posted January 31, 2020 12:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Let's start the new thread with a good laugh.
Are those Reebok or Nike (Spanish Radio DJ)

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They are actually both Dominicans like me! El Cibao is an area in the Dominican Republic, my mom is from El Cibao! Nice to hear my native accent and we are like the radio host, friendly and always up for a laugh and joking around.....Thanks for sharing.....

posted January 31, 2020 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
They are actually both Dominicans like me! El Cibao is an area in the Dominican Republic, my mom is from El Cibao! Nice to hear my native accent and we are like the radio host, friendly and always up for a laugh and joking around.....Thanks for sharing.....

I totally used to do that when I did not know English, just make up the words and still yam to it and enjoy the music lol....we are cute. I am impressed the radio host was even able to figure out what song he was talking about, I mean that is impressive hahahaha

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posted February 02, 2020 03:38 PM            

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Aries Eagle, I think you mentioned you had a near death experience once...am I right?

Can you find out what this asteroid is doing in your chart? or the transits involving this asteroid on the day of the accident you nearly died?
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/005032.html

posted February 02, 2020 10:50 PM            

I am questioning a friendship that has almost lasted me 5 years. Cancer Sun and Venus + Aries Moon + Leo Mars = DEMANDING! LOL (Sorry if you have this combo)
She is comfortable with me, and wants a lot of social interaction and attention. Placing high expectations on someone who is a newish teacher taking condensed college, and has other friends and family.
Recently she did not give much of a $h!t that I was sick for 3 days, and continued to persist that I chat with her on the phone and make plans with her. ENOUGH!

Compared to when I first met her she really seems to be spiraling/escalating. I am starting to see a weirdo side to her personality, like in a lifetime movie kind of way. With the blowing up my phone when I am busy, and she copies me.

January was a super trying month for me. Her behavior has been extra repulsive to me lately. The lack of consideration she has that I am still in college, and got sick. Pretty much "can you talk now? can you talk now? can you talk now!?"
Oh my God, talk to your therapist!!!

I just really don't need her $#!+. Considering ended it. I don't like this side of her, of not taking no for an answer well, and thinking she will find life fulfillment if she tries to do everything that I am doing.

My thinking patterns have been extra negative lately. And talking to a peter panning syndrome adult, who is bored, and doesn't know what to do with any free time they have, will only annoy me further.

posted February 03, 2020 01:10 PM            

I got sick a lot last night again, in a bookstore bathroom. This is nothing new, hasn't been for the past ten years, but I still wait until the room is empty, or try to, until I *be* sick, because I don't want to gross anyone out (especially kids), and I also don't want anyone to think that I'm either bulimic or contagious, with something like the stomach flu. Ten minutes in the bathroom, all because I was hungry, and ate a burger.

The discussion in another thread, inadvertently set off by me, still has me thinking about people who tried to chase me off in the past. If they hadn't been so determined to get rid of me, I wouldn't have been stubborn enough to stick around. I don't always feel that comfortable here, and I know that it shows when I don't feel comfortable in general, just in life. I think it sometimes shows with other people, too, here and there.

My dog just jumped up, and is pushing my laptop off me. I have some work to do, and have to get him outside. Hope it's a good Monday for anyone lurking or posting.

posted February 03, 2020 02:17 PM              

I'm not saying that people haven't tried to run you off or the like, but I have noticed in my brief time here that sometimes you take things a bit over personally beyond what the person meant or was intending.

I know this for a fact, because it's happened a couple of times between us, and I RARELY ever mean or direct things more personally in a criticizing sense (have done it a couple times here), or especially rare in the sense where I'm purposely trying to bother or hurt another. I really truly care about and love people in a very universal and unconditional way. It's just who/how I am and am wired and have been since I can remember. I use to have this "strange" notion as a child where I wanted to know and be friends with everyone alive.

On a side note, I have and have long had digestive issues as well. At some point, I had to realize that my health was far more important to me than temporary body based pleasures or conveniences.

