posted November 12, 2022 05:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Chiron rx square Chiron

Just hurt on top of hurt on top of hurt!!!

No healing in sight! I have no idea what I am going to do tomorrow. But it still beats being with my husband. Or honestly either out come seems to be the same of constant suffering.

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I saw once on here that you have your Moon @18 Sco? So yes, Uranus opposite the Moon will make you feel like you are going cray cray.

Emotional support may be inconsistent from those that you have previously counted on OR may come from unlikely and unexpected sources.

The other thing is that there could be emotional losses incurred. Things that you feel emotionally attached to could be taken away, die or become redundant.

I heard you talking of your spouse and how you feel distant from them now? That is Uranus for sure. Our spouses reflect that part of our emotional lives(Moon). And the Uranus transit makes them feel distant from us or dislocated from them in some way.

Typically however,Uranus exacerbates whats already there. So if there was a "disconnect" before. Uranus makes it worse and ushers in a separation or divorce. This especially if Uranus is in the 7th house or the Moon is connected to the 7th house.

posted November 14, 2022 05:36 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
He's gone. We were with him when it happened, but I still can't believe it. I've posted on social media, to get it over with, but I still can't actually believe that he won't be needing me tonight, tomorrow, or ever again.

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posted November 14, 2022 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I just got a job opportunity recently. And it came out of "nowhere".

I typically look at Mercury when it comes to jobs.Its proved reliable thus far. This in terms of natal position transits if planets to Mercury. Or Mercury the planet itself moving along the birth chart as a transit.

[img]https://i.ibb.co/h21FHr5/Job-opportunity-transits.png[/img]

I expected Mercury transiting the 6th to be the trigger. The 6th house being the house of "work". But alas, it was not to be. Even transits to Mercury via natal proved ineffective in that area.

Then I thought that perhaps Mercury in Libra would do the trick? The 7th also governs contracts. So with Mercury (the planet of commerce) in the 7th, that would suggest contractual work or the signing of a contract towards employment? No. Nothing there.

During this offer, I noticed the following;

Transiting Mercury entered house 8. And I kid you not when I say that this position came our if "nowhere". I didn't apply for it.

The retrograde motion of Uranus in Tau directly opposite my Venus in the 8th house of "sudden upheavals". Also signifying how random this opportunity is. Venus rules the 7th house of contracts but also contacts.

The opportunity came through a female(Ven). A contact from a previous job (7th). One day she called me randomly to talk about this job. Does that fit?🤔

Retrograde Jupiter in Pisces square my Sun(ruler of 5th house of fun). 5th house is also associated with kids. And Yes,I will be dealing with young people in this job.

Add to this, the position will be 9th house related too(where my Sun in placed). I will be a facilitator within a teaching capacity.

The only downside is that retro Jupiter also squares my Neptune(ruler of 12th). Trans Jupiter has just entered my 12th house. The work is practically " pro bono"(12th house). They promise it's only for 2 months max. So that's the bummer I have to endure.

What is of interest however is that Jupiter Sag(natal) is opposite trans Mars in Gemini. I knew that this would be a busy time mentally for me. The two speak of mental work. But I didn't think it will manifest this way.

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Ofcourse its gonna be connected to Mercury. Natal Jupiter parallel to Mercury. Transit Uranus is trine Mercury.

posted November 16, 2022 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I saw once on here that you have your Moon @18 Sco? So yes, Uranus opposite the Moon will make you feel like you are going cray cray.

Emotional support may be inconsistent from those that you have previously counted on OR may come from unlikely and unexpected sources.

The other thing is that there could be emotional losses incurred. Things that you feel emotionally attached to could be taken away, die or become redundant.

I heard you talking of your spouse and how you feel distant from them now? That is Uranus for sure. Our spouses reflect that part of our emotional lives(Moon). And the Uranus transit makes them feel distant from us or dislocated from them in some way.

Typically however,Uranus exacerbates whats already there. So if there was a "disconnect" before. Uranus makes it worse and ushers in a separation or divorce. This especially if Uranus is in the 7th house or the Moon is connected to the 7th house.

