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Topic: Venting Thread
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ikja
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posted February 16, 2015 04:51 PM
 
You Americans, always confusing me with the format of your dates!!!It's dd/mm/yyyy damn it! lol. I joke, I joke. I love you all really! IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted February 19, 2015 10:02 PM
The news wasn't good. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted February 19, 2015 10:56 PM
Teasel...
I was looking for "love and light" pictures, but I didn't want to post something that I felt was trite. So I found this.  IP: Logged |
Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 22, 2015 11:03 PM
Today at work my boss entrusted me to take over the nail salon while she was away. I had no co-workers to help me, in other words, I ran the shop by myself. One of the customers complained how I did a bad pedicure because I didn't do a good job painting her toes. I missed a couple spots, and some polish were on the side of her skin surrounding her nail. I offered to repaint them but she declined and persisted that she won't pay for it. It seemed like she just wanted a free pedicure and made up excuses to not pay anything (and wanted to make someone's day worse >_< ). She said that her kid would have done a better job (her kid was around 8 or 9 and I doubt that her kid would have don't a decent job painting toes under 3 minutes AND I have painted customers nails like hers before and they thought it was fine. and if there was anything i missed they would have said so which SHE should have said that i missed a spot) and she was acting like she was doing the other customers a favor by saying that other customers are waiting but she was trying to do herself a favor by not paying (she wouldn't even look me in the eye while she was complaining). I kept offering to fix it, but she kept saying no. So I said that I would give her a discount and she said she would only pay $10 for "this mess". Then she went on about how she understood I was busy but I should have told her to come back another day, but really it wasn't that busy when she came in and it was only after she came in others were coming in, and I was working on her so it was too late to say anything. Plus, other customers thought there was nothing wrong with her toes. But it didn't help that one of the customers who thought there was nothing wrong just nodded to the complainer so it just riled her up even more to not pay. She's a regular at the shop too, but I bet if my boss was there she wouldn't have said a peep (which just occurred to me that she asked if the boss was in the shop and i said no, so probably thought if the boss wasn't here, she would do anything she want if a worker did a little mistake). I swear if she comes back, I'm calling her out on her petty excuses. The customer I did after her thought I did a fantastic job and gave me a $10 tip. oooh if only she was around so I can shove it in her face that I actually know how to do service. Whew! Glad I got that out.  IP: Logged |
Selenite
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From: Lyra
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 25, 2015 07:14 PM
Narrow-mindedness ?Double standards
Societal Expectations
Dogmatism Everywhere IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted March 25, 2015 07:53 PM
You have to love a good cry.
It's one of the quickest forms of release.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 02, 2015 03:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
You have to love a good cry.
It's one of the quickest forms of release.
Indeed, I've done a good amount of that since February. Last time I had a good cry was a few weeks ago. IP: Logged |
Stawr
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 02, 2015 04:16 PM
I've been in a much better place school wise. On top of my work. The month of February had me very overwhelmed and I could barely function.
But there is this one class that I am still in a total funk with. I feel like I can barely focus on this class cause my other classes are so demanding. I started another Saturday class, and had 3 assignments due last week. I was so on top of my stuff for that class regardless.
But then my night class I have tonight...overwhelmed me so much! I did not go to this class for weeks! Finally went a few weeks ago.
I just make my other classes more of a priority. And when it comes to focusing on this class...I get this crippling anxiety, where I can't even make a move. Luckily we don't turn in all of our work until the second last day of class.Tomorrow I will spend my day focusing on my Saturday class. I just cannot wait for this week to be over, and have a fresh start. Another venting thing to add into the picture. Now that I'm single...and have an appetite for food(early stages of the break up...eating made me want to vomit.) I go through my food so fast! Half the month goes by and I already ate all my meals. My life style in the past, I could make 100 bucks worth of food last me a month.
