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Xodian
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posted January 03, 2014 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LOLLLL!

Just LOL!


Seriously, I feel sorry for you Odette. Seems like your thread got steam rolled over with chest thumping machismo that reeks with personal insecurity. Goodness gracious...

If Odette is on a personal "Jihad" (had to laugh on that one) then its probably a counteraction to a crusade by bevy of insecure men who don't seem to realize that they are no better than the "jerks" that they try to blame for their own personal social issues. I mean seriously... Seeing half the responses that I have seen in this thread, you lot might as well be trying to compare imaginary d*cks at a schoolyard.

Remind me again; How old are you all exactly?

If I were to guess the reason why Odette created this thread, it was probably to highlight the very issue that you clowns just unconsciously brought up. Seriously, given your responses in this thread, you AREN'T ANY BETTER than the Jerks you hate. You aren't... In your eyes, women have become a mere nuance which need to follow a set criteria dictated by your own insecurities.

- AG, you want a stepford wife type who should mother you insecurities and place some sort of validation for your manhood. Like seriously?!

- Padre, you are stuck on personal hiccups in dealing with some internal idealistic romantic strife... Which wouldn't be all that bad if it didn't manifest itself as some biased tunnel vision view of women and their behavior.

- YTA; I don't know if you have a fetish for flaunting your untold riches and credentials (most of which I have doubts about. You could always displace those doubts by swapping personal credential information through e-mail if I gave it you. I am looking for someone who can have a look over my portfolio anyway and I can compensate you for your services.) However, keep in mind that your own narrow perspective of your world doesn't contributes anything onto this topic other than an attempt to validate your own ego. No offense but that if how it comes off as and it doesn't paints a good picture.


Now that we have highlighted all of your behavior, analyze it and see for yourself as how its no different than the behavior of that sorority douchebag with a six pack and a chiseled face that you guys hate so much.

The reason why women opt for that douchebag is a logical one; Atleast with that douchebag, they are getting looks, a sixpack and a nice night of hot, steamy sex .

*Sigh* So sorry your thread turned into this mess Odette. So much potential for a real discussion wasted...

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aquaguy91
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posted January 03, 2014 08:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Xodian:
LOLLLL!

Just LOL!


Seriously, I feel sorry for you Odette. Seems like your thread got steam rolled over with chest thumping machismo that reeks with personal insecurity. Goodness gracious...

If Odette is on a personal "Jihad" (had to laugh on that one) then its probably a counteraction to a crusade by bevy of insecure men who don't seem to realize that they are no better than the "jerks" that they try to blame for their own personal social issues. I mean seriously... Seeing half the responses that I have seen in this thread, you lot might as well be trying to compare imaginary d*cks at a schoolyard.

Remind me again; How old are you all exactly?

If I were to guess the reason why Odette created this thread, it was probably to highlight the very issue that you clowns just unconsciously brought up. Seriously, given your responses in this thread, you AREN'T ANY BETTER than the Jerks you hate. You aren't... In your eyes, women have become a mere nuance which need to follow a set criteria dictated by your own insecurities.

- AG, you want a stepford wife type who should mother you insecurities and place some sort of validation for your manhood. Like seriously?!

- Padre, you are stuck on personal hiccups in dealing with some internal idealistic romantic strife... Which wouldn't be all that bad if it didn't manifest itself as some biased tunnel vision view of women and their behavior.

- YTA; I don't know if you have a fetish for flaunting your untold riches and credentials (most of which I have doubts about. You could always displace those doubts by swapping personal credential information through e-mail if I gave it you. I am looking for someone who can have a look over my portfolio anyway and I can compensate you for your services.) However, keep in mind that your own narrow perspective of your world doesn't contributes anything onto this topic other than an attempt to validate your own ego. No offense but that if how it comes off as and it doesn't paints a good picture.


Now that we have highlighted all of your behavior, analyze it and see for yourself as how its no different than the behavior of that sorority douchebag with a six pack and a chiseled face that you guys hate so much.

The reason why women opt for that douchebag is a logical one; Atleast with that douchebag, they are getting looks, a sixpack and a nice night of hot, steamy sex .

*Sigh* So sorry your thread turned into this mess Odette. So much potential for a real discussion wasted...



