posted February 21, 2016 04:06 AM            

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Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
Feeling suicidal, my boyfriend broke up with me, lost him, he doesnt like me he doesnt love me i feel empty, im not happy, im gonna fail my midterms, ill never have the same connection like this with anyone else, he was my first love, i lost my virginity to him, he already moved on. Feel lost, dull, empty, cry everyday, miss summer, hate HATE HATE february, so far a real ****** year. Time passes too slow now, i cant concentrate, im so tired of broken hearts, im so tired of it, so tired of losing the man i love, i want him back in my life, i want my happiness back, i want his love and interest back, seeing him happy is bittersweet, i need God, i cant take it anymore and , frankly, im tired of it.

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You will survive this too. No matter how special he was, he is without a doubt not worth taking your life, you are not thinking clearly and this too will pass just give yourself time to heal and calm down. Time does heal all wounds, you will get over this and it will make you wiser and stronger. Life is not just about feeling good and happy, you have to feel pain in order to feel joy. If you decide to kill yourself that was never love but obsession. Use the love you felt for him to heal yourself; that is the real test.

Seek professional help if you continue to have suicidal thoughts:

1 (800) 273-8255
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

posted February 21, 2016 10:15 AM            

I'm not suggesting that you struggle with any illness because we can all have these moments I think. Not that we all do, but we all can. I've been there (contemplating suicide) plenty of times for various reasons.
I'm really glad that I never did. I learned a lot from not following through.
One is that I learned that I'm a lot stronger than I thought. So are you. It feels like the world is just going to swallow you up but you really are a lot stronger emotionally than you think. Heck, you kind of named yourself a Warrior, right? Keep fighting. You're tougher than you think.

Secondly, oh I'm SO SO glad that I never did anything like that. Sometimes we're so focused on that one thing directly in front of us that we fail to see all of the other possibilities. I've had so many great experiences over the years. Once in a while I'll reflect back to a time that I was feeling that way and I think about what all that I'd have missed if I did actually do it then. I can tell you this stuff and yes it's a bit like, "you don't have experience until after you've needed it" but that's why we can rely on other's experiences. Hopefully mine can help in some way. I really am so happy that I'm still here now. Though those times were extremely tough and I thought, and sometimes wanted it to be the end. I'm so glad that it was never the end. My life is the best that it's ever been. It really is. The things that I complain about now, 15 years ago I would have LOVED to just have these problems to even complain about. Life does get better, there is a world of love and love's out there. It all comes down to you though. You have to be a fighter. You have to refuse to give up.
I know you can.

posted February 21, 2016 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I'm only about as useful in these situations as much as I know any detail. Sometimes I don't feel like responding to these kinds of posts because I don't think that I can help. The few times that I have I definitely felt like I wasn't helping.

I'm not suggesting that you struggle with any illness because we can all have these moments I think. Not that we all do, but we all can. I've been there (contemplating suicide) plenty of times for various reasons.
I'm really glad that I never did. I learned a lot from not following through.
One is that I learned that I'm a lot stronger than I thought. So are you. It feels like the world is just going to swallow you up but you really are a lot stronger emotionally than you think. Heck, you kind of named yourself a Warrior, right? Keep fighting. You're tougher than you think.

Secondly, oh I'm SO SO glad that I never did anything like that. Sometimes we're so focused on that one thing directly in front of us that we fail to see all of the other possibilities. I've had so many great experiences over the years. Once in a while I'll reflect back to a time that I was feeling that way and I think about what all that I'd have missed if I did actually do it then. I can tell you this stuff and yes it's a bit like, "you don't have experience until after you've needed it" but that's why we can rely on other's experiences. Hopefully mine can help in some way. I really am so happy that I'm still here now. Though those times were extremely tough and I thought, and sometimes wanted it to be the end. I'm so glad that it was never the end. My life is the best that it's ever been. It really is. The things that I complain about now, 15 years ago I would have LOVED to just have these problems to even complain about. Life does get better, there is a world of love and love's out there. It all comes down to you though. You have to be a fighter. You have to refuse to give up.
I know you can.

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posted February 23, 2016 01:49 PM            

I always have this idea that a large portion of beggars are lairs that's the problem, but now i feel she really needed the help ..

posted March 02, 2016 02:53 PM              

Don't know if it's even worth writing anything here ~ seems so flippant and useless when I read what I've typed as a possible response for these situations.

Like Dop said, whatever we say 'online' is way too unlikely to hit the mark, or be helpful.
Like getting the weak, dim, almost non-existent glow of a star dozens of light years away.

StubbornVirgo...

posted March 09, 2016 01:42 PM              

A little somethin' for Virgo eyes.