posted November 07, 2021 02:48 PM            

Hope you are able to break the lease and find a new place that feels like home. As for your sex life, well you are not alone on that and wish you the best.

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Update:

I started looking at hats on amazon last night and just bought myself 3 hats to get in the winter spirit ect...
I looked at transits right after I made the purchase and I kid you not Tr MOON in Saggy was conjuncting my AC

posted November 07, 2021 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have never been a holiday person, maybe when I was a kid and lived in the dominican republic, it was fun to celebrate new years and christmas there, specially new year's.

I feel holidays are there to help us kill time until spring comes back.

I hope this year is a good year for you and for everyone. May we all have some peace this holiday season.

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Indeed. Thanks hypatia.

It's very strange because December is.my birthday month. But throughout the years( and very consistently I might add), it went from being "ok" to miserable. This as I got older🤷🏿‍♂️

Anyways, Moon in Cap is transiting to conjunct(out of sign) my Sag Sun. It is also contra-parallel my natal Moon.

When Moon is in Cap, I tend to get a little more touchy than usual. Feelings are heightened as I feel "emotionally exposed".

It will conjunct Mercury either tomorrow or Wednesday. Emotions (Mood) may influence my reasoning(Mercury) thereby causing all sorts of changes of mind.

Yesterday I had a an epiphany about Sun/Chiron. I wasn't even thinking about it and it .It came to me "out of nowhere". And thats what usually happens when the Moon is in Sag.

posted November 08, 2021 11:32 AM            

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Update

Woke up early but did have a real nice dream, I think it was an astral travel meet up bc it felt pretty real. I met a guy in my dream after a class or training I believe and there was an instant connection, we felt super comfortable and at ease around each other and ended up being really affectionate naturally even though we just met, I actually kissed him even, I remember in the dream I felt it was too soon to kiss him but it also felt so natural to be with him that I was not able to help it, then I noticed he has a daughter and she was with us, possibly around 6 years old.

We talked about seeing each other again.

Tr MOON conjunct my natal PALLAS and opposite my natal ENDYMION, Tr MOON sentagon my SUN.

posted November 09, 2021 11:25 AM            

Again I think Tr VENUS conjunct my CUPIDO is the culprit.

I have CUPIDO sextile Saturn forming a YOD with CHIRON and the release point of that YOD is my chart ruler JUPITER conjunct URANUS in the 12th. Hence Cupido is part of a YOD involving my chart ruler in the 12th.

Perhaps the release point been my chart ruler conjunct Uranus in the 12th is why this is generating dreams and astral travel experiences!

posted November 09, 2021 04:25 PM            

It's very strange because December is my birthday month. But throughout the years (and very consistently I might add), it went from being "ok" to miserable. This as I got older🤷🏿‍♂️.

A sweet Aries23Degrees should never be miserable. Take the word in your hands and give it to the waters of the sea to be washed away...

posted November 09, 2021 08:19 PM            

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@Aries23
Interesting that when the moon conjuncts your jupiter you have noticed you tend to gain insight. I need to pay closer attention to that transit but that makes sense.

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Yes. Think of the Moon's consciousness as intuitive awareness. Much like how when cooking, you taste food to get a "feel" of the flavour and what more spices to add. Or not I.e you don't know how you know when its "just right". You just know.

When Moon hits Jupiter, there is the expansion of that. You become "more". And emotionally, you tend to be braver
And perhaps more honest?

You may be the 1st to say "I love you". There is less worry about hearing it back because Jupiter fills you heart up with so much connection with "all there is" in such an expansionary way, that its like your cup runners over and you are giving your popsicles away for free🤷🏿‍♂️. You actually love EVERYBODY.

This is different from someone saying "I love you" from an area that is seeking validation by hearing it said back. Here, the cup is near empty and is usually insecure about loss. The "I love you" is a last ditch effort to guard against the loss.

I actually think transiting Jupiter to Moon transits are powerful transits for love and romance. This especially progressed Jup to natal Moon. Wowza!!

And that's because you are focused on "appreciation". And who doesn't love to be around someone whom is full if appreciation for them?

So you will attract people to you because of your open spirit & generosity of nature.