The more discipline I applied to the diet (and general health habits), the more the digestive issues improved. It takes definite time and consistency. In my case, it's taken years to see incremental improvements.

I've had to cut so much of my favorite foods taste wise, or find alternatives, that the list is quite long. The obvious ones being the most well known "allergenic" like and commonly mucous forming and inflammation causing foods like most soy, wheat, most cow dairy (with some minor exceptions), peanuts, most forms of corn, gluten, etc In addition to that, particularly for folks that have psoriasis, nightshades like tomatoes seem to aggravate symptoms. Well goodbye common forms of pizza--one of my very favorites--and one of the most mucous producing and inflammation causing foods known to humankind.

And I found out that chocolate--one of my other very favorites, bothered my body--and the more dark and/or raw, the worse it does. Then for both personal and to some extent digestive reasons (especially beef and pork), also most meat/flesh foods (I occasionally eat sardines and wild Alaskan salmon and pollock).

It sucks that you and I have these issues, but there is a way out of the unpleasant symptoms etc. And for self, besides having the digestive issues, I've also have had facial and scalp psoriasis since age 16. Imagine large patches on your face that are red, scaly, etc in the like. Nothing you can really do to hide same when these flare up.

However, it was a great forcer for me to learn how to change my eating/health habits for the better and to apply discipline.

posted February 03, 2020 10:01 PM            

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January was a super trying month for me. Her behavior has been extra repulsive to me lately. The lack of consideration she has that I am still in college, and got sick. Pretty much "can you talk now? can you talk now? can you talk now!?"
Oh my God, talk to your therapist!!!

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haahahahahaahahaha Girl if you are ever in Colorado we should have some coffee or go to happy hour......

posted February 04, 2020 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
haahahahahaahahaha Girl if you are ever in Colorado we should have some coffee or go to happy hour......

I help people for a living but when it comes to my personal life I have to say I want friends (and not too many, I only need one, I like my alone self-care time and hanging out time with my husband too much) who have mastered the art of adulting, meaning I don't want friends who are high maintenance or need to be rescued, the next thing you know you get sucked into the Drama Triangle and start to feel anxious. I want that type of friendship were we hang out once a month for 4 hours and have fun and provide mutual emotional support through the art of validation and active listening and then each go do life stuff and adulting (you know take care of ourselves and responsibilities) and hang out next month.

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posted February 04, 2020 04:27 PM            

My boss has no compassion that I was out sick for three days. Every morning I feel like I'm being interrogated by her. Wants to know why I am not ten steps ahead after being sick for three days.

Tells me to stay back today. I tell her I can't because I have to catch up in my online classes.
Then pretty much tells me she wants to see everything I am doing in my classroom for the month of February by tomorrow. I then tell her I am not going to bother with the art projects since she ends up telling me to just do what the other teachers are doing anyways. She said "when did that happen?" I told her three weeks ago. I told her when I get told to spend time on that and then nothing happens with it that is time I could of used on my online classes or cleaning my apartment, and that it is a waste of my time. When she asks me about when this happens, I told her "sporadically since I started working here."

I then get told to do something else in my classroom today. I am still not feeling 100% better. Today was so upsetting that I felt dizzy at work.

Luckily the other teachers snapped me out of it. If it was not for them I think I would quit tomorrow.

I definitely do not see this school as my forever place with the director being there. I was hoping I could do one more year as I look for my new living arrangement.

The director made up her mind that my every move needs to be managed. And I don't like working in that kind of environment. I'm starting to not care what I say. I feel like even doing everything the other teachers are doing she already made up her mind that I need to micromanaged. I feel like once I start doing what the other teachers are doing, I'll just get told to come up with my own ideas. Like I can never win.

It's just very spirit breaking. I almost want to tattle on the her to the church board who is her supervisor.

I never leave a job because of what I'm getting paid, I leave a job because of the way I am being treated. I really do not want to look for a new job until I am done with college. I'll be done in the summer.

