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posted July 01, 2007 01:39 AM            

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Actually, Ms Scorpio has a point (I just missed it). Anything she does to p*ss you off....just vent over here....or get a punching bag, you'll feel much better (mars in aries speaking..lol).

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posted July 01, 2007 09:55 AM              

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LOL well actually her very prescence (sp) p*sses me off...lol so you might hear my venting quite a bit!!! SHe jsut keeps showing up there without any real reason to be there---meaning she's not doing anyting to contribute---she says she comes to work out (we have a really nice work out room now at the firehouse)but I haven't seen her in work out clothes It doesn't take several hours to work out)nor does she appear to be riding any apparatus so I have no idea what her motivation is to be there.

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posted July 01, 2007 10:27 PM            

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You mean, she never actually does any work??? She just shows up? I know that its only a volunteer organization but isn't there a way that you could tell people that they should only join if their planning to actually......I don't know.....do something??? For her to show up and do shiite is not even productive to the organization; she like dead weight, the weakest link,etc.!

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posted July 02, 2007 12:32 AM              

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Well I should refrase that---she has been showing up --extra ---not on her assigned nights or times and doesn't appear to be doing anything---although tonite I did see her going down the hall to the work out room actually wearing work out clothes but as far as I know she didn't say anything to anybody there--there were only 4 of us and my crab showed up later and helped staff the engine (being the holiday several people are out of town and a few of us came up extra to help staff a piece of apparatus and hey we actually did get a call (its been slow) but she apparently didn't stay long she was gone later. However the beauty of a firehouse is that yes there is work to be done but not the entire time you are there its like being at home and there is plenty of downtime so sometimes there doesn't appear to be a reason to be there except for when the tones drop and a call goes out. She hasn't seemed to be there for any purpose other than to work out---not to staff a peice not, to work on training not any admin work not any other bonafide reason to be there except on her duty nights which she hasn't been back long so that hasn't amounted to much. BUT I am trying to ignore her but it is hard to ignore someone and watch your back at the same time.

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posted July 02, 2007 09:26 AM              

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So she is actually showing up for no practical purpose?

I guess she is looking for trouble (drama) because nothing else is going on in her life. Is this a pride thing with her? Is she trying to plead her case to others about what transpired between you, her, and cancer man?

You are doing the right thing by ignoring her. As far as watching your back goes, cancers do this really cool thing where they only stare at you out of the corner of their eye or when they think that you aren't looking. Maybe you could try that trick.

I wish I had better answers for you. Keep coming back and venting. Sooner or later she'll say or do something that will offer some insight into what she is up to.

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posted July 03, 2007 02:33 AM            

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OoOoh I see! My b! Yeah, just try your best to ignore and don't indulge any of her antics. You'll do alright.

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posted September 21, 2007 10:22 PM              

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RG--sorry I fell asleep after I got home

Okay back to my Crab---well he's doing it again----backing away sideways---I get so frustrated,but not deterred but sometimes I wonder. He did the same thing for the last two years at the same time of year---isn't there something about Crabs being cyclical that I remember reading?? anyway that is essentially the short version.

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posted September 22, 2007 01:26 AM            

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you know what , now that you say it , i see a pattern in his ways and mine .
i seriously think it has something to do with some cyclical period .

i met a virgo girl few days back , everything was so instant . exchanged phone nos . and all .

now after a gap of one week i dont know why i can't pick up my cell and call her
its not that i dont want ,i do but may be deep down i am afraid of her being formal (that in a sense is rejection ) though logically i shouldn't be like that as she was the one to give me her no. rather than me initiating it .

cancerians will be cancerians !

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posted September 22, 2007 08:51 AM              

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yeah I think that is him also. When he gets stressed or overy busy he does that it seems and since his daughter is back to school and in his house full time of course the demands of a teenage girl and the desire to be a good dad --not to mention addtional resposiblilities at the firehouse hit him a ton. I think that is where the pattern comes into play after the summer of not having to be "dad" all the time he has to now be Dad again.. so I can see why he shrinks away and as time goes on he comes back around....so I have decided not to over tax him...offer to help where I can and let him know in subtle ways the "I am here...I haven't gone away" and concentrate on my own thing. Ihope that one day we can get to the point that I am further in his life than I am right now more like a fixture than a sattelite.

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posted September 22, 2007 09:30 AM            

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anything about marriage ?

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posted September 22, 2007 04:03 PM              

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no unfortunately that subject hasn't even been breached between us as far as "US" is concernec. I loved being married when he thought it was a good thing he's very domesti ated...he's not sure he wants to be married again ..but most of that is the kinda talk that gets tossedaround in a group of people (mostl;y men) so I don't pay too mcuh attention to it...but like I said I know on one hand iot may never go the way I want it to, but on the other hand I cannot give up hope in him to rise to the occasion for himself.

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posted September 24, 2007 08:15 AM            

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exactly ! thats the spirit !
you know what , earlier i used to hear of platonic relations , i thought it was all absurd but the fact is 'its not' .

so be in love , may be it wont go the way you and we want it to be but then even deep down the feeling will always be different from the normal relations .

best of luck!
and how z life apart from all this ?

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posted September 24, 2007 08:41 AM              

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life is pretty good apart from all of this---trying to ride the positive crest of things at work and at the firehouse where I can...its fall here and my favorite time of year so I always feel pretty good.

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posted September 25, 2007 11:11 AM            

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winter is my favourite !

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posted September 26, 2007 01:07 AM            

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How is this thread still going?

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posted September 26, 2007 02:17 AM            

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the reason is the same as your username !
enojoy love !

