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Topic: What Drives Each Sign To The Shrink?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 07:53 AM
About the group, I am someone to whom supernatural things happen all the time.I never thought I would be a professional astrologer. I just wanted to learn astrology so badly. I spent about a year doing charts in Personal Readings for hours every day. Then, it just seemed to open up for me to go forward with it In this case, the guy has a bass voice just as amazing as Barry White. I told him how I loved his voice and that I was studying voice and guitar. He asked me to sing with him and said that we sounded good together. His sister is a high soprano, so it is a cool mix with his bass. I am in between. To me, everything that happens to me like this is a kind of miracle from God. I think people are led by God, if they listen.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 08:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Aries- anger managementTaurus- excessiveness whether drinking, porn, sex, or eating but they won't go to a shrink for any of that or anything bc there is nothing wrong with them ever in their mind unless it's a women dealing with self worth issues and or a long hx of trauma that has not been processed and now has culminated to the point they are having panic attacks and don't know why...then they seek out help. A male will not admit they are dealing with self worth issues or any issues, to much pride and too reserved. Gemini- anxiety and insomnia Cancer- anxiety revolving around security and safety and issues with emotional boundaries, either too rigid or too porous. Leo- does not feel appreciated or valued enough, deep wounds stemming from that and from feelings of rejection. Virgo- self image issues and anxiety.. Libra- assertiveness training.. Scorpio- partner cheated or they think they are been cheated on but still want to work things out or support moving on. Heartbreak. Sag- too generous or blunt but they don't go to the shrink, they read a self help book or go camping, hiking or travelling. They find a way to help themselves. Capricorn- workaholism Aquarius- they feel like an outsider and like they don't belong in this world, they don't feel understood or everything is falling apart. They usually seek out help when everything in their life is truly falling apart and they are in a chronic state of crisis tbh bc they are very independent so things have had to reach a certain extreme to seek out help and at that point they typically just want support and to not feel so alone. Pisces-they just want to cry their eyes out and emotional support and validation but need help with empowerement and letting go of victim mentality.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 02:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: This is excellent, H! xxxx
Thank you Ami! I liked yours a lot too.. Guys I don't know if you missed this part but Ami framed the post in a way to celebrate freedom of speech and yes I totally think that Cosmicphuz is just having fun with humor anyways, regardless he is exercising his freedom of speech in a post that was inviting people to feel comfortable expressing themselves freely while approaching this in a fun way. Its possible this is been taken the wrong way bc mercury is rx but in no way do I feel that he is trying to start drama. Cosmiphuz are you a sag??? your humor feels sag to me. But guys this is intended to be a fun thread. I don't get why people have such issues with stereotypes tbh they exist for a reason but YES it does not mean that it applies to all cases. Stereotypes exist bc there is a statistically significant occurrence with a pattern but for something to be statistically significant it just means that there is just enough evidence to conclude that something is not occurring by chance alone. It doesn't take a lot for something to be statistically significant, we are talking about noticing that 5% of virgos have body image issues and suffer from anxiety, that is enough for it to be statistically significant; the minimum requirement anyways. "How do you determine if something is statistically significant? Usually, statistical significance is determined by calculating the probability of error (p value) by the t ratio. The difference between two groups (such as an experiment vs. control group) is judged to be statistically significant when p = 0.05 or less." "You will often see the probability value described as p < .05, meaning that the probability associated with the inferential statistic is .05 or less (5 out of 100). Notation used with p values: < = less than. > = greater than. < = less than or equal to." Also anybody can benefit from therapy, people go see a shrink just bc they want to verbalize things to someone they know won't go gossip and that would truly understand them, feel empathy and validate their feelings and struggle. Its therapeutic to be able to say something out load in a non judgemental environment. It could be as simple as someone feels very stressed and going through a transition and wants support through this and to learn to better manage their stress etc...people who are truly crazy often don't benefit nearly as much from therapy sadly. So seeking a therapist is not a sign of weakness at all and many therapists also see their own therapists. Its not taboo or a big deal these days; we need to get past this, we all have weaknesses and that is OK. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 03:29 PM
Guys I don't know if you missed this part but Ami framed the post in a way to celebrate freedom of speech and yes I totally think that Cosmicphuz is just having fun with humor anyways, regardless he is exercising his freedom of speech in a post that was inviting people to feel comfortable expressing themselves freely while approaching this in a fun way. Its possible this is been taken the wrong way bc mercury is rx but in no way do I feel that he is trying to start drama. CP rocks, H, and so do you and 99% of LL peeps.
