posted February 05, 2022 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
I think the book is based on his personal experience rather than science.
My crushes make me that firework.And thanks to my Neptune. I don’t really need much of their participation. However, they usually come over to spoil it and participate in drama.

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Maybe marital happiness is knowing when to adjust your expectations, adapt and find creative ways to be happy even if it means doing your own thing and riding out the "disconnection" part of the dance between couples.

That may be were I am at right now. I keep thinking we may be going through a phase were we are meant to do our on thing and maybe I just need to embrace it, that is another theory I have in my mind...a very mutable theory LOL

Is just such a weird shift, been with him 15 years total in March. Maybe accepting and adjusting and re-adjusting expectations is the right call for now, regardless of how it plays out long term.

Its interesting how he avoids intimacy with himself and me, always distracting with electronics and noise and I am ALL ABOUT reflection, I am always reflecting, and trying to become more intimate with myself, always exploring myself. Chart ruler Jupiter in saggy in the 12th? I value self reflection so much.

posted February 05, 2022 10:46 PM            

I don't know if I'll get it done this year, but it's nice to browse and daydream a bit.

We have had my dog in his wheels more often, and have been giving him a pet supplement with Lion's mane in it, which is supposed to help dogs like him. I don't know if it's doing anything so far, but dad ordered a pure Lion's mane supplement, a couple of weeks ago, and it still isn't here. It just occurred to dad, that it might be stuck in transit, since he ordered it from Canada.

posted February 05, 2022 11:03 PM            

Jupiter in the 3rd house
Nothnode in the 5th house
Moon in Aries trine Southnode in saggy

Maybe
Once a month paint class
Once a month archery class
Gym twice a week
Massage or Acupuncture every other month

As for something social I may enjoy a Karaoke meet up group or an acapella singing group! yes a group about self expression were you can relax and have a drink and maybe joke and goof around a little.

Northnode in the 5th definitely wants me to have a little bit of fun and not be so career centric, it wants me just find more of a balance between work and play. The focus I feel is definitely on self expression/nourishing and exploring my creative side/hobbies, and developing my private practice and leadership skills quietly for the sake of being of service in a different way like expanding my palette of how I can be of service.

The focus is not romance, is like now that I am older I meant to experience other facets of the 5th house that I perhaps neglected.

This idea of self expression or creating for the sake of self expression and creating and for no other reason. As a child I loved poetry and singing but this things connected to romantic love for me, now dancing I have always loved doing and that has always been about being in the moment and celebrating life and just having fun but for a long time it was also about courtship and attracting the opposite sex.

posted February 06, 2022 07:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Really great insights, thanks for sharing, super interesting your experience with a male with venus in capricorn.

I love venus in pisces but I actually love venus in virgo too (they can be hard on themselves though), I would click with you two as friends a ton

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Yes! The other day my Venus Scorpio sister said "thank God you found your husband, you usually have really bad taste in men. Your husband checks all the boxes. Has a job. Doesn't live in a garage. etc."

My favorite cousin and matron of honor has Venus Pisces, husband and mine's friend who use to throw a lot of house parties has Venus Pisces.
My mom has Virgo Venus, a lot of husbands friends have Virgo Venus, my childhood friend who I stay in touch with a bit has this. A boy I liked in HS has this too. And so does my precious nephew.

posted February 06, 2022 07:25 AM            

I went to the spa yesterday! I had my first mud bath experience. I got all the black heads pulled out of my face. They also painted my nails. But they did a bad job with my nails. I believe I have decided where I want my nails done before my honeymoon.
It is very important that whomever does my nails needs a pleasant personality and does a quality job that will not chip. It's not easy to find someone who is both. I will go to the place I had my bachelorette party. They are sociable and do perfection work.
Anywho, I went with the color shocking pink.

posted February 06, 2022 03:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Yes! The other day my Venus Scorpio sister said "thank God you found your husband, you usually have really bad taste in men. Your husband checks all the boxes. Has a job. Doesn't live in a garage. etc."

