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Topic: Venting Thread
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hannaramaa
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posted December 19, 2014 01:06 AM
 
the people who've treated me badly succeeding in life while i'm still climbing. i will get there... i just wanted to get there first.IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Neptune with PisceanDream, Faith, and Meissieri
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posted December 19, 2014 01:31 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
the people who've treated me badly succeeding in life while i'm still climbing. i will get there... i just wanted to get there first.
Lol, such an Aries thing to say.  But on a serious note, you'll get there, even if it isn't as quickly as you wanted. Better yet, you will climb further up the mountain because you know how to treat people properly. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 19, 2014 02:09 AM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Lol, such an Aries thing to say. But on a serious note, you'll get there, even if it isn't as quickly as you wanted. Better yet, you will climb further up the mountain because you know how to treat people properly.
Second time I've heard that today, lol, thanks Bella. Didn't mean to trump Teasel's loss with that, I just had to get it out. I'm glad you were close with your aunt Teasel, sorry she passed. IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 19, 2014 05:59 AM
teasel, you have mail. Sorry for your families loss.IP: Logged |
T
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posted December 19, 2014 06:04 AM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
DeepFreeze, I hear you here and very much so on your post in H&H`s locked thread . You have some very valid points and I`m sorry they were easily dismissed.
I don`t know anything about your old mod status but your insights in the post were one of sound judgement and experience with the operations here.
I hope this rough patch pass`s and the holiday spirit grabs you by the heart and guides you through it.
Ditto. quote:
Posted by DeepFreeze:Anxiety. Because I feel no outlet. All this crap just sits in there. No real way to come out. Maybe part of the reason for wanting to be alone. If this stuff comes out at once.... It won't be pretty. Nobody wants that.
I am familiar with that (along with the rest of what you wrote). My advice is to try to find a way to let it out healthily. Left to fester and not given a voice or outlet, it can really do some damage. It's not good to keep it all inside and then one day have it come out explosively. Isolating yourself is not always the best answer either, but sometimes can help to a certain degree. Wishing you the best. IP: Logged |
Charmaine
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From: Venus next to Achak
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted December 19, 2014 08:16 AM
!*#??!!&$#*#%$*?!?!### Vent over. IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted December 19, 2014 08:40 AM
such language Charmaine  ------------------
Christian, Jew, Muslim, Shaman, Zoroastrian, stone, ground, mountain, river, each has a secret way of being with the Mystery, unique and not to be judged.
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HappyLoewe
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posted December 24, 2014 06:41 PM
Vomit. To all those that have ignored people, not offered help, not bothered, you are vomit. The cruelty that is shown on this site is breathtaking. The favourites that are played are amazing. Sucking ass seems to be the order of the day. So long suckers  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted December 24, 2014 06:47 PM
Sorry that you feel that way, HappyLoewe.Merry Christmas, Happy New Year. Take care. IP: Logged |
Aries Eagle
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posted December 24, 2014 10:18 PM
i don't let negative things to make me forget about the positives and the blessings i have in life.thank god ------------------
"Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom." - Thomas Jefferson
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deepseablues
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posted December 24, 2014 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by juniperb:
DeepFreeze, I hear you here and very much so on your post in H&H`s locked thread .
I kept thinking H & H was Health and Healing. Now I realize it Hearth and Home. Never really ventured into that forum before, but oooooh boy its a doozy! Had no idea there was so much drama going on here at LL. Better than a good night time soap! Like when you have a whole season of a good show that ropes you in and you keep watching one after another after another until your eyes are blurry and you should've gone to bed 4 hours ago but couldn't stop putting the next one on and then suffer from withdrawals when you realize you went through them all so you re-watch them all again, haha just like that skit in Portlandia. Oh man I love that show. I live in the Canadian version of Portland and that show had me and my ex cracking up non-stop. And we watched it just as described above, one after the other after the other. Or that book you just can't put down and keep reading until the lines are blurring together like when the new Harry Potter book would come out when I was in my early teens and I'd spend the whole next day reading the entire thing for 12 hours straight...
And just like having a visit with a good ol' real life dysfunctional family! *Goes and makes another cup of tea and heads back to H & H for rest of the night entertainment....* (please don't hate me for this comment all, I couldn't help it and had no idea things were so juicy and heated!). Not really a vent either. ALSO. Not trying to make light of things that are clearly very upsetting to some on here, just from a standpoint of someone not being involved in all the drama its very interesting to go in there and start reading all this stuff. I'm really sorry that so many feelings have been hurt and that people are seriously disturbed by the goings-on on this site and by other member's. I can relate cause I almost never came back to Sweet Peas after my first attempt at posting in here and because of a member that posts in here frequently who I kinda had issues with and whose posts used to bother me a lot. But something strange has happened to me lately and I've lost a lot of the feelings I used to have. I used to feel so strongly but lately I feel like a different person where things that used to bother me just don't anymore, almost like I have become numb to my ability to feel as deeply as I used to which kinda bothers me and is kinda nice at the same time. I always wanted to not feel or care so much I'm finally starting to and it's weird... Maybe I had a walk-in. Dunno if anyone here is familiar with the term. When I was so raw a couple months ago I would break down crying and begging the universe for a walk-in (although apparently it is dangerous to do this, I did it before I realized it was dangerous) and to let me go cause I just can't handle this world/existence so maybe it happened cause I certainly do feel different in a lot of ways. I dunno kinda nice in some ways like I said. Again not trying to make light of anyone's pain it was just a bit of a surprise to head in there and start reading all this drama and kinda interesting for a person who's mostly watching from the sidelines.
