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Topic: Scorpio Woman /Cancer Man
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 19, 2006 08:56 AM
  
Hey Celtic! Update us when you have the time, pleeeeeze??IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted December 27, 2006 02:00 AM
well, well, well.....it would seem that when you let things go and they come back they are yours....lessee things that would make me think that....I took my Crab's younger daughter with another girl neice of other station member's to the movies and out to see the crhistmas light display and dinner. we exhanged Christmas gifts, he's called and texted me about Merry Christmas wishes and several e-mails back and forth about other things..(this sounds juvinile but he moved me to his no 2 spot on his freinds list on "My space" his older daughter is no. 1.)he came out to dinner tonite with my mom and myself and now we seem to have tentative plans for New Years...not to mention he offered and is accompaning me for a minor medical procedure after the first of the year. So I kind of figure if things were not cool between us none of this would have transpired. and those were just the major things there have been plenty of small things. So ..I am still not getting too ahead of myself,but you all wanted an update..and as always keep the postive vibes coming  ------------------
ML
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cancerrg
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posted December 27, 2006 09:51 AM
shall i wish you a happy new year in advance or let you have blasting time with your crab and then congratulate you ?your choice !  IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted December 27, 2006 10:06 AM
{{{RG}}}}!!!!
Well, keep all the good wishes for Happy New Year and hopefully 2007 will be less drama filled and more happy filled....and I also wish that for everyone here at LL!!!!!------------------
ML
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 27, 2006 10:27 AM
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..(this sounds juvinile but he moved me to his no 2 spot on his freinds list on "My space" his older daughter is no. 1.)
Hahaha, nawww...I totally get it though. It sounds good when your in his top 2. Good luck and Happy New Year! What a turn of events btw! 
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celticfyre
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posted December 27, 2006 10:32 AM
yeah, just kinda unexpected. Don't want to do anything to rock the boat....but I also am not letting myself run away with myself...and see where this goes..  ------------------
ML
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Tigerlily
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posted December 27, 2006 11:01 AM
I had taken a look at your myspace profiles when you posted them ages ago and I thought it was a bad sign that you weren't at the top of his friends list after his daughter. So now that he's moved you it's a very big sign indeed, like a public proclamation that he considers you to be most important after his daughter. Congrats and Merry Christmas!IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted December 27, 2006 09:17 PM
okay! now we have solid plans for New Years!
And he has also seen the light for the Leo mutual "friend" that has stabbed me and now him in the back....and he has apologized for letting "friends" mislead him (about me and a bunch of everything else)!! Miracles never cease!------------------
ML
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celticfyre
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posted January 01, 2007 01:16 PM
 Well, 2007 has started out WAY better than last year! We are back together, and he is making it a goal for himself this next year to being open to having more a life for himself and is including me in it. He has actually seem to metamorphisis somewhat already and seems more comfortable...he still has a way to go but after being at the New Years Party last night he was openly affectionate with me in front of his friends so THAT was major progress....so I have high hopes...but I am being patient-- very patient with him. So things are very good right now. And now that the Leo drama queen has been called out for interference of the worst kind, and kicked out of the game we can get back on track. WHOO HOO!
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ML
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 01, 2007 11:39 PM
Wow, Happy New Year to you both!
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celticfyre
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posted January 10, 2007 10:21 AM
Well so much for a good start to the new year.