My favorite cousin and matron of honor has Venus Pisces, husband and mine's friend who use to throw a lot of house parties has Venus Pisces.
My mom has Virgo Venus, a lot of husbands friends have Virgo Venus, my childhood friend who I stay in touch with a bit has this. A boy I liked in HS has this too. And so does my precious nephew.

I forgot what your Venus sign is hypatia.

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Wow the “he checks all the boxes” remarked cracked me up and it does make sense, they care a lot about personal growth, are responsible and dependable and tend to be detailed oriented and thoughtful, not to mention well groomed and can be acts of service types of guy.

posted February 06, 2022 10:57 PM            

Last night I downloaded an app on my laptop called rainbow journal and I decided that I’m gonna start journaling, I do it here but I feel like I should probably have my own journal and write on it, I did an entry last night and gained some good insight.

posted February 06, 2022 11:19 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Just a quick note/update. We did the indoor skydiving thing earlier today (and a friend joined us), and it was F'ING fun as heck!!!

Besides the two regular flights, my partner and I also did a Virtual reality connected flight. According to my partner and my friend, I had a wide smile on my face the entire time of doing that part.

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posted February 07, 2022 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Tanks, and cheers Hypatia.
http://youtu.be/YBjYjrc36VM

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hahahaha

I thought I was going to see a video of you skydiving LOL

posted February 07, 2022 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I was just thinking that my people-pleasing impulses, have been at an all-time low, for a long time.

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Cool

I was just thinking about relationships, what I lack perhaps personality wise to be a better partner (patience, grace, finesse), and why I ended up not were I hoped in that area of my life, I did not have a good head on my shoulders for sure as a teen or in my 20s, that kicked in around my 30s. I was also a rebel and would have not listened to anybody anyways who would have tried to teach me something of value and I think I lacked some qualities in myself to attract the kind of partner/relationship I wanted I am also thinking.

Then I thought that my ex lacked COURAGE, CHARACTER and LEADERSHIP and that he was not my ideal man anyways.

Then I realized my husband lacks humility, ability to handle stress and emotionally regulate, and maturity.

That was my reflections on my way to work today LOL

Then I thought of a guy that seems to be an ideal man in my eyes Josh Dallas: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Josh_Dallas

He has Sun in Saggy
Moon in LEO conjunct JUPITER
VENUS in SCORPIO
MARS in CAPPY

He has courage, is protective of his family, its a leader, someone that is truly a partner and honors his commitments, can self regulate, seems calm and collected and dependable, you can talk things out with him, is available and responsive, dedicated and has confidence and takes care of stuff, doesn't run. That is the impression he gives me, he seems to play this re-occurring role of a good husband and I feel it matches his chart.

posted February 07, 2022 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Did anybody else have a hard time falling asleep last night? Transit moon was square mercury and it had me just up up up, I mean I was calm but I just couldn’t fall asleep…. Tr moon Square mercury conjunct pluto and that completed a T square with my own pluto which parallels mercury, I did have a lot of psychological insight yesterday/last night. Weirdly I didn’t feel super tired the next day and I went to the gym but tonight I do feel low on energy, definitely caught up with me.

Last night I downloaded an app on my laptop called rainbow journal and I decided that I’m gonna start journaling, I do it here but I feel like I should probably have my own journal and write on it, I did an entry last night and gained some good insight.

I want to Change my word for the year and I think I want
my word for the year to be courage. Moon in Aries was at 29 degrees I think when I had this revelation.
Actually it was at 0° in Taurus which would fit because I was thinking about practicing courage in the context of developing relationships with females and pushing my comfort zone in that area, socially, outside of work.

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posted February 07, 2022 11:36 PM            

TR MOON in TAURUS conjunct TR URANUS in my 5th house! BINGO that is the transit.

posted February 08, 2022 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Maybe marital happiness is knowing when to adjust your expectations, adapt and find creative ways to be happy even if it means doing your own thing and riding out the "disconnection" part of the dance between couples.

That may be were I am at right now. I keep thinking we may be going through a phase were we are meant to do our on thing and maybe I just need to embrace it, that is another theory I have in my mind...a very mutable theory LOL

Is just such a weird shift, been with him 15 years total in March. Maybe accepting and adjusting and re-adjusting expectations is the right call for now, regardless of how it plays out long term.