Xodian, you are a prime example of everything that is wrong with modern culture. So what are we supposed to do? Support women and their sexually promiscuous behavior? Should we be happy that they are going to be crapping out fatherless babies more messed up than they are?

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Violets
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posted January 03, 2014 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Violets     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Faith
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posted January 03, 2014 08:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^

quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Yes , I use the word whipped because such guys are the types who would agree with me behind closed doors but act politically correct on a forum like this full of bleeding heart feminists who believe in "rape culture".

Here we go again with the "this forum is full of bleeding heart feminists" routine. So I guess AG never did apologize to us for that before...his apology must've been for someone else.

Anyhoo...

You talk PC yourself sometimes, AG, that's why there is all this fuss and confusion about whether or not you are an actual sexist pig. Sometimes you say "the right thing" but then go back to your refrain of "most western women are utterly hopeless." You're just banking on women in other cultures taking a real liking to you.

But actually, mail order brides don't want your love but just to get out of the Third World. You can take advantage of that, but I think it will backfire, then you'll be back here complaining that "All Asian women are stuck up" or something.

This thread is just a sinkhole of wasted energy...like some Bermuda Triangle of redneck angst, sucking people in.

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Xodian
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posted January 03, 2014 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:

Xodian, you are a prime example of everything that is wrong with modern culture. So what are we supposed to do? Support women and their sexually promiscuous behavior? Should we be happy that they are going to be crapping out fatherless babies more messed up than they are? [/B]


Well you are more than welcomed to devote your life to a convent and cut yourself off from the world . I can give you the number of a nice monastery I know. Oh yeah I forgot... They don't use phones... Modern influence being bad and all that...

Hell yeah I am supporting women and their sexual behavior... Much like they had to put up the concepts of monogamy and being the subservient wife who wasn't allowed to have any goals or accomplishments of her own. All she had to do was take care of the house, change those diapers and then put on that makeup and wait for her husband to come home.

So more power to to the free-willed accomplished women!

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Faith
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posted January 03, 2014 09:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AG always calls childbirth "crapping out babies."

As if babies are sh*t? I guess he means the female babies only, though.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Xodian, you are a prime example of everything that is wrong with modern culture. So what are we supposed to do? Support women and their sexually promiscuous behavior? Should we be happy that they are going to be crapping out fatherless babies more messed up than they are? [/B]

Aquaguy it takes two people so if you are a dad you should stand up and support your kid.

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Xodian
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posted January 03, 2014 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
AG always calls childbirth "crapping out babies."

Pipe down you demonic feminist! Or else smite thee with my self righteous double standard! Now go make me a sandwich.


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aquaguy91
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posted January 03, 2014 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Xodian:
Well you are more than welcomed to devote your life to a convent and cut yourself off from the world . I can give you the number of a nice monastery I know. Oh yeah I forgot... They don't use phones... Modern influence being bad and all that...

Hell yeah I am supporting women and their sexual behavior... Much like they had to put up the concepts of monogamy and being the subservient wife who wasn't allowed to have any goals or accomplishments of her own. All she had to do was take care of the house, change those diapers and then put on that makeup and wait for her husband to come home.

So more power to to the free-willed accomplished women!



If you have a problem with monogamy why are you married?

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posted January 03, 2014 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
AG always calls childbirth "crapping out babies."

As if babies are sh*t? I guess he means the female babies only, though.



It's called having a sense of humor faith lol

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Faith
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posted January 03, 2014 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's belittling and disrespectful.

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aquaguy91
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posted January 03, 2014 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]
Xodian, you are a prime example of everything that is wrong with modern culture. So what are we supposed to do? Support women and their sexually promiscuous behavior? Should we be happy that they are going to be crapping out fatherless babies more messed up than they are?


Aquaguy it takes two people so if you are a dad you should stand up and support your kid.[/B][/QUOTE]

I agree. The thing is most young women don't seem to have any discretion with who they are sleeping with. Their only question is "is he hot?" It's rarely " is he good father/husband material?" That's why most women my age are already single mothers. Heck I have seen a few single girls my age with 3 kids already and I just want to ask them what's going on inside their head. But yet we have threads like this saying we should celebrate this sort of thing.

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Xodian
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posted January 03, 2014 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

If you have a problem with monogamy why are you married?