I jokingly tell people I need to start dating again because of that. Luckily...I can financially afford to go shopping twice a month now. I'm living with my parents, so you would think I could save money on food...usually no. I cannot stand their taste in food. They tell me I'm a high maintenance child. But these are the things that motivate us to be independent, right? It's been a slight rude awakening realizing I need to start grocery shopping more. I did not want to admit it at fist. But I have spent so much on take out lately. My parents will usually pick up a bag of hash browns for me that I can make last a week...and go figure on Sunday my mom asks me if I want anything when she goes to the grocery store. I tell her hash browns and she FORGETS. That night I ate all my dinner and was still hungry after. Ugh. And was very insulted that mom gave the rest of her steak to the dog and not me. I did not eat an actual meal prior to dinner. I try to only get take out once a day. It's really frickin hard right now. It's so draining to have my blood sugar go up and down like a roller coaster. Trying to eat little things to put off getting food then finally having an actual meal and being in a total food coma at work. This has been throwing off my focus a lot this week. I honestly cannot wait for this week to be over. I probably wont be able to get groceries until Saturday. I really need a fresh start. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 09, 2015 02:05 PM
http://www.powerofpositivity.com/7-positive-ways-to-deal-with-toxic-attitudes/ Smiling and walking away don't always work. Remembering that karma applies to them, too, is a good thing. I like that I can still see when it is someone else's problem, and not me. "It isn't me, it's you." I have been crying a lot, over the way things used to be - and how different they are now - but I don't miss my sister the way she is now. It's just a shame that she was allowed to go as far as she did. My parents kept telling me to wait until she moved out - and just expected things to be okay when she did. They improved, but I'm not okay. I'm not okay with a lot of things. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 09, 2015 02:10 PM
My aunt started chemotherapy a few weeks ago. Another aunt had a heart attack. I'm missing a really good friend. I'm wondering when certain people are going to remove their heads from their behinds. I'm terrified of losing my parents, and I don't actually want to wake up every day. The past few years, and people's attacks - it's practically killed me. I'm just not interested in much. At least, not today. **** Uranus-Pluto. People made choices, the planets didn't. IP: Logged |
Charmaine
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From: Venus next to Achak
Registered: Dec 2014
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posted April 10, 2015 01:50 AM
When your thread gets ruined by someone else.IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 12, 2015 04:38 AM
I want things to be like they used to...Our relationship started out great but fast forward 8 months later, things are not so great.It hurts so bad when you can feel the end coming near. All I really feel right now is nostalgic. I remember when I was your only one, I remember when I was the center of your universe, its selfish but you made me feel special. No one ever made me feel that way. And now other guys are trying to take your place but I continue to hold on hoping things will change, hoping you'll turn around and treat me like you used to. I save the happy memories in my heart. You were truly one of the greatest gift that came to my life. But I know that you aren't capable of giving me the love I need right now. It hurts
...I love you so much...
Sorry for this emotional post. But letting go is hard and all I have is memories to hold on to.
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Barbiegirl19
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posted April 22, 2015 12:45 PM
Randall, I'm done. I want unregistered. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 75504
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 22, 2015 03:40 PM
Done.IP: Logged |
Voix_de_la_Mer
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From: Sound
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 23, 2015 06:07 PM
When money is more important than ethics!!IP: Logged |
Aries Eagle
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posted April 25, 2015 03:11 PM
I hate the middle east a place full of hypocrites pretending to have morals they will always be 3rd world countries they deserve it.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 25, 2015 06:21 PM
^ You should reconsider posting that.
---------Ok so venting... Work is driving me crazy at the moment. Feeling like I have too many things to do and too little time :/ and it sucks...
I kind of feel like flying off somewhere like Hawaii lol IP: Logged |
MillyX
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From: canada
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 25, 2015 08:36 PM
Hate the fact that it takes so much time to heal from a breakup. It's only been a week & I'm already fed up with being sad, depressed & missing my ex even if he didn't treat me the best he could. I wanna go back to my happy self.The weather is not helping either, it's been raining, cloudy & gloomy for a week now. April showers... IP: Logged |
ikja
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posted April 26, 2015 10:41 AM
quote:
Originally posted by MillyX:
Hate the fact that it takes so much time to heal from a breakup. It's only been a week & I'm already fed up with being sad, depressed & missing my ex even if he didn't treat me the best he could. I wanna go back to my happy self.The weather is not helping either, it's been raining, cloudy & gloomy for a week now. April showers...
I feel you girl!
Hang in there - it's not easy x
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Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 70877
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 26, 2015 12:00 PM
quote:
Originally posted by MillyX:
Hate the fact that it takes so much time to heal from a breakup. It's only been a week & I'm already fed up with being sad, depressed & missing my ex even if he didn't treat me the best he could. I wanna go back to my happy self.The weather is not helping either, it's been raining, cloudy & gloomy for a week now. April showers...
Sending hugs xxx
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Chiemi
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From: Michigan
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted April 26, 2015 08:54 PM
Turns out the guy that I've been crushing on is married -__- ... This is the second married guy I've come across in their early 20's (where you'd quickly assume that they weren't married). Like dang, do I just have a knack for being attracted to the most unavailable guys? Either:
A) They don't want a relationship
B) They disappear
C) or they're married (which I guess is a new trend in my life) I have the worst luck ever. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
Moderator Posts: 70877
From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 26, 2015 08:59 PM
I hate that I put my emotions into my stomach. I want to put them where they need to go.------------------
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Peluches
Knowflake Posts: 1427
From: my heart
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted April 27, 2015 01:20 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Chiemi:
Turns out the guy that I've been crushing on is married -__- ... This is the second married guy I've come across in their early 20's (where you'd quickly assume that they weren't married). Like dang, do I just have a knack for being attracted to the most unavailable guys? Either:
A) They don't want a relationship
B) They disappear
C) or they're married (which I guess is a new trend in my life) I have the worst luck ever.
Nah, you'll find your prince.   If it's any help, my crush is gay AND is in a relationship.  IP: Logged |
Peluches
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From: my heart
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posted April 27, 2015 01:23 AM
quote:
Originally posted by ikja:
You Americans, always confusing me with the format of your dates!!!It's dd/mm/yyyy damn it! lol. I joke, I joke. I love you all really!
I second that !  It's logical too, duh. Days are smaller than months. (jk, jk  ) IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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From: Pluto/house next to NickiG
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 27, 2015 08:05 AM
That date thing. I did almost a half of a chart before I realized the date was wrong. I have everyone write them out now ------------------
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