I promise you that it is not so much Saturn. But Uranus. Saturn is the one that is keeping you together. Trying to steel you from complete despondency. It does get better though. Just do whatver you can to ease this temporary unpleasantness ❤

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Thank you friend!

Yeah I stayed at my sisters a few days, cause she has the medicine. But she said some very hurtful things to me. I cried alone in her basement for 2 hours. She also let me know I wore out my welcome.

So I tell my best friend that I’m ready to come over there. He offered his place days ago. I poured my heart out to him about my sister hurting my feelings at a low point in my life. I got a weird vibe on how he was replying to my texts. He then uses the excuse that he won’t be home a lot. Like dude I’m gonna want alone time I told him that. Then he told me the real reason. He is seeing a new guy and wants alone time with him all weekend.

Being kicked when you’re already kicked when you’re down.
This was the day Saturn was in the same decimal point and all. 18.56.

I’m staying at my parents now.

I told my friend it’s best I learn this about him now.

He played dumb like “learn what?” I explained again, even though I text him everything. He either played dumb or really is dumb. Gaslighting? “I didn’t know it was that bad”

Anyways for all he’s done for me in the past I’m not to the point of throwing the friendship away. But I need space from him for a while.

posted November 16, 2022 04:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Thank you friend!

Yeah I stayed at my sisters a few days, cause she has the medicine. But she said some very hurtful things to me. I cried alone in her basement for 2 hours. She also let me know I wore out my welcome.

So I tell my best friend that I’m ready to come over there. He offered his place days ago. I poured my heart out to him about my sister hurting my feelings at a low point in my life.

I got a weird vibe on how he was replying to my texts. He then uses the excuse that he won’t be home a lot. Like dude I’m gonna want alone time I told him that. Then he told me the real reason. He is seeing a new guy and wants alone time with him all weekend.

Being kicked when you’re already kicked when you’re down. This was the day Saturn was in the same decimal point and all. 18.56. I’m staying at my parents now.

I told my friend it’s best I learn this about him now. He played dumb like “learn what?” I explained again, even though I text him everything. He either played dumb or really is dumb. Gaslighting? “I didn’t know it was that bad”

Anyways for all he’s done for me in the past I’m not to the point of throwing the friendship away. But I need space from him for a while.

I also feel like this is part of my karma from 7 years ago.

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I totally get the resentment here. In the first instance,your sister covertly showing you the door. Then your friend who(I think at face value) offered help, then backs out at the last minute for d***k. I get it.

With Scorpio planets, we often assume that the loyalty of others (when called upon)will be as unyielding & unrelenting as we feel ours is. This especially when it comes to blood. Then we get disappointed when it doesn't show up that way.

It's no wonder Sco is a very suspicious and a distrusting sign. Too many times its proved heartbreaking to trust because of being let down. So one learns to hold others at arm's length.

My sister and I have Sco planets. She has Sun,Merc, Ven,Jup, Plu and N.node there. So in her case, it's more severe. I only have Ven/Sat/Plu.

What I have learned from Sco energy is that it works on a similar level to Uranus. In that reversals and sudden changes of fortune, are part and parcel of this energy. It almost seems inevitable that Scorpios will endear pain a lot(I include 8th house people in this).

Loss-gain-loss-gain-loss-gain. Up/down it goes and that can be the only constant. You know that loss follows gain and the two are inseparably combined.

But I don't think this is supposed to make one bitter.Many Scorpio rich people are often the embodiment of emotional strength and resilience. Whilst others seem bitter and disillusioned by life's ill outcomes on their lives. U understand the perspectives of both.

What I have noticed is that when those trusted forsake you, sudden help usually comes from unforeseen or unexpected places I.e. that acquaintance whom you took for granted, that stranger you overlooked, that neighbour you hardly talked to etc.

People that were in the background or you flat out ignored, come to your aid when isht hits the fan. And that's because they are in a place where they can offer such assistance. Whilst those that we expect help from,are not.

When a friend/sister/brother is unable to help, quickly accept that. A stranger might be able to do much of what that trusted person could not. Keep yourself open to that as the Universe has a way of sending help to you when you really need it. And it doesn't come in the body suit of those most trusted,it may come through other sources.