I don't have a problem with Monogamy... When it is used as means for development for both partners; And not some crudely manifested ideals of it being a conduit to idiotic projects such as being "the perfect housewife."

My wife is NOT a glorified housekeeper! Nor do I expect her to adhere to some notion of "traditionalist family values." I am with her because of her talents, her intelligence and her fiery spirit; And that she is my life long teacher as am I to her.

Well that is how take Marriage and what it is supposed to be. I mean, that seems like a good deal doesn't it? As opposed to trying to get women to adhere to some subservient ideal to validate your own self?


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posted January 03, 2014 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Xodian:
Pipe down you demonic feminist! Or else smite thee with my self righteous double standard! Now go make me a sandwich.


Xodian, you did nail it though. Obviously AG runs into trouble again and again, where women here perceive him as a jerk. Yet he is not luring anyone in, disproving his own rigid beliefs about the laws of attraction!

Maybe be a little more of a jerk, AG, threaten physical violence or something, and then the babes will come crawling.

We ought to take this live on a Jerry Springer show.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Folks, been lurking on this post for a few days and have a million things to say.

The most important thing to say however, is BIOLOGY IS KING.

There will never be equality between the sexes until they both make the same amount of gametes.

Eggs are precious, sperm is cheap and hence, the difference in the behaviours and needs of the sexes.

As to WHY sl&t haming happens, it is because people who are **** shamed are seen as threats. For women, they are seen to be more competitive by dropping prices. For men, they are visual and highly reactive creatures. The average normal male will contain it to his head, the less self-restrained ones won't.

Is it right to shame? No, we are humans that can reason, that's what makes us different from other organisms but primal instincts are too strong and they kick in and can override. We can't deny that we are animals.

I am not hopeful that anything wil change for the sexes. We are simply built this way. We can only do so much with societal changes and laws, which is really sad actually.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
The thing is most young women don't seem to have any discretion with who they are sleeping with. Their only question is "is he hot?" It's rarely " is he good father/husband material?"

Unlike you, who will only sleep with women who can not only crap out your babies but tend to them responsibly. Doesn't matter if she's hot, but can she get those burps out??

quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
That's why most women my age are already single mothers.

Yes! Most!

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posted January 03, 2014 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:

Maybe be a little more of a jerk, AG, threaten physical violence or something, and then the babes will come crawling.

We ought to take this live on a Jerry Springer show.



It seems to work for my cousin who has no problem getting women. In fact he is in jail as we speak for beating his baby mama and smashing out her car windshield. He will most likely have a new girlfriend the day he gets out of jail. I could think of countless real life examples of ******** getting the girls but I'm not going to share them because it's mostly pointless. You are going to believe what you want to believe.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He's in jail but has no trouble getting women. Extraordinary.

Well some men do keep women through threat of physical retaliation, emotional manipulation, and blackmail. But it's the women's fault for staying, obviously.

You never allow it to sink into your head that women can't always tell who's a smooth-operating criminal and who isn't, before getting too far involved.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AG - I think you need to get out of your environment. I suspect you've been let down so you now feel angry and because of that, you are putting out a bitter vibe.

As for your cousins getting girls and not you, it sounds like both your cousins and their girls are both damaged goods. Like attracts like. No switched on woman would ever seek out a bad boy. They certainly don't turn me on. However, women may fall for the charisma of a bad boy. Criminals can very charismatic.

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posted January 03, 2014 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Faith:
He's in jail but has no trouble getting women. Extraordinary.

Well some men do keep women through threat of physical retaliation, emotional manipulation, and blackmail. But it's the women's fault for staying, obviously.

You never allow it to sink into your head that women can't always tell who's a smooth-operating criminal and who isn't, before getting too far involved.



But you and the other women of the forum have tried telling me that the reason I have trouble is women pick up on my " negative energy" ..... Now you already know how i feel about all that new agey Mumbo jumbo crap . But suppose it is true .... If women can pick up on vibes/energies, wouldn't they pick up on the negative energy of players, woman abusers etc. I mean if anybody had " negative energy/vibes " it would be those guys right ?

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Xodian,

You are an engineer with Celestica, the EMS company in Toronto, and you work on the Blackberry account for a customer that is not only for sale but is in the gutter in terms of financial performance. Post your Linked In profile.

I'm sick and tired twisted fscks like you. You are envious and inadequate beyond belief.

