posted April 10, 2020 08:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
i did that too, for a time last year. we've been 3000 miles apart for years now, and i was so busy and typically not responding to any 'hey' messages. but she took it the wrong way. the icing on my part started out as an accident, and then she started lashing out at me over messenger, and complaining about me to our mutual friends, who i introduced her to.. but anyway, i never ever responded to her drama, not once, and she just kept continuing the messages without my response. now i don't even open them. it's been over a year, btw, and the messages keep coming. really opened my eyes to how toxic and narcissistic she was

but yeah, feels like a huge weight off my shoulders. don't let anyone try to act like they own you! blech.

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posted April 10, 2020 08:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Oh yes I’ve been needy with a fling/friend with benefit in my early 20’s so I know people can move past it and grow.
Nah my bday is on Easter

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oh so the 12th! I see now, awwww venus in pisces with moon conjunct pluto! That is totally the energy I picked up from you the other day, I really felt your pain and intense concern for world when I told I could feel you have a really good heart, I feel you hide this about you and don't typically show it so it was nice tapping into that side of you the other day. Very Sweet.

Your moon trines my moon
Your Mars opposes exact my Venus and Mars
Your venus conjunct my Amor
Your Sun trines my venus and mars
Your Jupiter is on my 7H and squares my IC/MC

You have AC in Gemini right?

I think my chart ruler Jupiter conjunct Uranus is on your DC.

In one year on your next B-Day Tr Jupiter will conjunct your MARS and before it conjuncts your Mars it will conjunct your MC. I think you are graduating soon right? I think this next year will be good for you career wise is my guess, leading to advancement in your career or a raise or promotion. Since MC is in aquarius and mars in aquarius maybe you will change jobs and get a better job, I know you hate current job so there are positive changes coming your way on the horizon!

MC in aquarius can explain the power struggles you have with your BOSS You like to do things your own unique way and need space and freedom when it comes to your career and she likes to micromanage you, not a good fit.

Perhaps this crisis will help you make that decision to change jobs and look for a better job once you graduate.

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If you have Pisces in the 11H and Jupiter ruling you 11th is in Cancer conjunct CHIRON, I could see how you may attract friends who have issues with boundaries and are subconsciously looking for a mother figure to help them heal their own attachment wounds.

However since NEPTUNE is also the ruler of the 11th house you appreciate a friend who is unique with a contained rebellious side but who also knows how to take care of themselves, adult and is cautious as your Neptune conjuncts Uranus but its last dispositor is Saturn. You want a friend who expands your mind/world and brings new experiences into your life, someone adventurous (saturn ruling your neptune falling in the 9th house).

posted April 11, 2020 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
oh so the 12th! I see now, awwww venus in pisces with moon conjunct pluto! That is totally the energy I picked up from you the other day, I really felt your pain and intense concern for world when I told I could feel you have a really good heart, I feel you hide this about you and don't typically show it so it was nice tapping into that side of you the other day. Very Sweet.

Your moon trines my moon
Your Mars opposes exact my Venus and Mars
Your venus conjunct my Amor
Your Sun trines my venus and mars
Your Jupiter is on my 7H and squares my IC/MC

You have AC in Gemini right?

I think my chart ruler Jupiter conjunct Uranus is on your DC.

In one year on your next B-Day Tr Jupiter will conjunct your MARS and before it conjuncts your Mars it will conjunct your MC. I think you are graduating soon right? I think this next year will be good for you career wise is my guess, leading to advancement in your career or a raise or promotion. Since MC is in aquarius and mars in aquarius maybe you will change jobs and get a better job, I know you hate current job so there are positive changes coming your way on the horizon!

MC in aquarius can explain the power struggles you have with your BOSS You like to do things your own unique way and need space and freedom when it comes to your career and she likes to micromanage you, not a good fit.

Perhaps this crisis will help you make that decision to change jobs and look for a better job once you graduate.

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If you have Pisces in the 11H and Jupiter ruling you 11th is in Cancer conjunct CHIRON, I could see how you may attract friends who have issues with boundaries and are subconsciously looking for a mother figure to help them heal their own attachment wounds.

