posted May 27, 2022 03:10 PM            

My Tim Hortin's gift card did not work, when it worked fine the day before, something is up.

I haven't been to my friend's place in over a year I think. I will go over there this Sunday and she is a Taurus.

If I'm up for it, I will also vintage/retro shop for new clothes with a visa gift card I received.

posted May 28, 2022 09:00 AM            

Why did I wait this long to sleep with a MARS in LEO guy?, OMG he completely matches my intensity and passion in bed (he also has mars square pluto but pluto in saggy at aries point), we did it 3 times and then fell sleep but then I woke up and left home.

He has moon in cancer too trine super tightly my moon in pisces! OMG.

He is so eccentric too, I loooove it. A geek, an artist (violinist, getting his masters on it) and an animal in bed. He is already saying he wants to put a baby in me LOL. This is the youngest I have ever been with, he is 27 but that may be transit Uranus in the 5th trine my DC ruler doing its thing.

posted May 29, 2022 08:57 AM            

I went out with my Gemini rising friend. We were going to stop in a vintage store I checked the hours online. Sign said "open" but there was a board in front of the door. That is so annoying when it says a place is open online and it's not.

(When I was visiting my husband there was a museum that was never open no matter what the hours said online. For business like this I give the 3 strike rule. Yes I've tried going there 3 different times.)

They even had a picnic basket in the window at this vintage shop. I have been on the lookout for one.

My friend told me all about his tantra meditation retreat he went on. (who is also going through these 12th house transits.)

He has been working with his therapist and caught me up on some of that.

I was suppose to join my husband's session two days ago...but his online therapist was a no show. I have no idea why.

posted May 31, 2022 09:53 PM            

This is the transit people have a bit after their saturn return. This explains feeling like I'm going crazy. But through it the outcome is....

"You will discover resources and aspects of your character that you didn't know you had. You're readier than you know."-astrology.com

posted June 03, 2022 11:33 AM            

A guy I follow, had Covid last year, and said it was the sickest he’d ever been. He now lives in Florida, and spent this past weekend partying. He has Covid again, and said it’s even worse than the first time (so natural immunity hasn’t helped to make it mild). Be careful. A friend of his now has it for the first time, too.

posted June 03, 2022 05:27 PM            

My kids were asrseholes today.
We are short staffed.
I have to do teacher and assistant teacher job most of the time. It is too much for one person to get all these special activities out of my holly jolly butt!

posted June 04, 2022 02:38 PM            

So I guess the Mars "heat" was not anger or frustration but good loving!🤣. Mars trans the IC- Sex at home or increased sex drive/need to get intimate?🤔

posted June 04, 2022 03:20 PM            

I will revert when Mars is on my cardinal T-square. That should be eventful.

# Just read that Shakira is separating from her footballer hubby Gerard Pique after 11 years together.

The ruler of Pique's 7th house (Merc)is conj transiting Sat in Aqua.

His Sun in Aqua in 2nd is square trans Ura.

Trans Mars/Jup is conj Moon in Aries in 3rd conj his Ic

# Shakira has the heavy trans Plu on her Moon(Ic ruler) and Mars(Asc ruler).

Ruler of the Dsc(Ven) is conj trans Jup/Mars in Aries.

Aries tends to act impulsively. My thinking is that these two may get back together later. Trans Ura is also square her Sun.

But then I look at her Plu/Moon and Mars/Plu joint transit. And I am not so sure about Shakira.For her, this is likely permanent.

There are allegations of infidelity (Pique) that are to blame.But perhaps more details will surface as time goes on.

Both of them are Aqua Sun. Shakira has personality number 1- the front runner. Pique is personality number 2-the nurturer.

I always think it is also worthwhile to check personality numbers in compatibility. We gel well with people who have compatible numbers to us. And 1 and 2 complement each other. 2 however is a lot more emotionally demanding than 1 likes.

posted June 04, 2022 05:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@Hypatia

So I guess the Mars "heat" was not anger or frustration but good loving!🤣. Mars trans the IC- Sex at home or increased sex drive/need to get intimate?🤔

Anyways, I am glad the date went well.

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hahahahahaha

Yes it was f**ing passionate and is like he knew everything I like and need in intimacy and just gave it all to me.

