posted December 27, 2021 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Its been a while since I posted.

So I met Scorpio. Sexy as 😝k! But very troubled. Pluto squares Sun in Sco/Moon and conjuncts Mercury. Ven is in Scorpio and Mars in Libra (like me).

Things between us progressed pretty QUICK. Met on Monday this past week,went to his place Thursday till Sat.

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whooop whoooop Romance in the air.

posted December 27, 2021 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
hypatia238, I had time when I played a strategy game every night for a month or two because I went through stress and much changes and I needed to take my mind off things.
It’s better than alcohol🙂

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Its worse than a few hours a night what is happening to him, trust me I am a pretty chill and reasonable person, its out of control, I will be patient but I have limits, him playing minecraft should not be the biggest priority in his life and everything else an after thought, he needs to go back to having priorities and some structure. I play video games too during winter time but its earned leisure, I have priorities, I do it to relax a little not to escape my life or emotions. I need a partner that is doing life with me, not someone checked out in a game 24/7

posted December 28, 2021 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Try the EMDR inner advisor exercise here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=blr0emiH5G0

It will help you gain clarity around this isssue

I also had to change insurance recently, and now get 5 spam risk calls daily regarding this even though I am in the national do not call list!

I wish getting insurance was a lot more straight forward, you should just log into a website and chose what you need/want, get a quote and make adjustments when ever you want, I shouldn't need to talk to someone to get health insurance, process should be easier and more straight forward but I am happy with my insurance.

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I am so happy I am on my husbands insurance now. I scheduled my first doc apt. I don't think I've been since my early 20's. I hated going through the market place so much before getting married.

Thank you for the link. I will take a peek at it.

posted December 28, 2021 08:10 AM            

Yesterday I dropped husband off at airport. I tried working on our honeymoon when he was on plane. But since I tried going through Costco, it did not go very well. I got a vague reason why I was rejected for credit card. I did just change my last name and wonder if that could be why???? I was even given a number to call to find out why....and that took me nowhere. And to make it more irritating my mom wanted to act like everything was great, and ask really dumb annoying questions, and would talk to me while I was trying to figure it out on the phone.

I was super bent on getting that done yesterday. Talked on phone with husband about it. But I could tell with the state of mind I am in that I am just doing with out thinking and just start fresh tomorrow.

Hopefully today goes better.
I am in that zone....of Christmas is over. I need to get as much done for my own self as possible, before I am back to work and my life doesn't matter anymore. So I get insanely frustrated if something is not simple and quick to do and it ends up being this dragged out thing.

posted December 28, 2021 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Its worse than a few hours a night what is happening to him, trust me I am a pretty chill and reasonable person, its out of control, I will be patient but I have limits, him playing minecraft should not be the biggest priority in his life and everything else an after thought, he needs to go back to having priorities and some structure. I play video games too during winter time but its earned leisure, I have priorities, I do it to relax a little not to escape my life or emotions. I need a partner that is doing life with me, not someone checked out in a game 24/7

So we shall see, I rather we work through this and odds are we will.

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posted December 28, 2021 03:06 PM            

However, I still didn’t make it to the morning gym, but wasted much time explaining Aries Mercury it was not a good idea to keep calling her bf friends a prostitute in front of him. She still prefers breakup to apology. Instead, she wanted me to help to figure out how to get rid from his friend. Thanks, she lives far. Otherwise, I would call police Lol.

posted December 28, 2021 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
It might be the time for screen time control programs😉 They can block screen after certain time or give constant shameful reminders how much time he spends there.

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hahahahahahaha

posted December 29, 2021 12:56 AM            

Ohio broke its daily record, three days in a row. We were over 15,000 new cases again today.
http://www.cantonrep.com/story/news/state/2021/12/27/covid-19-omicron-surging-ohio-holiday-season-hospitalizations-johns-hopkins-cases-testing/9022753002/

posted December 29, 2021 11:13 AM            

Success booking honey moon trip!

Oh my gosh....this time off after Christmas is SO NEEDED! I feel like I can finally just deal with my life. Things that have just been piling on and on since the end of August.

I feel like I can finally THINK before just doing. Going to call and pay a dental bill.

Also I got my debit cards w/ new last name in August. I swear they funked up and set up both cards to joined account. Because it shows I haven't used my personal checking since August. I switch cards all the time and still get told it got charged to the joined account! Aiding in my mental breakdowns, and feeling crazy!
So I am going to get to the bottom of that today.
I also plan on stopping at condo to get my Passion Planner that my sister gifted me a few years ago. (one of those planners you can start and skip anytime.)

These days off after Christmas I feel like I have finally escaped treading water/survival mode.

Oh and something that stinks being on break while staying at parents is the guilt trip of not wanting to spend it being an extra set of hands for my sisters 3 kids in the next town over. I get to be selfless all the time when I am on teaching...the guilt trip will not work. I love my family, but it is not my problem that my sister has 3 kids, she is back working full time, and the day care is short staffed. Plus my mom said she would do it already. I will spend time with them and watch them when I want to. A few weeks ago I took the oldest out with me and we got manicures and pedicures, on me! I have plans to take them out and about....but this week I need FOR ME! FOR ONCE.

