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posted June 15, 2006 05:30 AM            

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Wow, Celtic!

You are definitely getting much busier with that Crab of yours. It all sounds very encouraging, I don't think he would let you get involved in things, especially with his family, if he didn't like you, whether as a friend or a potential partner.
When I don't want someone around, I don't let them help me, or do things for me, and these are really good signs.
Good luck, next time I am hoping to hear the next step up from the "butt massage"

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posted June 15, 2006 09:09 AM            

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Ooooh, emails to eachother on a regular basis. That's another good sign. I may email another guy that's not my boyfriend(and that I have only platonic feelings for) occasionally just to say "hi" to the person, but never regularly. I highly doubt his feelings for you are just platonic. Thats sweet that your watching his daughter for his daughter for him too

And P.S., That pizza thing is in fact a very Cancerian excuse. You Scorpios are TOO good.

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posted June 16, 2006 08:25 AM              

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okay, gals hang on to your girdles, guys hang on to you socks------the Crab and I have had the big sex talk,boundaries, likes, dislikes etc. Now we never got to the point of a deep conversation about it before; things were touched on but never thoroughly discussed (another problem early on)granted we have done thru e-mail which has made it easier as we both write our feelings out better sometimes than say them out loud. and I swear that I still get in his presence and get all tounge tied sometimes its so silly snd so un-scorpion like and that will fluster me too when something has caused that cool exterior to become uncool just rattles me to no end...lol. Yeah , I feel as if a big hurdle has been overcome or a breakthough has happened or something...Especially since HE initiated it

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posted June 16, 2006 03:48 PM            

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Woweeeeeee!!!

Ok, I think this is majorrrrrrrrrrr

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posted June 16, 2006 07:43 PM              

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yeah VERY major...LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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posted June 19, 2006 09:27 AM              

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Well his daughter and i had a great time this weekend and we stopped by the station to pick up her xbox and we went to dinner with the rest of the crew and then back to my house and she spent the night. He caught a fire early in the morning which made him happy as he was getting bored and depressed about spending 36 hours at the station and getting no calls...so he caught a fire with and interior attack no less that was a pretty good working fire so he was happy but exhausted. I brougt her home and she went over to a friends house for a while and so he and I got some us time, but of course he was sooo tired and frankly so was I so we just cuddled and napped and I gave him a few TLC massages so it was very nice so things are progressing along wheeeee! He has her the rest of this week and then she goes to her mom's and he gets her 2 weekends of every month for the summer so he will have lots of by himself time. SO as always keep the postive vibes coming

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posted June 19, 2006 02:19 PM            

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what is TLC massage ?
does it (again) needs the jeans to be on?

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posted June 19, 2006 02:31 PM              

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TLC stands for Tender Loving Care. The jeans didn't need to be on per se for that but the potetial for the daughter to come bouncing in at any time necessitated the fact the clothes needed to stay on

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posted June 20, 2006 05:22 PM            

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All I can say is "WHEEEEEEEEEEEEE",

That really is MAJOR! I don't think anyone, let alone a Crab, would talk about such intimate things with someone they don't feel "something" about. When I first read it, I was quite taken by surprise, I mean, after all the baby steps, there is something, I hope, quite significant on the horizon. Well, I will keep sending all the good vibes, so that the talk can progress into long-term action, hehe.
Good luck, we want more good news! Greetings, S.

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posted June 20, 2006 11:31 PM              

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Thanks Selena! Yeah today I was getting a bit parmoid and that was the word for it...only because not much from him e-mail wise..And I know I was being silly. I know there are some stressors at his job and he had Battalion duties last pm ( found out) so hence lots of sleep in case he had to get up. I tried calling him today about a station matter and couldn't get him..so I was getting a bit paranoid...thinking he'd retreated back and I tried to ignore myself. We (the crew) came back form dinner and he was there at the station doing some actual station stuff. Surprised me ---he asked how I was doing in his tone of voice that is reserved for the people he is close to and we talked about stuff mostly station stuff and station people and events around that but also he was saying he was getting stressed all over again had a headache and basically he was wound up all over again. So therefore my cue So i'll probably e-mail /call him tomarrow and check on him see how he is doing..so I was worrying for nothing...bad scorpion...lol,

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posted June 22, 2006 05:08 AM            

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Don't worry too much, Celtic

Look how far you've got from the beginning of this thread. If he didn't want you around, he would have let you know in one way or another. Just go with a flow, give him a bit of space, like you do, and he will come around. It will be intreresting to see what happens when his daughters are away for summer, perhaps you will have more time to spend together, and he will be more relaxed then.
Keep us posted, all the best, S.