He has issues though but I want to give him a shot, we met last Friday and he definitely wants to meet again but he struggles with relationships, he has bipolar and I suspect a fearful avoidant attachment style as well but he told me this morning "I'd love to plan something with you and see you again soon if you are still open to it."

He struggles with making plans and communication though. I know we will see each other again but this is going to be an interesting relationship, sporadic/unpredictable and add the age gap so unconventional if it turns into something.

I also met that same weekend on Sunday someone else I also really hit it off with and the sex is amazing too with him, and he is my age and we have hanged out 4 times this week and will hang out tonight again. He slept over my place last night.

However, I have been feeling super vulnerable this morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I meditated and that helped and then I decided to check my transits bc the vulnerability was so intense and I noticed that tr JUPITER is conjuncting exact my IC. I think tr jupiter is opening up my heart chakra way too much, like it felt overwhelming. Meditating helped reduce that intense vulnerability by half and then seeing the transits behind it gives me that perspective that it will pass so thank god for astrology.

posted June 05, 2022 02:20 AM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@Stawr

Yes. I thought so too. Very sad. But time will tell what will happen between them. Me thinks that this break-up(if it goes ahead) is not going to be a clean one.Shakira has Pluto in 7th-relationships change her in a very profound way. 😶

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Sad yes...

But on the flip side. Shakira IS single! I now have a snowball's chance in heck. These hips DON'T lie, and you best believe that I am
reading the signs of her body (uno, dos, tres, cuatro).

Shakira, if you're out there listening...whenever, wherever, we're meant to be together!

(I may be coming on a little too strong methinks...)

posted June 05, 2022 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
@Stawr

Yes. I thought so too. Very sad. But time will tell what will happen between them. Me thinks that this break-up(if it goes ahead) is not going to be a clean one.Shakira has Pluto in 7th-relationships change her in a very profound way. 😶

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posted June 05, 2022 02:59 PM            

I've only been at my parents for a week. And I already want to (not literally) blow my brains out.

They are going on a trip in a few weeks. I decided not to go on the trip for 2 reasons

1. my husband is coming home in the middle of the trip and our anniversary is coming up.

posted June 05, 2022 03:57 PM              

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Originally posted by Stawr:
LOL yes!

Her hair is goals!

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Que? What language are you speaking, because I didn't understand any of that? In processing "her hair is goals", I'm wondering if you are trying to say that her hair is so big that it can act as a goal post for soccer (football!)?

Or, her hair got her through her goal of going through college and getting a degree?

Color me befuddled. What does it ALL MEAN?!

In any case, I'm not thinking of her top, head hair.............. I'm thinking of her sweet, sweet............................................................................................................................................................................... ..........

smile.

posted June 05, 2022 09:22 PM            

So, I've ordered something to give him to, to help (hopefully), and I've told dad that he needs to go to the vet. That there could be another reason for his not eating much, aside from not liking the food. I have been anxious a lot, and barely slept last night. It's just another thing, and I'm worried about him now.

posted June 06, 2022 02:29 PM            

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Some victims of abuse are diagnosed with personality disorders while in toxic relationships but when they leave those relationships, don’t show any signs of it.

We sometimes accidentally pathologize reactionary behaviors which can be a disservice to the victim.

This is especially true if an abuser comes off as calm and cool in the public space, but perpetuates the abuse behind closed doors.

This is where victims can be painted as liars or manipulative, and may further reinforce the idea in the victims head that it is their fault…

…that they are being abused.

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From a twitter link I posted in another thread. This is what happened to me. My sister, on behalf of her husband, who has sexually harassed me, more than once. Who kept causing trouble between the two of us, and then with this, extended that to our entire family.

When I told one aunt what was happening, I was told that "I gave as good as I got" - it was especially downplayed, because it was one sister beating up and harassing another. Sibling rivalry. One sister jealous of the other. That sort of thing. He encouraged all of it, and when there were signs that she was going to stop, he reignited it all. He didn't get to have sex with me, but he got more satisfaction from turning my sister against me, and having me be punished indefinitely, by my family. All because I didn't want to be around him, after he repeatedly caused trouble.

Twitter thread: http://twitter.com/Somesaylezzels/status/1533509050700288002