I have progressed Moon in Sag arcing to conjunct Jupiter. The last time ,progressed Moon arced to conjunct natal Uranus. I opened my home up to a friend. I NEVER do that.

posted November 09, 2021 08:53 PM            

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@Stawr, the struggle is real.

Hope you are able to break the lease and find a new place that feels like home. As for your sex life, well you are not alone on that and wish you the best.

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Thank you!! Venus was still in my 7th by a degree...I wonder if it's possible for a planet changing houses can be intense. Now that Venus really is in my 8th house....my confidence has improved a lot. Leading up to the transit I got my hair and nails done.

I later did a bath with pink Himalayan salt, and sat while the water drained. It sounds hocus pokus, but the energy of my bath water was something else, and really enhanced a great vibe.

I finally put a pod cast on the laptop and got my freak on and could climax. Maybe I just needed time to transition/adjust to having to be quieter now.

I'm enjoying reading about your dreams and travels

posted November 10, 2021 03:01 AM            

I don't know my transits. Except Mercury and Mars being conjunct my ascendant, square Saturn.

From my friend Leah:

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Mercury conjunct Mars in Scorpio. Mercury and Mars square Saturn in Aquarius – Mercury conjunct Mars shouts ‘Listen to me. Listen to me. LISTEN TO ME!’ but maybe Saturn doesn’t want to hear it. Today’s tricky influence requires us to pause for a beat before pushing the point, yelling or reacting when triggered. Sensible Saturn might be putting up walls because the time isn’t right. Sometimes the universe blocks progress because more information is needed or there’s a better road or a better way. If you feel frustrated or angry, look for ways to channel those feelings safely. Scorpio’s shadow tends to sting first and ask questions later! Give yourself time to respond or reframe. Listen.

Positively, this can be an excellent influence to build mental muscles and train ourselves out of negative thinking. Give yourself a pep talk if you find yourself procrastinating. For some, maybe a hard conversation is exactly the breakthrough required. Speaking from a place of truth and power brings credibility and respect. Be brave.

Painting- Listening to the Gramophone by Vladimir Makovsky
Degrees and Times
Mercury, Mars 07°Sc22' – 12:56 (UT)
Mercury 07°Sc39', Saturn 07°Aq39' – 17:04 (UT)
Mars 07°Sc40', Saturn 07°Aq40' – 23:13 (BST)

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posted November 10, 2021 09:50 PM            

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Thanks! you do as well, have you ever tried EMDR therapy? the lady I am doing the training with has 20 years of experience with EMDR and specializes in grief. If you haven't I recommend you try it.

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posted November 11, 2021 12:24 PM            

This just hit me. Transiting Ura is opp Natal Sat-Venus. I started a new job. And in it, I have had to make new friends.🤔

These acquaintances are a lot more conservative (Tau). Sometimes I clash(opp) with their mentality when debating about stuff. Because I like to look at subjects with more complexities attached (Sco).

The relations with them (I suspect) will only remain Platonic. Nothing concrete will come out from such interactions.

posted November 11, 2021 09:10 PM            

I am so disappointed sometimes on how kids are raised these days.

I could go on....but I'll keep it simple. "Lawn mower parenting" is worse than "helicopter parenting."

" They can make helicopter parents look mild in comparison because they do more than just hover over their kids. They mow down obstacles and create clear paths. And, heaven help anyone that gets in their kids' way."

"These parents cannot bear the thought of their children experiencing any type of discomfort, pain, or disappointment. As a result, they do everything in their power to protect their kids from struggle or adversity."

"And while they feel like they are being loving parents, what they are doing can actually be quite harmful. They are negatively impacting their children's problem-solving and decision-making skills, and creating insecure and sometimes even helpless kids that have no idea how to handle obstacles that come their way. Consequently, when something doesn't go as planned, these kids crumble because they have never experienced disappointment or been allowed to fail."

source: http://www.verywellfamily.com/lawnmower-parenting-4771519

"They are so focused on safeguarding their kids and making life easier, that they lose sight of the fact that dealing with disappointment and failure is not a bad thing. In fact, it is an essential part of growing up. In order for kids to become well-rounded adults someday, they need to experience setbacks. And when lawnmower parents remove those potential setbacks, they are robbing their kids of developing important life skills."

