posted September 10, 2016 06:11 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
^^
And that can be considered an insult to the rest of us. (That we're somehow below you) Welcome to the fun!

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posted September 10, 2016 06:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
Well they're neither petty nor insults, just stating what goes on here.

I don't know how long you've been here, but there's a lot of history behind this. Forget about history, if you only read the thread, you'll realize we're talking about a *tendency*, nothing else.

What about calling Faith a "joke"? And various other snide comments. Not that anyone took them seriously, but still - ain't particularly nice either.

We all like to play with zodiac stereotypes for humour - Faith does it especially well, if you've seen any of her threads. So does Electro, in fact! But the thing about playing with sterotypes is -- it should be a *distillation*, not a reduction.

Anyway, none of the people who spoke intended to "insult" Ami - it just became hostile because she would not listen/comprehend/respond. Like you send someone a heartfelt, handwritten letter about all the ways you love them and think they're wonderful.
And you get a text back, "K".

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posted September 10, 2016 06:14 PM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
I have no clue what this falls under but what drives me up the wall in others is indecision.

I cannot stand it.

" I want this , but no maybe I want this, but no, I don't know."

Cringe worthy.

Is this Gemini like ?

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posted September 10, 2016 06:21 PM            

Thank you. You are a doll!

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posted September 10, 2016 06:36 PM            

A love letter? More like an arsenic letter.

E, you better delete this before you ruin your reputation forever.

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posted September 10, 2016 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I like Ami's fire and energy, even if I don't agree with her view fully!

Ami, aren't you an Aries? I think my Sagittarius and Mars in Aries likes that.

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Thank you, Sulky!

I am a 9th house Gemini stellium with Cancer Moon in the 9th conjunct the MC

I love Saggi men. Does that count?

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posted September 10, 2016 06:41 PM            

I REALLY DON"T.

I have not asked any of these so called "love letter" people for advice on how to change/be a better person.

I DON"T WANT THEIR UNASKED FOR ADVICE.

Well said, my Friend and thank you!

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posted September 10, 2016 06:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
Yes I get it, it just seems really melodramatic and hateful for an astrology forum. I guess I've been here since 2013, and lurking since 2009.
Also, I disagree. Ami doesn't owe you anything, ya know? I wouldn't respond either, if it were me.

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I wasn't talking about me - I didn't even comment until the very tail end. I meant my friends.

Those people didn't "owe" her the chance to talk it out either. IMO, that's extending a hand. It's rude & condescending to be all "I don't owe you a response".

posted September 10, 2016 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Anyway, none of the people who spoke intended to "insult" Ami - it just became hostile because she would not listen/comprehend/respond. Like you send someone a heartfelt, handwritten letter about all the ways you love them and think they're wonderful.
And you get a text back, "K".

A love letter? More like an arsenic letter.

E, you better delete this before you ruin your reputation forever.

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Oh geez. I didn't mean what they wrote was a love letter.

It's a metaphor, Ami.

posted September 10, 2016 06:46 PM            

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posted September 10, 2016 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:
I wasn't talking about me - I didn't even comment until the very tail end. I meant my friends.

Those people didn't "owe" her the chance to talk it out either. IMO, that's extending a hand. It's rude & condescending to be all "I don't owe you a response".

But yeah, sure. I know that's the prevalent attitude. Fine, be that way. Doesn't make it *right* though. Neither does it put you "above" the person who did reach out, in whatever way.

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posted September 10, 2016 06:47 PM            

I owe no one a response. I don't--pure and simple lol

Honestly, where do you all get OFF thinking I need to explain myself to you?

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posted September 10, 2016 06:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Novabronte:
There is a fine line between a leader and a fool. And it is called an ego.

I spent over 20 years in business and I can assure you that the most important skill of a leader is listening.
Next after this is the ability to admit failure and to take corrective action.

All the personal comments and critique of your astrology work aside, if you just focused on the original first post of this thread and acknowledged that the intro was really not appropriate because it changed the tone of the joke, then you would have saved your face and this whole messed up drama of a thread would died long time ago. That's problem solving 101.

And this has nothing to do with principles.

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posted September 10, 2016 06:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
It's not personal.. Jeez, thanks

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Did I not say "us" in my post?
Maybe it's my Aqua/Uranus/11th influence.

Jeez, thanks.

PS - Did I not also welcome you to the fun? I see you've been posting in here regarding all of the drama and thus, have become a part of it, big or small.

posted September 10, 2016 07:14 PM            

Did YOU enjoy the drama when bullies were ganging up on you in Sweet peas?

You wanted to leave LL over what they did to you.

Now, you are doing it to me.

It is as much fun for me as it was for you.

GET IT

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posted September 10, 2016 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Dop

Did YOU enjoy the drama when bullies were ganging up on you in Sweet peas?

You left over doing to ME what they did to you.

It is as much fun for me as it was for you.

GET IT

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posted September 10, 2016 07:24 PM            

It was about 10-11 PM, maybe a year ago or two, on a Friday night,I think, and you were feeling upset and very humiliated like *I* am feeling in this thread.

You wrote to me and I helped you.

I may even have your e mails

Now, you are doing the same thing to me.

I point this out because it is WRONG to bully people when you could not take being bullied.

I mean, that is low lol

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posted September 10, 2016 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

Thank you, Sulky!

I am a 9th house Gemini stellium with Cancer Moon in the 9th conjunct the MC

I love Saggi men. Does that count?

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posted September 10, 2016 07:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
...and you were feeling upset and very humiliated like *I* am feeling in this thread.

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You could have had the thread closed any time.

posted September 10, 2016 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
You could have had the thread closed any time.

The option is still there.

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posted September 10, 2016 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
You could have had the thread closed any time.

The option is still there.

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posted September 10, 2016 07:45 PM            

Finally, you are showing who you are.

If the thread closed earlier, no one would see it lol

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posted September 10, 2016 07:48 PM            

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