It's like the universe wants me to look for a new job while I am in college. WHY!?

posted February 04, 2020 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Aries Eagle, I think you mentioned you had a near death experience once...am I right?

Can you find out what this asteroid is doing in your chart? or the transits involving this asteroid on the day of the accident you nearly died?
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/005032.html

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posted February 05, 2020 09:32 PM            

I feel a strong desire to lead and feel very driven, I also have little patience for BS and a strong need to set boundaries and stand up for myself but in a more defined way than typically, in a more urgent way that pushes towards change...

Today is conjuncting exact my AC and I am feeling this "why the F am I married?" vibe strongly and feeling like "why not just be single and focus on my career" vibe and I definitely feel this is Mars on my AC, is definitely a force that pushes you towards change and action and is driven and wants to be a leader and make a difference through leadership.

It is also making me feel impatient about my progress, wanting to be there already bc I want to get to the action part and the leading part with this influence of mars on the AC....to bad is a short transit but maybe this is good bc I can feel how over time having this on your AC can lead to making rash decisions on impulse or out of irritation ect... it definitely feels comfortable with taking initiative and making changes this energy...

posted February 06, 2020 12:27 AM              

Hold em there horses Cowgirl, being full of p!ss and vinegar sure feels good in the moment, but let's not throw Venus out the window...

posted February 06, 2020 09:41 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosion:
Speaking of red! Can't get more red than Mars.

Hold em there horses Cowgirl, being full of p!ss and vinegar sure feels good in the moment, but let's not throw Venus out the window...

(Please don't hurt me or shoot the messenger. I have T. Mars conjunct my N. Neptune in my 5th, I'm all confused)

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The negative of the aspect is that it makes you more impatient, irritable and reactive so you may make a decision on impulse if you don't have other things in the chart cooling you off but it also has good things about it...it increases your drive, motivation, confidence, abiliy to take initiative and leadership skills...

So is hard for me to say is a bad transit bc it has its good things and its bad things...but yes don't like the irritability aspect of it for sure.

posted February 06, 2020 12:33 PM              

Just have been feeling rather stuck and stagnated of late, want to take action, but don't know how or where to do same. I suspect that when Mars moves into Capricorn, and starts to conjunct my Mercury-Sun conjunction--things will start to feel more clear and decisive in these areas.

posted February 06, 2020 04:52 PM            

It naturally opposes my 4th. So I may be uncomfortable with what's coming because its likely to be outside my comfort zone.

Saturn is also in my 10th. Things have been building up in this house since its ingress in 2018.

posted February 07, 2020 05:14 AM            

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Jup is moving fast in the 10th house. It will square Mercury soon. I expect career expansion here or opportunities for that. I look good right now.

It naturally opposes my 4th. So I may be uncomfortable with what's coming because its likely to be outside my comfort zone.

Saturn is also in my 10th. Things have been building up in this house since its ingress in 2018.

This transit carried me from when I first registered to study, up to and including my graduation.

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I hope something good happens.

It's about four degrees from my Mercury, too. Maybe it will help to offset Saturn and Pluto, which are square to my Ceres/Chiron/Sun. They're all in my third house, and I've been thinking about short and long-range goals. Something I hadn't done for years, because I didn't know if I would be around, and had stopped caring. I'm also superstitious about it all now, for that reason.

Uranus has been conjunct my dad's sun, and I worried about something happening to him, but thankfully, he's been okay so far. He has been worried about his job for the last few months, and they've had him running around on new delivery routes. They wanted to send him to another rural area, but he just said, "I'm tired. I can't do that anymore." So he asked for mailbags, and has been getting home earlier in the evening/late afternoon.

posted February 08, 2020 04:45 PM            

It was quite the intense day. My husband and I got into one of our plutonic fights we haven't had in a while and then I left for while and when I come back he is demolishing the bathroom. We had decided that we were going to get rid of bath tub and build a shower and apparently this fight put this home improvement project into action. It needed to be done sooner than later to be fair but found the timing transit wise interesting...