Have boundaries and stop giving them an ipad anytime you want to get something done. These kids don't know how to play and socialize with children when they come to school.

Let them have a tantrum when you say no, and don't cave in. This will teach them that they wont get their way when they do that.

Research love and logic, enforceable statements, and NAEYC for appropriate child rearing. I get that spanking is detrimental...but actually know how to parent besides being your 3 year old's 81+(h. When parents say they don't ever spank their kids I typically think secretly I can tell because you are their 81+(h. You are THAT CLOSE to pulling down your own pants and letting your 3 year old spank your @$$!

posted November 12, 2021 12:01 AM            

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Moon conjunct Mars
Uranus conjunct Mercury
Chiron rx square Uranus

I am so disappointed sometimes on how kids are raised these days.

I could go on....but I'll keep it simple. "Lawn mower parenting" is worse than "helicopter parenting."

" They can make helicopter parents look mild in comparison because they do more than just hover over their kids. They mow down obstacles and create clear paths. And, heaven help anyone that gets in their kids' way."

"These parents cannot bear the thought of their children experiencing any type of discomfort, pain, or disappointment. As a result, they do everything in their power to protect their kids from struggle or adversity."

"And while they feel like they are being loving parents, what they are doing can actually be quite harmful. They are negatively impacting their children's problem-solving and decision-making skills, and creating insecure and sometimes even helpless kids that have no idea how to handle obstacles that come their way. Consequently, when something doesn't go as planned, these kids crumble because they have never experienced disappointment or been allowed to fail."

source: http://www.verywellfamily.com/lawnmower-parenting-4771519

"They are so focused on safeguarding their kids and making life easier, that they lose sight of the fact that dealing with disappointment and failure is not a bad thing. In fact, it is an essential part of growing up. In order for kids to become well-rounded adults someday, they need to experience setbacks. And when lawnmower parents remove those potential setbacks, they are robbing their kids of developing important life skills."

Have boundaries and stop giving them an ipad anytime you want to get something done. These kids don't know how to play and socialize with children when they come to school.

Let them have a tantrum when you say no, and don't cave in. This will teach them that they wont get their way when they do that.

Research love and logic, enforceable statements, and NAEYC for appropriate child rearing. I get that spanking is detrimental...but actually know how to parent besides being your 3 year old's 81+(h. When parents say they don't ever spank their kids I typically think secretly I can tell because you are their 81+(h. You are THAT CLOSE to pulling down your own pants and letting your 3 year old spank your @$$!

Never wanting your child to be sad? Guess what they are going to sad all the time over dumb things then! And they will never be satisfied with anything. I see it all the time with these new money kids I teach. They will demand what they want. They will get it and it wont fill the emptiness they feel inside, and then they will bark that they want something else immediately after.

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posted November 12, 2021 12:41 AM            

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I think Uranus-Venus is also about making new friends/acquaintances. Nothing close. Just casual mates

This just hit me. Transiting Ura is opp Natal Sat-Venus. I started a new job. And in it, I have had to make new friends.🤔

These acquaintances are a lot more conservative (Tau). Sometimes I clash(opp) with their mentality when debating about stuff. Because I like to look at subjects with more complexities attached (Sco).

The relations with them (I suspect) will only remain Platonic. Nothing concrete will come out from such interactions.

Sat is arcing to square Sat/Ven natally. Will this be a cut off from others socially? Or some kind of challenging social situation?🤔. Time will tell.

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Yes Saturn is career, Venus is socializing, Uranus is change, group Dynamics and friends so making new friends at work unexpectedly fits.

posted November 12, 2021 11:33 AM            

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"ds that have no idea how to handle obstacles that come their way. Consequently, when something doesn't go as planned, these kids crumble because they have never experienced disappointment or been allowed to fail."

source: [

Have boundaries and stop giving them an ipad anytime you want to get something done. These kids don't know how to play and socialize with children when they come to school.

Let them have a tantrum when you say no, and don't cave in. This will teach them that they wont get their way when they do that.

Research love and logic, enforceable statements, and NAEYC for appropriate child rearing. I get that spanking is detrimental...but actually know how to parent besides being your 3 year old's 81+(h. When parents say they don't ever spank their kids I typically think secretly I can tell because you are their 81+(h. You are THAT CLOSE to pulling down your own pants and letting your 3 year old spank your @$$!