When I go back to work, I will go back to getting anything else done not related to work being an obstacle course.

posted December 30, 2021 10:26 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
She’s dead. 😣 My cousin just told us.

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posted December 30, 2021 11:41 PM            

This week thanks to my wonderful clients I learned about this tradition of selecting a word you want to live by in the new year. One client selected "surrender" and the other "honor." I love this tradition, instead of a life motto is a word to live by for that year.

I really need to think about this one! I have something really neat to reflect on this weekend. I will have some greek wine a client gave me, I will go eat sushi to celebrate the new year and I will reflect on what my word will be and my goals for next year. I am also thinking of getting myself a new cell phone and add a line to it for my private practice, a cell phone with two slots for sim cards; one my personal line and the other my private practice line.

I feel a lot of calm and peace as I approach the end of this year and the beginning of a new year.

I have also gained some very interesting insights today that I think have to do with Tr MOON conjunct SOUTHNODE conjuncting my 12th house cusp and conjuncting my chart ruler, its a 12th house theme insight.

But perhaps Jupiter conjuncting my 3rd house cusp is also playing a role in insights gained and mercury conjuncting my 2nd house cusp. Actually these last two transits may correlate more with me getting a new phone with an additional line for my private practice tomorrow.

I am looking forward to transit JUPITER through my 3rd house!
http://jessicadavidson.co.uk/2015/02/06/jupiter-transits-3rd-house/

When Jupiter transits the Third House the desire for growth and expansion influences how you think and communicate your ideas. Your mind will become more optimistic and you’ll be more inclined to positive thinking which can help you to achieve whatever you want. This is also a great time to learn new ideas, expand your horizons through education or training in new skills, and broaden your interests.

You may spend more time travelling within your immediate environment, and everyday communications will probably increase. You could expand your reach through social media, grow your connections and find new friends. This is likely to expand your perception of the world and increase your consciousness. Your relationships with relatives should be good too, particularly brothers, sisters, and cousins.

Your thinking will be more positive so your attitude towards others and your environment will be generous and broadminded. You can learn a lot about the world and yourself because you won’t be phased by any differences you see between people. This makes communication easier and you’re likely to feel able to speak your mind without worrying what others think. Now is a good time to tackle those difficult conversations or awkward subjects because you can talk more easily about anything. You may also do more writing, even if this isn’t something you would normally do (OMG I was actually thinking yesterday that I should write a book).

Jupiter also expands your plans for the future. You may have more visions or intuitions about what you would like to do and how you could improve your life. You may realize that many of the old limitations you’ve been living with are self-imposed due to self-doubt. With increased self-belief and confidence you’ll be able to move beyond those limitations and expand the scope of your influence.

Possibilities with Jupiter transiting the 3rd:

Educational opportunities
Financial benefit from relatives or neighbours
Learning new skills
Expanding your consciousness
Expressing your ideas to more people
Teaching
Writing
Travelling in short journeys
Feeling sociable
Positive thinking

Watch out for:

Taking on too many projects at once
Running around and not getting anything done
Talking but not listening

The most important influence from Jupiter in the 3rd is on your mind and consciousness. This is the time to examine your thought processes and determine whether they serve you or not. Jupiter can help you to weed out all the old negative or unproductive attitudes you’ve taken on without realizing, and let them go. Your consciousness can expand and become more positive, and this can help you to make improvements in other areas of your life.

^^^BINGO this is the transit that I am sensing today then, this is the transit that is facilitating new insights for me today bc is exactly along these lines the spirit of what I was tapping into, its different from other insights that I tend to get.

posted December 31, 2021 12:24 PM            

I have been adding the astro forecast for 2022 in my passion planner!

My thoughts on 2022 so far....
1. Husband is wise to use up the rest of his PTO in January with the pile up in my 8th house! Including Juno.
2. I'm kind of sad about Uranus going direct on January 18th. I much prefer Uranus in Taurus the early degrees, because it's a good time for my Jupiter, Venus and Mercury. It's simpatico there. It's antipatico to my N. node, MC, moon, pluto, and Mars in the middle and later degrees. I had a taste of it opposing my moon and pluto in the late summer...I started to spiral real bad. I'm at the stage where I have to work my self out of it daily.
3. While I have been very bring it on with the 8th house stuff going on since October I think...next I will be saying bring it on with the 9th house stuff! I'm talkin Juno, Vesta, Mercury, Mars, Venus and of course Pluto happening at the beginning of the year! This is the "peaked in my 30's" area of life! Haven't closely checked everything out yet. I might start a new topic on the Aquarius pile up in the future. But very promising energy for my honeymoon at the end of March. And if it switches over to 10th house, that's okay because that is where my Mars sign is. That is a good conjunction to have for a honeymoon. I was very frustrated when my husband was away and Jupiter was conjunct my Mars in the Autumn season this year.
4. With the Aries energy close to honey moon, it squares my Jupiter Cancer so hopefully it wont make for any mishaps. Otherwise I have been warned.
5. Ceres will conjunct my ASC I wander what that will be like for my image/appearance?

posted December 31, 2021 11:29 PM            

If I have to say it in one word it will be DEVELOP but I am thinking more Develop-Grow-Expand.