However since NEPTUNE is also the ruler of the 11th house you appreciate a friend who is unique with a contained rebellious side but who also knows how to take care of themselves, adult and is cautious as your Neptune conjuncts Uranus but its last dispositor is Saturn. You want a friend who expands your mind/world and brings new experiences into your life, someone adventurous (saturn ruling your neptune falling in the 9th house).

With saturn in capricorn been the last dispositor of your 11H house ruler and Tr PLUTO is right on that you are re-evaluating your friendships right now and thinking about who you have outgrown.

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My chart ruler is 12th house Mercury. Thanks, sometimes I question myself. Put my Aries Sun in check. Sometimes it seems like I don't like helping people. I seem to tire of it, while I rely on certain people to help me. I've gotten better. True I don't always "go there" with that side of my personality.

I always wondered what our compatibility was! I have nothing put good things to say about Pisces Moon! Beautiful people! I don't think I'm aware of knowing anyone who has an Aries Mars in person.

Yes I'm a Gemini rising.

I am graduating in August. Ahh this college and job stuff, I feel like pushing myself to this limit has made me a better person, while being unhealthy for me at the same time. I am so looking forward to my time being more of own when this is over. Yeah I feel like I can't forget how my boss treated me this year, even if her behavior has improved. I love all my other co-workers so much, it will suck to leave them. But it wont suck to leave my boss. I am so over her overcompensating. LOL
I have seriously took my Mars sign into consideration now that I have more leadership. In the past four years I am starting to realize that micromanages are deal breakers for me, and so over the over compensaters.

Oh yes Pisces is house 10 and 11. Ah saw another post that you watch "End of the ****ing World" I love when Alyssa says she doesn't trust normal people. I could so relate to an extent. I forgot if my Chiron conjuncts Jupiter, I do remember my chiron is in Cancer though. Yeah sometimes other people will ask me "where do you meet these people?" Damn you are good. I like being friends with people who have been though some **** but are independent and self sufficient AF. I am grateful for my new experience friends, though they are often not my closest of friends. Friend that always need rides to places and such eventually have me running. Part of the "wow I really don't like helping people". My mom genuinely loves giving people rides. My mom's social heaven is my social hell. LOL
I have started to question the friendship pretty much when I started my first teaching job. I told her I would talk to tomorrow. I totally have to be honest while talking to her like she is a human being. Not make it about her being a freak of nature. lol Make it about myself and my well being like "I was starting to feel glued to my phone. I notice I feel happier and more focused and present when I take time away from my phone. You're important enough that I wanted to see if you are okay talking on the phone two times a week?
She could act cool with it but hurt at the same time....that is my guess.
But I could totally see her still trying to attempt to test the boundary though after agreeing to it.
This is my last attempt to have the friendship go back to what I define as healthy. I even feel like two times a week is generous. At first I thought about once a day. But that is exhausting. I don't think I want to talk to anyone once a day on the phone. But since she sometimes pushes communication to once a day I was conditioned to say how about once a day?

Yeah for the good times, and for how positive and supportive she can be, that would suck to throw her out like a bag of garbage. But if she flat out refuses my last attempt for the friendship to go back to a healthy place, then I have to treat her like a crazy trash bad that needs to be taken out.

posted April 11, 2020 04:34 PM            

I didn't realise that on the day in question (Thursday),Sun in Aries was transiting my 1st house.

It was actually conjunct and parallel my Asc EXACT when we severed contact😳

But we are back talking again. And I thought all this would show Mars action.

But this was the Sun's exaltation in Aries. Wow! 👌

posted April 11, 2020 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I don't think I'm aware of knowing anyone who has an Aries Mars in person.

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I have Mars and Venus in LEO opposing your MARS but I love Mars in Aries folks too.

posted April 11, 2020 08:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I had a huge fight with someone close on Thursday the 9th of April.I didn't talk to him until today. I was so mad.

I didn't realise that on the day in question (Thursday),Sun in Aries was transiting my 1st house.

