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posted November 22, 2008 04:32 AM         

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Just read one of your posts in the Astro forum. How do you think/feel that your Cancer IC affects you?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:35 AM         

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Yeah, okay, I dig that. I look at hands too - but not first. Unless they stand out for some reason. Some men have very obvious hands. Women too.

I notice the face - usually eyes first. Shoulder shape is something that I notice fairly quickly. It's a big thing for me, I think - it must be - see, now that's one thing I don't like about Christian - his shoulders are too narrow and rounded. But, and I hate to say this, Rafe has nice square shoulders, but he does.

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posted November 22, 2008 04:35 AM         

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What do you think of Becks?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:37 AM         

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Have you met Gabriel?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:38 AM         

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As a man - what's your opinion of David Beckham? And please include on a sexual level.

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posted November 22, 2008 04:42 AM         

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Actually PA, face of course is what I see first. I think pretty much everyone would look at the face first. Hands are near the top after the face. If the face is nice, I can sacrifice on the body. Nice hands are a plus but not essential. For example Mr 23 hasn't really got the nicest hands going around, he's a bad nail biter and his fingers have knotted joints.

Cancer IC - well I guess I'm soft and gooey on the inside. I guess I have strong links with my folks when ever I'm around them. I spend most of the time caring for Mr 23, that's probably what makes me happiest. My 4th is coloured by Saturn so it's hard to split the effects of Saturn from it all.

DB - ok until he opens his mouth.

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posted November 22, 2008 04:45 AM         

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See that string of hair from the navel down on DB. Oh, I LOVE that on a man - that's my absolute favourite sexiest thing physically on a man. I can't explain why. But - oh!!!! I just can't explain it. It makes me feel primal.

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posted November 22, 2008 04:48 AM         

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Clive Owen has fantastic hands. Have you seen Closer?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:49 AM         

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As a man - what's your opinion of David Beckham? And please include on a sexual level.

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He perfectly blends in metrosexuality and manliness so to speak Lol! A real renissance man in that particular area. Too bad his soccer skills are next to nil these days .

On a sexual level... He is a guy's guy so 9 out of 10?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:50 AM         

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NEVER let him speak. Shut up and look good - like all men should!

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posted November 22, 2008 04:52 AM         

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Interesting perception. Do you consider yourself metrosexual?

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posted November 22, 2008 04:57 AM         

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Do you consider yourself metrosexual?

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Default use of the word? No Lol! That implies that a guy spends about 1/4 of his day getting himself ready so to speak Lol!

Do I like fine clothes, food and living space? You betcha .

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posted November 22, 2008 05:02 AM         

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Good answer. I like that. A guy that is high maintenance is not for me. Someone who can get ready in a couple of minutes. Someone like me. I spend more time applying scents/lotions than I do getting dressed and putting on make-up. LOL! I like to smell good. That's my one thing. A guy that likes to look good but is not vain is a nice.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:05 AM         

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Does anyone else have a thing for bread? I love bread. Especially a really good Vienna.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:07 AM         

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Richard and his beautiful wife.

Hateful people. How can two people be so damn good looking!

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posted November 22, 2008 05:08 AM         

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Same with Colin Firth. His wife is gorgeous.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:10 AM         

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Lol! Well believe it or not, guys are under equal pressue to look good as girls are . The advertisement industry plays both hands quite well. So its always nice to find anyone who is confident enough to be themselves.

And I am more an Italian Whole Wheat person . I love the taste of whole wheat; Especially with almonds and flax seed.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:17 AM         

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I think you're very right about the pressure on both sexes to look good.

I was thinking about sexuality this morning while I was out. I noticed a lot of teenage girls who are ultra ultra thin and all dressed the same way and was thinking that that is what they're perception of sexuality is. They have no concept that it's something that comes from inside yourself. And there is this generation of girls who think that's what sexy is - because they got it from their mothers. And people like Madonna. And yet, as you said, it comes from confidence and yet if that's the basis of their sexuality, they have no confidence. I don't think men have the expectation of women that women think they do though. There's a thread in Astro forum about "chubby-chasers", well, there are two. I think men generally like curves. But I think you'd be hard pressed to find any man who doesn't like confidence. But then, you know, to some men, if their ego is somewhat delicate, confidence can be a threat. But they're usually the dangerous ones who generally actually really hate women. I don't think they're too common - well, I hope not.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:22 AM         

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I think the lady above could teach the one below a great deal about sexuality. She just encompasses feminity, and emanates it, so elegantly. That is THE highest compliment I can give to a woman.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:29 AM         

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On the nose. A confident woman believes enough in herself to be quite comfortable with her enough to be a woman yet display a level of competence and self-worth to the point where she can be what she can be without the preception of others. There will aways will be stars and then there will be those special shooting stars . An encounter with a shooting star might be brief in most cases but its always memorable .

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posted November 22, 2008 05:41 AM         

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Your perception and understanding (and expectation) of women is really beautiful. You're a shooting star, my friend.

I think bm would like this conversation. Where is she?

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posted November 22, 2008 05:41 AM         

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I don't know what happened to H Mirren. She was so-so in her younger days and then kabam!

Gosh, if I can only be half as sexy as her at either age.

Madonna is more raunch than sexy. Something that fire people do well that is.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:42 AM         

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I'm tired of Madonna's crotch. That's the problem, all the photos are crotchcentric.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:43 AM         

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Sorry just felt like it. JT really does look like me on a bad day LOL.

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posted November 22, 2008 05:45 AM         

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Yes, yes, Helen Mirren was so so and kabam. Right. I hope I can handle myself so gracefully as time goes on.

LOL - yes, I'm sick of Madonna's crotch too. I'm sure I've seen hers more than I've seen my own.

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