexism and so on.
Yet... He has not personally attacked me, offended me or made me feel hated for simply disagreeing with him.
He understands my pov and he understands I don't agree with his views - but he doesn't take this personally. He's still nice and friendly towards me.
The only times I've seen him react in a rude or hateful manner - were times when someone else already called him names or instigated.

You can disagree with someone, without instigating them and making things personal. AG's perspective on women, romance and life - can be debated here without personal attacks on AG.

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aquaguy91
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posted June 15, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Odette,
Glad I'm not the only one that realizes that.

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Aquacheeka
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posted June 15, 2015 11:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Banshee - I've expressed many of the same views to AG that many posters here have expressed regarding women, relationships, sex, feminism, sexism and so on.
Yet... He has not personally attacked me, offended me or made me feel hated for simply disagreeing with him.
He understands my pov and he understands I don't agree with his views - but he doesn't take this personally. He's still nice and friendly towards me.
The only times I've seen him react in a rude or hateful manner - were times when someone else already called him names or instigated.

You can disagree with someone, without instigating them and making things personal. AG's perspective on women, romance and life - can be debated here without personal attacks on AG.


If you're going to turn every forum thread into a whinefest about how you personally are being rejected because of something wrong with women in general, then that is inviting open season on speculating what is wrong with you personally. It's just common sense. I'm sorry if he lacks common sense and can't understand cause and effect.

This thread is called "Question for the 20-something ladies out there," not "Why I, Aquaguy, am having trouble getting laid: A Meditation On Why Women Are F**ked In The Head."

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aquaguy91
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posted June 15, 2015 12:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And she is still running her mouth. Do I need to get her a tub of ice cream to help let all of those volatile emotions out?

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posted June 15, 2015 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemBird82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted June 15, 2015 04:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemBird82     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Odette
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posted June 15, 2015 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquacheeka and AG - you both have the option to ignore each other!

AC - If you don't want threads to be derailed, then stay on topic and talk about the OP - rather than AG's life.
He doesn't derail the threads *on his own*.

AG - If someone is frustrating you and your response is to offend them, they will - of course - defend themselves and continue to post. So it perpetuates the argument.

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posted June 15, 2015 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GemBird82:

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bansheequeen
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posted June 15, 2015 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Banshee Queen,
The vast majority of what you wrote is you putting words in my mouth. You can take issue with what I say but don't put words in my mouth.

Science is making an assumption based on reasonable facts then pro I it with evidence. That's kind of what I'm doing with you, ~*~beinging a sciencetists~*~

And Odette, he has been insulting before, in is thread and in other threads I've seen. He keeps saying I have bad "reading comprehension" because I don't acknowledge his views and even now he keeps going on and on about someone else's math mistake. And he's deliberately insulting and entire gender, yeah it's not direct but if I kept going over and over how American men are idiots that are so desperate they drive women into the arms of better men... Wouldn't the American men in here take that as an insult?

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posted June 16, 2015 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wrong.
I do not say you have bad reading comprehension skills because you don't agree with me. I say that because you somehow manage to take away things from my posts that I just didn't say or even imply. But that's not just a knock on you, it applies to quite a few people here. I think some people just get so emotional that they can't really think or respond to things I say in a rational way.

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posted June 16, 2015 04:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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keeps going on and on about someone else's math mistake

Ummm....
Aquacheeka and AG were insulting each other.
Before his math-related replies, she told him he was obese and that actually, everyone in his region is.
It's not like the insults here, were one-sided.

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he's deliberately insulting and entire gender, yeah it's not direct but if I kept going over and over how American men are idiots that are so desperate they drive women into the arms of better men... Wouldn't the American men in here take that as an insult?

It's against LL rules to be personally insulting.
The rest mostly falls under free speech.

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He keeps saying I have bad "reading comprehension" because I don't acknowledge his views

This is definitely NOT a nice thing to say. The same message could be worded in a non-insulting manner...e.g. saying "banshee, you simply don't understand me!".
But, as I said earlier - AG mostly reacts to the tone others use *towards* him.
I mean, you did just call him "serial killer"-material in your last post, amongst other things. I don't want to be mean here, but I'm just not sure what reaction you expect.

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T
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posted June 16, 2015 05:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Odette, I find it extremely creepy how you stick up for everything ag says.

There are a couple of females here that i notice stick up for a couple of guys here no matter what they say.

I have to say i find it almost disturbing to read how a couple of you make excuses for and stick up for these couple of guys here ...... they could basically say anything and there are the same two of you, talking about how their momma issues aren't healed and we should all just sit back and deal with it.

TBH, i don't even know how women like you can even go there. It's really weird. Creepy in a way.

