posted September 08, 2016 12:00 AM            

oops, thought I was editing something.

posted September 08, 2016 09:46 AM            

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posted September 10, 2016 07:11 PM            

I've seen some of the posts you've made regarding your current life situation, and I wanted to give you some words of inspiration. I know you may be feeling suicidal at this point in time, but you MUST NOT fall prey to it. If you go through with suicide, you'll be giving up and there is so much out there in life for you; if you stop now, you will never be able to see it. You have to stay strong and pull yourself through this, regardless of the circumstances.

There may be people out there who are against you, and you may feel like everyone is against you at this point and nobody wants to help out and doesn't care. Well that's a lie, because there are people out there who do care about you, and you have to keep going in order to be with those people. You may not have found those people yet, but even so you have to stay strong and pull yourself through this, even if it seems like there is no hope left. I am 100% positive that there are people out there who do care about you and are willing to help you out with this situation, even if you haven't ran into them yet.

You have to promise yourself that you don't give into suicide and you have to make an oath to pull yourself out of this so you can live the rest of your life to the fullest. It may be really hard right now to think about the great things in life because you are so focused on the negatives, but there is so much value to the life you have right now. I understand that you will need a tremendous amount of time to recover, but you have to have the strength to be able to pull yourself through it, because by giving up now you will lose absolutely everything valuable in life itself, even the things you cannot see right now.

So don't give into your suicidal thoughts. Stay strong and stand boldly as you fight against this turmoil and push through it with all your strength. You're an Aries right? That's what you're made for, you can push yourself through this because you have the ability to. Don't let your depression and suicidal thoughts cloud your judgement, because you do have the power to make it through this, and you need to if you want to fulfill the greatest destiny you've been given in this life.

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posted September 12, 2016 05:43 AM            

In fact, I'm pretty sure I single handledly possess everything I need to drive myself crazy...right there, inside my own thought processes. If I could just a stop THINKING for a little while, I think I would be okay.

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posted September 24, 2016 11:46 PM            

Being lonely is hard.

posted September 25, 2016 02:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Electro DGX:
I always obsess over the idea of having a significant other. It doesn't make sense as to how me being alone is all of the sudden hard to deal with now. I can't stop thinking about finding someone who I can deeply love and cling onto for the rest of my life, someone who can help me fix all of the issues I have going on and someone who will always be there. I always see people in relationships and wonder "why is it so difficult for me?"

Being lonely is hard.

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It is hard.
I know what you mean. I've been very lonely and longing for love. (Hello?? Venus square Neptune) I've also had quite a few relationships and a few times in my life, more romance than was healthy at the time.
It all has sacrifice. When you have one or the other, you sacrifice. When single, I missed that companionship and etc. When in a relationship, I miss that absolute freedom. (Not to mean that it's bad, but I can't just go do things without considering someone else) Relationships are a lot of work and can be quite frustrating.
If you have lived in a four seasons area, I think of it like that. When it's summer, it's too hot. When it's winter, it's too cold, but you can never have a "just right".

One thing that you said that stood out to me is "help me fix all of my issues". Man, I tell you, the best thing that I ever did was to fix as many issues as I could myself. To enjoy being single, loving my life. For me, it's almost a necessity. Maybe others have different experiences but it seems that adding another to your life is difficult. It's complicated and frustrating at times.
Of course it's worth it. I don't mean that. What I mean is it works best when you're whole all by yourself.

Like wanting to hike up a mountain with a bad knee. Thinking that having another person with you will make it work. Really, you just end up not being a very good hiking buddy and maybe you end up with someone who has two bad knees and was looking for the same. Know what I'm saying?
I don't mean to make it sound hopeless. You can do it. You can feel whole, and happy, all by yourself. It's possible and that's where it starts. Believing that it's possible.

posted September 25, 2016 05:53 PM              

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Originally posted by DopGang:

Like wanting to hike up a mountain with a bad knee. Thinking that having another person with you will make it work. Really, you just end up not being a very good hiking buddy and maybe you end up with someone who has two bad knees and was looking for the same. Know what I'm saying?
I don't mean to make it sound hopeless. You can do it. You can feel whole, and happy, all by yourself. It's possible and that's where it starts. Believing that it's possible.

Relationships are messy sometimes. It's best to go into it as healthy as you can be.
I don't know...
I typed this out all on my phone.
I hope the best for you. You're a very bright young man. You've been great to have around here and I often agree with what you say. I hate to see you or anyone looking for relationships for the wrong reasons. To fill in voids. It's almost certain disaster.

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posted September 26, 2016 03:48 PM            

Perhaps it's an underlying need for security, as in I constantly feel exposed throughout my daily life and have nowhere else to turn. It's like a car that got caught in a pile of quicksand and no matter what I do it continues to sink deeper and deeper until it can no longer be seen. I feel like just holding my hand out in the hopes of that perfect someone just taking it and pulling me out of the reality I'm stuck in, even though it will never happen.

@teasel Thanks. Hopefully you start feeling better soon; I know it's hard but it will get better, even if it seems like hope is pointless.

posted September 27, 2016 10:14 PM            

When I was little, I wanted to become a sailor and sail around the world (I was obsessed with two books: "The old man and the sea" and "Twenty thousand leagues under the sea, so that was why).

It's probably better to settle for now. He thinks it's better to raise the kids in a "stable" environment, and that includes not moving around too much.

posted September 28, 2016 12:20 AM              

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Originally posted by DopGang:
A 13 year old girl was shot in the head and killed this morning by 3 men, two of which are juveniles.

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