Scorpio (like Sag) is a child of the Universe. Sag has 4th house solar chart in Pisces and Sco has 4th house in Aqua. Both of these signs can feel like "aliens" on earth or within their families. Sometimes they may even believe that they have been "adopted" etc.

Emotional comfort (4th) or support doesn't come through conventional channels. And that's because Uranus/ Neptune(respective co-rulers of Aqua and Pisces) are not conventional.

So for Sco, it may come through unexpected/unforseen ways or through a network of people that one may not necessarily be affiliated to directly or even related to (Aqua).

Your sister may not be there for you. Not your friend. But look around, is there support coming elsewhere that is unexpected? Be mindful of that and notice it when it comes through.

Very fitting that you should lean on your parents during this period. Saturn represents old people. And the square of Sat to your natal Moon suggests emotional support (Moon) from.the elderly (Sat).

The two don't typically mix well. They are quite antithetical in essence. But it will help offset the anxiety of the Moon in time. Sleep more. It will pass and does get better❤

posted November 17, 2022 07:26 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I had the most bizarre interaction with someone I met through LL, years ago, the other night, and we aren't friends anymore. I won't miss her, we didn't talk much, and she was acting really odd, but now she's posting **** and I am seriously tired of ****** up people.

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posted November 17, 2022 07:52 AM            

Mars rules her 3rd house(Virgo rising). Mars in Cancer is parallel transiting Mars in Gemini. Mercury(ruler of Mc)is in Aries widely square Pluto.

posted November 17, 2022 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I totally get the resentment here. In the first instance,your sister covertly showing you the door. Then your friend who(I think at face value) offered help, then backs out at the last minute for d***k. I get it.

With Scorpio planets, we often assume that the loyalty of others (when called upon)will be as unyielding & unrelenting as we feel ours is. This especially when it comes to blood. Then we get disappointed when it doesn't show up that way.

It's no wonder Sco is a very suspicious and a distrusting sign. Too many times its proved heartbreaking to trust because of being let down. So one learns to hold others at arm's length.

My sister and I have Sco planets. She has Sun,Merc, Ven,Jup, Plu and N.node there. So in her case, it's more severe. I only have Ven/Sat/Plu.

What I have learned from Sco energy is that it works on a similar level to Uranus. In that reversals and sudden changes of fortune, are part and parcel of this energy. It almost seems inevitable that Scorpios will endear pain a lot(I include 8th house people in this).

Loss-gain-loss-gain-loss-gain. Up/down it goes and that can be the only constant. You know that loss follows gain and the two are inseparably combined.

But I don't think this is supposed to make one bitter.Many Scorpio rich people are often the embodiment of emotional strength and resilience. Whilst others seem bitter and disillusioned by life's ill outcomes on their lives. U understand the perspectives of both.

What I have noticed is that when those trusted forsake you, sudden help usually comes from unforeseen or unexpected places I.e. that acquaintance whom you took for granted, that stranger you overlooked, that neighbour you hardly talked to etc.

People that were in the background or you flat out ignored, come to your aid when isht hits the fan. And that's because they are in a place where they can offer such assistance. Whilst those that we expect help from,are not.

When a friend/sister/brother is unable to help, quickly accept that. A stranger might be able to do much of what that trusted person could not. Keep yourself open to that as the Universe has a way of sending help to you when you really need it. And it doesn't come in the body suit of those most trusted,it may come through other sources.

Scorpio (like Sag) is a child of the Universe. Sag has 4th house solar chart in Pisces and Sco has 4th house in Aqua. Both of these signs can feel like "aliens" on earth or within their families. Sometimes they may even believe that they have been "adopted" etc.

Emotional comfort (4th) or support doesn't come through conventional channels. And that's because Uranus/ Neptune(respective co-rulers of Aqua and Pisces) are not conventional.

So for Sco, it may come through unexpected/unforseen ways or through a network of people that one may not necessarily be affiliated to directly or even related to (Aqua).