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posted June 16, 2015 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:

Yet... He has not personally attacked me, offended me or made me feel hated for simply disagreeing with him.
He understands my pov and he understands I don't agree with his views - but he doesn't take this personally. He's still nice and friendly towards me.
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Gee Odette. That's great for you. Because you seem to kiss his @ss. But he has been extremely rude to many people on here, who have been very helpful to him - or tried to be. I've likened ag in the past to a little brother and tried to give him big sister advice. But he's still gone vicious on me and attacked me for no reason. I've never seen him as a threat or anyone i needed to waste time arguing with, so i usually ignore, but he has attacked me for no reason and I wonder why people like you - the few left that actually speak to him - don't talk to him like a grown man.

It seems like you like to baby him and are afraid to speak up to the guy. Is that the case? Many seem to like you here, but all i see is someone who kisses ag's ass all the time. Almost as if you are afraid of him. I can't remember if you are extremely young, but that's the only way i can explain to myself what might be going on....

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posted June 16, 2015 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Aquacheeka and AG - you both have the option to ignore each other!

AC - If you don't want threads to be derailed, then stay on topic and talk about the OP - rather than AG's life.
He doesn't derail the threads *on his own*.

AG - If someone is frustrating you and your response is to offend them, they will - of course - defend themselves and continue to post. So it perpetuates the argument.


Why don't you tell AG to stay on topic? Why must AC stay on topic here? You seemed much harsher on AC than ag. Which with you is usually the case.....oddly.....sooooo weird. I thought you had more of a brain. It's very weird how much you stick up for him, even when he's being a total douchebag.

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posted June 16, 2015 05:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
BTW ag, your hate-fest in the Pluto thread didnt do unnoticed by me.

Please remind yourself that you've never met me and you realy don't know me at all. I've been very lenient and patient with you over the years, but you have not done the same with me.

You might have a hard time with chicks because you actually look p*ssed off naturally - resting p*ssed face. Your furrowed p*ssed off brow and negative energy that goes along with it might scare most of the good chicks off. You like to talk about how tall and muscular you are, but if deep down inside you have a distaste and distrust for females in general, then you aren't going to ever pick a good one up. I second the person who said you are probably extremely awkward in 'real life'. Then you admitted it. Please don't take that out on the decent females out there. Your awkward douchbaggary is not their problem. Don't take your issues out on them please.

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posted June 16, 2015 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
And she is still running her mouth. Do I need to get her a tub of ice cream to help let all of those volatile emotions out?

This, and "go take a midol" are disrespectful, and not just to the woman you're trying to insult.

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posted June 16, 2015 06:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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This, and "go take a midol" are disrespectful, and not just to the woman you're trying to insult.

I won't go back and find all the other disgusting things he said in this thread, but that one just about took the cake for me too.

Then he wonders why chicks don't like him and he can't get a date. At this moment in time, you are ugly on the inside ag. It's pretty clear to 95% of us here. So you can do all the power lifting you want to, but it's not going to change how you really feel about women on the inside. Build up your muscles all you want. You're still an a-hole and most chicks will pick up on that and not want anything to do with you.

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posted June 16, 2015 06:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
T,
I said it in that thread and I'll say it again, I stand behind what I said about you. This thread is a good example of what I'm talking about. You show up late when things are winding down and try to re-start drama. You are a trouble maker that loves drama as far as I can tell. As for the rest of what you said it's not even worth addressing because you are just parroting what others have said in the past and stuff I've already refuted with logic, and some of it was in this very thread.

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posted June 16, 2015 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BellaFenice     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by teasel:
This, and "go take a midol" are disrespectful, and not just to the woman you're trying to insult.

I'm honestly too disgusted for words, especially being that a fellow female will provide excuses for bigoted discourse and thereby justifying it.

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posted June 16, 2015 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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BTW
I've been very lenient and patient with you over the years, but you have not done the same with me.



Right.....

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aquaguy91
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posted June 16, 2015 06:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
I'm honestly too disgusted for words, especially being that a fellow female will provide excuses for bigoted discourse and thereby justifying it.

Yea....
And AC wasn't being a bigot when she made condescending remarks about people where I live? You feminist types and your double standards. SMH

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posted June 16, 2015 06:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for T     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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T,
I said it in that thread and I'll say it again, I stand behind what I said about you. This thread is a good example of what I'm talking about. You show up late when things are winding down and try to re-start drama. You are a trouble maker that loves drama as far as I can tell. As for the rest of what you said it's not even worth addressing because you are just parroting what others have said in the past and stuff I've already refuted with logic, and some of it was in this very thread.

No ag, it's not about drama. If you feel so comfortable talking about me in that other thread, then i can do the same here. I think you are an absolute loser. You are an angry kid, you are a trouble maker, and I think you are only here to get a rise out of women who might take your bait.

I see right through you. You are very angry and you take it out on the wrong people. What's scary is most women won't want to date you which will make you even angrier in general and in the long run. You don't ever consider that it might actually be your own inner psyche that is effecting your outer world so horribly. I personally find you to be a very hateful person with a lot of bottled up anger towards women and have never seen you exhibit any kind of loving quality that a woman would be attracted to. So, i wish you the best of luck, because i know you are going to need it.

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