Its interesting how he avoids intimacy with himself and me, always distracting with electronics and noise and I am ALL ABOUT reflection, I am always reflecting, and trying to become more intimate with myself, always exploring myself. Chart ruler Jupiter in saggy in the 12th? I value self reflection so much.

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I believe in importance of doing things together as much as doing your own things and having a life outside of relationships. I think when you become too much accessible and comfortable for people, many take your for granted.
However, I might go to my own world completely during my last years Pluto, Neptune, Uranus transits. I might stuck in a heeling/traumatizing mode. It became harder to be present.

15 years is such a long time, not many modern couples make it. You might find something you could do together. I usually attract people who need to be entertained with activities, otherwise, they’re bored😊

We all have a different way to make a deal with a crisis. Sometimes I need a distraction because I could go too much in my head and end up with overanalyzing or unwanted emotions.
Your husband should be happy you’re so committed to understand him.

I recall Sex and the city when Samantha was dating a sport fan. She was so happy the basketball (I don’t actually remember a game) season was over because she finally would be a center of his attention. To her disappointment, he switched a channel to baseball.
I was in that situation lol

posted February 08, 2022 10:05 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Wow the “he checks all the boxes” remarked cracked me up and it does make sense, they care a lot about personal growth, are responsible and dependable and tend to be detailed oriented and thoughtful, not to mention well groomed and can be acts of service types of guy.

I have venus in Leo but I have sun in virgo opposite moon in pisces so I click with venus in pisces or virgo bc of that is my guess, I tend to love them as Friends. My friend david has venus in virgo.

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posted February 08, 2022 11:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:

I recall Sex and the city when Samantha was dating a sport fan. She was so happy the basketball (I don’t actually remember a game) season was over because she finally would be a center of his attention. To her disappointment, he switched a channel to baseball.
I was in that situation lol

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posted February 08, 2022 11:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Mars conjunct Uranus
Mercury conjunct Saturn
Pluto conjunct Saturn

I got a third pest spray at the condo. It was quite abrupt. They were like we can come tomorrow immediately when you just get home from work. So I decided to stay at my parents for what feels like the billionth time.
I need to see my mom in smaller doses. I'm 31 and I've seen her almost everyday since October. I have no composure left in me when she just wants to hear the sound of her own voice. LOL
I am going back to the condo tomorrow....Uranus willing! I need a drink.

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posted February 09, 2022 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Hugs girl

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Oh my gosh thanks! I have been pretty desensitized at this point. I realized how much I like having peace and privacy when I quarantined at the condo. I did not want to drive out to my sisters. Part of me knew I should not stay at my parents because yes it's like I just anticipate my mom annoying me. Like she can just breathe and I'm annoyed. I could of technically went back to the condo after 4 hours and I seriously WISH I DID.
Because yes I snapped at my mom in front of my dad. I don't want to be that person. I just decided that if I abruptly can't stay at the condo then, I need to stay at a hotel, its frivolous but I can afford it. I'd rather pay to stay at a hotel than tell my mom to shut up in her own house.

I've had it with being tested with the constant instability I experience. I had to look it up. I have been experiencing the climax of Chiron square Uranus.

Decimal points seem to be extremely accurate for me.
My Uranus is 9.35 in Capricorn. Chiron in Aries is going to be 9.35 at 3am. Thank God that was the climax. But I still can't take back that I came over here and told my mom to stop talking to me in her own house.

Also I think there is a lot of term oil with my moon sign.

Moon oppose moon
Saturn square moon

when Uranus opposed my moon I would get into it with my mom.

I am thinking NOW that when my lease is up at the condo I need to stay in a hotel too.

I know my husband only wanted to pay for a month, but I need more. I just cannot stay at other peoples houses anymore. I've been doing this for way too long.

posted February 09, 2022 09:39 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Glad you're okay, Aries. When I met that dog, something went wrong with the van. Everything was barely working (steering wheel, brakes, etc). Dad managed to get us back to the garage, where he knows the owners and workers. One of them drove us the rest of the way home, but I got to meet the little dog whilst I was waiting.

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