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posted June 22, 2006 09:40 AM            

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Oh Celtic,please don't stress yourself. After "the talk" its pretty much a sealed deal for us. And yes, remember the time when you said he would feel guilty because he didn't have enough time to devte to you. Well, not to be rude, but like Selena said: with his daughters away, you guys can spend much more time together. I know my mother has much more time for her own life now that most of us are older now and out of the house.

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posted June 23, 2006 08:40 AM              

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Yes I know...Thanks Guys! Well, yesterday we had a hot e-mail conversation going In fact I wound up calling him after I got off work to ask him if he had gotten ANY work done ...he told me they were slow and he had done a lot of goofing off cuz it was an all day thing. his daughter goes to her mom's this weekend. So I am hoping Sunday we can spend some time, I'll see him tonite at the station, but of course we have to behave there. So... so far so good

and as ever keep those positive vibes coming Whoo! HOO!

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posted June 26, 2006 02:07 AM              

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Well, we finally got to spend some alone time. We went to dinner and came back to his place as he told the station he would be available for boat calls (we have swift water rescue in addition to the fire and ambulance) and due to the massive amounts of rain being dumped on the eastern US we have had flash flood warnings here and cars have been getting stuck-- started watching movie and sure enough a call went out. So he was gone for about 45 minutes and came back and then --Wowee!:::censored--for Mature Audiences Only::: LOL! well you get the picture I sensed something different about him than before --can't quite put my finger on it exactly to describe it---he certainly seemed more comfortable than in the past..less hesitancy I suppose and less cautious acting perhaps-- there has definitely been a change in the positive direction, of that much I am certain. So that is the scoop for now Thank you all again for cheering us on!

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posted June 26, 2006 04:45 AM            

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Wowweeeee, for sure!

Finally, the Crab has come around, and on what a day: New Moon in Cancer! Great day for beginnings! Let's hope that this is the start of something more constant and long-term, sounds like he has finally come around, after all this time. Ohh, I really hope that he is yours now and that you can start planning things with him. Well done, sounds like you had really nice time, you really got a long way from the start, it looks like he finally "capitulated". All the best, keep us posted, Selena.

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posted June 26, 2006 09:35 AM            

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Ooooh, I get it....well it looks liek he's definitely come around. These flash flood warnings are annoying though. We went out last night and had to slow down on the I-95 because of excessive water.

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posted June 26, 2006 09:50 AM              

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Thanks Selena
Dulce, thanks to you too and where do you live??

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posted June 26, 2006 11:45 AM            

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i live in india and indians are always interested in the censored material (thats the reason we have the second biggest population )

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posted June 26, 2006 02:16 PM            

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Rhode Island

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posted June 26, 2006 02:22 PM              

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Okay Dulce, I-95 runs close by me in Virginia and I was wondering

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posted June 27, 2006 06:34 PM            

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Well, let us know when the engagement happens! (This is the news I am waiting for next, or at least, moving in together ) Oh, Scorpio-Cancer cocoon, how wonderfull! Pure (watery) bliss!

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posted June 28, 2006 03:01 PM              

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Oh Wow, Selena I could only hope that would be the case It would be the biggest reward that I could hope for. We will see I will keep you all posted! As always keep the postive vibes coming

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posted June 28, 2006 04:39 PM            

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Dear Celtic,

If you really want something strong enough (like you do), it will happen.
Don't give up, and DEFINITELY keep us posted. Sco-Can is one of the best pairings in the whole zodiac, definitely most emotionally intense, so keep trying, it will be worth it!
Sending all the good vibes, the best of luck, Selena.

P.S.
I've just watched on the news about the enormous floods in some parts in the US, lots of people evacuated and some died. I hope it is not so bad where you are, I hope that the weather will stabilise very soon.

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posted July 01, 2006 09:58 PM              

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The most endearing people I've ever known have been Cancers, including my grandmother, the one person I was closest to throughout my life so far. They are incredibly sweet & nurturing & affectionate, caring, considerate, family oriented, and hilarious...

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posted July 01, 2006 09:58 PM              

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The most endearing people I've ever known have been Cancers, including my grandmother, the one person I was closest to throughout my life so far. They are incredibly sweet & nurturing & affectionate, caring, considerate, family oriented, and hilarious... and they're supposed to be the best match for Scorpios..

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