It was actually conjunct and parallel my Asc EXACT when we severed contact😳

But we are back talking again. And I thought all this would show Mars action.

But this was the Sun's exaltation in Aries. Wow! 👌

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Lovely to hear from you.

I thought you had AC in Aries at 23 and SUN in aries will be at 23 degrees April 13th.

posted April 11, 2020 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

Oh yes Pisces is house 10 and 11.

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You have PISCES on your MC and your 11th house? It looks like if you have Saturn in Capricorn in the 9th house which fits your been a teacher and I remember you saying you have Saturn in the 9th house then your MC will be in AQUARIUS which would hate been micromanaged, MC in pisces would be more go with the flow with authority and less prone to power struggles, letting stuff slide off more easily. Worth exploring but who knows, just a thought. What degree is your AC on?

posted April 11, 2020 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

I have started to question the friendship pretty much when I started my first teaching job. I told her I would talk to tomorrow. I totally have to be honest while talking to her like she is a human being. Not make it about her being a freak of nature. lol Make it about myself and my well being like "I was starting to feel glued to my phone. I notice I feel happier and more focused and present when I take time away from my phone. You're important enough that I wanted to see if you are okay talking on the phone two times a week?

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I have so much respect for you. You are also modeling something good for her to see.

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Originally posted by Stawr:
At first I thought about once a day. But that is exhausting. I don't think I want to talk to anyone once a day on the phone.

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Is how I feel about people who talk to their parents daily? I am like WHAT? hahaahhaha I feel that is a lot but we are all different, I think that is my chart ruler in the 12th talking.

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Originally posted by Stawr:

Yeah for the good times, and for how positive and supportive she can be, that would suck to throw her out like a bag of garbage. But if she flat out refuses my last attempt for the friendship to go back to a healthy place, then I have to treat her like a crazy trash bad that needs to be taken out.

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posted April 12, 2020 01:00 AM            

This is scary times for all of us but we have to have hope, be brave and confront this head on and it will only get better after it gets worse first as that is often how things are.

I know there is a chance I will die, or my husband or my family and don't want any of those things to happen believe me and yes is scary to think of these possible outcomes but hiding until November to then realize that we are just delaying the inevitable and cannot control mother nature and then decide to open up the economy then to have the second wave of this happen then is just going to make this thing last longer and destroy the economy in the process.

We cannot prevent this from happening and that is an illusion of control, we can prepare our hospitals to minimize impact that is what we can do and keep working on finding a vaccine but that can take many years.

This is my opinion, please contradict me and disagree if you feel differently. These are strange times.

posted April 12, 2020 01:53 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:

Lovely to hear from you.

I thought you had AC in Aries at 23 and SUN in aries will be at 23 degrees April 13th.

What degree is your AC on?

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Yes. That confuses people. I know. 😂

My Mom kept on going back/forth between 2pm and the later 3pm. It was always a toss-up between the two.

So I finally got a rectification done and the time of the rectification was actually 1:44pm.

I used 23Deg Ari for the 2pm birth initial time given as my username. Afterwhich I never changed it🤷🏾‍♂️

posted April 12, 2020 02:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes. That confuses people. I know. 😂

My Mom kept on going back/forth between 2pm and the later 3pm. It was always a toss-up between the two.

So I finally got a rectification done and the time of the rectification was actually 1:44pm.

I used 23Deg Ari for the 2pm birth initial time given as my username. Afterwhich I never changed it🤷🏾‍♂️

My Asc degree is at 20 and Mc at 22.👌

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Cool so the APRIL supermoon felt on your AC/DC actually. The APRIL supermoon was this past Tuesday the 7TH so I bet the SUN ramped up your AC and the super-moon falling on your DC played a role I am thinking too.

posted April 12, 2020 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't know where to put this, so I'm putting it here: I love Mandy Patinkin. He has this fatherly, reassuring quality about him, and he left a TV show, because he hadn't realized how much the focus would be on violence against women.