This is my Linked In profile. I left off my economics degree because my education was getting obnoxious and detrimental to my career advancement. And so I have never posted in after my first job. Do you want my university alumni association contact as well?

http://www.linkedin.com/pub/ian-yeoh/8/a28/5

In case you still doubt, this was my business card in the World Trade Center.

http://i305.photobucket.com/albums/nn233/ianyeoh/WTC-1-1.jpg

I don't know why I bother to justify to sh1t head d1ckwads like you, but here it is.

If you want links to my Phi Beta Kappa and my UN fellowship and Fulbright Scholarship, plus Eton College, plus my Dad's PhD degree from Oxford plus a masters from Cambridge, plus my mom's BA degree from Cambridge, I'll post all that as well. Hell, I'll **** off my son and post his college acceptance letter as well. Do you want scanned copies of the title to all my vehicles as well? Do you want the scanned deed to my properties? What else do you want?

You say you have a Jaguar XF. Let's see the title. I'll show you all of my vehicles.

Post them or forever STFU. F you very much.

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posted January 03, 2014 10:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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So sorry your thread turned into this mess Odette. So much potential for a real discussion wasted...

IOW, another thread with woman as a subject following its usual course even when it's a derailment.

These threads should come with lotteries on how long before what happened here and so many others happen to the next ones (like who will be the first to derail it for the usual, etc, and maybe how many pages before it gets locked). It's not even that much of a variable, it's all so predictable, the only surprising thing is that people keep being surprised that the same thing happens over & over again.

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Honestly YTA, you could pass as a twin brother of someone I know who is very successful too.

Kudos both to YTA and Xodian, both intelligent men. I'm impressed.

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posted January 03, 2014 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xodian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Envious?! LMAO! Ian (is it?) Going about tirades on how many women you sleep with based on a twisted mindset on a per-chance basis of self fulfilling prophesy of being the stud muffin center of the world does not validate your sense of desirability.

I ran a quick search on your credentials (barring linkedln.) Apart from getting a LOT of chatter from Job Searching sites, I didn't really get any solid hits from any of my sources that you are currently employed. So either you USED to work for Mutsimoto Group (and don't do so anymore) or the main page group of Mutsimoto Group doesn't publishes the name of its Board Members (which I doubt but its possible.)

Either way, that's besides the point.

I don't use Linkln for obvious reasons; Anyone (and most people do so) can fudge up credentials on that site. And using it source of networking is a waste of time. While the site is set up for professionals, you will realize (given your profession) that the best professional contracts are usually done in person.

My credentials are on my Facebook page ; Actually VERIFIED from my company sources.

And then there is this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_LinkedIn_hack


Take it from someone who knows Networks; Using LinkedIn as a source of professional conformation of credentials is a load of hooey .

No I don't want to see your credentials anymore though you are more than welcomed to post them to validate your place with the women of this forum. Your attitude have pretty much proven that. I don't know if there is a lingering sense of self deficiency or inferiority complex but gloating your self merits on a forum will not validate your place as a person of merit;

Nor is it professional.

... Much like your attempted groveling at company I work for. Blackberry is an important customer for us, yes but its only one branch customer out of many. Our contracts range from dealing with other OEM based companies. Our clients include Microsoft, Bombardier, Lockheed Martin, Creston and we also have sustainable energy contracts going with the government and private enterprises (most popular of which include Solar Panels.)

So yes, I am a glorified Engineer. Its a wonderful job. Its a fulfilling job and its something that I like doing. And it pays good . I sure as hell don't need to gloat about it as the cornerstone of a conversation on this forum.

As for your cars, Putting up certification information with the car is pointless (most of which can easily be doctored up.) Unless I am not there to see a physical copy of these leases or see an exact copy from the Ministry of Transportation, its pointless to show me a scanned piece of paper.

Just post up a picture standing right next to your car . That should be all the proof I need.

As for the badges on the car; I am assuming you are talking about this picture:
http://imageshack.us/a/img217/1718/jaguar5.jpg

Well just for your benefit, here is the shot of its back:
http://img198.imageshack.us/img198/131/wd2r.jpg

Just post a few pictures like that with you with your cars and I will be satisfied . No need for posting deeds or all that other non-sense.

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posted January 03, 2014 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How's the hospitality industry doing Xodian?

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