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Indeed. It’s a big problem I’ve seen many times. I babysitted this type of kids. One time a mother was afraid to take a bowl of candies from a child so she just moved it a little back. When I pointed the kid was still taking sweets, she pretended she couldn’t hear and tried not to look because she was afraid of his tantrums.
But sugar is a drug for children. They are getting more unruly and adrenaline high from it.

A long story short, the little monster was holding my sunglasses (luckily in a good case) on the second floor balcony and threatening to throw it if I won’t give him candies. To get him from TV was almost impossible.

posted November 12, 2021 09:30 PM            

Running on little sleep. Adults that push my nerves to the limit of being on the verge of telling them off, if I had not.

Being mad at my husband that I have nothing to show for everything I've been busting my arse for. While he is going out to eat, bowling, play video games, got to be alone where he is renting with a orange kitty cat.
He works a lot too don't get me wrong.

But I am so triggered when I have to prep the condo for another roach spray, after having a tiring testing long day.

posted November 13, 2021 01:01 AM            

Neptune:
practical, occult interests, natural death in old age ~ maybe .I've a few years in my clock ticking. Ha

from~ http://www.constellationsofwords.com/nunki/
"With Neptune: Practical, occult interests, wealthy, associated with large concerns, some domestic disagreements, defeats enemies, natural death in old age. "

posted November 13, 2021 02:05 AM            

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Today was not I good day. I'm too tired to talk about it right now. I'll try to simplify.

Running on little sleep. Adults that push my nerves to the limit of being on the verge of telling them off, if I had not.

Being mad at my husband that I have nothing to show for everything I've been busting my arse for. While he is going out to eat, bowling, play video games, got to be alone where he is renting with a orange kitty cat.
He works a lot too don't get me wrong.

But I am so triggered when I have to prep the condo for another roach spray, after having a tiring testing long day.

Okay I am starting to wonder if this is Neptune rx....I think things can really get better when it goes direct.
Neptune in the later degrees makes positive aspects in my chart though, so I'm sort of confused.

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posted November 13, 2021 05:29 AM            

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Yes Saturn is career, Venus is socializing, Uranus is change, group Dynamics and friends so making new friends at work unexpectedly fits.

My mercury in virgo in the 9th parallel pluto totally agrees that things are complex and both sides miss this in different ways. Liberals have neptunian views around finances, money, were things come from, they will complain about the government while simultaneously putting the government up in a pedestal and voting to expand their power.. and conservatives have neptunian views around motherhood, abortion, sex and depend too much on the bible to tell them how to think, feel and live yet liberals rely on the government, big tech and mainstream media to tell them how to think, feel and act, both sides have areas were they don't see things clearly and are too idealistic, their own kind of group think issues.

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Conservatives would feel right at home in this country. Too many people let the Bible dictate how they "should" feel. And what they "should" think etc.

posted November 13, 2021 05:58 AM            

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You're having to rent two different places? I've heard that the first year of marriage can be the hardest. I hope it gets better for you.

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My husband is but one place is through his job. He gets to pocket any money that is left over on food and rent.

Thank you! I didn't think it would be hard for me, since we've been together since 2015.

He has to hear all the time how I am unhappy I am in our living situations. He is finishing up his Saturn return. (3 degrees Aquarius) Plus he is a Leo.

Plus Neptune transiting Pisces with his Virgo stellulum.

Venus is transiting my 8th house....I have to feel the connection. And Scorpio is my 6th house so I'm very critical, if I'm not feeling it.

posted November 13, 2021 05:58 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes Saturn is career, Venus is socializing, Uranus is change, group Dynamics and friends so making new friends at work unexpectedly fits.

My mercury in virgo in the 9th parallel pluto totally agrees that things are complex and both sides miss this in different ways. Liberals have neptunian views around finances, money, were things come from, they will complain about the government while simultaneously putting the government up in a pedestal and voting to expand their power.. and conservatives have neptunian views around motherhood, abortion, sex and depend too much on the bible to tell them how to think, feel and live yet liberals rely on the government, big tech and mainstream media to tell them how to think, feel and act, both sides have areas were they don't see things clearly and are too idealistic, their own kind of group think issues.

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