Venus rules relationships and Aries can lead to fights and destruction and the IC rules home so this transit resulted in a fight and then that energy got re-channeled to a much needed home repair and home improvement project that first started with demolishing the bathroom in order to rebuild everything and do it right as whoever originally did our bathroom skipped a bunch of critical steps. Hopefully this is a metaphor of our relationship, destruction that leads to rebuilding in more solid foundations.

Feb 7th
Tr Venus entered Aries at critical degree
Natal IC in Aries at 1 degree

posted February 09, 2020 12:50 AM            

**I was nostalgic that day, thinking back on my important childhood attachments and childhood memories.

posted February 09, 2020 02:41 AM            

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I hope something good happens.

It's about four degrees from my Mercury, too. Maybe it will help to offset Saturn and Pluto, which are square to my Ceres/Chiron/Sun. They're all in my third house, and I've been thinking about short and long-range goals. Something I hadn't done for years, because I didn't know if I would be around, and had stopped caring. I'm also superstitious about it all now, for that reason.

Uranus has been conjunct my dad's sun, and I worried about something happening to him, but thankfully, he's been okay so far. He has been worried about his job for the last few months, and they've had him running around on new delivery routes. They wanted to send him to another rural area, but he just said, "I'm tired. I can't do that anymore." So he asked for mailbags, and has been getting home earlier in the evening/late afternoon.

I'm not even close to being ready for big changes, but people were talking about Pluto square their Sun, one an Aries like me, whose Sun is further along. They were talking on FB. More than one person said the best they could say was that they survived. Alright then. One long-range potential goal was the possibility of moving back to England, more as a last ditch thing, but I should have done it a decade ago.

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Saturn tends to condense what it touches or atleast "structure" it in some ways.

Mortality realizations and /or fears are part of this transit when it hits the Sun.i.e That you don't have all the time in the world to do EVERYTHING. Or the fear that you will fail at the one thing you invest energy in.

But even with that being said,you have to go with that which matters most to ur self actualization.Time is ticking.

When it touches the Sun, 4 life goals are condensed to 3 for example - or even 2. But there is an awareness of what is "probable" for you to achieve and less "open-endedness" when it comes to what capabilities you have.

With Saturn square your Aries Sun,there is likely the feeling of unease (square) with the limited reserves of energy/enthusiasm to go anywhere,do anything or start over.

I don't know about you. But Saturn squaring my Aries Asc has had me on lock down. I dont have the enthusiasm to do things that are energy depleting with no tangible results.

Look to the house that the Sun rules for further implications.

Pluto is tremendous momentum. And I will keep on saying this.The force of Pluto when touching your Sun seeks to either unearth something primal about you(especially since Sun is in Aries). Or hone focus into self-serving goals.

So when working with Saturn on your Sun, it may suggest dumping pipe dreams & conserving energy left over for one or two goals. Then focusing all the resources on those goals.

The square suggests that the "push" Pluto provides will not be welcomed by you. It could come from someone/institution/force whom you have a strong disdain for.

Interestingly our former Pres Jacob Zuma is Aries Sun with Saturn and Pluto squaring his Sun. And he is at the throws of a fight for his freedom.

Friends, alliances and resources have dried up(Saturn) and his health is taxed(Sat). He is facing jail time levelled against him by the State(Pluto). And my guess is that he probably feels like a wounded soldier in a battlefield as scavengers circle in.

Its a time to muster courage or go down in flames. Aries Sun is ruled by Mars. And this also goes for any Aries-Moon,Asc,Mars etc. who is going through this transit.

posted February 09, 2020 03:06 AM            

My Sister has Uranus conj her Taurus Sun. And I think this could be a time of worry & uncertainty for the materially conscious Tau.

Here self-esteem or the ability to mantain the status quo is shaky. The goals or plans to do something new or change "what is" etc. Have no guarantee of success and so fear abounds.

The usually certain Taurus has their inner faith disrupted and has to find a way to weather the changes without losing their mind.