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Faith
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posted December 26, 2014 10:20 AM
^^ I love the way you describe this. You are welcome to jump right into the discussions at H & H you know Never heard the term "walk-in." Has your pr moon changed signs, maybe, and that's why you are taking things easier? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 26, 2014 10:24 AM
You are welcome to jump right into the discussions at H & H you knowI second that emotion  ------------------
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Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted December 26, 2014 11:53 AM
Walk-ins are when one Soul gives up and leaves and allows another Soul to enter the body. It's a fairly popular New Age concept. I forgot who originally coined it, but it was an author. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 26, 2014 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by T:
teasel, you have mail. Sorry for your families loss.
Thank you, T. I'll get back to you when I'm more awake and feeling better. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 26, 2014 08:24 PM
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Originally posted by Charmaine:
!*#??!!&$#*#%$*?!?!### Vent over.
ditto.
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teasel
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posted December 26, 2014 08:27 PM
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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Vomit. To all those that have ignored people, not offered help, not bothered, you are vomit. The cruelty that is shown on this site is breathtaking. The favourites that are played are amazing. Sucking ass seems to be the order of the day. So long suckers
happy holidays to you, too, and thanks for adding your own brand of vomit into the mix. we can always use more bile/nastiness, right? do YOU help? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted December 26, 2014 09:18 PM
As much as drama is draining, I am so glad that I met a lot of good people here. I just read a sweet comment from a friend on FB- someone I met here years ago. IP: Logged |
deepseablues
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posted December 27, 2014 01:47 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
^^ I love the way you describe this. You are welcome to jump right into the discussions at H & H you know Never heard the term "walk-in." Has your pr moon changed signs, maybe, and that's why you are taking things easier?
Haha thanks, not sure if I'm ready to dip a toe in those waters though hehe they seem to run from icy cold to boiling hot! And no my progressed moon is halfway through Virgo so its been in there a while and plans to stay for a while more, my progressed sun is hanging out at 29 deg for this year though so maybe some of it has to do with up coming change of sign for progressed sun?? Actually looking forward to that one, I sometimes wish I had actually been born in that sign IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 27, 2014 05:43 AM
I want to complain about the people who are always complaining about others. If you have issues with each other please ignore each others posts. There's no need to bicker and feud over pointless shite. Jesus....IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted January 08, 2015 04:22 PM
I never thought that I would have to rescue my heart from my best friend. There are many things I can express. Sadness is not one of them.IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 20, 2015 08:27 PM
There's a sandwich shop conveniently by a bus stop, one in which you can see the bus coming down the street a long way away. For that reason I was willing to pay extra to get a sandwich there when I was hungry and have a long wait even though it's about paying double for a noticeably less than the big names. Unfortunately, the bread keeps disintegrating. And the owner has a temper who complains about the other sandwich shops that sell more for less and when a customer casually pointed out why others might choose them the owner blew his top. I've seen him yell at his employees over little things as well. So when he asked me (right after yelling at another customer) if there was any reason to prefer the other sandwiches I just shrugged and refuse to speak since I didn't see what good it would do (and I didn't go back for years after that). Last December I was very hungry (only had a small snack rather than real breakfast and it was mid-afternoon by then) and had a wait so I decided to bite the bullet and get a sandwich there...but I chose a different type of bread hoping it wouldn't crumble on me. It didn't and I was glad I ate there (and I didn't see the owner there either). So I went back early January but the bread crumbled on me...and again today. Guess I'm going back to not getting sandwiches there. Just what is so hard about getting bread that doesn't crumble? I don't have that problem with any other sandwiches anywhere, it's just that one shop. And given how often it happens (among other things), how do they stay open? (The ONLY thing that sells it is the convenience, though for me the convenience is ruined when the bread covering evaporates.) Oh yeah, they also don't have a restroom so you can wash your hands after your messy meal either! IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted January 21, 2015 10:41 AM
So immensely disappointed.  Was looking forward to possibly one of fhe greatest concerts of my life and it got cancelled. We bought the tickets months in advance. We had incredible seats that we paid extra for. I was really, really excited and it turned out to be all for nothing. I understand the reasoning but it still sucks. The opening bands (one of them being my favorite band) will more than likely never open up for the main group here ever again. Pooh is how I'm currently feeling. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 14, 2015 02:53 AM
A close English family member, is very ill. I was told that she might have cancer, and she had a biopsy, but I'm still waiting to hear the results. I'm very close to her - she was like a second mother to me, growing up, and I made sure to be at the airport to welcome her when she visited at the end of 2012, so that I could get some time with her, without my sister being around to upset me.That is a big part of why this year hasn't been a good one so far. I just shut down, and couldn't be on facebook, or anywhere else. please don't quote. I'm hoping for good news, although she's still sick. IP: Logged |
Chiemi
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posted February 15, 2015 03:18 PM
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