His birthday is the same as my mother's, only he's seven years younger, and he probably has Moon in Taurus (it could also be Gemini). Venus in Capricorn trine Jupiter in Taurus. NN conjunct my IC.

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I really respect that.

I wouldn't be surprised if he has moon in gemini, geminis hate violence IMO and they are more about using their words and feel violence is primitive and beneath them.

In Esoteric astrology VENUS rules Gemini.

But he can totally have moon in Taurus too since the moon is exalted in Taurus in exoteric astrology.

His CHART: http://www.astro.com/astro-databank/Patinkin,_Mandy

In the picture on this article he looks very earthy:
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Creator/MandyPatinkin

posted April 12, 2020 08:38 PM            

He was singing "I love you" to me out of nowhere, he never SINGS let alone SING I love you to me, it was bizarre.

Like we say I love you to each other daily but him singing it is weird but it come from the heart, it was spontaneous and authentic.

So I checked transits and with the rectified chart Tr VENUS was right on his AC trining TR Mars right on his MC, I think he felt confidence to sing I love (Tr Mars on the MC) and inspired to do it (trine Venus on his AC).

Actually TR MOON was on his 7th house too.

So....

Tr Venus on his AC trine Tr Mars
Tr Mars on his MC
Tr Moon his 7th house

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He also cut his hair yesterday out of the blue, thank god and gave himself a new haircut and looks more manly I feel.

posted April 12, 2020 11:53 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have Mars and Venus in LEO opposing your MARS but I love Mars in Aries folks too.

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posted April 12, 2020 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Happy Birthday Stawr!

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posted April 13, 2020 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Happy Birthday, Stawr!

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Thank you so much Aries Eagle!

posted April 13, 2020 09:23 AM            

I did actually go see my mom and dad on Easter. Since that is "going out" for me in these times I decided to do my hair and make up, and dress up just a little.

My parents made me me cheesy hashbrowns, kielbasa, and beets on the side. My dad also made me orange jello with tangerines inside as dessert. I did not have the heart to tell him that I did not like jello. (they did not let me eat a lot of junk food growing up so I could understand how he would not know that. lol) But I did whisper it to mom because I saw it in the fridge.

I got a birthday Easter basket. Chocolates, and 30 dollars in quarters, and the let me know that they ordered me new tire rims! My tires get flat too quick so that should fix that!

I also received a video from my niece and nephew. They did an interpretive song and dance how it's my birthday and also Easter while jacked up on Easter candy. I was cracking up.

I also did 3 loads of laundry over there. And got to take some some tangerines and toilet paper too.

-Today-
My sister called me to watch my nieces and nephew, their nanny called off sick. I'm about to get ready to go over there.

posted April 13, 2020 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
You have PISCES on your MC and your 11th house? It looks like if you have Saturn in Capricorn in the 9th house which fits your been a teacher and I remember you saying you have Saturn in the 9th house then your MC will be in AQUARIUS which would hate been micromanaged, MC in pisces would be more go with the flow with authority and less prone to power struggles, letting stuff slide off more easily. Worth exploring but who knows, just a thought. What degree is your AC on?

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My Gemini ASC is 11 deg
Sorry for the confusion. My Aqua is in the 9th and 10th house. And my Pisces the 10th and 11th house
Aqua is the MC, I really think you are on to something with the Aqua energy not liking to be micromanaged. XD

and kind of funny that a Pisces MC would be more tolerant of that.
From what I remember my mom either has MC or N. node in Pisces. And she really has a calling for working with the elderly.

posted April 13, 2020 01:25 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Cool so the APRIL supermoon felt on your AC/DC actually. The APRIL supermoon was this past Tuesday the 7TH so I bet the SUN ramped up your AC and the super-moon falling on your DC played a role I am thinking too.

My pholus is on your AC btw...

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Hmmm...never paid attention to that. That Moon was indeed transiting the 7th.

I googled "Pholus". It's sudden turning points that are irreversible or unexpected events? Sounds like a diluted version of Uranus?🤔

posted April 13, 2020 01:58 PM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What is Pholus?

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