In the context of the self its develop and in the context of others is Surrender (Let go and Allow), I will hold others accountable but also be patient and give them time and space to figure things out at the pace they are ready to.

Me-Develop
Others-Surrender

Perhaps surrender also fits PLUTO activating my 2nd cusp and 8th cusp, I chose a word for each axis essentially.

I am at peace with the words I have chosen for 2022 .

I truly hope this is a great year for all of us.

posted January 01, 2022 02:05 PM            

I think capricorn makes you write down those new year's resolutions and goals and asks you to think of any goals you can be proactive with and start working on right away during the winter months but then comes April and you feel that fire up your butt and you get serious about the rest of the goals on your new year's resolution list LOL and the Spring gives you that new energy and inspiration to work with.

hahaha It really fits that the New Year is a Cappy Holiday in the sense that you come up with a New Year's Resolution list. Maybe new year's is about PLANNING ahead for the year in our culture more than initiating and getting started and in APRIL you get to it and get going full on.

Capricorn-Planning, setting goals, preparing.

Aries-Get started, just do it, get going already, wake up from the winter slumber, enough dreaming and laying around (pisces/march).

Cancer-Nourish and keep watering those goals you have been working on, get more emotionally invested in them.

posted January 01, 2022 09:36 PM            

Chiron in Aries is squaring My Uranus Capricorn house 8.

only I think the 8th house pile up has intensified it. And I am starting to see Chiron rx energy as being easily triggered.
I haven't paid too much attention to this transit and feel I should look it up.

Okay I am completely floored right now by this interpretation!!

posted January 02, 2022 03:34 AM            

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Woh! I thought me wanting to spice things up more with husband, and just wanting deeper intimacy in general was the planet pile up in my 8th house. Yes but,

Chiron in Aries is squaring My Uranus Capricorn house 8.

only I think the 8th house pile up has intensified it. And I am starting to see Chiron rx energy as being easily triggered.
I haven't paid too much attention to this transit and feel I should look it up.

Okay I am completely floored right now by this interpretation!!

I can't copy and paste but it says right there "emotional triggers" and "situations spiraling out of control" and trying to control or be powerful will not go well. http://12andus.com/blog/view/401842/transiting-chiron-on-natal-uranus

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posted January 02, 2022 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I think my word for 2022 will be Develop which fits Tr PLUTO conjunct the 2H house cusp and trine Sun in the 9th.

If I have to say it in one word it will be DEVELOP but I am thinking more Develop-Grow-Expand.

In the context of the self its develop and in the context of others is Surrender (Let go and Allow), I will hold others accountable but also be patient and give them time and space to figure things out at the pace they are ready to.

Me-Develop
Others-Surrender

Perhaps surrender also fits PLUTO activating my 2nd cusp and 8th cusp, I chose a word for each axis essentially.

I am at peace with the words I have chosen for 2022 .

I truly hope this is a great year for all of us.

I am done with my new year's resolution list as well . I have a lot in there so if I accomplish half that will be fantastic still.

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I never choose a word, even though I've tried in the past. I have no idea what to go with. I could try "trust" because I really don't trust much at all. I trust people to a point. There are friends, or former friends who I am sure I could trust in certain ways, but I don't trust anyone fully, except for my dad.

posted January 02, 2022 10:26 AM            

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Good hunch there, glad you looked into it and followed your gut.

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Whew this shall pass! But grateful for the extra time and focus. It's needed, but I am kind of tired, I think other things in the chart are sort of intensifying it. (venus conjunct saturn)

I think the extreme BS will be over when Chiron moves on from squaring my Jupiter Cancer. I decided that I am done renting with my husband gone so much. I never really put much thought into apartment neighbors becoming increasingly unreasonable when Chiron was in the beginning stages of squaring my Jupiter Cancer...but it makes a lot of sense.
No more soon!

My moon sign will go through the ringer w/ Aquarius and Uranus Taurus. So yes some more instability with living situations but I kind of singed up for it, and I will be with husband.

Chiron will pretty much be causing a ruckus with something the entire time its in Aries with all my cardinal planets spread out.

I am going through Chiron sextile ASC transit now.

Once Chiron is done squaring my Jupiter. It will start to square my Neptune 8th house. So more healing work in that department and still getting triggered but that's fine.

Chiron sextiling and trining my n. node, s. node, MC, IC should be interesting.

then conjunct sun and sextile mars should be nice.
But the grand finally will be Chiron squaring my Saturn house 9.

The early degrees of Taurus should be soothing.

posted January 02, 2022 10:33 AM            

!quack alert! haha!
I am considering buying some angelite. Sometimes I think my moon sign makes me see the worst in people. Which is like that is not a good tone to set. I feel like angelite would help me see the light in people, and attract more angelic people in my interactions.

!quacking done!