Your sister may not be there for you. Not your friend. But look around, is there support coming elsewhere that is unexpected? Be mindful of that and notice it when it comes through.

Very fitting that you should lean on your parents during this period. Saturn represents old people. And the square of Sat to your natal Moon suggests emotional support (Moon) from.the elderly (Sat).

The two don't typically mix well. They are quite antithetical in essence. But it will help offset the anxiety of the Moon in time. Sleep more. It will pass and does get better❤

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Thank you!! Yes I’ve actually seen this play out. Friends I only see at parties. A girl I got closer with in the summer. Well my coworker from last year has been my rock. She was the one who told me I need to get away from my husband.
And then a friend I met once years ago.

My sleep schedule is getting normal again. My sister while she can be judgmental, she did cry when she saw she was upsetting my stomach with how she was talking to me. She also said that she thought it was weird that my husband wanted to take the night shift, when I finally came out there.

posted November 18, 2022 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
Mercury opposite Mars

I'm discovering the importance of training the calves with a great amount of focus, not just fast simple exercise once a week or I skip leg day altogether sometimes lol bad idea.

Calves are ruled by Aquarius ♒

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posted November 18, 2022 02:39 AM            

I'm feeling sad over my own stuff (aside from what I mentioned last night - I don't care about that anymore). But it's weird to think it might be gone, this weekend. Because he just had to fire a bunch of people, or be an ass in general, making them want to quit.

posted November 18, 2022 11:02 PM            

But I think just having a space to express my feelings and vent is a good habit for me with my stomach/anxiety issues I'm experiencing.

posted November 20, 2022 03:46 AM            

I'm also making stew later. I don't really have much of an appetite, but the frozen dinners were starting to get to me.

The one English aunt I have left, is an Aquarian, and she's dealing with the fact that she's the only sister left. I still have trouble with the fact that my own mother is gone, and now two sisters are with her. My aunt has a checkup in December, to make sure that her cancer hasn't come back.

I've been trying to clean out kitchen cupboards that I've wanted to get to for ages, and it's horrible. Dad's going to mix up a special cleaner, because things have spilled and it's just gross.

I saw something on twitter, that reminded me of that former friend, that I'd known for years. She's been a bit odd, but I thought she was generally safe, and I was wrong, but I'm also not that hurt. So, I don't know if I'm just emotionally flat, or if I was expecting it on some level.
http://twitter.com/butchanarchy/status/1594166883191693312

My account is private for a reason (past stalker/harasser, but also just because of the internet in general). I don't know what the original tweet was, but I've seen a few posts about just accepting food. the one thing I was looking out for, for a while, was kindness. To me, towards others. I gave up, but the internet can also be the source of that - like the story of the woman who exchanged notes with the little girl, who thought she was a fairy (something like that), when this woman was taking walks during the worst of the pandemic. I've been afraid to walk in my own neighbourhood, because I don't know a lot of people, and they might post my picture on next-door, asking who is this strange person? I've read on reddit, that this has actually happened to people who started to take walks, in the past year or so. There are people so ready to call the police, on someone who just knocked on their door. I grew up in real communities, where the neighbours looked out for each other. Helped each other. I don't go to church, and I won't. The one time we tried, they looked at us like we were aliens. I thought it would be a good way to meet people. **** .

posted November 20, 2022 09:34 PM            

I just blocked my sister's number. I haven't blocked her on FB though. She just is not hearing what I am saying. Has a condescending tone with me.

My family might eventually come around, but I don't think I can ever forget how my family has treated me since leaving my husband. They are triggering my anxiety stomach attacks just like my husband. (but not as bad) If people could just have compassion for me, listen to me, HEAR me...then I could of probably of been well enough to file for divorce by now. Now my husband will probably beat me to it.

posted November 21, 2022 12:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries Eagle:
@Aries23Degrees Calf raises with good focus does the job... Slow raises enable more focus on the muscle
More on subject
WHY IS THE CALF MUSCLE CONSIDERED THE SECOND HEART? http://personalbestfitness.com/why-is-the-calf-muscle-considered-the-second-heart

@Stawr I dont have experience with stomach problems but maybe Sage tea(common sage) helps

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