I have a small group that follows me around and tries to harass me, but if you watch me, I, always, ignore
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DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3069 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted September 06, 2016 03:42 PM
HypatiaYou've missed my points. If you care to read again, carefully, you should understand. It's well beyond the scope of this thread and in fact, has little to nothing to do with the actual astrology of the thread. Rather, Ami's defenses that she puts up for those who would disagree. Which if there's a fear of others disagreeing, then what part of that had fun intentions? Do you see what I'm saying? "Accept my truth or get out of the kitchen". So.... - It's not the astrology. - It's not ComicPhuz (if I spelled that right) Actually, I was meaning to poke fun at myself for stirring up drama. I don't understand how that got confused. - It's not restricted to this thread. - It's not that I couldn't see the fun in this - It's not that I believe she had bad intentions It is: - an ongoing attitude of defensiveness From multiple occurrences of "you can't handle the truth" which translates to "I can't handle being wrong." Regardless of what post she makes and regardless of what intentions there are with her posts. So long as they are laced with this over compensated ego crap. I'll have a problem with it. Is that spelled out clearly enough for everyone to understand? IP: Logged |
cchampliss2 Knowflake Posts: 681 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 03:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I have a small group that follows me around and tries to harass me, but if you watch me, I, always, ignore
And why do you think that is? Just curious. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 875 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted September 06, 2016 04:04 PM
This capricorn got a new job that I've only spent 3 hours at so far. It's killing me to work so few hours------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 04:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Mergoatsun: This capricorn got a new job that I've only spent 3 hours at so far. It's killing me to work so few hours
Aww You will prolly rise to the top and be working more hours than you can handle
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 04:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: HypatiaYou've missed my points. If you care to read again, carefully, you should understand. It's well beyond the scope of this thread and in fact, has little to nothing to do with the actual astrology of the thread. Rather, Ami's defenses that she puts up for those who would disagree. Which if there's a fear of others disagreeing, then what part of that had fun intentions? Do you see what I'm saying? "Accept my truth or get out of the kitchen". So.... - It's not the astrology. - It's not ComicPhuz (if I spelled that right) Actually, I was meaning to poke fun at myself for stirring up drama. I don't understand how that got confused. - It's not restricted to this thread. - It's not that I couldn't see the fun in this - It's not that I believe she had bad intentions It is: - an ongoing attitude of defensiveness From multiple occurrences of "you can't handle the truth" which translates to "I can't handle being wrong." Regardless of what post she makes and regardless of what intentions there are with her posts. So long as they are laced with this over compensated ego crap. I'll have a problem with it. Is that spelled out clearly enough for everyone to understand?
Hey D, my head is super foggy today bec I have been sick since yesterday and this past week has been super emotionally charged, I think the solar eclipse has affected me in not a fun way at all... I don't have a problem with you or Ami or anybody on this thread and welcome your participation in LL always. Given that my brain cells are not working 100% well today, I am just going to send you and everyone on this thread lots of love and wish you all a wonderful week. ..and thanks for clarifying, I totally missed you were poking fun on yourself! like I said my head feels really foggy today bc I am sick. Send you all love. IP: Logged |
Electro DGX Knowflake Posts: 1331 From: Plutanus/Uruno Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 06, 2016 05:10 PM
If Aquarius goes to the shrink, it's because they realized that they weren't as mentally superior as they thought lol------------------ Scorpio Ascendant Aquarius Sun in 4th Gemini Moon in 8th Check out my blog ya'll: www.electrodgxtalks.wordpress.com IP: Logged |
bonsai Knowflake Posts: 353 From: another place, another time Registered: May 2012
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posted September 06, 2016 05:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: HypatiaYou've missed my points. If you care to read again, carefully, you should understand. It's well beyond the scope of this thread and in fact, has little to nothing to do with the actual astrology of the thread. Rather, Ami's defenses that she puts up for those who would disagree. Which if there's a fear of others disagreeing, then what part of that had fun intentions? Do you see what I'm saying? "Accept my truth or get out of the kitchen". So.... - It's not the astrology. - It's not ComicPhuz (if I spelled that right) Actually, I was meaning to poke fun at myself for stirring up drama. I don't understand how that got confused. - It's not restricted to this thread. - It's not that I couldn't see the fun in this - It's not that I believe she had bad intentions It is: - an ongoing attitude of defensiveness From multiple occurrences of "you can't handle the truth" which translates to "I can't handle being wrong." Regardless of what post she makes and regardless of what intentions there are with her posts. So long as they are laced with this over compensated ego crap. I'll have a problem with it. Is that spelled out clearly enough for everyone to understand?