When things change for the worst,there could be a feeling of "what's the point?" The builder of the Zodiac is challenged to make structures stand on moving earth!! Frustrating.

It may be a very challenging time if the Taurus or other Fixed sign person is going through this transit. It demands flexibility and patience when things don't work out as planned OR there are last minute reversals of progress.

I didnt appreciate Uranus on my Asc/Moon/Merc and Mars in 2015/16/17 at all. I don't really see the gain in this transit at all. Uranus is just cray cray!

Okay, maybe one outstanding gain is that you break away from the rut that what you've been doing will continue to work. It FORCES change (I will give it that).

I was in denial about changing career directions before this transit. And its subsequent transit served to frustrate me to a point where I was like "I can't be going this direction anymore".

For your Dad, it could be that "I am tired. I can't do that anymore " statement. I felt that. Its just not fun to do the same ol' same ol'.

My sister quit her job with the statement above "I can't do this anymore". But now her insecurity is "If I can't do what I uses to do. What can I do?"

I told her to meditate on that and journal her ideas. Something will stick.Uranus also gives plenty ideas for exit plans. But she shouldn't act immediately whilst Uranus is active on her Sun. She must wait till its past affecting her position.

posted February 09, 2020 03:21 AM            

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Other Observations connected to Tr Venus in Aries at 0 degrees conjuncting my natal IC:

**I was nostalgic that day, thinking back on my important childhood attachments and childhood memories.

***Also Venus on my IC made me more sensitive for sure, I was a bit sensitive that day but it also helped me gain insight into unmet needs and what my love language is (I knew this already but it really helped me understand or feel it more deeply, add tr chiron is near the IC too, think IC/Tr Venus/Tr Chiron=SENSITIVE). Even though it led to a fight I was eventually able to talk to my partner about my love language and helped him gain insight into his love language too ect...

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Well, I got a haircut when Ven made its ingress into Aries. Looking like a sexy beast now Nothing that deep like you am afraid.

I wonder though if everyone goes through two transits like I do? I feel like when a planet ingresses into a new sign, that is one transit.

Then when it moves on the cusp of a house, that is another transit. Perhaps "doubling down" on the initial.

For example, Venus in Aries at 0 degrees is Venus energy literally at its primal stage. It makes sense that you and your hubby would quarrel.

I however didn't have a quarrel, I ran errands that I have long been putting off. So in my case, it provided stamina.

It affects my 1st house in the whole sign system.So getting a haircut(aesthetics) makes sense to me-since its like starting over.

But when it goes into my Placidus 1st house, it will be at 20 Degrees Aries. So it's not there yet.And yet i feel the effects still.

I see this pattern also with outer planet transits shifting signs. The latest being Uranus in 2nd house-uncertain financial situation or uncertainty about where my pay will come etc. I am experiencing that now.

posted February 09, 2020 01:16 PM            

Other stuff going on
Sun Sextile Sun
Mercury Sextile Uranus
True Node Oppose Uranus

Last week was pretty miserable.
I somehow picked up myself up turned in last weeks homework and and make up work from being sick.

I miss my boyfriend more than ever. We have been long distance since August with visits here and there. I haven't seen him since December. After being sick with out him, and buss loads of bad days after work, I cry a little everyday.

My mental frame has been borderline rock bottom. I keep telling my boyfriend I am not going through a good time right now.

I work so hard and get treated like crap by my boss at work. I come home to my messy apartment and tend to working from home and my college course work and do it all over again.

"all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy"

This life is getting to be pretty lonely and meaningless.

I think it doesn't help that I can see the future so clearly. Where is my next living place? What is my next job?

In the meantime since I am so sick of this life. I still have to get through it. What is the worst that can happen? Be miserable? I already am, so what do I got to lose?
I will do my best to see the beauty in life, and appreciate every person who is kind to me, and try to get out and live once in a while.

posted February 09, 2020 01:32 PM            

There is more, but it would be a vent, and I’m getting ready to leave the house. I might talk about it another time.