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posted November 14, 2007 01:12 PM              

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glad that you guy that are with cancers are sucessful. although im not. im a taurus hes a cancer 6/28/1965. ive sent him a few cards in the last 4 months. i told him inspite of my feeling 4 him i can still be his friend. i think i pushed him away because i exagerrated on sumthing he said and he didnt elaborate on his statement he had made. . i let somethings *** out my mouth like and i felt like i was falling in luv, and you been on my mind since he said he cant focus on a strong frenship. after the texts i sent i wondered if i ruin the strong frenship. he said he wasnt upset with me. days later i texed him i like to see him and sumthing about my mom. out the blu he said he still luv his daughter mother but weeks and weeks prior to that he told me how bitter the divorce was and other stuff. i replied to the i still luv my daughter text message in a positive manner. i wanted to sho him im mature. he cald me later and was saying how u gotta go with the flo and cuz of the text he took that as pressure.ive sent long notes to him on how i feel cause i rarely talk to him over the fone and he made it seem like he didnt like that. i dont know y he made that remark. that was 2 wks ago and i dont know if i should stay in touch eventho i feel that he x me out for good. he hasnt called or replied to the few msgs i have sent. i wanted to mail a nice poem to him but i dont know if i should just let it be.

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posted November 01, 2012 07:51 PM            

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I posted this on another topic but then I came across this and thought this would be even better, hope that's alright... I'm a newbie to the forum as well as astrology in general and would love some input

I was born Nov 22nd 1986 so I believe I'm a scorpio-sagg cusp. I recently (3 months ago) reunited with a cancer male (born July 14 1983) who I had a passionate whirlwind romance with 5 years ago. Long story short, the timing was bad for me back then, he was all in but I didn't realize it at the time because he was hard to read and after 2 wonderful weeks together, I unintentionally broke his heart by ending things. We were friends for years before getting romantically involved and ruined our friendship because he was so devastated. After 5 years without any communication, he's returned to my life and we've discovered our feelings have only grown stronger over the years. Now that we've matured and reunited, I'm incredibly happy and really want to make this work. His moodyness gets to my insecurities sometimes but I find I have a lot of patience with him plus he's good at keeping his temper in check and is very caring. I've made many careless mistakes with him that's made him weary even though he knows I love and care deeply for him. He's a very private person and I'm quite open with my friends and family which is where most of our quarrels begin. I have told him that I respect his privacy and am making a distinct effort at keeping our relationship details to myself but still find myself making bad judgement calls since I'm not used to being so private. Please help me understand how we can overcome our misunderstandings. Our quarrels are always over petty misunderstandings, other than that our connection is absolutely amazing, we're both incredibly caring, love each other and share incredible sexual passion together.

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posted November 01, 2012 07:53 PM            

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I posted this on another topic but then I came across this and thought this would be even better, hope that's alright... I'm a newbie to the forum as well as astrology in general and would love some input

I was born Nov 22nd 1986 so I believe I'm a scorpio-sagg cusp. I recently (3 months ago) reunited with a cancer male (born July 14 1983) who I had a passionate whirlwind romance with 5 years ago. Long story short, the timing was bad for me back then, he was all in but I didn't realize it at the time because he was hard to read and after 2 wonderful weeks together, I unintentionally broke his heart by ending things. We were friends for years before getting romantically involved and ruined our friendship because he was so devastated. After 5 years without any communication, he's returned to my life and we've discovered our feelings have only grown stronger over the years. Now that we've matured and reunited, I'm incredibly happy and really want to make this work. His moodyness gets to my insecurities sometimes but I find I have a lot of patience with him plus he's good at keeping his temper in check and is very caring. I've made many careless mistakes with him that's made him weary even though he knows I love and care deeply for him. He's a very private person and I'm quite open with my friends and family which is where most of our quarrels begin. I have told him that I respect his privacy and am making a distinct effort at keeping our relationship details to myself but still find myself making bad judgement calls since I'm not used to being so private. Please help me understand how we can overcome our misunderstandings. Our quarrels are always over petty misunderstandings, other than that our connection is absolutely amazing, we're both incredibly caring, love each other and share incredible sexual passion together.

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posted November 01, 2012 09:15 PM            

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I posted this on another topic but then I came across this and thought this would be even better, hope that's alright... I'm a newbie to the forum as well as astrology in general and would love some input

I was born Nov 22nd 1986 so I believe I'm a scorpio-sagg cusp. I recently (3 months ago) reunited with a cancer male (born July 14 1983) who I had a passionate whirlwind romance with 5 years ago. Long story short, the timing was bad for me back then, he was all in but I didn't realize it at the time because he was hard to read and after 2 wonderful weeks together, I unintentionally broke his heart by ending things. We were friends for years before getting romantically involved and ruined our friendship because he was so devastated. After 5 years without any communication, he's returned to my life and we've discovered our feelings have only grown stronger over the years. Now that we've matured and reunited, I'm incredibly happy and really want to make this work. His moodyness gets to my insecurities sometimes but I find I have a lot of patience with him plus he's good at keeping his temper in check and is very caring. I've made many careless mistakes with him that's made him weary even though he knows I love and care deeply for him. He's a very private person and I'm quite open with my friends and family which is where most of our quarrels begin. I have told him that I respect his privacy and am making a distinct effort at keeping our relationship details to myself but still find myself making bad judgement calls since I'm not used to being so private. Please help me understand how we can overcome our misunderstandings. Our quarrels are always over petty misunderstandings, other than that our connection is absolutely amazing, we're both incredibly caring, love each other and share incredible sexual passion together.

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