I understood it because this is something I myself have observed and have come to the same conclusion. Whenever someone disagrees her response is usually something like "maybe subconsciously you feel that way but haven't noticed it yet?" rather than "oh ok maybe I haven't researched this thoroughly enough". Nothing wrong with a bit of humility rather than always insisting you're right. I am more willing to trust someone who is willing to review and revise their conclusions for the sake of sharpening knowledge than someone who is not open to a difference of opinion because they are so "confident" they are correct. It's not like you need a degree in Astrology so as far as I'm concerned everyone's observations are equally valid, whether or not they label themselves as "professionals". IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3069 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted September 06, 2016 05:31 PM
^^ Yes exactly. I'm purposefully making a very short response. Just, you know. I don't want to be "ganging up" on her. Hypatia - It's ok. I probably came across more harsh than I intended. Also, I become frustrated with misunderstanding in general. So it can come across wrong when really I'm frustrated with the situation.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 06:08 PM
I probably came across more harsh than I intended. Also, I become frustrated with misunderstanding in general. So it can come across wrong when really I'm frustrated with the situation. It's Ok ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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ReeseC Knowflake Posts: 1126 From: Elysium Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 06, 2016 06:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: Sorry Ami, but I'm going to have to agree with DopGang on this one. Not everybody has to go to the shrink because their are so many differing factors involved in one's life. Of course everyone will at least experience a breaking point in their life, but whether or not that requires the shrink is subjective.
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 07:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Electro DGX: If Aquarius goes to the shrink, it's because they realized that they weren't as mentally superior as they thought lol
Lol haha good joke you are awesome. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 682 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 08:20 PM
I don't think Ami claims/believes she knows everything. Hell, who does? Sure, perhaps her delivery can be taken as a bit presumptuous by some. But I don't get the impression of "I-am-all-knowing" from her. She takes other members' responses here on LL and uses them on her articles often (and gives them credit of course). And c'mon, she's a Gemini - she's gonna argue/debate with you.As with anything/everything, you gotta take every person and what they say with a bit of salt. I don't take anything anyone says literally. Not even the people I'm closest with. Could be the nature of my mercury in Scorpio to read between the lines, who knows. I haven't been around much, but it'd be nice if we could just get back to busting eachother's balls.
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Cosmiphuz are you a sag??? your humor feels sag to me.
No, late Libra. My personal planets are split between Libra and Scorpio (and Gemini Ascendant). I've got Sag Uranus and Saturn. Also, Sag in the 6th/7th house. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2016 08:57 PM
Oh yeah my husband has a great sense of humor and jokes a lot and he is a Libra with Scorpio placements, he can also enjoy dark humor.IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1526 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 06, 2016 09:10 PM
"We plow ahead with truth. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen."I think Ami fell victim to the Mercury Retrograde herself (by failing at introducing her thread clearly) IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 3069 From: MBTI - INTJ -- Enneagram - 5w6 Registered: Jun 2015
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posted September 06, 2016 09:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by Liliya: "We plow ahead with truth. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen."I think Ami fell victim to the Mercury Retrograde herself (by failing at introducing her thread clearly)
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 68942 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted September 06, 2016 09:49 PM
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1526 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted September 06, 2016 10:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by DopGang: Hi there! 🙋
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CosmiqPhuz Knowflake Posts: 682 From: INFP Registered: Jan 2014
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posted September 07, 2016 12:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Oh yeah my husband has a great sense of humor and jokes a lot and he is a Libra with Scorpio placements, he can also enjoy dark humor.
Haha, not everyone gets my humor, apparently. My sister reacts to my jokes in the following steps: 1. She holds a straight face while subtly holding back a very slight smile. 2. She then systematically tears my joke apart and analyzes every little "flaw" in it. 3. She tells me my joke is not funny. 4. She doesn't offer a joke of her own to compensate for my lack of humor. Awkward silence as I crack open a beer. Her saturn squares my sun, so that could explain it. Or maybe I'm just not funny...
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colorful butterfly Knowflake Posts: 524 From: Durham north carolina usa Registered: May 2015
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posted September 07, 2016 12:13 AM
Lol, I am a Cancer sun and yes,my emotions can be hard to deal with but Virgo rising, I have OCD. Mercury in leo, fear of rejection. Gemini mars and venus, I get bored easily and hard to make up my mind about love because of all the above. Too funny!!!IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2016 10:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz: Haha, not everyone gets my humor, apparently. My sister reacts to my jokes in the following steps:1. She holds a straight face while subtly holding back a very slight smile. 2. She then systematically tears my joke apart and analyzes every little "flaw" in it. 3. She tells me my joke is not funny. 4. She doesn't offer a joke of her own to compensate for my lack of humor. Awkward silence as I crack open a beer. Her saturn squares my sun, so that could explain it. Or maybe I'm just not funny...
Hahaha nah you are definitely funny and from my experience libras tend to be creative like that and naturally funny. I laugh at my partners jokes 90 percent of the time and I have an acquaintance married to a Libra too and he is hilarious. It's a blessing to be with a Libra bc you guys are funny, loyal, take care of your partner and are committed. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 4984 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 07, 2016 10:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by colorful butterfly: Lol, I am a Cancer sun and yes,my emotions can be hard to deal with but Virgo rising, I have OCD. Mercury in leo, fear of rejection. Gemini mars and venus, I get bored easily and hard to make up my mind about love because of all the above. Too funny!!!
It's funny I am a therapist and don't know one Virgo who is OCD yet I know cancers and libras who are. I can see how cancer sun in combo with Virgo rising and other markers can lead to that though. IP: Logged |