The Leo former friend couldn't leave well enough alone. She concocted a story about her having a possible miscarriage implicating my Crab. a week prior she had told me about the bleeding but told me it was gastrointestinal in origin---NOT vaginal (I would think most women would be able to figure it out rather quickly as to the source) so this is why it is a lie and the fact My Crab would have NEVER gone there and he and i discussed that issue before this latest lie came up. SHe put all the blame for all the "drama" between the three of us at his feet. after hearing this I was extremely upset to say the least and the three of us were at the station at the same time and I was torn in letting it slide and not say anything to him and telling him. SInce the gravity of this latest accusation implication would be completely embaraasing to him I ended up telling him.(better to hear it form me than soembody else!) Thus crushing the good mood he was in--- I even said I don't even know how to broach this subject before I told him. He of course was absolutely livid! and he still is and this was last friday...he's not mad at me but he is mad at the whole situation --I am too. He wants to move to arizona where he has family if he can only convince his daughter to go. I told him not to let her BullS**t change him or his behaviour or she wins. I've told him that more than once over the last couple of days (when I have had to opportunity to do so) He has gone into his underground mode again, not answering my phone call the next day after this revelation of lies to not even repsonding to e-mails of mine that have nothing to do with that subject. I talked to him a little last night and he told me that this whole thing has caused him to backslide severely to the point he was about 8 years ago in trusting someone...and I told him to please don;t judge me by her and he told me that he doesn't. I just dont' know what to do at this point other than to leave him alone and let him be as I know he will come out eventually. I am trying not to let my insecurties get the better of me, either. But is its hard as I have never seen him this upset over anything and I have to admit I am afraid of loosing him altogether to his defenses. TRying to maintain faith and patience but this trial is extremely difficult and so unfair. ------------------
ML
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2007 03:27 PM
Oh dear...sorry to hear that CF. Although I'm a bit confused. Did the Leo say that Cancer caused her miscarraige....or what is implicating?
Even so, those fire people pi$$ me off sometimes...always wanting to create drama. Takes for instance, I recently started hanging out with an ex-friend of mine who is a sag. I went out to the club with her like thrice with no problems...what she was doing there was her perogative. Meaning, wanting to talk to all these guys, wanting to dance with the bodyguards and the guys in VIP....mind you she has a boyfriend like I do. So everything went fine at the club I was cool with her again until 3 days after the third time we went out my leo friend calls me. She says that the sag told her that I was quite the party animal the other night....that I was the one who wanted to talk to all these guys, dance with all the bodygaurds and the guys in VIP. I'm like "WTF? No f-ing way! That was all her!" Now mind you that she's actually friends with my bf (I met him through her) and I was cool with that even when I didn't want to speak to her anymore. But I kept freaking out and wondering if she told him the same thing. Turns out she didn't because she knows what the fate of our "friendship" would be (I would probably cut her off again...and that maybe I'd kick her a$$ too). I know the lies weren't that bad this time but even so, her making things up about me has suddenly reminded me why I stopped talking to her for over a year and a half. I think I might cut her off again, this time for good...she really hasn't changed and probably never will. (God, just grow up already!  )
Sorry for the rant but I really can't stand the drama that some fire people bring to the table  IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted January 10, 2007 03:58 PM
Oh Dulce sorry for the confusion...the implication was that he was the father. They never even had sex everything she was telling people was all a lie. Now, I am sure she tried, but I know that he would have rejected her advances period...he's not that stupid to get tangled up with a married woman with 3 young children given his ex-'s propensity to bring up any excuse to change custody arrangements.
yeah I am with you I hate the drama. ------------------
ML
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ms_scorpio
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posted January 10, 2007 08:47 PM
I am sorry to hear about this. She sounds desperate for attention at all costs.IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted January 10, 2007 09:45 PM
Yes, she is Ms S. I found out today that as I had figured she was never pregnant. And if the next thing she said is true its too bad, she is saying now that she may have uterine cancer and she may have to have a hysterectomy. Trust me this inormation is not getting to my crab...i am regretting even telling him the other....but I could not let it potentially get worse without saying soemthing to him. I still say better coming from me than soembody else less embarassing that way. I can't help be feel that this also may be not the complete truth and now she is trying to garner sympathy, but its like the boy that cried wolf..i figure now she has made her bed and now has to lie in it. Pretty much a good example of when one does evil to another you get it visited back on you three fold.------------------
ML
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celticfyre
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posted January 10, 2007 09:45 PM
Yes, she is Ms S. I found out today that as I had figured she was never pregnant. And if the next thing she said is true its too bad, she is saying now that she may have uterine cancer and she may have to have a hysterectomy. Trust me this inormation is not getting to my crab...i am regretting even telling him the other....but I could not let it potentially get worse without saying soemthing to him. I still say better coming from me than soembody else less embarassing that way. I can't help be feel that this also may be not the complete truth and now she is trying to garner sympathy, but its like the boy that cried wolf..i figure now she has made her bed and now has to lie in it. Pretty much a good example of when one does evil to another you get it visited back on you three fold.------------------
ML
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celticfyre
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posted January 10, 2007 09:46 PM
Yes, she is Ms S. I found out today that as I had figured she was never pregnant. And if the next thing she said is true its too bad, she is saying now that she may have uterine cancer and she may have to have a hysterectomy. Trust me this inormation is not getting to my crab...i am regretting even telling him the other....but I could not let it potentially get worse without saying soemthing to him. I still say better coming from me than soembody else less embarassing that way. I can't help be feel that this also may be not the complete truth and now she is trying to garner sympathy, but its like the boy that cried wolf..i figure now she has made her bed and now has to lie in it. Pretty much a good example of when one does evil to another you get it visited back on you three fold.------------------
ML
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 10, 2007 10:00 PM
So now she admits to never being pregnant....Gosh, I can't stand the drama most leos like to bring. I only know two Leos that I like...the rest I must have the karma that cancers usually have with leos. They've driven me nuts. I keep running into so many people like the leo you know...ughhhh.
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Now, I am sure she tried, but I know that he would have rejected her advances period...he's not that stupid to get tangled up with a married woman with 3 young children given his ex-'s propensity to bring up any excuse to change custody arrangements.
And also remember that he would never do that because he would never hurt you...hehe
So has he still not come out of his shell...gosh! He's gonna have to come out sooner or later. I hope he realizes that it was just the leo and not you.
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celticfyre
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posted January 11, 2007 12:41 AM
Well I told him to please not judge me by her..and his reply was "i don't" he's just hurt and angry and p***ed off at the whole situation. so I have tried to let him be.------------------
ML
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cancerrg
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posted January 11, 2007 08:38 AM
do one thing, a trick that we used when we were in our boarding school , take a blanket cover the leo when she isn't seeing you , tie it at the neck and then bring out all your anger and frustation
thats the best way that we used for the dogs in those times .  and coincidentally dulce , a sag complained about me to my boss ,just last week . big drama but now he is afraid -when would i strike back IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted January 11, 2007 08:50 AM
((((RG)))))
Ha ha ha ...not that I haven't thought of something similar, but I figure take the high road. I am more concerned with my Crab totally skittering away from me because of her crap. He has already told me he feels he has backslid all the way back to 8 years ago when his ex dumped him in the trust department. Which is why I told him not to judge me by her and he says he doesn't. So what do I do now other than let him have some space and peace???????------------------
ML
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Dulce Luna
Newflake Posts: 7
From: The Asylum, NC
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posted January 11, 2007 09:39 AM
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and coincidentally dulce , a sag complained about me to my boss ,just last week . big drama but now he is afraid -when would i strike back
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cancerrg
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posted January 12, 2007 01:38 AM
Just be there ! very honestly! though he will be having his confusion may be even reagrding you , that happens with us , the best course is just be there .
let him know , you are there when he needs oyu and keep in touch with him , giving him space doesn't mean he has to search for you . IP: Logged |
celticfyre
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posted January 12, 2007 09:06 AM
Thanks RG! Well he did finally reply to an email I sent even tho it was brief and about firefighting and of course he asked me two questions that required reply so it is a start.
But in a previous e-mail about some other non relationship things I simply stated further down that as always I was there for him and signed it with this ((((((((BIG HUGS,KISSES&BACKRUBS)))))
which I have never done with our e-mails so not to seem pushy despite my desire to say things like that all the time.
I hope he knows that I am true to my word simply after all we have been through and I am still here and never went away should tell him something. Because I think he is still afraid that I am just gonna get fed up and quit.------------------
ML
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posted January 13, 2007 05:10 PM
well, he seems to be really good now...he seemed very happy at the station last night, he came up despite saying he was not and I am sure it helped that a certain Leo wasn't there. In fact, soemone else noticed how peaceful and non-dramatic it was as well as shall we say fun and happy that the atmosphere was??? That same person concluded that the Leo just needs to go ---she's more of a disturbance than an help at this point.
So things seem to be much better with him now and he was even open to doing soemthing with meif his daughter wound up with plans to spend the night with a friend. so I guess after a hiccup things are back on track.------------------
ML
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